GreenWhiteGreen:
Ladies should try to keep themselves ''untouched" while they are young. Don't have sex with every guy you date. If you refuse your boyfriend to have sex with you, deep inside his heart you are a wife material/virtuos but once you give in, you are just like everyother girl. So the bleeping continues. Imagine you've date seven guys and they all have sex with you countless times, they all surely have deposited something in your body. . And OP, marrying a 25 ur old virgin isn't a bad idea.

ubunja:

its no longer about virginity coz women failed that test a long time ago.
HAVING NO CHILD IS THE NEW VIRGINITY.
the aim is to get the fruit while it is still freshest. you deserve some freshness too

ubunja:

its no longer about virginity coz women failed that test a long time ago.
HAVING NO CHILD IS THE NEW VIRGINITY.
the aim is to get the fruit while it is still freshest. you deserve some freshness too

GreenWhiteGreen:
Well, must a girl at 19 or 21 already disflowered? There are still some decent girls out there who are virgins.

Nova01:
Very true bro.... But both old and young they are all loose .....

lereinter:

between 19-22yrs old gal is either schooling or learning a vocation

a man to marry such lady should not be more than 27yrs too

nowadays gals of that age arent ready or even thinking of marriage

oga times ve changes

ubunja:

LOOOOOL
yet this is the same age group getting pregnant daily.
so they are old enough to make pregnant but somehow not old enough to marry is that how it works now?
some girls have the motto "MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE" and so focus on long career training. there are some whose motto is "CAREERS ARE NOT FOR EVERYONE".lets not make that choice for them.we already trust them at 18 to choose the next President thru voting, so lets trust them also to choose the kind of life they want.
ANYWAYS WHO SAID MARRIAGE SHOULD SPELL DOOM TO A GAL'S CAREER AMBITIONS .
truth is i see a lot of highly educated women with degrees that took years and years to acquire but who at 35 are wishing they gave love time when love had time for them.
these will die lonely with their cats in their townhouses

ubunja:

when two people in a relationship both have money then noone begs the other. thats why celebs and famous people with money marry and divorce at a high rate.

ubunja:
This is a clap-back thread to some lame loser low-achieving thread advising men to marry women over 25.

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ubunja:

hey its a free world. do you.marry who you think is best.its only you who will reap the rewards or pay the price

Belafonte:
This guy dey sabi burst my brain. Marrying a girl over 25 is settling for less IMO. Catch them young. Enjoy a young female body to raise a family with, not all these saggy, flabby neighbourhood bicycles that are looking for a hapless fool to go and prostrate for worthless goods.

Belafonte:


Reality check, you are already a "financial saviour" when you want to marry a woman. How many women do you know that will marry a man they earn more than? Even if they do, the resentment isn't far off. Marrying a woman with a better financial standing than you isn't very wise or very safe. Women marry up. Let every kobo you have count towards your respect and authority.

ubunja:

true true
but i will take my chance with a new car than a used car in this roadtrip called LIFE.

Zykod:




1. MEN AGE LIKE WINE WOMEN AGE LIKE MILK- Wonderful line of thought

2. RELATIONSHIPS THRIVE WHEN THE WOMAN IS FINANCIALLY DEPENDENT ON THE MAN - Honestly blunt and truthful

3. A FRESH BROOM SWEEPS BETTER THAN AN OLD BROOM - This is funny, very funny

4. LEARN FROM GOD.THE YOUNGER THE BETTER. Very funny


But Ubunja, who marries the elder ones? Nice guys?

ubunja:

exactly. u know being a Nice Guy is not about being forced to love the used/damaged/second-hand. no.Nice Guys have been RE-WIRED to enjoy the used/damaged/second-hand. the same way porn has re-wired many men to ENJOY their hand and fantasies; so the media/social networks and society has reprogrammed many men to find their joy in the imperfect.
u will be suprised many men are not turned on by virgins, standing boobs and firm bums. but put an overfvcked female with huge b00bs and a huge shaky a$s and their d!ck becomes harder than a diamond. they have been reprogrammed.rewired.modified.manipulated. and they dont even know.
it gets worse. some men have even begun being turned on by the idea of their women cheating.some even wish to watch their women getting fvcked.and they get real genuine authentic honest sexual pleasure from that. we call them cuckolds.its all a mess.
so Nice Guys have been rewired to desire older women,single mothers and divorcees.they have honest-to-God desires for these women.100% real emotions.
cheers.

Zykod:



Which do you think is better to marry, a woman with high financial standing or the one that depends on you for finance. Oya come in and answer o guys, lefulefu,rany91,martin0, oya o. Time to answer this question, choose woman with good financial standing that can be proud and make marriage somehow, or a lady that depends on you for financial support. Choose and state reasons

Martin0:




Dude is confused..

Well for me even if am poor and rich I will like to marry a financially stable lady,becoze I may be broke tomorrow,no one know's what gonna happen in the future,and I doubt we will be broke same time..

Another reason a financially stabled lady will alway's support you in you life especially if u are aspiring for something..

You see most men don't want rich ladies coz dey believe they will control them,yeah I agree ladies have that spirit to alway's control and it all depends...

I have seen marriages where the woman is richer than the man infact the woman made the man who he is today,even if the woman misbehaves sometimes atleast they ve been together like that for over 7year's from what I know...

Basically I will choose a (feminist)rich lady guy I don't wanna be doing everything all alone ooo,why then is she my wife?

If I don't ve atleast she should ve..

Zykod:




Ubunja, what planet did you drop from?/ LMFAO @ the media/social networks and society has reprogrammed many men to find their joy in the imperfect.


Yes this one annoys me - it gets worse. some men have even begun being turned on by the idea of their women cheating


You're a case study, you should be studied in uiversity i swear it.

ubunja:

if i give u a list of movies in which guys are striving for single mothers, fat women, older women, u will vomit:
*Central Intelligence-starring The Rock ( fit guy goes back to date a fat girl he had a crash on at school even thou he worked on his physique for years)
*Think Like A Man 2 ( guy goes after single mother) ETC
watch all the black romantic comedies. it never is about a virgin. ITS ALWAYS ABOUT SINGLE MOTHERS AND OLDER WOMEN.



all these shows make it normal to date single mothers etc that no man sees it as a problem or taboo or strange. it becomes the new normal.

Zykod:




A lady with good financial standing is tricky to handle, it requires consistence subtleness, can you play this game for life? A woman that has a mindset of, i can go at any time, what's the sense in getting married when the chances of a breakup is high?

Not trying to impose views on you, but i'm writing this in alignment with Ubunja's view that if a lady is not dependent on a man financially, she finds it easy to say i'm packing my bags to leave. I've been there.It swings both sides brother, you would be lucky to find a lady with high financial standing with good morals

Martin0:



Yeah I agree to this point but another thing we most look at again is what if she's not what we think?

Most ladies are like that I agree and I believe only few can be like that and aswell ve such morals..

if I accidently become broke someday who's gonna take care of the family,am sure u will agree when a man who's rich before now suddenly become's broke his wife can aswell move out coz she may not be able to ajust with you,sometimes dey might even cheat to keep up with the bills of their life...

Martin0:



Yeah I agree to this point but another thing we most look at again is what if she's not what we think?

Most ladies are like that I agree and I believe only few can be like that and aswell ve such morals..

if I accidently become broke someday who's gonna take care of the family,am sure u will agree when a man who's rich before now suddenly become's broke his wife can aswell move out coz she may not be able to ajust with you,sometimes dey might even cheat to keep up with the bills of their life...

Zykod:



Victim mindset, snap pout of it, bro, you won't be at your present financial level forever. A lady with less finance can be raised to high standing, but she has her good morals intact, conversely, a lady with high financial standing has the quitter mindset, i'm ready to quit at any moment, can you bear this toll for a life time? Weigh the Pros and the Cons blo

Zykod:



Victim mindset, snap pout of it, bro, you won't be at your present financial level forever. A lady with less finance can be raised to high standing, but she has her good morals intact, conversely, a lady with high financial standing has the quitter mindset, i'm ready to quit at any moment, can you bear this toll for a life time? Weigh the Pros and the Cons blo

Martin0:

Martin0:




I agree,it a victim mindset

ubunja:

women richer than the man are rarely happy.and your thinking u can get a wealthier woman and be happy is because u dont understand something called Hypergamy. hypergamy is the instinct all women have to date or marry a man of higher status than them. just like women are comfortable when the man is older so they are also comfortable when he is of a higher class than them.
a man at his highest is a King.a woman at her highest is a Queen. although Queen Elizabeth of England is ruler she is not called King. but Queen.and her husband is not called King, but Prince.becoz he is not of higher status than her..its the laws of nature. even at her highest a woman is still number 2 so that her instinct for a higher status male gets satisfied.

Martin0:



You can easily by identified as typical nigerian,based on ur mindset..