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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by OrdercityWeb: 11:19am On Jun 28, 2017
Lemme not just talk. Because if I talk some people will just like they did yesterday. undecided undecided
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by ademidedavid(f): 11:19am On Jun 28, 2017
the fact still remains, money maketh all tins even self its difficult for a reasonable married man to av erection when hes broke .....i mean a reasonable one that cannot just watch his family lack the neccessary tins let alone a guy wey never put babe 4 awse, abeg he shuld beta feel inferior before the babe inferiorate him( if there is any word like that)

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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by talk2saintify(m): 11:20am On Jun 28, 2017
am ah suppose to read all this??

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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by profemz(m): 11:20am On Jun 28, 2017
[quote author=RealHaute post=57914917]

WTF! Women need to stop taking themselves so seriously. Real men don't live to please women. Smh![TRUTH]

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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Ogbaruoigwe1(m): 11:21am On Jun 28, 2017
Just reading
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by UwaBuPawPaw: 11:21am On Jun 28, 2017
Our girls are so blind ....They don't see anything apart from money ..Ask one out..Tomorrow is her bday fr gifts

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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by pansophist(m): 11:22am On Jun 28, 2017
Broke people are usually fat, pot bellied and health unconscious. its always not about the women bro
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Odunharry(m): 11:22am On Jun 28, 2017
solonazzy longest time..
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Trippystunner(m): 11:23am On Jun 28, 2017
lol grin
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This doesn't look like snake now why are you shouting his name ..... The name that makes all snakes bow
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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by raysville(m): 11:24am On Jun 28, 2017
Person dey way write this article head too correct. God bless u for this write up.
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by NevetsIbot(m): 11:26am On Jun 28, 2017
smh
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by OrdercityWeb: 11:27am On Jun 28, 2017
Evaberry:
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I'm patiently waiting for what you'll say.
It had just not be trash. undecided
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by chronique(m): 11:28am On Jun 28, 2017
"Most times it's low self esteemed men that flaunt money to attract women; they use money to cover up their inadequacies.
Take away money from them, nothing is left".

That quote is very true. I keep reiterating the fact that as a guy when wooing a girl or bringing her over to your crib, don't flaunt your cash or show too much. Instead, act like you don't have and watch how she responds to that. Sometimes, when you go on dates and show off that powerful machine to impress, if she's a gold digger, you wouldn't know immediately. If you are naturally not confident of yourself no matter how broke you are, it's gonna be difficult to attract a classy woman.

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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by donqx: 11:28am On Jun 28, 2017
funny indeed
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by TheEminentLaity: 11:29am On Jun 28, 2017
I be fine boy money no dey woosai
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by OrdercityWeb: 11:29am On Jun 28, 2017
Vaxt:
See this
op
suffer don confuse ur mentality, let me tell u if u re dirty even without bathing n u have a house and a good car trust u don't need to have problem getting a female, and finally, I don't know the country u posted this wrong cold poo from but in my country Nigeria money is everything don't argue with it op, wakeup op go n hustle.
Gbam!!!
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by nandyz(m): 11:31am On Jun 28, 2017
PLS IS ONLY GUYS ARE BROKE,,,,

WHAT OF BROKE GALS


JUS IMAGINE A GAL TELLING A GUY TO BUY MAGGI N SALT FOR HER,
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by cyberboss10: 11:32am On Jun 28, 2017
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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by chronique(m): 11:32am On Jun 28, 2017
I also understand your point but there's a certain kind of confidence money gives, and it is a little bit different from the normal confidence a guy should have.
Partnerbiz3:
Bunch of baloney and codswallop. Since attaining majority I have stopped reading motivational talks and have embraced reality. It's only a motivational speakers that will encourage a blind man to become a taxi driver by telling him that he has no lmitations.


You are talking about confidence, nothing gives a man confidence like money. Confidence doesn't come from nothing. It must come from something, it could be intelligence, talents etc. But money is the most important.


You said girls were falling in love with you as a broke ass nigga. I wouldn't doubt it because girls have levels.


Again, there is nothing like love. Life is parasitic and capitalistic. Everybody is looking for what he or she will gain.
That's why you easily" love "a beautiful girl. The same principle makes it easier to love a rich dude.

If love were there, why are the handicapped not loved easily.?
What prevents a rich dude from marrying a handicapped ugly girl?

Or what prevents a beautiful woman from opting for a broke ass ugly man.

It's all business. It's all about what each party will gain. It's just a contract and nothing more.

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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Nobody: 11:33am On Jun 28, 2017
Curvinus:
Crap. If your not handsome and you don't have money to compensate, end of discussion. Confidence comes from experience of previous success, not some mysterious self delusion. Again personality means fart to men and women if you don't have the good genes to get you noticed in the first place. Would you date an ugly midget because she is confident or has a good personality?
There are people WHO WOULD, so your point is just as void as the vacuum you drew it from. Sorry. grin

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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Akalia(m): 11:34am On Jun 28, 2017
Why can't you ops just let broke guys be. every time broke guys this; broke guys that, haba!

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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Limitless72(m): 11:34am On Jun 28, 2017
RealHaute:


WTF! Women need to stop taking themselves so seriously. Real men don't live to please women. Smh!


Bro u just fucking nailed it....
I'll nvr nd I repeat nvr do things to please a lady...
I do things at my own convenience and say No to those ones I don't wanna do...
Well ladies have actually respected me for that sha...
Nd I don't hide my real self when I meet a lady
Bt I still try to be mysterious at the same time...
One day a lady asked me why I dnt give her friends money
Nd I was like 'dash them?'..she said- you know once in a while u dash 'them' money nuh....
I just laughed nd told her no be only dash them money,,,when no be sey I be father christmas or I do ogun owo...
Lol..d'em ladies funny die,,,
Bt anyway shey u knw that song.."Kolewerk"....

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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Nobody: 11:34am On Jun 28, 2017
Another men bashing thread,which decides which guy is broke?
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by RealHaute: 11:34am On Jun 28, 2017
pocohantas:
I have to agree with you on this.

I noticed the so called broke guys do lots of emotional blackmail. Once you reject them, they feel it's because of their financial state.

I know broke guys that are dating very good-looking girls just by their sense of humour...lots of our Nigerian comedians are perfect examples. Back then in school, there were guys that had girls flocking around them because they were intelligent.

All this money talk is just consolation for guys who have no wow factor. I am not surprised though, the average Nigerian man only knows how to use money to get a woman, later they will wonder why the woman cheated with a broke guy. They will end up saying women are confused, instead of facing the reality...it goes beyond money for lots of women.

Yes, financial security is important, but what if it's no more there tomorrow. You mean there is nothing else you can offer your woman or be remembered for?



I will suggest you stop convulsing because of my comment. You please women, you don't please them...your business. I only commented on the topic, you should do same.

When your fellow men create topics everyday on women matter, you didn't help us tell them life is beyond their erect pricks.

What fellow men? Your feminist inclinations have blinded you from seeing the apparent truth: these so-called 'men' are boys with zero responsibilities and zero authority. You might want to have a more inclusive control group next time you want to draw conclusions. Smh!
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by mployer(m): 11:35am On Jun 28, 2017
Partnerbiz3:
Bunch of baloney and codswallop. Since attaining majority I have stopped reading motivational talks and have embraced reality. It's only a motivational speakers that will encourage a blind man to become a taxi driver by telling him that he has no lmitations.


You are talking about confidence, nothing gives a man confidence like money. Confidence doesn't come from nothing. It must come from something, it could be intelligence, talents etc. But money is the most important.


You said girls were falling in love with you as a broke ass nigga. I wouldn't doubt it because girls have levels.


Again, there is nothing like love. Life is parasitic and capitalistic. Everybody is looking for what he or she will gain.
That's why you easily" love "a beautiful girl. The same principle makes it easier to love a rich dude.

If love were there, why are the handicapped not loved easily.?
What prevents a rich dude from marrying a handicapped ugly girl?

Or what prevents a beautiful woman from opting for a broke ass ugly man.

It's all business. It's all about what each party will gain. It's just a contract and nothing more.


grin grin grin grin

So so true.

I have never fallen in love to an ugly girl. I expect no pretty girl to love me when I am broke.

It is purely business as you said. No hard feelings. smiley

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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Nobody: 11:36am On Jun 28, 2017
Are you calling ladies, parasites ? grin

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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by dotunbekro06(m): 11:36am On Jun 28, 2017
Buchi95:
Broke Nigerian men keep complaining that women reject them because of their lack of financial ability. This self pitying consoling thought line is always sold by these men to compensate their poor ego, but that's not usually the case. It's not always because of being broke. Sometimes, maybe, most times.

Now, here's the reality.
We always assume that every women rejects a man because he's just broke.
This makes us ignore the possibilities of other inadequacy that could be a deal breaker in men.

Money is not all. In fact, it's a myth that women are after money. A lot of broke dudes still fall in love and get married.
So?

There's something these rejections are about that is far from money.

Cool, you don't have money.

How about your confidence?
Your self esteem?
Do you exude low self esteem and talk out of pity?
How intelligent and engaging are you?
Can you make intelligent conversations and brainstorm with a woman?
Do you have a vision?
A feasible and promising vision you're relentlessly pursuing?
How's your sense of humour like?
How's your sense of dressing?
We know you have cheap few clothes as a broke dude, but how do you use and combine the ones you have?
How romantic are you?
How clean are you?
What are your values like?

A lot of broke young men are nil when it comes to these aforementioned questions, so when they hit rejection from a female, they rant, they cry, ‘Its because I am broke..’
‘Women love money .’

No bro.
You're your problem.
You lack money.
What else do you have.
Or is money now the essence of your person?

See, I keep saying it, Money doesn't make a man. Most times it's low self esteemed men that flaunt money to attract women; they use money to cover up their inadequacies.
Take away money from them, nothing is left.

Poor souls.

Y'all broke guys should go back and build yourself, nah, I don't mean financially.
Go check your confidence, intelligence, humor, resourcefulness, maturity, focus, etc.

Go check all of these.
Many times you're rejected for something far from your broke state.

Ain't meaning to brag sha..
But pre-rich me, women be falling in love with me anyhow. Lol.
I don't have money, so I keep wondering when they say women love money. It's not always about it.

Yea, women love money but it's not the way we make it be.

Broke dude, go fix yourself.
Aside financial inadequacy, there might be lots of inadequacies you have. ��

Kindly SHARE!

Solomon Buchi Bartholomew
Life Coach/Motivational Speaker


When you are broke.. You are broke!!! No story abeg... What should be on your own mind, is how to make money...

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