pocohantas:


That's a minor, why would I leave a minor with anyone?
I visit the crime section a lot, my reaction to such issues has earned me a man hater badge, so...I know all that.

This is two grown adults, none is a minor. Now I know better, I will trust no man. I expected too much...

good...nice decision ....that is the reality of things now.... nobody wish it but it is like the devil is fully in the world...

sinaj:
you wicked o! @ mud house

Even op instinct don table the matter alredi for him

Op on a serious note you can't leave a bone with your dog just because you trust your dog.

Even if you trust her that much, what about the stranger? Even Uncle's nd Daddy in Christ force themselves on girls let alone a strange for this rainy season sef

I hpe you dnt open anoda thread afterwards to cry sha

@pocohantas.... this is your fellow girl who knows whats up

Fourwinds:
@pocohantas.... this is your fellow girl who knows whats up

No need to mention me to compare us.
Our views are different, two different humans.
Thanks.

pocohantas:


No need to mention me to compare us.
Our views are different, two different humans.
Thanks.

hehehehehehee.....this is reality and it is world of today.... if it was in my parents day I will really say "TRUST" yes trust

stilldoingokay:
she is just your girlfriend not wife, you guys should stop having Headache because of women

is it not girl friend that later becomes wife? abi no be chick dey develop to hen or co..ck

1metre:
I still cant fathom how human nature has become so barbaric in nigeria that two mature opposite sex cant cohabit without people thinking otherwise . Op, u need to change your thinking. U attract what u are. As for me, i can stay comfortable with a lady who is not my girlfriend without noticing her romantic nature. Maturity encompass growing into adulthood.

Oboy I understand from the angle you are seeing it... if na in the 60s.., 70s.., or 80.., I can still accept this your notion but now... for get it.. it is only 1% or 2% that can do exactly what you said

Fourwinds:
Oboy I understand from the angle you are seeing it... if na in the 60s.., 70s.., or 80.., I can still accept this your notion but now... for get it.. it is only 1% or 2% that can do exactly what you said

are u telling me morals are dead completely in our society??

1metre:
are u telling me morals are dead completely in our society??

ok...keep to what you are saying 100%

Fourwinds:
is it not girl friend that later becomes wife? abi no be chick dey develop to hen or co..ck

ok make him propose then

1metre:
are u telling me morals are dead completely in our society??

very dead!!!..you beta wake up..times have changed

Snowkel:

The last time my gf told me a friend of her wanna come stay the night bcuz he entered Benin late and cant get to his place. The guy banged her. She even concealed the info from me, it was later wen the guy got to know me better in skul, he opened up to me that he banged her 3 times after that night, but wen I confronted her she told me it was just ones and the guy forced her, but wen I told her I was gonna bring the guy, she said it was a mistake, that the other times she was carried away by an emotional movie and the guy was there for her at that time.
The truth, forget u have a gf if she sleeps in that place.

sorry bros...which kain eye you go dey take look the gal now?

stilldoingokay:


ok make him propose then

you are not getting it... whether he propose or he no propose cannot stop what will happen... don't married people cheat... but they will tell you they didn't know when it happened that it is devil work

babyfaceafrica:
very dead!!!..you beta wake up..times have changed

I disagree, there are still families that uphold their moral standards despite the collapse.

Fourwinds:
ok...keep to what you are saying 100%

despite high rate of moral decadence, it did affect the part not the whole.

1metre:
despite high rate of moral decadence, it did affect the part not the whole.

I say make you believe your 90 to 100%

Story. That's a no for me

1metre:
I disagree, there are still families that uphold their moral standards despite the collapse.

okay

I just dey laugh reading your post because even flat mates in student dorms dey hook up.
My honest opinion is that sex may not happen if it's just 1 or 2 nights of sleeping over, but 6 months is just not right.
We have no idea how this will turn out and we can all speculate different scenarios, so why not avoid this awkward set up in the first place by finding her own place ahead of time.

The possibility of the guy pushing her out at night if she refuse to have sex with him. We are talking reality here and not about trust or been sex starved.

Or just act like you don't give a f$$$ck, because they can still hook up even if they don't live together....wetin go happen go happen.

stilldoingokay:



shaeeee cheneke cold weather and romantic movie, expert clap for yourself

Yes that dude was right. You can be in denial but I've had a good fair share of free ride on cold weather and romantic movie ish, not even from girls that lived with me, but girls who randomly called me during cold weather and they made reference to the weather before the visit.
So yes cold weather and some romantic movies are all you need to have easy access.

olaboy1:


Yes that dude was right. You can be in denial but I've had a good fair share of free ride on cold weather and romantic movie ish, not even from girls that lived with me, but girls who randomly called me during cold weather and they made reference to the weather before the visit.
So yes cold weather and some romantic movies are all you need to have easy access.

hmmmm.

i had dsame experience wit my ex gf who just got admission 2 anoda uni.She said no accomodation so she'll b staying wit a two guys in a room,one of them is her frnd&d oda roommate...i immediately i knew it was over btw us.I felt bad for a couple of days cos loved her,but i quickly snapped out of it and got anoda gf &while i was still banging her and i stopped any emotional attachment with her,she realized soon and we broke up officially.
I just pity her next bf cos if i c her again,i'll still bang her.Trust girls and u av already signed ur death warrant.

Yellowdayzee:
Ok since you don't feel comfortable... Did you offer her an alternative solution

Can you get her another place to stay?

Don't point out a problem without a solution

Yellowdayzee:
Ok since you don't feel comfortable... Did you offer her an alternative solution

Can you get her another place to stay?

Don't point out a problem without a solution

is he the father of the girl to provide accommodation for her ? Is her senses not telling her that is it not right ? Relationship is not a job

Yellowdayzee:
Ok since you don't feel comfortable... Did you offer her an alternative solution

Can you get her another place to stay?

Don't point out a problem without a solution

....so u sayin u fill comfortable sleeping in man house without solution... correct?... clearly u no wifey material!!(no oofeense)

babyfaceafrica:
sorry bros...which kain eye you go dey take look the gal now?

Left her long ago after I found out.

Snowkel:

Left her long ago after I found out.

nice decision

MrCork:



....so u sayin u fill comfortable sleeping in man house without solution... correct?... clearly u no wifey material!!(no oofeense)

Why you following me though

Lol don't worry yourself even if you were last man on this earth I wouldnt touch u with a 10 ft pole....so don't worry about my wife materialness

Yellowdayzee:


Why you following me though

Lol don't worry yourself even if you were last man on this earth I wouldnt touch u with a 10 ft pole....so don't worry about my wife materialness

Yellowdayzee:


Why you following me though

Lol don't worry yourself even if you were last man on this earth I wouldnt touch u with a 10 ft pole....so don't worry about my wife materialness

^^^^lessssssbiiiian!!

Yellowdayzee:


Why you following me though

Lol don't worry yourself even if you were last man on this earth I wouldnt touch u with a 10 ft pole....so don't worry about my wife materialness

..u wunt touch me?... y not?..sweeery am from London,I drive £28000(cash) range rover spot, gots Moiney, travelled 28 countrys so far... clearly u cannnnnot cohmpare me to yorrr boyfriends n future husssbannds..!(GOAT)

MrCork:



..u wunt touch me?... y not?..sweeery am from London,I drive £28000(cash) range rover spot, gots Moiney, travelled 28 countrys so far... clearly u cannnnnot cohmpare me to yorrr boyfriends n future husssbannds..!(GOAT)

Ha ha ha... Lwad no man with real wealth has to tell people. N who says I want your stuff... What if I have my own... London ( oh wooooow , really??.... Gosh this makes you sooooo special coz the rest of us can't go to London if we want ....) .... I hope your sarcasm is good


You know goats so well could swear you must be one

MrCork:


^^^^lessssssbiiiian!!

Lol honestly anything is better than being with you joor