handsam:


I never said you were safia in fact I vehemently disagreed. Also, I am certain of my findings.

Lol, okay. If you say so.
My own is, I've been there when you accuse someone wrongly of being an alternate I know nothing of. It's so not cool the evidence has to be glaring before you can conclude on it. Like I said, if you say so.

sirfee:
;DWise words,I'm really impressed.

Is it right that ladies in 20s are preparing for life as a divorcee even before marriage and they have enshrined principles in their feminist constitution that serves as a guide? I wonder why people are so flawed mentally. They look, but can't see, think but can't discern.

When they say they want to be independent wives, it's to save money in the event of a divorce. Rather, than be proactive in settling up structures towards enjoying and pursuing an enjoyable marriage, they're planning on divorce, backed up by their feminist dogmas.

Moreso, naked they can't see their unclothedness, all they proclaim and declare is their vain shallow wittiness. So tell me, why show them more love and support? Should one not have a template for his/her personal life and then construct based on the template ( Let's not even quote norms, traditions, religion, culture ), they look at Tiwa Salvage, Tonto Dikeh, and the rest and say they will also end up divorced, and begin to cook up theorems for their own life. I don't use negative words, today would have been a nice day to use em.

Their mental posturing is based on projections made on their mind by viewing negative scenarios, can good come out from bad? Can what is crooked be praised? Why do people look at celeb marriages to create blueprints for their own marriages, and cook up terms to solidify their cynic notions? Please tell me, are all these not the underlying issues with most people that call themselves feminists?

trustyshoess:
I know you're here for my head but hear me out first. So in the space on an hour, I have come across two threads relating to feminism. This is not a counter or anything as everyone is entitled to their own opinion. However I can't help but put my 2 cents in.
I seriously believe that feminism is highly misunderstood

First things first, let's define feminism; it is the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. Notice it doesn't say feminism is a drive towards matriarchy? Well that's simple, it's not.

There are many different types of feminism but I won't be discussing all of them as that will take too much time so I urge you to use good old Google!
So I think that the kind of feminism that people think of when they hear Feminism is Radical Feminism-: Radical feminism is a movement that believes sexism is so deeply rooted in society that the only cure is to eliminate the concept of gender completely or for females to dominate.

Now that's not the kind of feminism I'm talking about. Another type of Feminism is Liberal Feminism. Liberal feminists strive towards gender equality in all areas of life. Gender equality includes men too!

So why am I a feminist? Or why do I believe in gender equality? No, it's not because I believe that men and women are equal or because I'm against submissiveness or because I want female world domination (although that would be pretty cool)
I believe in gender equality for the same reason I believe in racial equality, tribal equality and anything that has to do with fairness in general.

Of course men and women are not equal, physicality being the main difference but they're both humans and both deserve to be treated equally as a result.

Believe me there's soo much more to say, but I don't want to make this too long. Feel free to ask questions, let's see if I can get you to see why feminism isn't all that bad

Give Femism a chance, it's not as bad as people make it out to be. We all should be feminists, we all should be striving towards equality

1. How do you reconcile these two bolded statements?
2. Is difference in strength really the main differentiator? Aren't reproductive functions the major differentiator?
3. You have implied a premise that you believe all of humanity to be equal. Where is the evidence that supports this assertion?

iamJ:
so quick to insults


Men not today, you're the past

I love the way you now keep mute on some issues...

I always want you to be humble!!

Yo Grab?

You no longer wana say I am her?

Dong shit!!

You people are still here?

DrinkLimca:
I don't know what that guy said..
what i am more concern about is the bolded part..
Haba how can you be asking what is so special in having a dick..
Bro everything is so special in having a dick...
Don't compare humans to animals...
Without a dick, nairaland would never have existed...

Without a dick, nairaland would never have existed? What do you mean by that? Are you talking about the fact that sèun happened as a result of REPRODUCTION which involves sexx, and therefore the penisss?

Your sexism made you forget that the vagìna was also involved? If the dick is special, the pussy is as well. Finito.

But if that's not what you meant, then the magic mushroom that's making you high must be even stronger than I thought.

Jupxter:


Thank you, i'm glad you agree with me D-Law !

No more love for these confused species

I agreed with you partially but it is a pleasure...

Ginaz:



Hey hey and hey!!! I'm not sofiaa. I use God beg una. Don't complicate me in things I know nothing about.

It's even obvious.

Mindfulness:

No, it is not. You have to love yourself to have the self-esteem and self-confidence they had. Up till this day we admire Mandela's demeanor and the way he carried himself, the way he walked and talked. I am sure he loved himself and as a consequence loved his people. If he hated himself, white people would have made him believe that he was inferior but he knew this wasn't right and he knew it so strongly because he loved himself.

simply put, if Mandela loved himself he wouldn't have done all what he did. He'd have relaxed and watch his fellows murdered.

Never forget, only a man who love his people will sit in jail for 27 years. You and I know a selfish person will never do that.

sirfee:
I agreed with you partially but it is a pleasure...

You can't agree with me partially, it's all the way. These folks are confused, selfish,cocky,arrogant, rude and undefined.

Read up all i said and think back on every feminist you have sen and please tell me i'm wrong. Go to their offices, you see the sadness,emotionally depressed, no man. Nothing, shallow empty shafts, empty beer cans.

AHCB:
What does 'worth' have to do with 'love'?.

Frankly miss, you're confuse. I believe living in a society where men and women are allowed to marry their dogs have actually made your thinking faculty skewed.

Self actualization really doesn't come close to the garbage you typed up there. I believe if Maslow had met you and read what you wrote, he'd have suppressed a grin just to save you the joy of embarrassing yourself.

Sense of self, autonomy and will, bloody good. I bet Abraham Maslow had all of this when he propounded his hierarchy of needs.

Maslow has been successfully critiqued. Next!

Living in a society where free thought isnt limited and progressive thinking encouraged speaks for itself. It's development compared to..

iamJ:
mr man, its cutejude
So u come here

Baddest nigga,been a while...happy new month.

Safiaa:
But you keep on quoting me, just leave it yeah lool? I've got nothing against you, after all you quoted me first when i was clearly joking. I don't understand ohhhh

Not cool... I thought you got my back mehn...

I know things went wrong, but it was bullshit coming to sing on a thread that has done nothing.

She just wanted to troll with sensitive issues, and it was going Down well with me.

Oya no vex... How you doing?

Ginaz:



Hey hey and hey!!! I'm not sofiaa. I use God beg una. Don't complicate me in things I know nothing about.

Who is sofiaa? Nobody knows who that is love.

IamiKayJayCee:
Without a dick, nairaland would never have existed? What do you mean by that? Are you talking about the fact that sèun happened as a result of REPRODUCTION which involves sexx, and therefore the penisss?

Your sexism made you forget that the vagìna was also involved? If the dick is special, the pussy is as well. Finito.

But if that's not what you meant, then the magic mushroom that's making you high must be even stronger than I thought.

Wait oooo. You're arguing with samurai? Don't sweat it biko.

BiafranBushBoy:


I love the way you now keep mute on some issues...

I always want you to be humble!!

Yo Grab?

You no longer wana say I am her?

Dong shit!!

there was a time that it was fun

Now its boring, you're not worth it

Since i saw those beach pix, i lost interest in ur mata


There is no her, its ur alternate, all her threads are promoting ur blog, guy rest with the drama


get lost

makydebbie:

You're not making sense here, if I'm an orphan nko? I should hate myself. Do you its self love that drive people to greatness? Telling me I shouldn't love myself because I've got parents who will do it for me sounds well to you?

Are you an orphan?

Not to this extent, this shouldn't even be an argument. It's disappointing.

disappointing?

There comes a time in the life of a man when he knows it is not all about him anymore..

You're still young, so I don't expect you to understand.

BiafranBushBoy:


Lol... He showed you nothing...

Why do you wana take advantage of an ugly situation?

You saw how I clearly avoided it,...

Yet you wanted to bring it back.

Not cool girl... Not cool.!!

Bush its okay and don't push further. I have joked enough and it is okay. You are the one breaching agreement here now. it is okay.

Lawlahdey:
You people are still here?

lol..I know the thread will escalate to this

sirfee:






Baddest nigga,been a while...happy new month.

yes ooooo, happy new month

Great post.

Safiaa:
Who is sofiaa? Nobody knows who that is love.

It's you ,safiaa or sofiaa I don't care. I'm not you that's all I want them to clearly understand.

BiafranBushBoy:


Not cool... I thought you got my back mehn...

I know things went wrong, but it was bullshit coming to sing on a thread that has done nothing.

She just wanted to troll with sensitive issues, and it was going Down well with me.

Oya no vex... How you doing?

Lol its cool.
Thought we were beefing since you unfollowed. It's cool.

I'm fine though, hope you're well?

Give Femism a chance [/quote]
I AM A HUMANIST

AHCB:
Are you an orphan?

I should not love myself since I'm not an orphan and I've got parents who love me. That's cool.

disappointing?

There comes a time in the life of a man when he knows it is not all about him anymore..

You're still young, so I don't expect you to understand.

Lol, who's talking about narcissism?
So you're going to use my age to judge my comments? Lol, issoraite.

Ginaz:


It's you ,safiaa or sofiaa I don't care. I'm not you that's all I want them to clearly understand.

Ok just wanted to clarify that my name is not sofiaa. Safiaa with three 'A's'. Just wanted to simplify that for you.

makydebbie:
Self love is having love for oneself. Are you telling me that I shouldn't love myself? If I don't love myself, who'll?


Self-esteem is having confidence in your self worth. You know my stand on feminism, but this part of you saying self-love is bullshit sounds silly to me.

actually Self Esteem Comes Before Self Love

BiafranBushBoy:


She we never had anything...

Why would she be on this thread singing my name?

I dey cast myself okay.

You lost interest in arguing who is worth more?

Piss off!!

Dea.d brained asshole... If I follow people reason, I go still reason dropout like you?

F.uck you

k

QueenSekxy:

lol..I know the thread will escalate to this

As in eh? I dislike debates like this.