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centboy123456:
lol use me as maga for Lagos babe na me they use them as maga oh anyway good morning

Iffa hear, morning ojare.

Purebeerry:
Iffa hear, morning ojare.

ojare babe were u from

U can definitely forgive her...but I promise U...If U continue the relationship with her...things will never be the same again.

She has done it, she will do it again and again and again...

One tin I can not stomach in a relationship is CHEATING!
Cheat once and u r out, Weda u confess oh, Weda I catch u oh, once u cheat, na sorry be ur name

neoapocalypse:
You're only saying what you're capable of doing , don't use yourself to judge others

sharap

You are always confused! Dont you ever run out of confusion? Forgive her and send her back to the man,no be today e start

ps 130:3.. if the Lord shud mark sin who wil stand right..Brother 4gve her and also 4gve ursef..both of you shud go to chch for delivrance of cheating..if u hv slept wit her durin ur frndshhip den u hv already cheat on her call fornication sin against God...infact stop acusing her in public..

from what i understand here,u ve been having trust issues wit d gal over dat guy nd it became a reality after she confesses,guy leave dat gal if not u go die of heartbreak

My guy, dont be a jerk.
A cheat will always cheat. they cant help it.
Dont waste your time on a tramp that will give you hypertension and send you on DNA errands
Dump her and move on

Shebi u follow chop d money? Infact don't worry, I forgive her on your behalf

Purebeerry:
Bros, dump that girl, never forgive a cheat cos a cheat will always be a cheat.

She will still cheat on you tomorrow, after all you will forgive her.

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you ar very wrong ds time bcs
u lack the understanding why she sheat


.. look beyond the cheat and blame.. u as a girl has no right to pass judgement on ur felow woman...

PROPHETmichael:
Mr Kehinde, forgive her and let her go. She's lucky because your father Sulaiman could've done worst after hearing such news.

lol. bastard!! u r wrong bro

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

from my point of view, find out the real reason she's asking for forgiveness. it might be that, (1) that guy is trying to blackmail her, hence telling you to avoid you finding out yourself. (2) or her conscience won't let her rest.
if it's the latter, forgive her and forget. but if it's the former, i have no advice for you cos my advice won't be good

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

forgive her. BUT NEVER YOU THINK OF GETTING MARRIED TO HER.

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

Bro this is more complicated than many people here think. One, if you forgive her.. What about the issue of trust. Would you be comfortable seeing men around her and not panic after now?
2. She cheated cos she got someone richer.. Don't forget that no matter how richer you are, someone will be richer... Can you bear all these thoughts of insecurity anytime you perceive someone richer is at her sight?
You know why to do by now but if I were you... I will accept her plea and forgive her but our relationship status go change from marriage-hopefuls to bed-warming status till she gets tired herself. Remember to always condomize and clear your mind of all unnecessary relationship worries. Stay blessed

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

That woman is your wife mark my words, if you leave her you will not find a woman as true as her

For confessing she is the best you can ever get. She will make a good companion.

Sorry but i had desme experience with my ex girlfriend but d truth is dat she never stopped cheating

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

When a woman have sex with a man in exchange for money, it is called prostitution.

Mr man, your babe is a prostitute and remember the saying that once a prostitute, always a prostitute.

The choice is yours, though.

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

Bro, whatever you decide to do is fine with me.

As for me, I will forgive her but that relationship is gone. Trust is important in every relationship but when one of the partners cheats, it would be hard to build trust again in that relationship.

Like I said, if you decide to take her back, it is all fine and if you decide to take a walk, well, all good. She may be a good woman, but would you ever trust her again? Trust can never be overemphasized in a relationship. Can you trust yourself that you won't be tempted to cheat on her to pay her back in the future? Would you forgive her well enough not to hurt her with her confession in the future?

Forgive her and move on with the relationship. One day you fit bleep another person and get caught then you will ask for forgiveness and expect one.

Nobody holy pass, for all have sinned and non is rightmost.

Forgive and forget

victorakpabome:
Guy pursue that bitch. Get another one. They are many

Are you a faithfully partner? Guy every saint have a past.

You must take her back and love her more. If she had not told you, you will never know. It takes a sincere and lovely woman to tell you the truth. Lemme ask you, is she the kind that loves money?

ksbusari:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time.

seems like you forced the truth out her...she will cheat again..if she finds herself in a financial difficulty.. Put her to the test!since it is all about the money she will sell to the highest bidder..my advice is Run!

ksbusari:
*Make her d woman u'll like her to be* hw is dat goin to be possible?

u've obviously not had someone cheat on u and they r extremely sorry about it have u ?? Well if u had, u'll understand that their mind is usually fragile at that point and u can make them or break them #myopiniontho'... I dnt knw about the op!

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

Oboi fleeeeeeeee

A man forgives cheating?

You should ask yourself how you can move past it. It’s difficult oh because now trust will be a scarce commodity in your relationship it’s hard I’d advice you let go else you might just end up punishing her or she might just end up proving that the love of money rocks her judgement over and over again so just leave it, it would have been better she didn’t tell you, but now she did shit would most certainly hit the fan. Sorry for your loss

This Cheating thing tho, its so difficult being on d receiving end.
Wat if she does it again? I'd hv preferred ignorance but isn't dat a form of death itself??
Best thing for me is to preset the heart to 'Cheat' default settings; that way every new discovery (cheating experience) is an assertion. And you know how the mind works with already-known facts??