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Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by NovusHomo(m): 3:55am On Jul 02, 2017
iamnlia:
Mehn.....resort to spy tactics oo

Extracting the truth from people voluntarily or involuntarily.
1...... Call boys to threaten and interrogate the man (never beat him) just threaten him with digging his own grave. When he's gone 3/4 of the job, ask the questions.

2......Install voice recorders and key loggers in all her devices. If you are well to do, then you install cameras.

3...... Make friends with the guy and assess his behaviour around your girl.
Cheers


Assume the worst.

Really; all that to prove what?
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by Livefreeordieha(m): 4:01am On Jul 02, 2017
JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.
bros na story u dey find... Abi u dey seek attention Plz no dizzy no goofing.. U don't have a fiancée.. U are damn single!!! And by choice u are.. U have been conned.. U nor wise street wise brother.. E pain me for u..

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Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by Nobody: 4:02am On Jul 02, 2017
my brother you are being played

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Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by iamnlia(m): 4:10am On Jul 02, 2017
NovusHomo:


Really; all that to prove what?

To clear his doubt,
What if he breaks up with the fiancee and finds out she ain't smashing, it will haunt him or cause depression.

If she smashing then sack her
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by Skmoda360(m): 4:11am On Jul 02, 2017
Kayoski:
Fiancée? its better you start addressing her as your ex

bro....i think he should stay with her for just a week he'll confirm what he wanna see.
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by Jabioro: 4:23am On Jul 02, 2017
Truly it is nothing..
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by eroski90(m): 4:43am On Jul 02, 2017
Dem dey kpansh ur babe u dey here dey talk grammar. U know what to do

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Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by ebere100: 4:44am On Jul 02, 2017
JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.


Bros just cool down, she might be innocent. It's a 50:50 thing. Just get your fact before leaving her.
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by tayorh(m): 4:44am On Jul 02, 2017
Not your fiancee "our fiancee" based on your update, guy your fiancee deh do "Division of labour" run o....
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by ALEXIS0240: 4:46am On Jul 02, 2017
thepussyhunter:
Bros u really shouldnt come here asking for advice on this shiiii
cos am pretty sure you know what to do viz:

*either go visit her and perharps spend two days or more

OR

*pay her a visit by 9pm....

To find out yourself Shikena..........
Thats if she gree open door for am.him go sleep outside that day.

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Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by Juliearth(f): 5:01am On Jul 02, 2017
JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.



Until proven guilty,she is innocent. Get her an apartment elsewhere and be more observant about her moves.
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by Juliearth(f): 5:01am On Jul 02, 2017
Until proven guilty,she is innocent. Get her an apartment elsewhere and be more observant about her moves.
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by Beey(f): 5:04am On Jul 02, 2017
In most developed countries, people share apartments especially students to cut down on expenses of renting.It's common to find male & female roommates living together and it's strictly business with no strings attached.What I find strange though is that all this time you've been dating, she never cared to open up to you about her living situation.That then leaves one wondering what was she covering because if she can't confide in her fiancé, then who else?But what worries me is that you two dated to the point of engagement without knowing where she lives.You were too trusting.

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Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by 88natzy(m): 5:07am On Jul 02, 2017
For this street wey we dey so..its our own
All this ladies wey dey see soon...its our own
Brace up man.. I stopped believing scraps d de day..
Things changed between me and my flat neighbor.
I was astonished.
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by Olivers(m): 5:14am On Jul 02, 2017
jashar:
Edakun, someone should epp me and the OP with that 'Na so' meme. grin grin grin

Thank a bundle.
Here you go. grin

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Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by iluvpomo(m): 5:16am On Jul 02, 2017
....she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually)....

Why would she answer that time, it's obvious that she's receiving good D at that time grin
This thread was just created for NL FP ..... FAKE grin grin

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Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by NaijaElba(m): 5:18am On Jul 02, 2017
dumo1:

Two of you are dumb, what's there to go and observe like they will be that stupid to do the do when he's around.

You won't understand if you are not in op's shoe......spending time with her don't necessarily mean she will be caught in the act...but I am 80% sure he will get the clue he needs to enable him ascertain if the gf is sleeping with the so called flat mate or room mate. Or it might be another person away....
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by iluvpomo(m): 5:20am On Jul 02, 2017
Juliearth:
Until proven guilty,she is innocent. Get her an apartment elsewhere and be more observant about her moves.
Sister Julie, which other proof do you need again?? The lady no de answer phone between 7pm and 2am at night ..... you can guess what is going on that time grin

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Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by iluvpomo(m): 5:22am On Jul 02, 2017
mrcjbrash:
.... Or better still investigate and compare his d*ck size to yours, then you will get the best answer....
For reals?? You de go around measuring other guys dik size??
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by Compliant(m): 5:27am On Jul 02, 2017
Op you need deliverance for sure
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by ejykzy: 5:30am On Jul 02, 2017
Bros u stil de do fiancee tins hmmmm, I don't wana relate my past xperience to u base on dis kind of issue, is she doesn't wnt to look fr room-mate fashy her nd continue wt ur life...gbam
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by bakila: 5:30am On Jul 02, 2017
Oluwapresley:
I once thought that a lady and a guy with clean minds won't have any problem staying together.. but that mentality changed when I stayed with a lady myself.. I don't wanna paint pictures in your head, bro but if I paint pictures of what happened between us............. I don't wanna be d cause of a break up..
You are the break up catalyst bro, although for good of Op.
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by bakila: 5:34am On Jul 02, 2017
Juliearth:
Until proven guilty,she is innocent. Get her an apartment elsewhere and be more observant about her moves.
You last sentence say it all. She is guilty and he she prove otherwise by moving her elsewhere.
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by brightersms(m): 5:35am On Jul 02, 2017
sirjakez:
grin grin grin... damn bro, ur babe can lie sha


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cx_9FDaF7Fw
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by AlanTuringAI: 5:37am On Jul 02, 2017
Djbush:


Hi there,

There is a 50/50 chance that your girl is sleeping with her flat mate, the senior colleague. But what the heck if she sleeps with the guy? That does not mean that she won't be a good wife to you!

Believe me, your girls flatmate might have a serious girl friend, while your girl has a serious relationship (which is you).

Disabuse your mind from negative thought​s. I'm sure everything will work out in your favour.
All I can say is that you're a very wicked person for making this kind of point and advising someone this way, asking if a woman someone wants to marry, sleeping steadily with another guy would not make that woman a bad wife?. Is it until she has aborted all her unborn children for this colleague, or given her fiance STD contracted from this colleague, before you call her bad? If you're a guy, can you take this, or if you are a lady, can you allow your fiance and another lady indulge in something like this?

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Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by Stanleyville(m): 5:38am On Jul 02, 2017
abeg dump her sorry ass already!!!...no be mistake!
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by selfmadeboss: 5:41am On Jul 02, 2017
as long as she never get pregnant yet nothing dey happen. dont be stingy with prick and toto. there is love in sharing
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by OfofoLagos1(f): 5:41am On Jul 02, 2017
NO One is free from Cheating and Never Brake your Relationship because she or He cheats. Instruct her to leave the place. if she insisted staying with the Guy, you can stop calling and showing care. never brake up yet. sometimes we don't need a brake up we just need the Brake.
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by bakila: 5:43am On Jul 02, 2017
lilyheaven:

grin, let me gist you small. One faithful night, I went to change a catheter, as I held the penis , it was erected, I looked at him, his eyes was all red, I was so scared, with his eyes, I didn't know when I started praying. Because I was alone in the room with him. Anyways with God's help I did my job and ran away from his room.
Nice joystick story. I think they need you to keep us interested in Tales by Moonlight.
Ok wetin erect that man body?
Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by Samabu07(m): 5:46am On Jul 02, 2017
JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

My guy ordinarily i wouldn't comment...but the terrible dreams about her cheating can never be overlooked.


I dated a girl for two years plus and kept having this terrible dream about her cheating on me the way and manner this girl was used in the dream my guy if them dash her to you ehhh you go think am twice...the annoying thing is that they didn't love her.

To cut the long story short, I got my confirmations and walked away painfully.

Today, I am married to another woman with no regrets at all.


NB: Yours no be girlfriend but a fiancee...quickly do your findings timely. Good luck!

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Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by AlanTuringAI: 5:47am On Jul 02, 2017
iamnlia:


To clear his doubt,
What if he breaks up with the fiancee and finds out she ain't smashing, it will haunt him or cause depression.

If she smashing then sack her
The fact that the lady hid her living condition from the guy all this while until he found out himself after an August visit shows she has something to hide, coupled with her suspicious behaviors between that ungodly hours and his dreams,as he put it, shows guilt written all over. How can you hide such important information from someone you call fiance, and not an ordinary boyfriend? Come on, let's put 2+2 together na. Reading the guy's story alone is making me angry already. Some ladies are just too wicked.

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Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by bakila: 5:51am On Jul 02, 2017
ScotFree:
Stupid Man! These are the kind of men that make women think men are dumb and foolish and stupid enough to be lied to and played.

You should have been a man and ended this shit instead of coming here to cry in public like a dickless, spineless SheMan.

I guess you love being the OtherGuy... Keep it up. But if you want a long and happy life, then walk away now, today, this moment as you read this. Walk Away with your head held high and your shoulder straight.
I disagree.

He must give her a long dickful session with condom borrowed from or bought with the active participation of the other guy, before leaving with a permanent smile.

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