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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by debola27(f): 4:31pm On Oct 19, 2017
obowunmi:


This is doom for disaster.


If you really care about someone, you will make time for them. What's the point of dating if you can't make time for each other ?
What's the point of constantly complaining to him if he's not going to change soon? Let her work on herself first, if the guy is really interested in her, it will be obvious then
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by ProEnergy: 4:32pm On Oct 19, 2017
the clingy ones usually dont have anything to offer aside clinginess the clingy ones usually dont have anything to offer aside clinginess
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by ProEnergy: 4:32pm On Oct 19, 2017
the clingy ones usually dont have anything to offer aside clinginess
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by Ombre(m): 4:38pm On Oct 19, 2017
[quote author=Marcelo290 post=61550400] Dude, you won't be able to sleep this night if I fire back at you empty headed mentally deranged home habilis devoid of the slightest atom of common sense, know who you pick your fights with, be warned dunce. [/quolte

Haaa what's happening here?�]
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by Nobody: 4:41pm On Oct 19, 2017
He is gradually losing interest in you, leave now before its too late.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by Nobody: 4:42pm On Oct 19, 2017
I don't really think its best to ask for advice on something like this from random strangers, who don't even know you, the type of person you are, or the type of person your boyfriend is. Reading it from the POV of a random person could make it look like your boyfriend is this evil manipulative lying bastard and in reality it may not be so, it may just be a misunderstanding. Try and ask some real life friends for their opinions. You might be suffocating him without giving him space to breathe, or he might actually not be treating you right. Ask your friends that know you better.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by lereinter(m): 4:43pm On Oct 19, 2017
try me now

Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by teabully(m): 4:45pm On Oct 19, 2017
Likely u bothh undergraduates, possibly he has numerous choices, guys could be funny, he has gotten wat he wanted in you, on to the next one.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by piagetskinner(m): 4:48pm On Oct 19, 2017
Boyooosa:

Well, I agree with you in the sense that any relationship can lead to good one. But what am trying to establish is that if that dp is hers, she looks so young to start passing through the trauma of a relationship with a 'play along' boyfriend. Her text reflects that she has a good, young and tender heart. Its not worth it investing her time on a lackadaisical fellow, assuming that in her mind that she loves someone. Finally, since it is compulsory in our society that a man and woman should come together which requires a pre-relationship, then, she needs to keep her mind off that boy's relationship and focus on other things that can add value to her... then, a good man will be of her choice out of many. My opinion bro!

now that u put it this way, I agree with you bro..peace

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by obowunmi(m): 4:59pm On Oct 19, 2017
debola27:

What's the point of constantly complaining to him if he's not going to change soon? Let her work on herself first, if the guy is really interested in her, it will be obvious then

Right. She cant force him to change. She has to find someone whose way of loving matches with hers.

if you don't speak or understand each others love language then you gotta move on.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by akinsmyk(m): 5:05pm On Oct 19, 2017
hayfay:
same thing happened to me and the guy in question did exactly the same thing,I had to walk out of d relationship and till date he didn't call me to ask anything . My dear d handwriting is clear MOVE ON.


Good advice this is but unfortunately you can't tell if this is exactly the same situation you were in back then. You have to be sure this guy is the type of your ex so you don't end up applying the right solution to something not wrong initially.

I suggest she finds out first what is taking his time. Of a truth, something is taking his time but don't you think it might be genuine and not what we all thinking?

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by CannyBrainy(m): 5:08pm On Oct 19, 2017
kamalese:
kissit's easy marvella flirt with the guy you meet online and make him jealous that way he gives you his attention and you both can talk things out
Stupidest opinion of all time. Do that and give him a reason to dump your sorry ass. Peace

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by akinsmyk(m): 5:08pm On Oct 19, 2017
AnonyNymous:
I don't really think its best to ask for advice on something like this from random strangers, who don't even know you, the type of person you are, or the type of person your boyfriend is. Reading it from the POV of a random person could make it look like your boyfriend is this evil manipulative lying bastard and in reality it may not be so, it may just be a misunderstanding. Try and ask some real life friends for their opinions. You might be suffocating him without giving him space to breathe, or he might actually not be treating you right. Ask your friends that know you better.

God bless you. Lots of people are judging already without understanding the boyfriend or knowing the kind of person he is. They are all advising her based on their past experience and they concluded all guys exhibiting this is the same with their ex. It is well
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by Gbanj11: 5:12pm On Oct 19, 2017
Lot's of questions...how many times do you meet, who typically initiates a conversation, what have you done for him lately
Wouldn't suggest trying to make him jealous to win back his attentions, the effects would be temporary at best and might bring up more than you bargained for.
Relationships are only had if you can't adapt to changes...so first Adapt
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by deewhydoski(m): 5:12pm On Oct 19, 2017
Seriously I like the life am living now, No relationship wahala, Nothing like u haven't call or text me since morning. I just focus my mind one thing....At times it's good to be single...

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by kennykendo(m): 5:16pm On Oct 19, 2017
Ginaz:
Most boys don't like clingy, try to work on that your character and watch them cling to you. You are trying to suffocate the relationship with your unnecessary demands.

The most important thing is that he loves and cares for you. He must not call 24/7 to show it.

Who text messages help?

not all of us guys act like that...I for one love to be in touch 24/7 because I value communication even if you leave two doors away from me...

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by kennykendo(m): 5:23pm On Oct 19, 2017
QueenMarvella:
My Boyfriend Is Just Getting More Annoying These Days. He Won't Call nor text for days, always claiming to be busy .
But anytime we see, he will turn to the sweetest guy on earth and I will feel like things should stay that way forever. But once we say bye to each other, it's the same story until when we see again.

It's not a long Distance Relationship as u guys may think but I don't know whats' stopping him from showing care through calls and texts too. He doesn't pick my calls too most times and that's what I hate most.

I like clingy, I like double texts, phone calls, Good morning and Good night texts.

And now, am getting tired of the relationship.

Dunno what to do,any advice ,Pls.

I don't want to say this but, I kind of know how you feel and what you feel because I found myself in such confusing state...

I for one love to talk to anyone I'm dating everyday via calls or if I'm out of airtime sms or chats..

try and talk to him and tell him how you feel...okay if he continues acting like its nothing not once not twice, seat down and dig up how you guys met...if he used to call, then check the period he started the new character and see what happened then, if you did something or something about you was off, then when you check and he tells you nothing is wrong and you actually searched yourself and find out nothing is wrong.....

my dear give him space, there are men out there who will love to talk to you 24/7...

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by ibawon(m): 5:24pm On Oct 19, 2017
QueenMarvella:
My Boyfriend Is Just Getting More Annoying These Days. He Won't Call nor text for days, always claiming to be busy .
But anytime we see, he will turn to the sweetest guy on earth and I will feel like things should stay that way forever. But once we say bye to each other, it's the same story until when we see again.

It's not a long Distance Relationship as u guys may think but I don't know whats' stopping him from showing care through calls and texts too. He doesn't pick my calls too most times and that's what I hate most.

I like clingy, I like double texts, phone calls, Good morning and Good night texts.

And now, am getting tired of the relationship.

Dunno what to do,any advice ,Pls.
Almost the Same thing with my girl too,
Love na Bastard cheesy
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by 46arcadez(m): 5:53pm On Oct 19, 2017
QueenMarvella:
My Boyfriend Is Just Getting More Annoying These Days. He Won't Call nor text for days, always claiming to be busy .
But anytime we see, he will turn to the sweetest guy on earth and I will feel like things should stay that way forever. But once we say bye to each other, it's the same story until when we see again.

It's not a long Distance Relationship as u guys may think but I don't know whats' stopping him from showing care through calls and texts too. He doesn't pick my calls too most times and that's what I hate most.

I like clingy, I like double texts, phone calls, Good morning and Good night texts.

And now, am getting tired of the relationship.

Dunno what to do,any advice ,Pls.
This forum is not really a nice place to seek for advice, but I guess he is really busy.
Just like myself my gf is having a hard time with me cuz my job is really taking my time. I had to check your profile to know if she is the one but bet me he still loves you much.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by Memyselfu2009(m): 5:57pm On Oct 19, 2017
Am available
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by Altrarecords(m): 5:59pm On Oct 19, 2017
QueenMarvella:
My Boyfriend Is Just Getting More Annoying These Days. He Won't Call nor text for days, always claiming to be busy .
But anytime we see, he will turn to the sweetest guy on earth and I will feel like things should stay that way forever. But once we say bye to each other, it's the same story until when we see again.

It's not a long Distance Relationship as u guys may think but I don't know whats' stopping him from showing care through calls and texts too. He doesn't pick my calls too most times and that's what I hate most.

I like clingy, I like double texts, phone calls, Good morning and Good night texts.

And now, am getting tired of the relationship.

Dunno what to do,any advice ,Pls.

Is he Kamal?
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by QueenMarvella(f): 6:06pm On Oct 19, 2017
Altrarecords:


Is he Kamal?


Yes
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by Beey(f): 6:11pm On Oct 19, 2017
QueenMarvella:
My Boyfriend Is Just Getting More Annoying These Days. He Won't Call nor text for days, always claiming to be busy .
But anytime we see, he will turn to the sweetest guy on earth and I will feel like things should stay that way forever. But once we say bye to each other, it's the same story until when we see again.

It's not a long Distance Relationship as u guys may think but I don't know whats' stopping him from showing care through calls and texts too. He doesn't pick my calls too most times and that's what I hate most.

I like clingy, I like double texts, phone calls, Good morning and Good night texts.

And now, am getting tired of the relationship.

Dunno what to do,any advice ,Pls.
Ditch his arse.Dude ain't into you no more.Don't wait for no prophet to tell you that.Put on your big girl pants & move on.Because truth is that if he's not talking to you for days in a row, he had someone else who's keeping him busy.When a man loves you'll know.You won't have to chase him with Call's & texts.There'll be no doubt in your mind.It won't feel like work, things will just flow.So let him be and move on with your life.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by Nobody: 6:22pm On Oct 19, 2017
thepussyhunter:
I've gat just one question to ask

do you have boobz? undecided

if you do, use it wisely
I missed you and your funny comments lol
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by gentleedu(m): 7:02pm On Oct 19, 2017
Amberon11:
Did you get the part where she said he doesn't pick her calls?
have you considered that he might be busy at the time?
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by Nobody: 7:03pm On Oct 19, 2017
You are he's side piece and he only beckons on you when he's Hot,you should move on.start by sending me a PM.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by QueenMarvella(f): 7:04pm On Oct 19, 2017
justscorchone:
You are he's side piece and he only beckons on you when he's Hot,you should move on.start by sending me a PM.

Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by swakils(m): 7:07pm On Oct 19, 2017
free the guy
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by drphantom: 7:36pm On Oct 19, 2017
QueenMarvella:
My Boyfriend Is Just Getting More Annoying These Days. He Won't Call nor text for days, always claiming to be busy .
But anytime we see, he will turn to the sweetest guy on earth and I will feel like things should stay that way forever. But once we say bye to each other, it's the same story until when we see again.

It's not a long Distance Relationship as u guys may think but I don't know whats' stopping him from showing care through calls and texts too. He doesn't pick my calls too most times and that's what I hate most.

I like clingy, I like double texts, phone calls, Good morning and Good night texts.

And now, am getting tired of the relationship.
Dunno what to do,any advice ,Pls.

People don’t express care and love the same way.

I recommend the book, “the five love languages”

Not everyone experesses care through calls text and sms.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by Pat081: 7:40pm On Oct 19, 2017
Gals of dis days only God will save guys , if he calls too much u will still cum here dat ur boyfriend is calling you too much dat he does nt face his work d guy dnt call u re still here again wot can guys do to make sure that u re happy

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by Nobody: 7:46pm On Oct 19, 2017
maysimsimple:

My niccur..that thing is da bomb..


Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by Saintmary(f): 7:52pm On Oct 19, 2017
QueenMarvella:
My Boyfriend Is Just Getting More Annoying These Days. He Won't Call nor text for days, always claiming to be busy .
But anytime we see, he will turn to the sweetest guy on earth and I will feel like things should stay that way forever. But once we say bye to each other, it's the same story until when we see again.

It's not a long Distance Relationship as u guys may think but I don't know whats' stopping him from showing care through calls and texts too. He doesn't pick my calls too most times and that's what I hate most.

I like clingy, I like double texts, phone calls, Good morning and Good night texts.

And now, am getting tired of the relationship.

Dunno what to do,any advice ,Pls.
are you sure he's not married?
have you done any background checks?

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