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good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

Fiancée? its better you start addressing her as your ex

... damn bro, ur babe can lie sha

You should make out time to spend some days with her.You will find out all you need to know then.

pally the earlier you go for deliverance to get sense the better for you.

women wicked sha

I guess d guy is 4kin ur geh from the hours of 7pm-2am is why she doesn't pick your cass ...anyways just try and spend sometime with them and you would definitely know if something is goin on...

Bro, u don enter one chance. Ur fiancee na confirm olosho

I once thought that a lady and a guy with clean minds won't have any problem staying together.. but that mentality changed when I stayed with a lady myself.. I don't wanna paint pictures in your head, bro but if I paint pictures of what happened between us............. I don't wanna be d cause of a break up..

Women sha

oga please address her properly. OUR FIANCE. also is she aware she is your fiance. because alot of you men go about saying an olosho is your fiance. what exactly made her ur fiance ? when and how did she show loyalty to demand you engage her for a life time journey. foolish boy

One thing I can say is you should forget about her and move on.

A man and woman cannot live together without xxxxxx it is bound to happen. OP you should know this

@op. sit with her and talk things out. But hw can she live comfortably with d guy and say its nothing. Abi she be corper? Na dem sabi dis kind thin oo. HW CAN U KEEP FUEL NEAR FIRE AND U SAY "...IT'S NOTHIN'....I weak oooo

thorpido:
You should make out time to spend some days with her.You will find out all you need to know then.

On Point.

Some people go just waka come NL com seek useless advice ova obvious tins...mumu raise to power 2

What kinda cohabitation is that? Op try and get her a different apartment if u have the resources. Even though there might be nothing between them,to me this is totally wrong.what if the guy mistakenly walks Into her room while she's unclad? or vice versa?
There is a huge limitation of privacy here.

@ Jahspet
I think it's time u concentrate on things that will add value to ur life. D lady has her own agenda different from yours

are u sure you need advice or u seeking for attention.......

ReneeNuttall:
What kinda cohabitation is that? Op try and get her a different apartment if u have the resources. Even though there might be nothing between them,to me this is totally wrong.what if the guy mistakenly walks Into her room while she's unclad? or vice versa?
There is a huge limitation of privacy here.

Get her another apartment indeed
That would limit any unholy alliance

Oh...if I start to talk now

let me just move on

Homeboiy:
Oh...if I start to talk now


let me just move on

Bros wait for me..I dey your back..OP is a matured fool

Op still on the Valve verge of breaking up ? What other sign do you need ? , just like someone said it's high time you start referring to her as OUR Fiancée ooh . The quicker you move on the better it is for you.

Wetin we no go hear for dz nairaland

***In Abami Eda's voice*** Rèrèrun oooo