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sunshineG:

For one meal, so you don't want me to eat for the rest of the week

You dont like me oooo

Continue whining yourself o

Rukkydelta:
But planning and working towards it will eventually lead to success
Remember hard work pays. It might not pay instantly but it surely does

yeah hard work will surely pay
But one's current situation doesn't mean one is not working hard

So if you know this, why say you can't marry a guy on a 35k salary ?

Nma27:
Continue whining yourself o

Sis I don't know what you are talking about

Are you a car mirror or window how will I be whining you

DouglasH92:
What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is earning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Any woman irrespective of how much she is earning who agrees to marry such a man isn't a wise woman.

sorry to ask o, but how old are you please and are you married?

Kolewerk my dear
Change that naira to dollar sign


Funny how their main issue is Brazilian hair cotton brain lazy chics

Nwaoma198:
Where sir[Qquote author=9jayes post=60162767]
You have a message

Check ur mail

1ne is counted before 2wo...
2day is 35k...2morrow fit be 105k.
#LifeIsAProcess

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

Lol Dangote's generation has never been poor. After all his uncle gave him 500gees then to start a biz.

My salary as of today Tuesday 05-09-2017 is 35k
* am married with one kid
* we are living in two bedroom flat
* am driving 2005 accord
* am currently building 3 bedrooms flat
* am taking care of my elderly parents

All i can say is dont depend on your salary alone the poorest people are salary earners no one among the world Millionaires/Billionaires is salary earner.
Hustle, Hustle & Hustle legitimately.

refiner:
Dont u rest?...always in every thread!

You took that right off my fingers...

if i trully love you i will, we can still be hoping on God together for a change.

what matters to me most is a peacefull home

sunshineG:
yeah hard work will surely pay
But one's current situation doesn't mean one is not working hard

So if you know this, why say you can't marry a guy on a 35k salary ?

Cos I don't want my future family to experience poverty cos I once did when I was little
I can only marry a man when our both combine incomes isn't below 100K and if I do marry a man with 35K as his monthly income then surely I won't have kids(which isn't realistical) till when there is change in our finances unless I earn more than him which may lead to certain issues in the family
And I can't get married when my monthly income is below 50k, don't want to be a liability on anyone. I love to be independent

Coolgent:
My salary as of today Tuesday 05-08-2017 is 35k
* am married with one kid
* we are living in two bedroom flat
* am driving 2005 accord
* am currently building 3 bedrooms flat
* am taking care of my elderly parents

All i can say is dont depend on your salary alone the poorest people are salary earners no one among the world Millionaires/Billionaires is salary earner.
Hustle, Hustle & Hustle legitimately.

Nice one
I always shake my head on those that live their lives depending on salaries only, even though you earn very well find something else doing or you won't experience a good financial growth

No...he shouldn't even think of getting married in the first place! It is well o.

I do not earn up to that. Please, help with decent job in Abuja. I'm a graduate.

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

when i saw this comment by a female, my heart just calm down, no need to bash OP

some of these gals saying they cnt r only useful in d night like torch light

by Nwaoma198(f): 7:45am
Yes I can.

Choi!!!! be sincere

Victornezzar:
Yeah I noticed
His last seen is showing August 20th
lefulefu is his main pal here
i hope he's okay too

i call im number and d number dey say switched off.

lefulefu:
i call im number and d number dey say switched off.

wow
I don't pray for d unexpected oo
dude na 1 friendly guy like dah

falconey:

Don't you hoes save? you'd make lot of cash while single hoeing around.

hypothetically,from age 15-24(9years) a typical naija babe starts hoeing, please ladies should learn to save afterall he didn't meet you a flower.

save ke? ...do u know how much bleaching cream cost for starters?.wen even the cost of d bleaching cream wey some of dem dey use na d cost of some ppl salary how do u now expect d slayqueens to save.na wa for u oo.

rosalieene:


so I saw this post on facebook,
"Ladies can you marry a man who earns 35,000 as salary? "

Lol, ladies gat no chill.

One said "Can't even buy me a wig let's say the truth here NO"

lady B said "When Human Hair 16inches cost 35k.. abegi!! Double your hustle .."

lady C said "Please you people should stop asking all question..
35k cant even completely pay bride price...
Even self contain house rent...
So why this question"

another said "But oh, 35k, how will he pay my bride price biko, I dont want to marry myself"

Another funny comment: "Would he give his sister to a man earning 35k monthly? Let's be realistic while answering, biko. Leave materialistic talk"

*sighs*

my beloved ladies, so am throwing this question to you.

35k a month is 420,000 a year. That can cover rent and if the young man spend a year in a family member's house would have enough to take care of his needs till he finds aa great offer. Mind you the question is marrying someone who earns 35k not forever most importantly there wasn't no scenario.
Most importantly all naija babes wants the fantasy marriage life, get treated like Michelle Obama when they have zero to offer. I told a friend today that a man will value that friend who stood by him when he had nothing than that wife who came when he had the world. Michelle didn't date Obama when he was something. He just had a pocket of dream and he was the annoying young man asking her for a date. So 35k is a good start, Rome wasn't built in a day. 35k and a plan is something but a man earning 35k and who choose to sit on his ass is his own enemy.

Victornezzar:
wow
I don't pray for d unexpected oo
dude na 1 friendly guy like dah

no fear...nothing happen..i am very positive of dat.if it be d guy travel cos he been talk say he go travel to Togo or one of dese neighbouring African francophone countries.in no time he come online.i go sti keep on calling im line sha.

lefulefu:
no fear...nothing happen..i am very positive of dat.if it be d guy travel cos he been talk say he go travel to Togo or one of dese neighbouring African francophone countries.in no time he come online.i go sti keep on calling im line sha.

ha better Bro

Blonchilli:
35k a month is 420,000 a year. That can cover rent and if the young man spend a year in a family member's house would have enough to take care of his needs till he finds aa great offer. Mind you the question is marrying someone who earns 35k not forever most importantly there wasn't no scenario.
Most importantly all naija babes wants the fantasy marriage life, get treated like Michelle Obama when they have zero to offer. I told a friend today that a man will value that friend who stood by him when he had nothing than that wife who came when he had the world. Michelle didn't date Obama when he was something. He just had a pocket of dream and he was the annoying young man asking her for a date. So 35k is a good start, Rome wasn't built in a day. 35k and a plan is something but a man earning 35k and who choose to sit on his ass is his own enemy.

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Blonchilli:
35k a month is 420,000 a year. That can cover rent and if the young man spend a year in a family member's house would have enough to take care of his needs till he finds aa great offer. Mind you the question is marrying someone who earns 35k not forever most importantly there wasn't no scenario.
Most importantly all naija babes wants the fantasy marriage life, get treated like Michelle Obama when they have zero to offer. I told a friend today that a man will value that friend who stood by him when he had nothing than that wife who came when he had the world. Michelle didn't date Obama when he was something. He just had a pocket of dream and he was the annoying young man asking her for a date. So 35k is a good start, Rome wasn't built in a day. 35k and a plan is something but a man earning 35k and who choose to sit on his ass is his own enemy.

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Blonchilli:
35k a month is 420,000 a year. That can cover rent and if the young man spend a year in a family member's house would have enough to take care of his needs till he finds aa great offer. Mind you the question is marrying someone who earns 35k not forever most importantly there wasn't no scenario.
Most importantly all naija babes wants the fantasy marriage life, get treated like Michelle Obama when they have zero to offer. I told a friend today that a man will value that friend who stood by him when he had nothing than that wife who came when he had the world. Michelle didn't date Obama when he was something. He just had a pocket of dream and he was the annoying young man asking her for a date. So 35k is a good start, Rome wasn't built in a day. 35k and a plan is something but a man earning 35k and who choose to sit on his ass is his own enemy.

michele obama is the one behind obama's success.that's why he treats her like a queen.[s]

Blonchilli:
35k a month is 420,000 a year. That can cover rent and if the young man spend a year in a family member's house would have enough to take care of his needs till he finds aa great offer. Mind you the question is marrying someone who earns 35k not forever most importantly there wasn't no scenario.
Most importantly all naija babes wants the fantasy marriage life, get treated like Michelle Obama when they have zero to offer. I told a friend today that a man will value that friend who stood by him when he had nothing than that wife who came when he had the world. Michelle didn't date Obama when he was something. He just had a pocket of dream and he was the annoying young man asking her for a date. So 35k is a good start, Rome wasn't built in a day. 35k and a plan is something but a man earning 35k and who choose to sit on his ass is his own enemy.

[s]

Blonchilli:
35k a month is 420,000 a year. That can cover rent and if the young man spend a year in a family member's house would have enough to take care of his needs till he finds aa great offer. Mind you the question is marrying someone who earns 35k not forever most importantly there wasn't no scenario.
Most importantly all naija babes wants the fantasy marriage life, get treated like Michelle Obama when they have zero to offer. I told a friend today that a man will value that friend who stood by him when he had nothing than that wife who came when he had the world. Michelle didn't date Obama when he was something. He just had a pocket of dream and he was the annoying young man asking her for a date. So 35k is a good start, Rome wasn't built in a day. 35k and a plan is something but a man earning 35k and who choose to sit on his ass is his own enemy.

[/s]

Blonchilli:
35k a month is 420,000 a year. That can cover rent and if the young man spend a year in a family member's house would have enough to take care of his needs till he finds aa great offer. Mind you the question is marrying someone who earns 35k not forever most importantly there wasn't no scenario.
Most importantly all naija babes wants the fantasy marriage life, get treated like Michelle Obama when they have zero to offer. I told a friend today that a man will value that friend who stood by him when he had nothing than that wife who came when he had the world. Michelle didn't date Obama when he was something. He just had a pocket of dream and he was the annoying young man asking her for a date. So 35k is a good start, Rome wasn't built in a day. 35k and a plan is something but a man earning 35k and who choose to sit on his ass is his own enemy.

michele obama is the one behind obama's success.that's why he treats her like a queen.[/s]

Blonchilli:
35k a month is 420,000 a year. That can cover rent and if the young man spend a year in a family member's house would have enough to take care of his needs till he finds aa great offer. Mind you the question is marrying someone who earns 35k not forever most importantly there wasn't no scenario.
Most importantly all naija babes wants the fantasy marriage life, get treated like Michelle Obama when they have zero to offer. I told a friend today that a man will value that friend who stood by him when he had nothing than that wife who came when he had the world. Michelle didn't date Obama when he was something. He just had a pocket of dream and he was the annoying young man asking her for a date. So 35k is a good start, Rome wasn't built in a day. 35k and a plan is something but a man earning 35k and who choose to sit on his ass is his own enemy.

[s]

Blonchilli:
35k a month is 420,000 a year. That can cover rent and if the young man spend a year in a family member's house would have enough to take care of his needs till he finds aa great offer. Mind you the question is marrying someone who earns 35k not forever most importantly there wasn't no scenario.
Most importantly all naija babes wants the fantasy marriage life, get treated like Michelle Obama when they have zero to offer. I told a friend today that a man will value that friend who stood by him when he had nothing than that wife who came when he had the world. Michelle didn't date Obama when he was something. He just had a pocket of dream and he was the annoying young man asking her for a date. So 35k is a good start, Rome wasn't built in a day. 35k and a plan is something but a man earning 35k and who choose to sit on his ass is his own enemy.

[/s]

Blonchilli:
35k a month is 420,000 a year. That can cover rent and if the young man spend a year in a family member's house would have enough to take care of his needs till he finds aa great offer. Mind you the question is marrying someone who earns 35k not forever most importantly there wasn't no scenario.
Most importantly all naija babes wants the fantasy marriage life, get treated like Michelle Obama when they have zero to offer. I told a friend today that a man will value that friend who stood by him when he had nothing than that wife who came when he had the world. Michelle didn't date Obama when he was something. He just had a pocket of dream and he was the annoying young man asking her for a date. So 35k is a good start, Rome wasn't built in a day. 35k and a plan is something but a man earning 35k and who choose to sit on his ass is his own enemy.

michele obama is the one behind obama's success.that's why he treats her like a queen.

Criis:
How much do the ladies themselves earn?


Mind you, Zuckerberg earns $1 salary per year

You're right, ladies often bring nothing to a relationship but sex all for money and the comfort of life. While they want the man to do all the work. By the way that Mark Zuckerberg 1 dollar per year salary is scam. It's just a policy by America CEOS to make people work tirelessly all in a bid to promote a false image they earn less but they get paid other benefits and housing allowances which runs into millions and sometimes billions of dollars

lefulefu:
[s][/s] michele obama is the one behind obama's success.that's why he treats her like a queen.

She is. I read his biography years back and kudos to Michelle. Obama had nothing, he was even a chain smoker then. The world wouldn't have seen a great President if she had gone for the men with the fat account and nobody would have known Michelle. Ladies seem to forget that when you build a man you create a goddess in yourself. But they go after these ready made men who keeps them indoors getting fat and becoming ig and snapchat queens while their men impregnate small girls and the ladies who marry the 35k earners make a great man

I can if he's got visions n he's working towards achieving them.

Lalas247:
Kolewerk my dear
Change that naira to dollar sign


Funny how their main issue is Brazilian hair cotton brain lazy chics

remember wetin we yarn d other time.how in naija some babes dey spend a fortune on creams,makeups,fake eyelashes etc.is it not funny that in a relationship wetin go dey bug a lady in a relationship na how money d man go give her for her wigs and creams.and d most annoying tin be say if some of dem put on d wig and rub dem expensive creams dem no go still fine.welcome to naija where the main discussion in a relationship is about how much money d guy should be giving to her for her creams and wigs...and how much be im salary.todays naija na money,money all d time.hushpuppi and E money don corrupt our mindset.

Blonchilli:
She is. I read his biography years back and kudos to Michelle. Obama had nothing, he was even a chain smoker then. The world wouldn't have seen a great President if she had gone for the men with the fat account and nobody would have known Michelle. Ladies seem to forget that when you build a man you create a goddess in yourself. But they go after these ready made men who keeps them indoors getting fat and becoming ig and snapchat queens while their men impregnate small girls and the ladies who marry the 35k earners make a great man

anyway there are michele obama type of ladies in naija but mind u they are few.and dont expect to find dem in churches.

Yes I am

fakxon:
by Nwaoma198(f): 7:45am
Yes I can.

Choi!!!! be sincere

NairalandCS:
The question should be: Why should a man earning 35k think of getting married ?

Well said!!! Cos I can't imagine how he is living with that amount