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Good evening my dear nairalanders. Please I need your honest opinion on this issue because I am very confused now that I don't know what to do.

I have been dating a guy for about three years now. Every thing has been going well. He claims he loves me but he doesn't spend on me. He knows I am still job hunting that I don't have any means of income of my own but he doesn't care at all. How I feed, cloth, recharge my phone, he doesn't know. He doesn't even ask how I cope with all my basic needs as a woman. He doesn't recharge my phone and when I manage to recharge with the little money I have and call him, he won't even reject or ignore the call and call me back knowing well that I don't work. He will make sure he exhausts the little airtime.

It is not as I he doesn't have the money, he has it. In fact he is very comfortable but he doesn't spend on me. I am a type of lady that doesn't know how to ask for money but I expect him to know that since I am not working yet, he should assist me with some of my needs but if I don't ask, he will do nothing.

I am thinking of leaving him because of this attitude I feel he is taking advantage of my nature. Please help me out. I want to know your take on this issue before I take action.

Thank you.

He's testing your resilience

When marriage is involve.......


Singular turns to Plural......

Booking space.

I don't spend much on bae and she love me

Lawlahdey:
He's testing your resilience

Seconded.

Women! Firstly, Money.
secondly, money.
Third money.



Finally, money!

Well he might be testing you. Or might be a

Just be contented with what you have,live as if he doesn't exist...
I pray you get a job soon...

Divay22:
Just be contented with what you have,live as if he doesn't exist...
I pray you get a job soon.

No be fight now

he will exhaust your airtime but can't do the same for you? ?and he's probably doing all that for another lady
I hate stingy rats occupying space in my life and when it comes to marriage better pick race.

start thinking with your brain intact.

Babe should look for something doing no matter how small. Never put your hope in man but in God.

LifeofAirforce:
I don't spend much on bae and she love me

From what OP said it's like the guy is not spending at all for her

Concentrate on having a source of income and not bother yourself with what your boyfriend does with his money.


No man you're not married to owes you anything....

But, don't marry someone that isn't caring.

Lawlahdey:
He's testing your resilience

What kind of test lasts for three years?

Some guys are innately like that until you ask them for it

or

He doesn't really see her worthy of spending his money on her

OrestesDante:
No be fight now

Lol.
He has, but doesn't wanna give to her ,it's better she just do things on her own than thinking someone she calls a boyfriend will help her...
He might probably be that of guy, that wants a girl to beg him first before he gives her.

Lawlahdey:
He's testing your resilience

test Ke

LifeofAirforce:
I don't spend much on bae and she love me

At least you spend something. He doesn't even spend on me at all.

abdeiz:
What kind of test lasts for three years?

Some guys are innately like that until you ask them for it

or

He doesn't really see her worthy of spending his money on her

I was kidding...LOL.

I can't date someone like that though, Heaven forbids.

AmazingM:
At least you spend something. He doesn't even spend on me at all.

That's bad ..

You don't need a soothsayer to tell you he doesn't love you. You're dating yourself in this relationship.






#Sad!.

Divay22:
Just be contented with what you have,live as if he doesn't exist...
I pray you get a job soon.

so what happens when he marries her,?dating cool,but can you marry such a person that's her question

Ahan...is that one a boyfriend

I hate stingy men
Forget about him and move on with your life

Dillusionist:
so what happens when he marries her,?dating cool,but can you marry such a person that's her question

I won't advice her to marry such a person, because i definitely can't do that.
If he's stingy while dating, there's every chance he will be stingy when married....

MhizzAJ:
Ahan...is that one a boyfriend

I hate stingy men
Forget about him and move on with your life

liabbbiiiiiilllliiittttttyyyyyy spotted, chinakeme

Broke ass biitch....u still have the nerves to threaten to break up, please break up fast and move on Abeg.....help his life and move on....mr eazi doesn't have two head....may God never bring a broke gf like u into my life o....#spits#

Adaumunocha:
Marrying a stingy man has it pros and cons.

kuku say ur bf is ur father no be only pro or cons

Hmmm...do not get married until you are grounded in your career . Whether he spends on you or not is not even the issue .

The issue is what do you want to accomplish in this life .

Spend on yourself not just with money but with wisdom ...take your time and Sacrifice . Go after your goals do your thing .


Nobody will kill you if you remain single .

Open your mind and be free from the shackles that society have placed on us .

RETIREDMUMU:
liabbbiiiiiilllliiittttttyyyyyy spotted, chinakeme

See this retiredmumu

I don't ve any bizness with stingy men. Wetin I want take them do...thank God i ve a source of income.

I pray a good job comes her way.

Hope your babe isn't suffering in your hand all in d name of love.

MhizzAJ:
Ahan...is that one a boyfriend

I hate stingy men
Forget about him and move on with your life

I hate broke gfs telling guys how to spend the money he sweated to make....Infact any guy that's dating a broke gal is useless and will be useless for life.

MhizzAJ:
See this retiredmumu

I don't ve any bizness with stingy men. Wetin I want take them do...thank God i ve a source of income.

I pray a good job comes her way.

Hope your babe isn't suffering in your hand all in d name of love.

see this one, this is how liability wifey created, is he your hubby or ur fada, can you be independent without, baby i want to do my hair, i want to buy cream, bqby baby buy me sawama, hey baby my monthly pad is almost finished.....

try to have life yall broke girl

RETIREDMUMU:
kuku say ur bf is ur father no be only pro or cons

He'll b my father, my friend, my lover... Go hug transformer if you no like am. You must b from d west cos na only una carry aka gum for head.

Adaumunocha:
He'll b my father, my friend, my lover... Go hug transformer if you no like am. You must b from d west cos na only una carry aka gum for head.

oh sorry i don't know u r biafran descendants dat is how una roll from una side. bye broke sweet lady


but before u go, i command the spirit of dependent, liability Otta ur life ijn, amen