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dammyluv911:
Please My Friend Needs Advice Urgently

A friend of mine got herself pregnant by a male friend of hers. Initially the guy wanted her to get rid of it and she has been warned about abortion. The guy later accepted the pregnancy and promised to take care of her and the baby.

He said it should better be a female child. The guy said he will collect the child but he won't marry her claiming he does not love her. My friend is now in love with this guy and she wants them to bring up the baby together cos she does not want the child to pass through what she passed through (she was brought up by a single parent).

This guy claims he does not love her and he doesn't want to see her with any other guy, he asks questions whenever any guy calls, he cares about her welfare and a times complains about her dressing or even dictate for her on the clothes to wear.

Pls it there any way she can make the guy love her?

Did she seeks our help when she was receiving the banana? I for say make u find ewe jomijomi,ori(shea butter),ewedu,grind and mix all together then use water to wash ur private part into the mixture then mix with his food,thank me later cos he go love u forever but i no want trouble cos d loving go too much so Carry your matter go meet elderly person for your area...




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They say......never marry out of pity...

lol. He doesn't want her, but doesn't want anyone else to want her.... Your 'friend' is in love with a psycho. simple.

She should get ready to go on with life without her kid...... or most likely, the guy will not do much for the kid after she's given birth. Either way, na one chance she don enter, let her get ready for plenty heartbreak. She will survive if she is strong. Goodluck.

Martin0:
My dear your friend actually wanna get pregnant for the guy,she calculated wrongly..

My sentiments exactly. She should just carry her cross and stop trying to force it

A loveless marriage is hell, please be guided

Better to go through the pains of raising a child as a single parent than forcing oneself upon/ marrying a man that does not love you. Better

tosyne2much:
Tell your friend to create the thread herself

Madam, tell us your problem and stop hiding under the canopy of "my friend"

Baddo

Please advice Nairalanders, I am a Spill-Over at the University and I am having some course for the 1st Semester which I have registered and have written two exams out of the Paper but unfortunately, I was told today that they have shifted one of the course that was slated for tomorrow and they have written the exam yesterday Monday 10th, and I have registered for this course and I don't want to spill again cos of my age for NYSC. My plan was if I could pass all my papers for this first semester that I will be among the November NYSC Batch, cos I have no work in Second Semester. And now I have missed the exam for one of the courses. Please what should I do cos am fed up now with this.

dammyluv911:
Please My Friend Needs Advice Urgently

A friend of mine got herself pregnant by a male friend of hers. Initially the guy wanted her to get rid of it and she has been warned about abortion. The guy later accepted the pregnancy and promised to take care of her and the baby.

He said it should better be a female child. The guy said he will collect the child but he won't marry her claiming he does not love her. My friend is now in love with this guy and she wants them to bring up the baby together cos she does not want the child to pass through what she passed through (she was brought up by a single parent).

This guy claims he does not love her and he doesn't want to see her with any other guy, he asks questions whenever any guy calls, he cares about her welfare and a times complains about her dressing or even dictate for her on the clothes to wear.

Pls it there any way she can make the guy love her?

let her give him time, he'll surely come around esp when he bholds d beauty of a new born baby. My cousin once had d same experience but now he loves d lady dearly

tosyne2much:
Tell your friend to create the thread herself

Madam, tell us your problem and stop hiding under the canopy of "my friend"

Bad guy

I will never understand why people get pregnant before marriage and claim they don't want to be single parents.
The deed has already been done, you can't make someone love you just accept you're a single parent.

tosyne2much:
Tell your friend to create the thread herself

Madam, tell us your problem and stop hiding under the canopy of "my friend"

Definitely the OP

Melahou:
So you are now the mouth piece of your friend...ok tell your friend to come let me whisper to her.

Melahou:
So you are now the mouth piece of your friend...ok tell your friend to come let me whisper to her.

Canal advice will not solve this problem,for the lady,better be prayerfull, ur problem is about to be repeated in the child life,and because this problem is spiritual u better be prayerfull.include fasting u will get solution

ymee:
He is a monster, I can't sleep with someone I don't luv let alone getting her pregnant

Wait until you get to puberty. Ur Baby mama is in primary 3�, Ur type raise 11 kids that only knows you 4rm pictures

your friend or you?

How come you know so much about him asking questions.
Next time ask him to use condom or close your legs. Rubbish

PussyBlower:
This is what happens when a fûçking Hoe allow Her fûçking pussy to do the thinking..The fûçking Hoe didn't learn any fûçking lesson from the Person who raised her as a single Parent! Hoes Everywhere

Gbam

victor8269:

Wait until you get to puberty. Ur Baby mama is in primary 3�, Ur type raise 11 kids that only knows you 4rm pictures

Broh, be careful

Tell your friend I said she's now the latest baby mama in town

With a jealous baby daddy

dammyluv911:
Please My Friend Needs Advice Urgently

When your friend was spreading her legs like a goalpost, screaming harder! deeper! were we there? Make she do prayer and fasting, the arrival of the baby might change his mind.

Only a crazy person thinks that they can make someone love them.

It's a well calculated move, but it backfired.

olumidedvd:
Please advice Nairalanders, I am a Spill-Over at the University and I am having some course for the 1st Semester which I have registered and have written two exams out of the Paper but unfortunately, I was told today that they have shifted one of the course that was slated for tomorrow and they have written the exam yesterday Monday 10th, and I have registered for this course and I don't want to spill again cos of my age for NYSC. My plan was if I could pass all my papers for this first semester that I will be among the November NYSC Batch, cos I have no work in Second Semester. And now I have missed the exam for one of the courses. Please what should I do cos am fed up now with this.

Spill again

ymee:
He is a monster, I can't sleep with someone I don't luv let alone getting her pregnant

She is a monster by birth, cos her father is a monster. So that's how she wants to end the boy's bright future like her mother's. The boy did d ryt tin, he should run for his life

dammyluv911:
Please My Friend Needs Advice Urgently

A friend of mine got herself pregnant by a male friend of hers. Initially the guy wanted her to get rid of it and she has been warned about abortion. The guy later accepted the pregnancy and promised to take care of her and the baby.

He said it should better be a female child. The guy said he will collect the child but he won't marry her claiming he does not love her. My friend is now in love with this guy and she wants them to bring up the baby together cos she does not want the child to pass through what she passed through (she was brought up by a single parent).

This guy claims he does not love her and he doesn't want to see her with any other guy, he asks questions whenever any guy calls, he cares about her welfare and a times complains about her dressing or even dictate for her on the clothes to wear.

Pls it there any way she can make the guy love her?

She needs to sit him down and discuss with him properly to know where she stands

He doesn't want to settle with her and he doesn't want someone else around her,his controlling.... She doesn't have to see that as he loves or cares about her....she needs proper definition of her place and she should be bold enough to say what she wants and be sensible enough to know if its in line with his wants...so that when she start seeing some funny scenes she wouldn't be heartbroken

I guess the preg hasn't gone far, because as time goes she might experience some changes, she may see some things she never expected....etc

Why should pregnancy lead to marriage? Na by force?

Berra live with the consequences of your actions and free yourself from the shackles of the dude.

He's the father of your baby not your husband, so, he has no obligation to you or the right to dictate your life.

In other news, isn't it high time people stop having premarital sex?

tosyne2much:
Tell your friend to create the thread herself

Her friend might be an illiterate.

tosyne2much:
Madam, tell us your problem and stop hiding under the canopy of "my friend"

Are you that sure?

Do not go into marriage becos of pregnancy. Have your baby and move on. Develop yourself, the sky is your limit.

dammyluv911:
Please My Friend Needs Advice Urgently

A friend of mine got herself pregnant by a male friend of hers. Initially the guy wanted her to get rid of it and she has been warned about abortion. The guy later accepted the pregnancy and promised to take care of her and the baby.

He said it should better be a female child. The guy said he will collect the child but he won't marry her claiming he does not love her. My friend is now in love with this guy and she wants them to bring up the baby together cos she does not want the child to pass through what she passed through (she was brought up by a single parent).

This guy claims he does not love her and he doesn't want to see her with any other guy, he asks questions whenever any guy calls, he cares about her welfare and a times complains about her dressing or even dictate for her on the clothes to wear.

Pls it there any way she can make the guy love her?

Never try to hook up a guy with pregnancy, it always, I repeat, always backfires.
He has accepted to take of the baby, leave it at that. Forcing him to marry you with the pregnancy will lead to creating another thread on domestic violence and battary by husband on nairaland.

I THOUGHT BEEN A SINGLE BABY MAMA WAS COOL, WHY ALL THIS '' I DONT WANT TO BE LIKE MY MUM'' TRASH? LADIES KEEP LYING TO THEMSELVES ALL THE TIME....

Tahrah:
If she doesn't want to be a single parent,why did she get pregnant when she isn't married?