Temmyladey074:
NO
I CAN'T NO
I CAN'T

what if that rich dude whom u got married to finally go bankrupt? It's gonna also be 'NO I CAN'T STAY' the funniest thing is that the most inconsequential ladies are the ones who always look for rich dude. A vibrant lady only need someone to love her not money.

segunojo866:
am sure you will leave all the expense for the man. Women are sick pathetic people that love going to church all the time.

you left the wonderful messages that i wrote and decided to attack me because you are one of those low loafers that are earning less than 35k per month.Wake Mr man..I pay my bills and i cannot remember the last time i ate a dime from any man because you are are too immature in the area of money and women..rather its the other ways round..lazy guys wondering around and looking who to devour..there are hard working men but you never catch them ranting rubbish here on nairaland..So Mr Man, go and get a proper job and stop looking for a woman that would suffer in penury with you..deliver yourself from poverty stricken mentality..in Jesus name Amen and i cast that demonic spirit of poverty out of you..Ameeeeen..Dream big and you will be great.Life is all about planing and dream of a better life for yourself and that your family.

As a man, I can't marry a girl if I'm earning N35,000... It's not rocket science.

Is not me that will go and bring somebody's daughter to coman suffer

omoharry:
you left the wonderful messages that i wrote and decided to attack me because you are one of those low loafers that are earning less than 35k per month.Wake Mr man..I pay my bills and i cannot remember the last time i ate a dime from any man because you are are too immature in the area of money and women..rather its the other ways round..lazy guys wondering around and looking who to devour..there are hard working men but you never catch them ranting rubbish here on nairaland..So Mr Man, go and get a proper job and stop looking for a woman that would suffer in penury with you..deliver yourself from poverty stricken mentality..in Jesus name Amen and i cast that demonic spirit of poverty out of you..Ameeeeen..Dream big and you will be great.Life is all about planing and dream of a better life for yourself and that your family.

ignorance, firstly am average i can proudly say i earn over an100,000 monthly and am not suffering. Secondly what concerns me with God and his stupid carpenter son Jesus Christ. Am an atheist

falconey:





Bloody moron_ visit the northern part of the country and see how people comfortably live with below 20k I'd school there. I don't have time for baseless arguments, I've got to work now.

No mind am. That's the reason we Southerners will get nowhere politically as long as there are humble, down-to-earth Northerners. With their peasantness plus population and illiteracy, we can't still beat them with our 'exposure'. Abegi!

These is the reason why majority of them are hitting menopause without having someone to call her husband! [ quote ]author=rosalieene post=60144622]

so I saw this post on facebook,
"Ladies can you marry a man who earns 35,000 as salary? "

Lol, ladies gat no chill.

One said "Can't even buy me a wig let's say the truth here NO"

lady B said "When Human Hair 16inches cost 35k.. abegi!! Double your hustle .."

lady C said "Please you people should stop asking all question..
35k cant even completely pay bride price...
Even self contain house rent...
So why this question"

another said "But oh, 35k, how will he pay my bride price biko, I dont want to marry myself"

Another funny comment: "Would he give his sister to a man earning 35k monthly? Let's be realistic while answering, biko. Leave materialistic talk"

*sighs*

my beloved ladies, so am throwing this question to you.

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refiner:


Yea i will...there are lots of men that has d dreams and passion but hasnt got the opportunity yet...most great men today started were nobody but their passion and dreams paved d way for them.....

A real man will always stick to a woman that stood by him when he had nothing...ladies be wise!

May God bring the right man your way.

Your mindset is awesome.

rosalieene:


so I saw this post on facebook,
"Ladies can you marry a man who earns 35,000 as salary? "

Lol, ladies gat no chill.

One said "Can't even buy me a wig let's say the truth here NO"

lady B said "When Human Hair 16inches cost 35k.. abegi!! Double your hustle .."

lady C said "Please you people should stop asking all question..
35k cant even completely pay bride price...
Even self contain house rent...
So why this question"

another said "But oh, 35k, how will he pay my bride price biko, I dont want to marry myself"

Another funny comment: "Would he give his sister to a man earning 35k monthly? Let's be realistic while answering, biko. Leave materialistic talk"

*sighs*

my beloved ladies, so am throwing this question to you.

Hey op, I like your topic and even though I did not want to respond, I am compelled to.
First off, the ladies that made those useless comments and some saying trash here on nairaland are kids.
Secondly, a man with drive and ambition is better off than a man with millions. Why ? A man with drive and ambition can take almost anything at his disposal and turn it to something but some idiots even with heavy salaries can't do nothing with them.

I don't know your story and you don't know mine but we all should learn. Cash is not always the first thing. Passion and vision is.
I use myself as an example.
First job - 51k - left to complete school
Suffered very well before I got another
Second job- 67k
I was wiser now.
I resigned and took a third one which aligns with what I was chasing
Third job - 15k (LoL) call me crazy.
I left and hit Benin for a fourth job which also aligns with my business plans
Fourth job - 50k
I worked 9 months on fourth job and I left and took a fifth job also aligning with my plans
Fifth job - 25k
Left after 7 months and got a sixth also in my line of view.
Sixth job -25k
And after 4 months, my training was complete.
Started my own business
Initially, I was making 25k per day and I doubled my hustle, and make on the average 50k per day and I know I can get better if I try more...
I am really trying hard.
So those stupid girls that made the kind of comments in your topic and those making silly comments on nairaland don't know what life is talking about.
I can fly to the US and back when I want.
Same as my mom and sisters because I am a self made man now.

Look at my salary drop
50-67-10-50-25-25
But I knew where I was going.

Special shout out to @Evanberry and refiner
I can gladly marry any of you because una get sense.

And at op, don't think I am one old adult o... I am just a young man wey get sense quick...
I hope to retire from active service before 45
Don't joke with a man with drive and passion.

Cc
Evanberry
Refiner

#Blessings op.
Make wise choices.
On love

xcellinking:
As a man, I can't marry a girl if I'm earning N35,000... It's not rocket science.

Is not me that will go and bring somebody's daughter to coman suffer

That is one nairaland guy that has finally seen the light.
Aside the wife and kids, you have siblings and parents that are looking up to you for money. How can a man be happy. Men that get very affected by things easily...start drinking to try to forget their problems.

DO NOT DO IT!!! IT IS A TRAP.

jabojafa:
despise nt the days of humble beginning. Nothing BIG u see today eva started BIG. A man dt earns 35k legitimately is he nt beta dan sm1 who earns 1m fraudulently? If he earns 35k legitamately hw much do u earn legitamately?

jabojafa:
despise nt the days of humble beginning. Nothing BIG u see today eva started BIG. A man dt earns 35k legitimately is he nt beta dan sm1 who earns 1m fraudulently? If he earns 35k legitamately hw much do u earn legitamately?

islandmoon:
my dear friends, to be sincere, it not fun living on 35k per month, I have my own business , sold my car to start the business after losing my job, even at that, I dont earn more than that 35k per month after working like a jackal, infact a quit notice is here looking at me, from my landlord. life is really though, before buying diaper, airtime, food stuffs and pay house rent and bills, I dont even have a car now , its foundation of poverty! I cant even afford a shoe talkless of buying new clothes. how will you give your family a treat? but the only thing that is keeping me going is the love I have for my family, this is why some men run away, my dear dont try it!

poverty is really bad!!

you live in Lagos I guess.
I got married while earning 13k, 4 years ago. was also running dlc programmes, had a baby to cater for and all was hard. but now, I have my own site, live in a 2bedroom apartment all room ensuite​, my wife is in her final year and my son is over 3 years old.
if she had looked at my status then, we would have never been here

rosalieene:


Love is not enough to keep a marriage, if so, why is there a high increase in divorce

it's because most of those marriages were based on money not love.

Safiaa:
I mean if these girls have some sort of income coming in, then fine you can request for a financially stable man. But if as a woman you're broke and jobless and you want a rich guy, then you have to assess yourself. But then 35k is literally nothing, so its understandable. Im neutral about this.

There is sense in this. Nice one.

1metre:
what if that rich dude whom u got married to finally go bankrupt? It's gonna also be 'NO I CAN'T STAY' the funniest thing is that the most inconsequential ladies are the ones who always look for rich dude. A vibrant lady only need someone to love her not money.

ok

1metre:
what if that rich dude whom u got married to finally go bankrupt? It's gonna also be 'NO I CAN'T STAY' the funniest thing is that the most inconsequential ladies are the ones who always look for rich dude. A vibrant lady only need someone to love her not money.

ok

ImaIma1:


That is one nairaland guy that has finally seen the light.
Aside the wife and kids, you have siblings and parents that are looking up to you for money. How can a man be happy. Men that get very affected by things easily...start drinking to try to forget their problems.

DO NOT DO IT!!! IT IS A TRAP.

As in, my point exactly. I can't do it abeg... It's a trap.

segunojo866:
ignorance, firstly am average i can proudly say i earn over an100,000 monthly and am not suffering. Secondly what concerns me with God and his stupid carpenter son Jesus Christ. Am an atheist

beware!!!!

else the wrath of God will fall on you.

how dare you insult God

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

When you were conceived, your mother was on the right side of the bed.
May God increase your wisdom and bring a man of worth your way... Leave those foolish small girls to be saying trash.
One love sister

rosalieene:


beware!!!!

else the wrath of God will fall on you.

how dare you insult God

Bleep you and your God.

refiner:


Yea i will...there are lots of men that has d dreams and passion but hasnt got the opportunity yet...most great men today started were nobody but their passion and dreams paved d way for them.....

A real man will always stick to a woman that stood by him when he had nothing...ladies be wise!

Please where is you father's house.
I need to wife you ASAP.
On a serious note, you get sense.
Blessings Refiner

bencarson007:


Hey op, I like your topic and even though I did not want to respond, I am compelled to.
First off, the ladies that made those useless comments and some saying trash here on nairaland are kids.
Secondly, a man with drive and ambition is better off than a man with millions. Why ? A man with drive and ambition can take almost anything at his disposal and turn it to something but some idiots even with heavy salaries can't do nothing with them.

I don't know your story and you don't know mine but we all should learn. Cash is not always the first thing. Passion and vision is.
I use myself as an example.
First job - 51k - left to complete school
Suffered very well before I got another
Second job- 67k
I was wiser now.
I resigned and took a third one which aligns with what I was chasing
Third job - 15k (LoL) call me crazy.
I left and hit Benin for a fourth job which also aligns with my business plans
Fourth job - 50k
I worked 9 months on fourth job and I left and took a fifth job also aligning with my plans
Fifth job - 25k
Left after 7 months and got a sixth also in my line of view.
Sixth job -25k
And after 4 months, my training was complete.
Started my own business
Initially, I was making 25k per day and I doubled my hustle, and make on the average 50k per day and I know I can get better if I try more...
I am really trying hard.
So those stupid girls that made the kind of comments in your topic and those making silly comments on nairaland don't know what life is talking about.
I can fly to the US and back when I want.
Same as my mom and sisters because I am a self made man now.

Look at my salary drop
50-67-10-50-25-25
But I knew where I was going.

Special shout out to @Evanberry and refiner
I can gladly marry any of you because una get sense.

And at op, don't think I am one old adult o... I am just a young man wey get sense quick...
I hope to retire from active service before 45
Don't joke with a man with drive and passion.

Cc
Evanberry
Refiner

#Blessings op.
Make wise choices.
On love

Blessed are you my man.

Chaai. Be nice a little na bros. Na person cable u burn so....lolz

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

Thank you

ShyCypher:
This is the Broke Girls Thread.

The ones who have absolutely nothin' 2 offer in a relationship except slacked, overused cunts.

Scroll up, have you seen them?
Yeah, there they are

Oloshos.

Savagery.. .

DouglasH92:


You are the one who is pathetic. Go and marry your 35,000 a month husband and I'm sure your children would thank you for that. This isn't about me. I never said anything about the kind of life I live. You are the one making baseless assumptions. If I was earning 35,000, I wouldn't be thinking of marriage. That's stupidity. And if you'd settle down with someone who earns that low then it means you are stupid as well.

It's obvious you are still living with your parents and collecting allowance from them. No one living independently would have the kind of opinion you and your hypocritical ilk have. What in seven hells can 35,000 do for a family in a month? And you keep talking about him earning better in the future, but when exactly would this happen? How long would you and your children manage with him till he earns better? What kind of future would your children have if he doesn't earn better in intervening years?

The problem with you is that you are playing probability game with your future and that of your children. You build a future from a strong foundation, not from a weak one.

You are just being myopic like most peeps who have based the success of getting and staying married solely on ones financial standing at a point in time. It's comments like these that deceives the female folks into thinking they need not contribute anything financial to the Union. 35+35=70k, theres no reason why resources from both sides cannot be put into running the house. A woman who cannot contribute or support in the financial aspect of running the family is most certainly to have no say in the decision making process and that's why most are treated like slaves in their homes.

rosalieene:


Love is not enough to keep a marriage, if so, why is there a high increase in divorce

That's 'cus what they call love in the first place is not love but lust or better still, the eagerness to get marry

Temmywalex:


Blessed are you my man.

Thanks Temmywalex

Me not thinking about anything

9jayes:

Whatever you are thinking

Not thinking about anything bro

9jayes:

Whatever you are thinking

DouglasH92:



Lol. What kind of Disney mindset do you romance section girls have sef? Do you understand what marriage is? The is not about real man sticking with you or about dreams and passion. This is about your future and that of your children. What kind of life would you live with a 35,000 salary? How would you feed under this budget? How would you meet your needs under this budget when you take out the minor expenses like transport and other monthly bills? What can 35,000 a month afford you? Let's say you have children while he is still earning this salary, how would your children fair?

Great men don't get married when they can't afford to take care of themselves, let alone another person. Great men aren't stupid.

You are making it sound as if that's what his salary will be throughout his lifetime. And what's ur definition for the so called great men.... To me great men are big thinkers who can capitalized on their ideas and put it into action, they are one who are persistent in achieving the big pictures

Kenturkey048:
most tyms wen I see women hustling my first tot is always..*and for night this woman go open leg for wan man to straff after all this stress*

vivie01:
Yes, I can, provided the guy is decent, intelligent, passionate, has prospect and ambitious; I wouldnt mind giving him support till he realises his big dreams since Im not lazy myself, waiting for man to be providing everything for me.

Vivi, Vivi, come let me know you. You are the kind of lady I want. I earn N40,000 and currently building a business. Come let us work our way to the top even as friends

DouglasH92:


Rubbish. If your man was intelligent, he wouldn't propose to you with such financial state.

We aren't talking about dating, we are talking about marriage. How long would you have to manage his 35,000 salary before he attains his ambitious goals? What kind of house can he afford with such money? Let's face it, you both would be living a penurious and poverty stricken lifestyle. Most of your needs wouldn't be met. How about children? Would you wait till he becomes financially successful before you have children?

Please be honest and realistic and stop trying to sound like you are a "nice" lady.

And you're so irked because?? I thought everyone was supposed to give their opinion about theissue in question? Why are you pained by her comment? She turned down advances from your rich ass?