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MrBrownJay1:
here we go again with this BS.... what comfort are you even on about?!?! you are making it seem like you can only be comfortable when you have a good job?! what king of weak man is this?! you should be comfortable whether poor or rich, employed or unemployed. i feel sorry for the babe who will settle for a man whose state of mind is solely based on his financial status. NO wonder so many are failing in life.

EWAagoyin:
Life is not about your principles all the time


I know of couples dating as far back as since their secondary school days...they schooled,struggle,hustle and suffered together and they still made it.

Not every woman is after your money or success...some already have that all they need is love... Some relationship are even the door to success of some men sef.

jaychubi:
Once a man has a steady source of income and has rented his own apartment n can pay bills then he is qualified for serious relationship.

What do u mean by being comfortable dts a relative word nt everyone will start out having everything

Modelqwen:






That it worked for u does'nt mean it will
work for others. Most men become more serious
& work more harder and smarter because of their
relationship... Moreover it all depends on ur partner, if ur partner encourages, supports & makes some sacrifices in the relationship for
the betterment of the union, i don't see y one
should leave such relationship... But if
otherwise, i agree with u.

Votukpa:
Nigga please...

You obviously don't understand the female species. The second sex. U don't know them. Your ignorance might be your undoing.

Solomon said in Ecclesiastes... I find it MORE BITTER than death, a Woman who's heart is a trap...

Listen son, let me school u.

A typical woman don't GIVE a shit about you. YOU the man. She might like how ur dick feels inside of her, she might like your abilities to hustle, roll dough and bring bread, she might like how u make her feel emotionally.... But she cares not for you bro.

Meditate on this shiit.

Women are by default, HYPERGAMOUS. Learn this word. Hypergamy is the nature of Woman. It means women, like chimps, always want to swing from the strongest branch, they want the best man possible for themselves. Women date up, not down. Women marry up not down. If a woman is with a struggling dude, she's seen a king in the making. Women are very good at evaluating a mans prospects. If a woman is dating a man and another higher value man comes into the picture, guess what she's naturally inclined to do...yes...u got it. That's a woman. U mad? No need to be. She can't help it.
The woman will simply begin to act funny. Lol. You've lost her.

If a King marries a commoner, she becomes a queen. She's upgraded. If a queen marries a commoner he remains a commoner. There is no king of England. He is styled 'Duke' of Edinburgh. Sorry Philip. If his grandson becomes King, the wife will become Queen. Women want to always date or marry up.

Meditate on this shiit.

If a woman thinks you are better than her husband in every way. If she's married, she might not necessarily divorce her husband, but she will be DTF [down to Bleep] if u put the moves on her while no one is looking. Sneaky biitches they are. You don't even have to have more money than her husband. Dress better, look, better, be more socially intelligent, more funny etc. She will bang. This is a woman. Thank God for societal rules, church, etc, else women will cheating everywhere. Our forefathers knew how female hypergamy could ruin society, so they set up rules to rule over women and ruthlessly oppress and dominate them. Things have changed today. I spare you. Just observe and see. If married women are DTF, what do u think single biitches can do.

Women CANNOT love.

Write that on your bathroom mirror.

They cannot love. God didn't make them to be capable of love. Only you, oh man, has that ability. God made you like that. that's why God requires men to love (cause he enabled men to do it) their wives and for women to honour their husbands. Women are not commanded by God to love because they are incapable of it. He made it like that.

What is love??

When a bitch tells , I love you, what she's saying is I love the feelings inside of me that you are causing or I love how u make me feel. That's it. You have utilitarian value to her. Nothing more. It is what you can do for her. Not who you are.

A man, you, is capable of love.

What is love?

Love is action, forgiveness, sacrifice, patience, gentleness. A man will put up with a woman's shit for years, a man will stay with a woman's ugly ass for years, a man will share his LIFE and all his shiit with a woman until death, a man will die for his kids and his wife, he will sell his soul just to please his wife and family. A women will please herself period.

Thank God for men.

Men, because of love have come up with the most genius inventions, have go to war to DIE protecting their women and kids. Men have advanced the course of civilization and history. Men will die just please someone else.

Carefully read the story of Adam and Eve and you will understand my narrative.

Adam didn't want to be alone, so he 'took the fruit' too. He knew of the consequences of his action but he went down with the biitch Eve, who not only disobeyed God and rebelled against her husband but also fuccked the serpent and his his child. Adam was a stupid muthaafuccka.

Meditate on this shiit.

Satan has now made his home in society just like the garden of eden. Women are now free to do as they please. They have been liberated and men are still doing the same shit Adam did. Men are still watching like mumus. Society and the world as we know it is now on the verge of collapse.

Men wise up.

Adam's story is an example for you... NOT TO DO AS HE DID. Be more like David in his youth. Just cared about serving the lord and developing his skills. He could kill a lion, he could sling rocks like a badass and he could control sheep (hard to do). Why do u think God chose him over his brothers.

When he became King, he was neck deep in pusssy.

Meditate on this shiit.

Focus on yourselves and develop , grow and be valuable.

elmisti:
so ur salary is ur visa to a serious relationship

dadaic:
Since you wrote this, please, how much is much for the sustainability of you and the wanna-be?

Votukpa:
Nigga please...

You obviously don't understand the female species. The second sex. U don't know them. Your ignorance might be your undoing.

Solomon said in Ecclesiastes... I find it MORE BITTER than death, a Woman who's heart is a trap...

Listen son, let me school u.

A typical woman don't GIVE a shit about you. YOU the man. She might like how ur dick feels inside of her, she might like your abilities to hustle, roll dough and bring bread, she might like how u make her feel emotionally.... But she cares not for you bro.

Meditate on this shiit.

Women are by default, HYPERGAMOUS. Learn this word. Hypergamy is the nature of Woman. It means women, like chimps, always want to swing from the strongest branch, they want the best man possible for themselves. Women date up, not down. Women marry up not down. If a woman is with a struggling dude, she's seen a king in the making. Women are very good at evaluating a mans prospects. If a woman is dating a man and another higher value man comes into the picture, guess what she's naturally inclined to do...yes...u got it. That's a woman. U mad? No need to be. She can't help it.
The woman will simply begin to act funny. Lol. You've lost her.

If a King marries a commoner, she becomes a queen. She's upgraded. If a queen marries a commoner he remains a commoner. There is no king of England. He is styled 'Duke' of Edinburgh. Sorry Philip. If his grandson becomes King, the wife will become Queen. Women want to always date or marry up.

Meditate on this shiit.

If a woman thinks you are better than her husband in every way. If she's married, she might not necessarily divorce her husband, but she will be DTF [down to Bleep] if u put the moves on her while no one is looking. Sneaky biitches they are. You don't even have to have more money than her husband. Dress better, look, better, be more socially intelligent, more funny etc. She will bang. This is a woman. Thank God for societal rules, church, etc, else women will cheating everywhere. Our forefathers knew how female hypergamy could ruin society, so they set up rules to rule over women and ruthlessly oppress and dominate them. Things have changed today. I spare you. Just observe and see. If married women are DTF, what do u think single biitches can do.

Women CANNOT love.

Write that on your bathroom mirror.

They cannot love. God didn't make them to be capable of love. Only you, oh man, has that ability. God made you like that. that's why God requires men to love (cause he enabled men to do it) their wives and for women to honour their husbands. Women are not commanded by God to love because they are incapable of it. He made it like that.

What is love??

When a bitch tells , I love you, what she's saying is I love the feelings inside of me that you are causing or I love how u make me feel. That's it. You have utilitarian value to her. Nothing more. It is what you can do for her. Not who you are.

A man, you, is capable of love.

What is love?

Love is action, forgiveness, sacrifice, patience, gentleness. A man will put up with a woman's shit for years, a man will stay with a woman's ugly ass for years, a man will share his LIFE and all his shiit with a woman until death, a man will die for his kids and his wife, he will sell his soul just to please his wife and family. A women will please herself period.

Thank God for men.

Men, because of love have come up with the most genius inventions, have go to war to DIE protecting their women and kids. Men have advanced the course of civilization and history. Men will die just please someone else.

Carefully read the story of Adam and Eve and you will understand my narrative.

Adam didn't want to be alone, so he 'took the fruit' too. He knew of the consequences of his action but he went down with the biitch Eve, who not only disobeyed God and rebelled against her husband but also fuccked the serpent and his his child. Adam was a stupid muthaafuccka.

Meditate on this shiit.

Satan has now made his home in society just like the garden of eden. Women are now free to do as they please. They have been liberated and men are still doing the same shit Adam did. Men are still watching like mumus. Society and the world as we know it is now on the verge of collapse.

Men wise up.

Adam's story is an example for you... NOT TO DO AS HE DID. Be more like David in his youth. Just cared about serving the lord and developing his skills. He could kill a lion, he could sling rocks like a badass and he could control sheep (hard to do). Why do u think God chose him over his brothers.

When he became King, he was neck deep in pusssy.

Meditate on this shiit.

Focus on yourselves and develop , grow and be valuable.

thefirst:
I have read about guys who fall in love and hold on to serious relationships when they are not comfortable because they don't have good jobs, and I think this is really bad.

If a girl stays with you when you are struggling, you feel relaxed and won't strive to be better than you are. I never had a serious relationship when I was struggling. Now that I'm fine, I'm looking for a serious relationship and I know I will find soon.
When I was struggling, I did not even think of having any serious relationship as I was only preoccupied with making it in life.

Guys, work first on becoming comfortable before having a serious relationship. A serious relationship is not a Hollywood hoax.

1nigeriamyfoot:
I laughed at u, galz go suck dry! na small pikin mentality dey worry u! gal go collect ur money go take am feed & cloth another guy wey dey gve dem nice fvck

d33types:
The point in red invalidated all your posts

PrecisionFx:
So u mean guys should just be fucckking girls upandan as fucklicants over the years till they become employed...

thefirst:
I see bitterness in this comment.

MrBrownJay1:
you should have instead seen empowerment... nobody needs a good job to be comfortable about themselves. a job doesnt make your CHARACTER, a job doesnt change who you are as a person, a job is just that (good or bad btw). its low self esteem people that will be miserable in their lives, and think that money will make them suddenly be fantastic human beings. if you are not comfortable to be YOU (and date a gal) while without a job, then chances are this is exactly who you are gonna be when you do get a job.

Youngzedd:
This my guy doesn't know what He's into.

Na now your problem begins, get ready to date many slay mamas

You may end up with one village girl last last after too many frustrations.

Not my prayer for you but this your style, no be am at all.

menwongo:
Which kind of analog write up be this... How person go manage gonji

tosyne2much:
You can only know those who truly love you when things are not going well for you. When your situation turn around, evil people will surround you under the guise of friends. Be wise!

OP, that you're earning reasonably well does not mean you will find a good woman. It does not put you in position to tell who is eligible to date.

The notion of working hard to impress a woman is a warp mentality

thefirst:
I have read about guys who fall in love and hold on to serious relationships when they are not comfortable because they don't have good jobs, and I think this is really bad.

If a girl stays with you when you are struggling, you feel relaxed and won't strive to be better than you are. I never had a serious relationship when I was struggling. Now that I'm fine, I'm looking for a serious relationship and I know I will find soon.
When I was struggling, I did not even think of having any serious relationship as I was only preoccupied with making it in life.

Guys, work first on becoming comfortable before having a serious relationship. A serious relationship is not a Hollywood hoax.

Votukpa:
Nigga please...

You obviously don't understand the female species. The second sex. U don't know them. Your ignorance might be your undoing.

Solomon said in Ecclesiastes... I find it MORE BITTER than death, a Woman who's heart is a trap...

Listen son, let me school u.

A typical woman don't GIVE a shit about you. YOU the man. She might like how ur dick feels inside of her, she might like your abilities to hustle, roll dough and bring bread, she might like how u make her feel emotionally.... But she cares not for you bro.

Meditate on this shiit.

Women are by default, HYPERGAMOUS. Learn this word. Hypergamy is the nature of Woman. It means women, like chimps, always want to swing from the strongest branch, they want the best man possible for themselves. Women date up, not down. Women marry up not down. If a woman is with a struggling dude, she's seen a king in the making. Women are very good at evaluating a mans prospects. If a woman is dating a man and another higher value man comes into the picture, guess what she's naturally inclined to do...yes...u got it. That's a woman. U mad? No need to be. She can't help it.
The woman will simply begin to act funny. Lol. You've lost her.

If a King marries a commoner, she becomes a queen. She's upgraded. If a queen marries a commoner he remains a commoner. There is no king of England. He is styled 'Duke' of Edinburgh. Sorry Philip. If his grandson becomes King, the wife will become Queen. Women want to always date or marry up.

Meditate on this shiit.

If a woman thinks you are better than her husband in every way. If she's married, she might not necessarily divorce her husband, but she will be DTF [down to Bleep] if u put the moves on her while no one is looking. Sneaky biitches they are. You don't even have to have more money than her husband. Dress better, look, better, be more socially intelligent, more funny etc. She will bang. This is a woman. Thank God for societal rules, church, etc, else women will cheating everywhere. Our forefathers knew how female hypergamy could ruin society, so they set up rules to rule over women and ruthlessly oppress and dominate them. Things have changed today. I spare you. Just observe and see. If married women are DTF, what do u think single biitches can do.

Women CANNOT love.

Write that on your bathroom mirror.

They cannot love. God didn't make them to be capable of love. Only you, oh man, has that ability. God made you like that. that's why God requires men to love (cause he enabled men to do it) their wives and for women to honour their husbands. Women are not commanded by God to love because they are incapable of it. He made it like that.

What is love??

When a bitch tells , I love you, what she's saying is I love the feelings inside of me that you are causing or I love how u make me feel. That's it. You have utilitarian value to her. Nothing more. It is what you can do for her. Not who you are.

A man, you, is capable of love.

What is love?

Love is action, forgiveness, sacrifice, patience, gentleness. A man will put up with a woman's shit for years, a man will stay with a woman's ugly ass for years, a man will share his LIFE and all his shiit with a woman until death, a man will die for his kids and his wife, he will sell his soul just to please his wife and family. A women will please herself period.

Thank God for men.

Men, because of love have come up with the most genius inventions, have go to war to DIE protecting their women and kids. Men have advanced the course of civilization and history. Men will die just please someone else.

Carefully read the story of Adam and Eve and you will understand my narrative.

Adam didn't want to be alone, so he 'took the fruit' too. He knew of the consequences of his action but he went down with the biitch Eve, who not only disobeyed God and rebelled against her husband but also fuccked the serpent and his his child. Adam was a stupid muthaafuccka.

Meditate on this shiit.

Satan has now made his home in society just like the garden of eden. Women are now free to do as they please. They have been liberated and men are still doing the same shit Adam did. Men are still watching like mumus. Society and the world as we know it is now on the verge of collapse.

Men wise up.

Adam's story is an example for you... NOT TO DO AS HE DID. Be more like David in his youth. Just cared about serving the lord and developing his skills. He could kill a lion, he could sling rocks like a badass and he could control sheep (hard to do). Why do u think God chose him over his brothers.

When he became King, he was neck deep in pusssy.

Meditate on this shiit.

Focus on yourselves and develop , grow and be valuable.

funmisticqueen:
you do deserved to be loved by your mother, not another man's daughter cos you want somebody to share your suffering all in the name of 'prospect'. Smart ladies dont gamble abeg