frankkydee:








Oga bring you hand,will you marry me?

Lawlahdey:
You are smart.

trustyshoess:
If I have to go by even 1 of these rules, I'd rather remain unmarried. Marriage is not prison abeg.

Lawlahdey:
Awww...yes baeby.

Joy1706:

Thrown out ke. In this era that women pay/contribute to house rent.

Joy1706:

Aunty do what works for you abeg. It worked for you, good and fine. There are a thousand women suffering out there in the name of submission. We must not be like you

QueenSekxy:
mtchew..people that cant even afford to woo a girl outside NL gives rules about how women should live their life. ...go and sleep abeg

Lawlahdey:
OP, trust me. You are absolutely right. But I will only do that for a responsible husband.

For those who didn't see sense in what the OP posted, the shame is on you.

frankkydee:







Ok,lets start arranging for the introduction

tosyne2much:
This is true to some extent just that there are few exceptions to some of the points raised.


But the question is, where you wan find woman wey go get these traits?

Joy1706:

I know a hundred women who adhered to these rules yet they are treated than servants in their home. So I will pass.
And just because the author said she had a successful marriage does not mean it's actually true. Abi did you live with her?

jezuzboi:

You'll sure get what you're asking for

Lawlahdey:
What date should we pick?

frankkydee:









December 23 of this year is ok by me but is it ok by you?

Lawlahdey:
That's early oohhh

trustyshoess:

Makes no difference to me. My life is not dependent on marriage so if it never happens, I'll be perfectly content. God forbid that I'll ever be dependent on a man or any other human for that matter

jezuzboi:

If any woman abides by these rules and got ill-treated, look at the men they married. If you make a resolve to have a good home (even without intending to abide by any of these rules), you will sure be careful in picking a man in order not to end up with a freak.

Why then shouldn't you be more careful in your choice of a life partner when intending to live by these rules? The truth will always be that THE POWER OF A GOOD WIFE IS IN HER WEAKNESS. Some men take advantage of women (both the weak ones and the self-acclaimed COMMANDOS).

And some men get taken advantage of by women, am I wrong? So it's not that they kept the rules and suffered for it. They simply kept the rules with an immature man. Locate a man who intends to live peaceably and keep these rules, and you'll share this same testimony before you die.

But be a feminist and marry MIKE TYSON, I swear, we will be hearing your rants on the media like TONTO DIKE and that other MERCY whatever...

In any case, this rules are for women who intend to be GOOD WIVES. So I can understand where all these arguments are coming from.

Joy1706:

Unfortunately for you we will not have more ladies like her. #ourmumudondo

jezuzboi:

My brother, even if I can't find a woman with these traits, let her at least be willing to cultivate these traits. The main thing is the WILLINGNESS.

tycoon3:

So u aren't like her? Then you are nt virtues lady

Humanistme:


virtue means different things to different people. I say the woman in this write up is not virtues but simply a mindless weak robot at the mercy of her husband's whim.

Humanistme:


are you a good man?

A mature man will never demand too much and this is too much.

Humanistme:


virtue means different things to different people. I say the woman in this write up is not virtues but simply a mindless weak robot at the mercy of her husband's whim.

jezuzboi:

But she succeeded in RULING HER HOME AND HUSBAND.

Whatever your idea of A VIRTUOUS WOMAN is, can that woman succeed in marriage Or will she only succeed in waging wars against her husband all in the name of #OurMumuDonDo

By the way, who even talked about MUMU here You see how you are calling yourself names by yourself After you'll say it's a man that called you so.

jezuzboi:

But she succeeded in RULING HER HOME AND HUSBAND.

Whatever your idea of A VIRTUOUS WOMAN is, can that woman succeed in marriage Or will she only succeed in waging wars against her husband all in the name of #OurMumuDonDo

By the way, who even talked about MUMU here You see how you are calling yourself names by yourself After you'll say it's a man that called you so.

frankkydee:







Really, so when do you think will be ok?

Humanistme:


My idea of a virtuous woman can succeed in a marriage.

jezuzboi:


you asked me what a mature man would do so here we go

1. The husband is always right.

5. Anytime the wife thinks she is right on a matter, she should refer herself to Article number 1.

8. When the husband is shouting, the wife keeps quiet and that is the time to apologize for whatever has upset him. (NOTE: Apologizing to him after you have shouted back and insulted him DOES NOT WORK!) .

9. The wife should always seek the husband's permission before making any decision except where he has previously granted you the permission on that particular issue.

10. A wife should always excuse the husband to the children if he comes home late.

11. Even on a personal matter a wife waits for her husband with her ideas but must take those of her husband when he is back home.

12. The wife must never use work in the day as an excuse to deny him at night. Let him be the one to say, "Oh, you must be tired after all the stress of the day!" It is best that way.

13. The wife never goes to sit down in her husband's office unless in an urgent case or an emergency. A good husband too will not come and sit in your office.

14. A good wife does not embark on any kind of expenses without consulting the husband even if it is your own money. A good husband too will not control your money.

15. The best way to settle misunderstandings is in the bedroom. If a misunderstanding lingers and he does not make a move in bed, a good wife should make the move.

16. The wife never refuses to prepare his meals, even if he is refusing to eat due to annoyance. When he has refused 2 meals, prepare his favorite, with tempting treats.

17. The wife has no orders to give to her husband, but she receives orders from him.

18. The wife must always respect the husband. Next to freedom of access to his wife's body, this is a man's most important concern.

19. The wife has to control her jealousy and never show it in public.

20. The good wife pays visits to her parents as well as to her in-laws only with the permission of the husband. And under normal circumstances, accompanied by the husband.

21. A good wife never entertains guests in her home without the husband's knowledge and consent. Not even your own relations.

22. NEVER ENTERTAIN ANY MALE GUEST WITHOUT HIS KNOWLEDGE. Not even his own blood brother He may not talk or complain about some, but be sure he has counted it against you.

23. The wife never goes out anywhere without permission from her husband.

NB: Dear woman, know that THE POWER OF A GOOD WIFE IS IN HER WEAKNESS. Please, as stupid as this may sound to you, use it and watch your husband become your lover once again. This was Mrs. Martha de Purenez’s secret recipe for a happy marriage and full control of her home.

She did all the above and was the one running the home; NOT HER HUSBAND!!! His love and respect for her were second to none!!! If you wish to marry well and have all that control over your home, you might want to consider taking this to heart. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WOMAN WHO IS WISE!!!

Lawlahdey:
January should be.

frankkydee:







Ok agreed. Let's create a date for ourselves. Like we meeting in an exotic place. What do you think about that?