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FTrebirth:
that bitch can keep lying to herself but i gathered from a reliable source that she's HEAVILY PREGNANT and damn too horrrny...which explains why she's always glued to the ashewo thread.

shaybebaby:
Thereby leaving the definition of your worth in the hands of another?
Only those without a sense of self, autonomy and will to self-actualize reason like you do. [/b]Loving oneself is holding onself accountable and not being subject to the whims and caprices of others. It is about taking ownership. [/b]

makydebbie:
It's one of our nl boys stupid assumptions since we need men to be happy. Fvck! Is it sex? I'll get a dild© and feel happy.

shaybebaby:
Only needy, co-dependent, low self-esteemed people find the need for loving oneself irrelevant.

How can you be worthy of the love of another if you don't love yourself. If you feel you are not worth it, then you are not.

trustyshoess:
Thick skin? More like thick skull! If you love yourself, you won't allow anyone to treat you like a piece of trash!

IamiKayJayCee:
LMAO. The clowns have hijacked the thread.

ibkayee:
Wait, and this NightHound guy is fine too? A unicorn amongst donkeys

We're not used to this kind of combo on nland oo

dominique:
Angry frustrated men everywhere. Can't a woman be a feminist in peace again ni? We all know that y'all's definition of submissive is subservient, why is it now paining you that not every woman wants to be subjected to that kind of life?

Most of you seek meek, religious, down-to-earth women that feel you can easily control and subdue. After some time, you get bored with her and start cheating on her with more assertive women you claim to dislike. Either that or her hidden claws come out after marriage then you realize the true meaning of 'one chance' like one Nairalander whose ordeal made front page just last week.

Currently hot on FB is the love-turned-sour story of Francis and Amara. Amara appeared to be the God-fearing, down to earth, former domestic violence victim who loves to write about submissiveness in women. Her charms got caught by US based Francis and they started an online relationship. They eventually got married and she was able to get the guy to file for her and children to join him in the States. Two years down the line, they're going through a bitter divorce and the guy has been lamenting what he went through in the hands of the woman and her children. Turns out the the woman that so much love to preach about submissiveness is very manipulative and will throw several tantrums when things don't go her way. Even the domestic violence she claimed to have suffered and wrote a book about was not true. The ex husband got hospitalized when he read what she wrote about him in her book. This is a woman that was staunchly against feminism and was always preaching submissiveness (yes I follow her). As much as I felt sorry for the man after reading his ordeals, i must say he just got served. Sebi he was the one looking for a mild mannered saintly woman he can control, see the kind of person he ended up with.

I don't have figures but I'm pretty certain that a great number of men poisoned or killed by their wives are the so called submissive ones who would rather be widows than divorcees. A feminist would rather be a divorcee than a widow (at least she won't go on to poison him to be free from him). Do you know there's a secret whatsapp group where women share tips on how to use juju to turn their husbands to their personal mumu? Most of these women claimed they have suffered enough in the hands of their husbands and they want to be the ones doing the subduing. A real feminist has no time for such, when she's done she's done.

Contrary to beliefs that feminists expect their bills to be payed by a man, that's totally false. A real feminist pulls her weight financially in a relationship. It's those fake ones that will insist that it's a man's responsibility to pick up the bills while he treats her like a queen. The true feminist struggle is about fair and equal treatment for all and end of oppression for her fellow women. I don't know what is making you guys so angry, maybe you fancy the way your fathers ill-treated your mothers and now that some women are saying they don't want to live like that you're getting upset.

Blackfyre:
But she didn't say it was irrelevant, she used the word 'scream' which means to over emphasize beyond the point that is usual, looking at the context she used it.

Blackfyre:
Is this your definition the opposite of selflessness?

Blackfyre:
But she didn't say it was irrelevant, she used the word 'scream' which means to over emphasize beyond the point that is usual, looking at the context she used it.

tessygirl:
Shut up and come back. That is all. Is it difficult? Shut up again! I haven't started yet, you will deactivate from this forum. You don't know me yet.

tessygirl:
Shut up and come back. That is all. Is it difficult? Shut up again! I haven't started yet, you will deactivate from this forum. You don't know me yet.

shaybebaby:
The need for emphasis can be born out of passion for the subject so who is to say it is being overemphasised? If anything, not enough emphasis is being made hence the so called "scream"

Shroud:
so much hypocrisy: a home loving and husband adoring wife on Twitter and a bitter feminist in Nairaland.

Bitch must be having split personality disorder v

makydebbie:
It's one of our nl boys stupid assumptions since we need men to be happy. Fvck! Is it sex? I'll get a dild© and feel happy.

Blackfyre:
Who is to say its being overemphasized but at the same time saying the emboldened.

Jupxter:
This discussion isn't o'er yet. Strange

vicben27:
@ dild if it ain't a dicck that comes with a full body, blooded Gee! it can Neva be or serve like one. deep inside ya' all be lonely, sad n miserable. I have a questions I'd love to ask. can a dild do the followings
(1)comfort / encourage you wen you down?
(2)can you even relate wit one
(3)watsup with cuddling when you need one(the cold nights and all)
(2) I guess a Love Machine can get you pregnant n make you a mother too! to mention only but a few.

above all, we all need each other a Man and a woman can Neva be equal, because it was never designed to be soo. each as its own role to play. you can't have two lions on a mountain. there will be pandamonium it's high time we recognize our places n stop waining about this feminist bullshiit. check out countries practicing this shiit, they have high rates of divorce , shattered n broken homes over time. so no body its telling a woman not to aspire to be great or do great things. there equal opportunities out there. you can be what ever you want to be. but to be truely fullfiled in life you have to have a home, and for you to do that you must definitely be under a man. all it takes is understanding both your emotional needs and balances. I've observed you to be a nice n understanding individual, I guess u we're hurt at some point. we are Africans dear n we are cultured.

shaybebaby:
http://hdr.undp.org/en/composite/GII

SexyDenzel:
Verily verily I say unto you guys again, hell got no fury like a woman scorned hahahahahahahaa. Na force?