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RETIREDMUMU:
please help me nlander, this thing has been baffling me for a year now.

fast forward in 2016, i started having break ups due to the reason:once i have sex with girls i started having hatred towards them especially when the sex is constantly.

i thought at first maybe it a normal thing due to fact that i love taste random........

until this same occurrence happened yesterday on our first love making, toward me and my long term girl,this girl i love her like mad, am even planing future reference with her, i don't want to lose this same girl because of this hatred.


i tried to discuss this with my friend, and fortunately this happen to some of them(having hatred after having sex)


i tried to Google for solutions but nothing useful found



i tried to do dating without sex but the thought still runs in my head,and i always want stable relationships for now.

just help me!!

cc lalasticlala seun mydd44

boman2014:
then stop having sex with them. focus on the relationship

RETIREDMUMU:
this thing will surely happen when i got married

Tonythriller:
Whr do u want us to start in helping you? Obviously you don't know what yo want in a girl. Must it just be the sex? Looks more like it. Am sure if you can find something else in a girl,let's say companionship, confidant, crime partner or even good adviser I bet dix ur attitude will change. I will just conclude that you have not yet met the right girl for you. Look beyond sex nd physical beauty nd focus more on character. You will find that girl whose personality fits into your own life and you will always love and bleep her non-stop till rapture comes.

RETIREDMUMU:
bro have dated alot of girl, and still if i don't have this s3x now, qnd surely in future don't u think this same thing will happen??

and don't u think twice about sex before marriage

RETIREDMUMU:
this thing will surely happen when i got married

RETIREDMUMU:
this thing will surely happen when i got married

misscrystals:
spirit wives... :Dspirit wives...

kingmeme:
u around wat age bracket (no offence) cus i always feel d same when i was a teen but get over it later with age

Tonythriller:
Now tell me, what are the things u like so much and adore in this girl?

RETIREDMUMU:
her uniqueness and her love

Tonythriller:
Good! Am glad you said "uniqueness" and I won't ask in what ways. Just focus on her uniqueness. If she is understanding, tell her about how u've bleeped up with oda girls ova sex and examine her reaction. If she is supportive,then don't Bleep her till she asks for it. If she is not, then she is not for you. Do the needful.