ubunja:

women richer than the man are rarely happy.and your thinking u can get a wealthier woman and be happy is because u dont understand something called Hypergamy. hypergamy is the instinct all women have to date or marry a man of higher status than them. just like women are comfortable when the man is older so they are also comfortable when he is of a higher class than them.
a man at his highest is a King.a woman at her highest is a Queen. although Queen Elizabeth of England is ruler she is not called King. but Queen.and her husband is not called King, but Prince.becoz he is not of higher status than her..its the laws of nature. even at her highest a woman is still number 2 so that her instinct for a higher status male gets satisfied.

My uncle has been married for over year's now,and I can tell u his wife is extremely richer than her,but yet they are still together..

It depends on how u understand this view and what made you believe so,though I know it happening but from marriages I ve seen especially ladies richer than their husband,I haven't seen such negatives though I know it happening..

Martin0:



My uncle has been married for over year's now,and I can tell u his wife is extremely richer than her,but yet they are still together..

It depends on how u understand this view and what made you believe so,though I know it happening but from marriages I ve seen especially ladies richer than their husband,I haven't seen such negatives though I know it happening..

Martin, it's not the norm

Zykod:


I'm glad you share the same view

That the connection

Zykod:


Martin, it's not the norm

Yeah I agree

Martin0:



My uncle has been married for over year's now,and I can tell u his wife is extremely richer than her,but yet they are still together..

It depends on how u understand this view and what made you believe so,though I know it happening but from marriages I ve seen especially ladies richer than their husband,I haven't seen such negatives though I know it happening..

i also know 2 people who have lived with AIDS for more than 10 yrs. yet i will tell u aids kills. exceptions and miracles dont make good reliable statistics.
i also know people who got shot and lived. but ask me about guns and i will tell u guns kill. those lucky ones cant be used as examples that guns dont kill.

ubunja:
im a zimbabwean in South Africa actually.

Really Damm! Sorry man
It a pleasure to meet you,I hope to learn from you aswell..
My view though I believe it the advantage of marrying to a rich lady!
• You will not have to worry about paying for dates. She'll split 50/50 or if you can't afford it, I think it's reasonable for her to pay for your portion, if she invited you.

• She can help you out in dire times of need. Don't take advantage of her, but don't be afraid to ask if you really need it. She will likely have taste and style. She will likely have connections to support your career.

• Your combined net worth will be sufficient to fund children and living. She is not marrying you for money.

Remember you are not entitled to any penny of her money, but it is nice to have a cushion of support and ability to finance shared expenses.

Zykod:


What if things go so well with you too? Weigh the Pros and the Cons bro

I will still choose a rich lady even if am rich

ubunja:

i also know 2 people who have lived with AIDS for more than 10 yrs. yet i will tell u aids kills. exceptions and miracles dont make good reliable statistics.
i also know people who got shot and lived. but ask me about guns and i will tell u guns kill. those lucky ones cant be used as examples that guns dont kill.

I agree,and I agree very very well on this illustration

Martin0:


Really
Damm!
Sorry man

It a pleasure to meet you,I hope to learn from you aswell..

My view though I believe it the advantage of marrying to a rich lady!

• You will not have to worry about paying
for dates. She'll split 50/50 or if you can't
afford it, I think it's reasonable for her to
pay for your portion, if she invited you.


• She can help you out in dire times of
need. Don't take advantage of her, but
don't be afraid to ask if you really need it.
She will likely have taste and style.
She will likely have connections to
support your career.


• Your combined net worth will be
sufficient to fund children and living.
She is not marrying you for money.


Remember you are not entitled to any penny of her
money, but it is nice to have a cushion of support
and ability to finance shared expenses.

the only way you can marry a richer woman and she not grow big-headed is if 1)you found a virgin, 2)you didnt find her a virgin but you are an amazing fvcker with a huge d!ck or 3) she is a Single Mother looking for a Father Figure for her kids and no longer willing to be pregnant again.in which case forget about her giving you a child. thats why many guys in situation 3 date these rich women but use rich woman's car and cash to impress some avarage girl from the township.going against nature is so hard.
if the wife becomes richer than u during marriage then get ready to be divorced.
here are 2 truths of life:
1) when a woman is the same age as you that makes her older than you.thats why at school your classmates dated boys in upper grade and u dated girls in lower grade.
2) when a woman is the same class as you that makes you poorer than her. that is why your workmate ignores u and has her eye on the supervisor or manager.by being on the same level with u she is on a higher level than you.

ubunja:

the only way you can marry a richer woman and she not grow big-headed is if 1)you found a virgin, 2)you didnt find her a virgin but you are an amazing fvcker with a huge d!ck or 3) she is a Single Mother looking for a Father Figure for her kids and no longer willing to be pregnant again.in which case forget about her giving you a child. thats why many guys in situation 3 date these rich women but use rich woman's car and cash to impress some avarage girl from the township.going against nature is so hard.
if the wife becomes richer than u during marriage then get ready to be divorced.
here are 2 truths of life:
1) when a woman is the same age as you that makes her older than you.thats why at school your classmates dated boys in upper grade and u dated girls in lower grade.
2) when a woman is the same class as you that makes you poorer than her. that is why your workmate ignores u and has her eye on the supervisor or manager.by being on the same level with u she is on a higher level than you.

Ubunja, thumbs up ! You're the professor of real life womanology, leave stories behind, you're the bomb !

ubunja:

the only way you can marry a richer woman and she not grow big-headed is if 1)you found a virgin, 2)you didnt find her a virgin but you are an amazing fvcker with a huge d!ck or 3) she is a Single Mother looking for a Father Figure for her kids and no longer willing to be pregnant again.in which case forget about her giving you a child. thats why many guys in situation 3 date these rich women but use rich woman's car and cash to impress some avarage girl from the township.going against nature is so hard.
if the wife becomes richer than u during marriage then get ready to be divorced.
here are 2 truths of life:
1) when a woman is the same age as you that makes her older than you.thats why at school your classmates dated boys in upper grade and u dated girls in lower grade.
2) when a woman is the same class as you that makes you poorer than her. that is why your workmate ignores u and has her eye on the supervisor or manager.by being on the same level with u she is on a higher level than you.

Ok ooo,carry on

Martin0:



Ok ooo,carry on

LOL u guys must i make a list of these principles for u?
ok here are 3 more truths of life i will just list then maybe explain in a future Miseducation:
1.the one who loves the least in a relationship holds the most power
2.women get more sex when single than when in a relationship.
3.and for women " i want a baby" doesnt always mean " with my BF/hubby". joke with married friends and playfully ask for a baby and a few will suprise you by offering to give u.

ubunja:


LOL u guys must i make a list of these principles for u?
ok here are 3 more truths of life i will just list then maybe explain in a future Miseducation:
1.the one who loves the least in a relationship holds the most power
2.women get more sex when single than when in a relationship.
3.and for women " i want a baby" doesnt always mean " with my BF/hubby". joke with married friends and playfully ask for a baby and a few will suprise you by offering to give u.

Spot on, Ubunja !

ubunja:


LOL u guys must i make a list of these principles for u?
ok here are 3 more truths of life i will just list then maybe explain in a future Miseducation:
1.the one who loves the least in a relationship holds the most power
2.women get more sex when single than when in a relationship.
3.and for women " i want a baby" doesnt always mean " with my BF/hubby". joke with married friends and playfully ask for a baby and a few will suprise you by offering to give u.

ubunja:


LOL u guys must i make a list of these principles for u?
ok here are 3 more truths of life i will just list then maybe explain in a future Miseducation:
1.the one who loves the least in a relationship holds the most power
2.women get more sex when single than when in a relationship.
3.and for women " i want a baby" doesnt always mean " with my BF/hubby". joke with married friends and playfully ask for a baby and a few will suprise you by offering to give u.

Waow

Mehn am surprised by this NO3

Zykod:



Which do you think is better to marry, a woman with high financial standing or the one that depends on you for finance. Oya come in and answer o guys, lefulefu,rany91,martin0, oya o. Time to answer this question, choose woman with good financial standing that can be proud and make marriage somehow, or a lady that depends on you for financial support. Choose and state reasons

Women like to marry men they can look up to in every area, especially financially. So, it would be wise to hook up with a woman you earn a lot more than, and who depends on you to get some things her earnings cannot afford her. Once you can get over the fake idea of love in a romantic relationship, you begin to realise that you must be calculating when dealing with women.

If you want control of your relationship, marry a woman who depends on you.

Zykod:


Ubunja remains one of the best brain burster for now here. I like his no-bitch attitude. The guy too make sense

He's like my more aggressive twin. . He speaks my mind without filter.

Belafonte:


He's like my more aggressive twin. . He speaks my mind without filter.

I concur, he's indeed your angry twin. What an amazing mind he has

Belafonte:


Women like to marry men they can look up to in every area, especially financially. So, it would be wise to hook up with a woman you earn a lot more than, and who depends on you to get some things her earnings cannot afford her. Once you can get over the fake idea of love in a romantic relationship, you begin to realise that you must be calculating when dealing with women.

If you want control of your relationship, marry a woman who depends on you.

I'm glad i found a like-minded person that sees things from my perspective


" Once you can get over the fake idea of love in a romantic relationship, you begin to realise that you must be calculating when dealing with women. If you want control of your relationship, marry a woman who depends on you."

Belafonte:


Women like to marry men they can look up to in every area, especially financially. So, it would be wise to hook up with a woman you earn a lot more than, and who depends on you to get some things her earnings cannot afford her. Once you can get over the fake idea of love in a romantic relationship, you begin to realise that you must be calculating when dealing with women.

If you want control of your relationship, marry a woman who depends on you.

More the reason i tell brothers to avoid ladies who a staunch financially independent supporters, i.e. super rich, or working class and find one that depends on them, or what do you feel ?

Belafonte:


Women like to marry men they can look up to in every area, especially financially. So, it would be wise to hook up with a woman you earn a lot more than, and who depends on you to get some things her earnings cannot afford her. Once you can get over the fake idea of love in a romantic relationship, you begin to realise that you must be calculating when dealing with women.

If you want control of your relationship, marry a woman who depends on you.

if you come lost ur job nko?...GOd forbid...or ur business come crash.dat means the looking up wey she dey look up to u goes out of the window.now she insult u or smack the back of ur head since u no longer have money to provide her needs.bro wat i think is dat u should marry a woman wo respects and adores u than marry one who fears u cos of ur fat salary or mega paying business.

Zykod:



More the reason i tell brothers to avoid ladies who a staunch financially independent supporters, i.e. super rich, or working class and find one that depends on them, or what do you feel ?

Those ones are good for the oza room. Na dia type dey always drag headship with man for house. I have enough to worry about already, I don't need to add a cantankerous woman to my life's troubles. If I find one that works/is well off and also submissive I might reconsider my stand. But I'm not even looking in that direction right now.

lefulefu:
if you come lost ur job nko?...GOd forbid...or ur business come crash.dat means the looking up wey she dey look up to u goes out of the window.now she insult u or smack the back of ur head since u no longer have money to provide her needs.bro wat i think is dat u should marry a woman wo respects and adores u than marry one who fears u cos of ur fat salary or mega paying business.

" that respects and adore ", make i put am for back pocket

Belafonte:


Those ones are good for the oza room. Na dia type dey always drag headship with man for house. I have enough to worry about already, I don't need to add a cantankerous woman to my life's troubles. If I find one that works/is well off and also submissive I might reconsider my stand. But I'm not even looking in that direction right now.

Jeez, i have a brother, you're my twin !

1. Na dia type dey always drag headship with man for house ( Like you said they only submit when a man earns more, if not Oyo )


2. If I find one that works/is well off and also submissive I might reconsider my stand. But I'm not even looking in that direction right now - Cool !


We're totally on the same page, a lady that's down to earth is the real deal !

Zykod:



Jeez, i have a brother, you're my twin !

1. Na dia type dey always drag headship with man for house ( Like you said they only submit when a man earns more, if not Oyo )


2. If I find one that works/is well off and also submissive I might reconsider my stand. But I'm not even looking in that direction right now - Cool !


We're totally on the same page, a lady that's down to earth is the real deal !

Cheers, mate.

Belafonte:


Women like to marry men they can look up to in every area, especially financially. So, it would be wise to hook up with a woman you earn a lot more than, and who depends on you to get some things her earnings cannot afford her. Once you can get over the fake idea of love in a romantic relationship, you begin to realise that you must be calculating when dealing with women.

If you want control of your relationship, marry a woman who depends on you.

U made a good point..
I agree again to another point

Martin0:



U made a good point..
I agree again to another point

Respect, sir.

Zykod:



Which do you think is better to marry, a woman with high financial standing or the one that depends on you for finance. Oya come in and answer o guys, lefulefu,rany91,martin0, oya o. Time to answer this question, choose woman with good financial standing that can be proud and make marriage somehow, or a lady that depends on you for financial support. Choose and state reasons

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Em based on the pros and cons you asked earlier...

Hmmmm well To be honest, there are almost no pros unless you
are hardworking, intelligent and extremely loyal
because there is no way you can impress her unless
you have some solid qualities which she can see
you as an investment.


Cons — aplenty. Let's start from the fact that you
have to deal with her parents who may not agree
with the union in the first place, the fact that you
cannot even pronounce half of the clothing labels
she use in her daily life, the fact that each time you
dine out with her, the chefs seem to know her
because she or her friends or her parents are regulars
(and this does not apply only to restaurants but to
shops), her friends and their ultra-rich boyfriends,
the fact that she trades stocks as if she is buying
vegetables and the list goes on.
Her life will crush you. And in the long run, you
will start to consider if this is a question worth
thinking about.


I greet the house oo

Belafonte:

Respect, sir.

I greet u madam abi na sir u also be?

Belafonte:


Cheers, mate.

What do you think about narcissistic ladies? Can you date them ?

Martin0:
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Em based on the pros and cons you asked earlier...

Hmmmm well To be honest, there are almost no pros unless you
are hardworking, intelligent and extremely loyal
because there is no way you can impress her unless
you have some solid qualities which she can see
you as an investment.


Cons — aplenty. Let's start from the fact that you
have to deal with her parents who may not agree
with the union in the first place, the fact that you
cannot even pronounce half of the clothing labels
she use in her daily life, the fact that each time you
dine out with her, the chefs seem to know her
because she or her friends or her parents are regulars
(and this does not apply only to restaurants but to
shops), her friends and their ultra-rich boyfriends,
the fact that she trades stocks as if she is buying
vegetables and the list goes on.
Her life will crush you. And in the long run, you
will start to consider if this is a question worth
thinking about.


I greet the house oo

Smart bro, i wish we three are in the same state, we need to be drinking wine while having these kind of discussions

Martin0:


I greet u madam abi na sir u also be?

Belafonte is another amazing brother like us

Zykod:



What do you think about narcissistic ladies? Can you date them ?

Date? No. Samba? Yes