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Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

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galadima77:
Welcome...dem dey call am gratuity for service well rendered...e no get limit.

.. I suppose she is exporting me

Tell her to bring her husband as collateral. Foolish woman

I won't be surprised if you eventually hang her leg on the burglary proof. This is how it starts...

pocohantas:
Tell her to bring her husband as collateral. Foolish woman

.. What is marriage these days turning into? Does that mean she doesn't love her husband? Or deliberately extorting me

Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

why should you continue doing it, before you know now you'll do the rest you use to do before.. Op is that how you use to do?

phintohlar:
why should you continue doing it, before you know now you'll do the rest you use to do before.. Op is that how you use to do?

.. Just giving her the money on a free mind.. At times thou she still make advances as if she's not even married

Ikebesupa:
.. Just giving her the money on a free mind.. At times thou she still make advances as if she's not even married

that woman is the P A to uncle devil himself,please stay off her case

Just only money?
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Give her if you have but there is the possibility of your benevolence snowballing into something unintended. When she asks consistently and you give, you support a dependence behaviour in her that makes her indebted to you. The problem this creates is that it makes her less inhibitive to you, which is compounded by the pleasant memories both of you might have shared. This is the psychic fuel that will ignite the passion.

I know how that story goes, bruh. She will be tossing her vows out the window with the quickness.

There are certain things guys do here i do not find funny... A girl askes u out and u come out to tell the world (girls dont do that) dont be foolish, you are not the only guy who girls ask out... U have sex with women u come to tell us, are u that low; real men dont do tha shiit... Now this one comes here talkin shit abt ex, if u want to help her then do and dont come here askin us stupid questions, are u not a man? Why are most guys here too childish... Its sunday, go to church abeg...

Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

God didnt stop giving you life even after all ur shiit life, he didnt stop helpin you... if u want to stop then stop, if u want to continue then continue. Its ur choice

Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

Why you da ask did kind of ? common sense suppose let you know say e nor sound rite

If your wife does same, will you be pleased with that?

If NO; then STOP.

Else; KONTINU.

No

All these women without pride, self respect or dignity!!
What is it sef

I really need to know how ladies get comfortable asking money from guys not to talk of an ex.




There's nothing wrong in giving though as long as you're doing out of kindness if she really has pressing needs and not for something in return.

Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

She knows u'll always be her maga!

In the future you may be accused of having affairs with the woman, you may be innocent though.

By the time they print her bank account statement, your name would be written all over it. How do you defend yourself. It becomes another otobo vs Suleiman case

You are still interested in him then. Why is he your ex?

Ikebesupa:
.. I suppose she is exporting me

Exporting as in international trade? or u meant extorting

elantraceey:
I really need to know how ladies get comfortable asking money from guys not to talk of any ex.

We need to differentiate between women and ashawo.

Ashawo will ask a man for money without shame.

You are a woman and that is why you can't understand the mentality of ashawo.

Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

Tell her to stop that your have responsibilities. Her husband is responsible for her

Hope wen he starts asking for other things u'll oblige him too

Ikebesupa:
.. I suppose she is exporting me

exporting you to where?

OP you're a fool (in Mr ibu's voice )

It happened to me and I gave her with pure intentions. In as much you do it without any hidden intention, surly you will be rewarded for it. She might need it to support her family.

Hmm

It depends on the receiver and giver with pure heart.

But as for me hmm hmmm

No one is extorting u... Stop giving her money

if her family is poor and u r in the capacity to help them (with the husband's consent) then u can help....