WeNoGoDie:


My question to all those ladies saying No will be, supposing they marry a man earning half a million per month and he per chance goes bankrupt or meets a misfortune that wipes his finances like accident that cripples him, what next?.... . that moment he can't even offer 10k monthly.

DouglasH92:


What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is earning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Any woman irrespective of how much she is earning who agrees to marry such a man isn't a wise woman.

falconey:




Save me time for your jibby jabbers, clouded by misguided impression. This isn't a marriage seminar.

You must be the dumbest man on earth if you think everyone believe in the concept of money is equivalent to good living. Not everyone wish to be rich. We derive happiness from different conducts.

You need to explore and read more, stop postulating basic knowledge like it's rocket science.

falconey:




Save me time for your jibby jabbers, clouded by misguided impression. This isn't a marriage seminar.

You must be the dumbest man on earth if you think everyone believe in the concept of money is equivalent to good living. Not everyone wish to be rich. We derive happiness from different conducts.
You need to explore and read more, stop postulating basic knowledge like it's rocket science.

Amarabae:
by their moniker,you shall kno them,

PrickGetSize:
Why should you marry at all?

Can't you just pay a girl and fvck her for fun? What will you gain from marrying one girl and living with her for the rest of your life?

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

Dianeetdiana:
hmmmmmm i shake my head. my sincere answer isssssssss No. what if am making 35k too, that will be 70k in month from both of us. What kind of life will that be.

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

Ipob pig

mrphysics:

Lol. Savagery.

You need to learn to ignore most comments on nairaland. You don't respond to everything one said.

Back to the question,
I earn more than 200k monthly, and to tell you the truth, i haven't thought of marriage. My monthly salary is six digits, freelance income, six digits, but while getting to such level, I left love, emotions, relationship by the side. Now I have gotten to that point and felt lonely and realized a vacuum.

What is the point? It's not about money. It is about fulfillment, and understanding the purpose of life.

Criis:
How much do the ladies themselves earn?


Mind you, Zuckerberg earns $1 salary per year

rayralph:


i stand to be corrected

a level 6 state government teacher/staff earns around that amount.

dont be too quick to judge....some are earning that amount and they are happily married.


lets be grateful for what we have

naifizzy:


You not being realistic at all. So a man should not marry because he earns 35k per month? Ridiculous.
See there is a class for everyone. What might be meagre to you may be tremendous to some few.
Thats why we have mansions and face me and face you.
Shoemakers, petty traders and others alike make less and yet they marry and have kids.

Dont judge life from your limited scope. Human beings are designed to adapt to situations no matter how terrible....

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

Am looking for an igbo wife

Royaldave200:


am sure your father didn't earn up to that when he met your mum, cant you just learn a thing or two from him and stop asking silly questions, did u even consider if age was no longer on his side? marriage comes with its own blessings.cut your coat according to your size and settle for a lady that is ready to be supportive and wither the storm with you man. don't bother thanking me.....its on the house .

IamKashyBaby:


Nope...I cant..

What is 35k naira na? lets be practical here..what kind of life you will both have and for ur chiildren?

But doesnt mean i will leave him ...I will encourage him to find a better job or venture into business if he has passion on it..

OkunrinMeta:


What about 70k as in when you add your own 35k?

Baba..no disrespect but my shoes price are even higher than than..

And besides, what kind of job is that u only being paid 70k na? Where most of the workers now being paid 500k & up?

IamKashyBaby:






Baba..no disrespect but my shoes price are even higher than than..

And besides, what kind of job is that u only being paid 70k na? Where most of the workers now being paid 500k & up?

IamKashyBaby:






Baba..no disrespect but my shoes price are even higher than than..

And besides, what kind of job is that u only being paid 70k na? Where most of the workers now being paid 500k & up?

OkunrinMeta:


So you earn 500k? Abeg kon dash me 70k na

Hahaha..i bet u earned 700k , u juz being humble

Nwaoma198:
400k every month okay, Remove ur tithe,house rent,Utility bills, money for ur parents and siblings and tell how much is left before I will come with you

vivie01:
Yes, I can, provided the guy is decent, intelligent, passionate, has prospect and ambitious; I wouldnt mind giving him support till he realises his big dreams since Im not lazy myself, waiting for man to be providing everything for me.

rosalieene:


so I saw this post on facebook,
"Ladies can you marry a man who earns 35,000 as salary? "

Lol, ladies gat no chill.

One said "Can't even buy me a wig let's say the truth here NO"

lady B said "When Human Hair 16inches cost 35k.. abegi!! Double your hustle .."

lady C said "Please you people should stop asking all question..
35k cant even completely pay bride price...
Even self contain house rent...
So why this question"

another said "But oh, 35k, how will he pay my bride price biko, I dont want to marry myself"

Another funny comment: "Would he give his sister to a man earning 35k monthly? Let's be realistic while answering, biko. Leave materialistic talk"

*sighs*

my beloved ladies, so am throwing this question to you.

loshybab:

You gain respect, Dignity,focus,reduce spread of STIs/STDs and above all be a good role model to those innocent children looking up to you

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

Remisol:


I said "NO" to the question just because I converted the money to the currency / Country I'm familiar with and with that my conclusion is NO.
What I will like to know is how much is going on rent and transportaion monthly? Then maybe I can change my answer Based on what's' left.

lefulefu:
remember wetin we yarn d other time.how in naija some babes dey spend a fortune on creams,makeups,fake eyelashes etc.is it not funny that in a relationship wetin go dey bug a lady in a relationship na how money d man go give her for her wigs and creams.and d most annoying tin be say if some of dem put on d wig and rub dem expensive creams dem no go still fine.welcome to naija where the main discussion in a relationship is about how much money d guy should be giving to her for her creams and wigs...and how much be im salary.todays naija na money,money all d time.hushpuppi and E money don corrupt our mindset.

DouglasH92:


What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is earning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Any woman irrespective of how much she is earning who agrees to marry such a man isn't a wise woman.

refiner:

Dont u rest?...always in every thread!