I have this one that will say I love you and i'd be like Ok. I told her I don't love her and that's she isn't my spec,she doesn't have want her seek for in my ideal woman. She got the her crap and said well,now that I know you don't love me,it's okay. She doesn't mind as long as she does love me. She assured that she go do anything for me and I have to be honest with y'all,she has proven that buh still didn't change my feelings about her. If I ask anything,she'll gladly make it happen. She sacrifices herself for me. I can't understand this one o

Joel3:
Understanding girls sometimes is difficult. especially when you have done everything to prove to them you are not gamed. But after sometime they still come back and you keep repeating the same.

What do girls want from a guy who maltreat them without any regards. and still they refuse to get sense. if its the sex why still they don't want to admit it it just for the sex but still carrying the same love come again.

Also I find it hard to believe a girl just enjoy sex only like guys without getting emotional to it. guys can enjoy just sex and move oh. But girls will involved emotion even when the guy does not love or give a dime.

Bruv per the emboldened ... I guess you don't know much about girls of nowadays

Joel3:
I do not believe in love. its not not exist. nothing but emotion which can be develop at any giving time. its only a better option at that. like when there is no better option available on the card.

if dangote son should proposed to her just after you did. I am 100% sure you will be short change and dump. be wife no true love thing is relationship nothing but mere emotion which can fade away. only difference is that some are good in managing it. while others can't.

yes bro.true love is long gone..bt some dude and babes keep lying to der selves abt it .

You cant believe girls enjoy se.x only? Apparently you ve not met a girl named "Ekaette"

Koval12:
The worst set of people to advise. A guy that has money and A woman in love.

True talk

Joel3:
Understanding girls sometimes is difficult. especially when you have done everything to prove to them you are not gamed. But after sometime they still come back and you keep repeating the same.

What do girls want from a guy who maltreat them without any regards. and still they refuse to get sense. if its the sex why still they don't want to admit it it just for the sex but still carrying the same love come again.

Also I find it hard to believe a girl just enjoy sex only like guys without getting emotional to it. guys can enjoy just sex and move oh. But girls will involved emotion even when the guy does not love or give a dime.

the love she is showing you comes once in 20years in a man's life. choose wisely

Mrkumareze:



I disagree with you , giving chance when you know clearly there is no love from the guy's side. What do u expect from them if eventually they get married or a baby comes in? Lastly, ladies are the most difficult things to explore . As your guys

You saw it the other way round round bro. Giving som1 a chance is nt going to sex her bt trying to see as she see,trying to reciprocate whatever she shows you About exploring it depend on who you are as the man. Why not expole b4 u talk.

otunbadan:

Until they pour person acid

Nooo. na wen u fall hand u go her am.

Some Guys are just unpleasable! Case closed!

There is nothing like love, its just emotional weakness, i have been there, and looking back, I feel like slapping myself for being so weak.we are but mere mortals ,i dont see why you would expect love from another human being. A lot of people are scared of being alone so they will hang on and cling even when the person is not worth it,that is weak and what such people need is councelling and therapy cos they have an under linning psychological disorder that has killed their self confidence

Technically, we are in control of love. You can allow yourself be in love or not.
I don't know why people make a big deal of this particular emotion.

What is this one saying? I yamu not understanding.

ZarZar:
We're not mind readers. Before you start feeling phly, have you TOLD her that you don't want her?

Sometimes you can see that someone is being a miserable crumb to you, but you don't do anything, hoping they'd man-up & tell you to agitate the gravel. Why can't men be upfront? Because I doubt there's a girl that'll keep hounding a guy after he's told her to Bleep off. Maybe you're sending mixed signals, hence she's still holding on. Spell it out to her in no uncertain terms that you don't want her. If she's still pushing, then she's a nut!

my dear you an only speak for itself. some girls no dey hear even if u carry banner saying No. maybe its love maybe its obsession but its sometimes not as simple as just saying no

ekensi01:
The simple explanation for that is Love. She really love you thats why she can sacrifice anything but you don't love her, That's the situation with Nigerians and love.


,Why not try to give that lady a chance in your life you will see that true love really exist. I have one like that, after a while i gave her the chance and that relationship have stayed long sofar.

Follow my leads, ladies are the most easy things to explore in this world.

my broda you cannot manage to love someone you do not truly love,,if you do not have that initial likeness or feelings towards a person,,theres no need pretending it would hurt her more when you pretend and love her out of pity

ekensi01:
The simple explanation for that is Love. She really love you thats why she can sacrifice anything but you don't love her, That's the situation with Nigerians and love.


,Why not try to give that lady a chance in your life you will see that true love really exist. I have one like that, after a while i gave her the chance and that relationship have stayed long sofar.

Follow my leads, ladies are the most easy things to explore in this world.

Yes it's love but clearly it's one sided, not mutual. He can't force himself to love her, he should just let her off nice and easy and if that doesn't work, blunt and pissy should get the job done. So she can move on with her life.
Honestly love is... Sigh
I'm sure she has a lot of guys going crazy about her yet the one she wants... Sigh again
All I can say is... Sayanara!

burkingx:

ur spirit shock as op expose you? lol

Good one there

ZarZar:
We're not mind readers. Before you start feeling phly, have you TOLD her that you don't want her?

Sometimes you can see that someone is being a miserable crumb to you, but you don't do anything, hoping they'd man-up & tell you to agitate the gravel. Why can't men be upfront? Because I doubt there's a girl that'll keep hounding a guy after he's told her to Bleep off. Maybe you're sending mixed signals, hence she's still holding on. Spell it out to her in no uncertain terms that you don't want her. If she's still pushing, then she's a nut!

I deserve it

debspauly:
even if he bleeps so good ...I can't loose my self respect .....no guy deserve that.

wow

so all the girls dangote's son asked out actually dated him?

Joel3:
I do not believe in love. its does not exist. nothing but emotion which can be develop at any giving time. its only a better option at that. like when there is no better option available on the card.

if dangote son should proposed to her just after you did. I am 100% sure you will be short change and dump. there is no true love thing in relationship, nothing but mere emotion which can fade away. only difference is that some are good in managing it. while others can't.

Koval12:
The worst set of people to advise.
A guy that has money and
A woman in love.

wickyyolo:


the love she is showing you comes once in 20years in a man's life. choose wisely

the first 20yrs; age 14yrs - 20yrs old range when the guy is intelligent in class, smart and young. The next 20yrs is bw age 32 - 52yrs when the guy has acquired money, wealth

Amarabae:
Some Guys are just unpleasable!
Case closed!

Don't try to please a guy who doesn't love you. It makes you look stupidd.

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hordmax:
WELL . . .

Merely understanding girls/ladies isn't really the problem here, it's you knowing what to do—I mean, the exact thing to make her stay away; well, that's if you really meant it.

Now, you need to know that we all ain't wired-up the same way, be it psychologically, mentally, or in every other aspects, both males and females, sensitivities and understandings vary; a somewhat reason one may say common-sense is sparsely common.

See, not everybody has the ability to or interest in read-ing, decipher-ing, absorb-ing or reach-ing conclusions based on whatever subtle digs you signal them, most people don't look out for that, some don't even get them; that being said, a lady truly in love or deeply struck and affected by attraction would possibly give every reasonable doubts even if she's seeing the obvious, until an evident fact presents itself; which prompts me to ask—Have you verbally denounced her and her love personally to her face, in person? Because, it's one thing for one to signal subtle digs, it's another for one's actions to correlate those signals; she might be seeing something different which still makes her stick around, perhaps she might just be one ardent clingy personality, which isn't that bad.

All that I'm saying is, there's nothing as evident and factual as words being said, it may be lies— that'd still go down as a "factual lie".
Here's what I think you should do: Sit her down and ensue a serious dialogue with her, not banters, and no small talks, discuss your denouncement with/to her; don't be rude or abusive but, TELL HER. . . LET HER KNOW.
Make it known to her so she won't keep wasting away her time and emotional investments/efforts . . I'd bet there're other guys out there that'd do anything to have her; just be realistic with her or maybe tell her there's someone else, be respectfully blunt, with no smiles or grins, mean it; you, try and do that —I don't think any sane and responsible lady would still stick around afterwards, unless she's really psychotic.

One last thing, be mindful of how you go about the dissociation with her, ensure it's an amicable one with mutual understanding and she will respect you and appreciate your sincerity afterwards; control your temper, hurling abuses and provoking contemptuous malice is needless, as that would only embed long-lasting grudges which is seemingly irrevokable —don't burn the bridge, just walk away from it . . because, you don't know tomorrow, and it's really a small world indeed; I'll assume you know what I mean, since you're fond of subtle digs. Much has been said, I guess.

"After all, when a woman truly loves, she loves for real" — Robert S. Kelly.

. . thanks.

nicely sad.

It's not love, it's a minor disorder. Some of these girls' issues can be traced as far back as growing up from bad homes.Their parent(s) might have been abusive and they stuck with them because they had no choice, and so when that similar tends to reveal itself in a relationship, they almost take it as something normal.
Others might be as a result of obsession (Not love, again) which makes them think they could never meet someone better. As much as this issue is largely about ladies, a little percentage of this happens to guys as well. Guys get emotionally abused as well (physically too, sometimes). This sometimes brings the worst out of some men because they think they will be called 'a girl' if they let their girlfriends or spouses push them around.
I could go on and on but my good advice is; Men, we might be the head of the home or a relationship but always remember that the Woman is the brain inside that head. We are the Head, not Masters. We are the figure that represents the manpower of a family and a home, but when we disrespect and abuse females in any way, we are destroying ourselves. No woman should ever be maltreated and also, men shouldn't be either.
If you are facing any issues in your relationship or family, please don't hesitate to hit me up. I'll be glad to help out in any ways I can.

Joel3:
Understanding girls sometimes is difficult. especially when you have done everything to prove to them you are not gamed. But after sometime they still come back and you keep repeating the same.

What do girls want from a guy who maltreat them without any regards. and still they refuse to get sense. if its the sex why still they don't want to admit it it just for the sex but still carrying the same love come again.

Also I find it hard to believe a girl just enjoy sex only like guys without getting emotional to it. guys can enjoy just sex and move oh. But girls will involved emotion even when the guy does not love or give a dime.

Why are all this unintelligent people telling him to tell her to bleepoff? i bet you'll never see anyone like her ever!

thunderbabs:
The one and only existing Love I know is God....Anything outside that is total earthly fuckery.....the love for bleeps.....dassol

God And agape love

ZarZar:
We're not mind readers. Before you start feeling phly, have you TOLD her that you don't want her?

Sometimes you can see that someone is being a miserable crumb to you, but you don't do anything, hoping they'd man-up & tell you to agitate the gravel. Why can't men be upfront? Because I doubt there's a girl that'll keep hounding a guy after he's told her to Bleep off. Maybe you're sending mixed signals, hence she's still holding on. Spell it out to her in no uncertain terms that you don't want her. If she's still pushing, then she's a nut!

u ar experienced.

uninvited:

From my little understanding of women, I'll say they love potentials. They can weigh and compare your potentials with other guys. It's all about packaging for the men. You package well, it doesn't matter if you treat her like crap. All she sees is the long term benefits.

u have said it all

ZarZar:
We're not mind readers. Before you start feeling phly, have you TOLD her that you don't want her?

Sometimes you can see that someone is being a miserable crumb to you, but you don't do anything, hoping they'd man-up & tell you to agitate the gravel. Why can't men be upfront? Because I doubt there's a girl that'll keep hounding a guy after he's told her to Bleep off. Maybe you're sending mixed signals, hence she's still holding on. Spell it out to her in no uncertain terms that you don't want her. If she's still pushing, then she's a nut!

Babe, what planet are you from? Several times you will even tell a girl you have someone you love and they will still hang around, even with all the attitude you put up. They will be hoping you will dump your babe and decamp. Too many girls dont just get it. When you now do the "thing" and move on they would start crying and asking why you were mean. Even with all that they will still hang around. I am not talking about ugly girls o. I am talking about pretty and ok babes. I guess the heart sometimes get the better of humans. Guys and girls.