Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

. If u don't av anoda source for now pls keep on collecting ooo, let everybody manage what he or she as till 2019 After Sia Baba will be voted Out.

WowSweetGuy:
my sister i appreciate ur advise but sometimes it seems like God just watch man go through all he/she is suffering and dont act. I keep my hope UP coz thats all got plus my hustles

Well I believe it time. When your time come all doors will open. Just be patient

DeadRat:
There are certain things guys do here i do not find funny... A girl askes u out and u come out to tell the world (girls dont do that) dont be foolish, you are not the only guy who girls ask out... U have sex with women u come to tell us, are u that low; real men dont do tha shiit.

I agree with this, 1001%

.. Now this one comes here talkin shit abt ex, if u want to help her then do and dont come here askin us stupid questions, are u not a man? Why are most guys here too childish... Its sunday, go to church abeg...

He may genuinely not know if it's right or wrong and just wanted to ask, if so, it's better than ask than do what you don't know if it's right or wrong.

emmayayodeji:
exporting you to where?

Obodo oyinbo

Ikebesupa:
.. I suppose she is exporting me

Importing, more like.

When I hear ex, two things comes to mind. It's either you're too good to her and she broke your heart or she was too good to you and you did break her heart. If you were the one that broke her heart... fine, just know this; She's still into you. Help if you have. Someone who broke your heart won't have the mind to ask you for a dime or help except on a relationship that died a natural death.
I hate as a man coming online to to seek for opinions on how to lead your life. Shebi na your money?
Help if you have having in mind that ex should stay in the past. I call them parasites. Awaiting tsunami. They should stay in the past to avoid story that touch.
Another thing is she's married. It is entirely a different ball game now. You wouldn't be happy as a hubby seeing your wife's bank statement or alert update from an ex... lol.
Help if you have buh be more sensitive or careful about it.

Ikebesupa:
.. I suppose she is exporting me

exporting u to where?

I have two of my ex that's found of that... I don't transfer money to them through my acct... I uses Teasy mobile to do that... but, op, u need to keep distance and longer discussion, pls.

deepwater:
In the future you may be accused of having affairs with the woman, you may be innocent though.

By the time they print her bank account statement, your name would be written all over it. How do you defend yourself. It becomes another otobo vs Suleiman case

The bolded above is well said.
Remember what Mrs Potifa did to an Innocent Joseph....and he ended in jail.

Married people should not communicate with their exs, its better to flee all apprerances of evil, because na from play person dey enter dance.

Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

Are you the woman or the man giving the money?

Josephamstrong1:
When I hear ex, two things comes to mind. It's either you're too good to her and she broke your heart or she was too good to you and you did break her heart. If you were the one that broke her heart... fine, just should know this; She's still into you. Help if you have. Someone who broke your heart won't have the mind to ask you for a dime or help except on a relationship that died a natural death.
I hate as a man coming online to to seek for opinions on how to lead your life. Shebi na your money?
Help if you have.
Another thing is she's married. It is entirely a different ball game now. You wouldn't be happy as a hubby seeing your wife's bank statement or alert update from an ex... lol.
Help if you have buh be more sensitive or careful about it.

True but will ur wife show u her bank statement? Since u cant get it any other way

muller101:
the op just made this up.

Very very likely..

d33types:


Very very likely..

.. Some people here attested to having same experience, so why are you just concluding I made that up? Everything is possible folks... It's reall

DeadRat:
There are certain things guys do here i do not find funny... A girl askes u out and u come out to tell the world (girls dont do that) dont be foolish, you are not the only guy who girls ask out... U have sex with women u come to tell us, are u that low; real men dont do tha shiit... Now this one comes here talkin shit abt ex, if u want to help her then do and dont come here askin us stupid questions, are u not a man? Why are most guys here too childish... Its sunday, go to church abeg...

Pls tell them, by the way how old are you ? All this Children of yesterday always coming to ask for stupid advice, don't you have father's and uncles to go and ask, must you bring all that here to come and ask, when you get to church ask your pastor, or your house fellowship leader, if you will not be the point of deliverance today.

daylife7:


Wot is there.....
Has he not Fvcked her severally b4?
A Fvck that was well fvcked can be refvcked provided the fvckee and the fvcker agreed that the previous Fvck was well fvcked.... Cyril law of refvcking

My nigga ✊�

DeadRat:
There are certain things guys do here i do not find funny... A girl askes u out and u come out to tell the world (girls dont do that) dont be foolish, you are not the only guy who girls ask out... U have sex with women u come to tell us, are u that low; real men dont do tha shiit... Now this one comes here talkin shit abt ex, if u want to help her then do and dont come here askin us stupid questions, are u not a man? Why are most guys here too childish... Its sunday, go to church abeg...

They just want to show their selves

vertueptime:


True but will ur wife show u her bank statement? Since u cant get it any other way

When a hubby is smart... He should before she say... Jack.

Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

she should start over again to work so as to continue to receive salary.....

Stupid question! You people needs to grow the hell up!

That's what happens when she wants to play an away match

boostdom:
Give her if you have but there is the possibility of your benevolence snowballing into something unintended. When she asks consistently and you give, you support a dependence behaviour in her that makes her indebted to you. The problem this creates is that it makes her less inhibitive to you, which is compounded by the pleasant memories both of you might have shared. This is the psychic fuel that will ignite the passion.

I know how that story goes, bruh. She will be tossing her vows out the window with the quickness.

hmmmm

No it is not right. This woman has no morals.

Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

Money for what!...i repeat money 4 what!!!

Are u stil payin 4 d pu**a indirectly ?? If yes goddammit!!

NwaScore442:
Money for what!...i repeat money 4 what!!!

Are u stil payin 4 d pu**a indirectly ?? If yes goddammit!!

.. I really do like her back to back then.. I never say no to her

gypsey:
Stupid question! You people needs to grow the hell up!

but why are you sad about this? You shouldn't be sad at all please. I have always known nairaland.com as an open forum and now, any topic you don't like, I expect you ignore it than beefing people around because of what they are experiencing. I know you are mature, please leave me to mature like you too OK? I will get there someday.., saddist everywhere

She lost that right the day she said I do to the other guy. Stop giving her any money already.

gare:


Pls tell them, by the way how old are you ? All this Children of yesterday always coming to ask for stupid advice, don't you have father's and uncles to go and ask, must you bring all that here to come and ask, when you get to church ask your pastor, or your house fellowship leader, if you will not be the point of deliverance today.

....but why are you sad about this? You shouldn't be sad at all please. I have always known nairaland.com as an open forum and now, any topic you don't like, I expect you ignore it than beefing people around because of what they are experiencing. I know you are mature, please leave me to mature like you too OK? I will get there someday.., saddist everywhere

talk2percy:
She lost that right the day she said I do to the other guy. Stop giving her any money already.

.. Indeed but I do have a problem for not saying NO to anyone not even her. I feel guilty saying no to almost everything people ask me

Ikebesupa:
.. Indeed but I do have a problem for not saying NO to anyone not even her. I feel guilty saying no to almost everything people ask me

I don't understand, is it that her husband can't take care of her or what? If that is the case, why did she leave u that took care of needs for a guy that is barely taking care of her....bro u have to learn to say no to her o, or u might as well not say no to her when she will give u her body.

talk2percy:
I don't understand, is it that her husband can't take care of her or what? If that is the case, why did she leave u that took care of needs for a guy that is barely taking care of her....bro u have to learn to say no to her o, or u might as well not say no to her when she will give u her body.

.. I have really got a positive feedback from here and would really act accordingly

I too, just bought Infinix hot 4pro for my ex married girlfriend last week...... though she promised to pay back with bundle of sex whenever she free to come to my place.