rosalieene:

SMH

Is that a narrative or are you vexed about how I exposed ur tricks used in deceiving naive girls

You better repent bcoz I have come to realize that pervs and guys who derive pleasure in sleeping with everything on skirt don't live long.

Lol. Savagery.

You need to learn to ignore most comments on nairaland. You don't respond to everything one said.

Back to the question,
I earn more than 200k monthly, and to tell you the truth, i haven't thought of marriage. My monthly salary is six digits, freelance income, six digits, but while getting to such level, I left love, emotions, relationship by the side. Now I have gotten to that point and felt lonely and realized a vacuum.

What is the point? It's not about money. It is about fulfillment, and understanding the purpose of life.

DouglasH92:


Rubbish. If your man was intelligent, he wouldn't propose to you with such financial state.

We aren't talking about dating, we are talking about marriage. How long would you have to manage his 35,000 salary before he attains his ambitious goals? What kind of house can he afford with such money? Let's face it, you both would be living a penurious and poverty stricken lifestyle. Most of your needs wouldn't be met. How about children? Would you wait till he becomes financially successful before you have children?

Please be honest and realistic and stop trying to sound like you are a "nice" lady.

I just don't know wotu tee u......

But it seems ur stupidity is folo come!!

ADULT ONLY
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refiner:
I guess ur sisters must be white!

real pain

vivie01:
Yes, I can, provided the guy is decent, intelligent, passionate, has prospect and ambitious; I wouldnt mind giving him support till he realises his big dreams since Im not lazy myself, waiting for man to be providing everything for me.

is their vacancy.No be joke

Nma27:
Hahahahahahaha... Funny dude.

I just do all this things for fun, don't take it another way

NairalandCS:
The question should be: Why should a man earning 35k think of getting married ?

God bless u

vivie01:
Yes, I can, provided the guy is decent, intelligent, passionate, has prospect and ambitious; I wouldnt mind giving him support till he realises his big dreams since Im not lazy myself, waiting for man to be providing everything for me.

menh you are awesome...Na ur type dey marry CEOs

As long as I earn my own money and it's sufficient for my financial stuff

I don't care what he used to collect all what I know is that, he should know his responsibility even if he can't met it..

DouglasH92:


What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is earning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Any woman, irrespective of how much she is earning, who agrees to marry such man isn't a wise woman.

You not being realistic at all. So a man should not marry because he earns 35k per month? Ridiculous.
See there is a class for everyone. What might be meagre to you may be tremendous to some few.
Thats why we have mansions and face me and face you.
Shoemakers, petty traders and others alike make less and yet they marry and have kids.

Dont judge life from your limited scope. Human beings are designed to adapt to situations no matter how terrible....

vivie01:
Yes, I can, provided the guy is decent, intelligent, passionate, has prospect and ambitious; I wouldnt mind giving him support till he realises his big dreams since Im not lazy myself, waiting for man to be providing everything for me.

My kind of woman, sorry if you are married. Y do ladies despise days of little beginning? My compound guy/man married late and poor and the wife practically sponsor the marriage but today he is blessed and with a good job. Just bought two cars at once. So life is a mystery. D onLy thing is don't marry a lazy man.

6inches what?

9jayes:

I gatt more than 6 inches

refiner:

I guess ur sisters must be white!

the truth certainly hurts..........but this is naija, who truth help abi

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

I just do all this things for fun, don't take it another way

Perhaps. Don't lose yourself in the fun.

Una no serious... dey find already made.

rosalieene:
There are two options
Enduring in the marriage
Or
Leaving the marriage

and from my stand point... u aint opting for any..lol

Nma27:
One will miss this kinda meal

U must be very obese lol

As everything about u is food even your profile

Nma27:
Perhaps. Don't lose yourself in the fun.

Am looking for an igbo wife

Nwaoma198:
Yes I can.

Nwa baby!!
Come wiv me nah, I earn 1k above the 35k..

I will marry o. We can get better together

To such a man I say, 'Alaye double (or even quadruple) your hustle.... '.

DouglasH92:


What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is earning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Any woman irrespective of how much she is earning who agrees to marry such a man isn't a wise woman.

I can understand your point and I know where you're going, a lady like you will be be 40yrs but no husband bcoz of ego, stay there ibè lo maa dagba ti wa tun gbo si shiooor

well I can if I on my own part earn at least 500k. but I'm gonna do a thorough check on him to ascertain his soundness in body mind nd spirit cos men who earn dat low av animalistic tendencies.

A guy earning 35k in this present economy should rather be thinking of another source of income and not a wife. Trust me, you don't want to face the headache of not being able to meet up with financial needs every single month. If you meet a desperate girl, run for your peace.

I say it always, some things are overrated in Africa out of which getting married is one. Never misplace your priorities at every point in life.
After all work expenses in a place like Lagos, how much will you be left with to fend for yourself and your wife?

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

I swear i respect u and u will never lack

NairalandCS:
The question should be: Why should a man earning 35k think of getting married ?

am sure your father didn't earn up to that when he met your mum, cant you just learn a thing or two from him and stop asking silly questions, did u even consider if age was no longer on his side? marriage comes with its own blessings.cut your coat according to your size and settle for a lady that is ready to be supportive and wither the storm with you man. don't bother thanking me.....its on the house .

rosalieene:


Love is not enough to keep a marriage, if so, why is there a high increase in divorce

My sister, i believe love is enough to keep a marriage.....Truly there's high increase in divorce and anything can cause that,,,,but when there is love the two partners would be able to manage and control themselves during difficult times.....
Even if a man earns 1 million monthly doesn't mean they can not divorce......
I believe LOVE what matters!
I stand to be corrected though!i

petitejolie:
well I can if I on my own part earn at least 500k. but I'm gonna do a thorough check on him to ascertain his soundness in body mind nd spirit cos men who earn dat low av animalistic tendencies.

you have a point.


but don't you think things might get so bad later, I mean he might change his attitude towards you because you earn 500k and he earns 35k.


It only takes the grace Of God

Screenshot ur payslips

amunkita:


Nwa baby!!
Come wiv me nah, I earn 1k above the 35k..

Daeyou:
Am a young guy so i stand to be corrected......
To me it doesn't matter if a man is earning 35K for ladies to marry, What matter most is the love!!

Wake up from your sleep in Jesus name.

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

origin or star.. lemme send you two chilled bottles. .. U're very much on point