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desreek9:
This is funny, i see only guys commenting above and applauding the tips cos it sure is massaging their masculine ego lmao

So y'all want to tell me there was no divorce during those times or 1950

You think we dont have products of single mum and dads now

You think every couple in 1950s had the opportunity to even see a newspaper talk more of reading it to know things like this

I bet some of your parents were still babies in daipers(no napkins) or were not even born as at then


Continue feeling like kings ooo, be waiting for ladies to worship you

Macgreat:
Well, it was said that women were created to please men.

WHOcarex:
Hippocrates everywhere. Why una dey update una phones and apps? Why una to stick to the old version? They want women to work so they can assist with bills. Saying, its not easy these days for a man to handle the responsibilities alone. But ask them to assist with house chores, you are a feminist. Ask them to treat you with respect, you are demanding equal right.

I should follow the rules some stupid men laid ages ago just to glorify themselves

King my ass

MizMyColi:
Stop masquerading as male when you are just a female with feminism issues

MizMyColi:
Feminist!

LadyGoddiva:
Bullshit
If that was the norm of those days, the dirty, scumbag and useless men of today don’t deserve such treatments abeg.
Thunder fire any idiot who expects any female of today to do any of this shît!

congo4ka:
Shut up there!!! Shey na to dey open smelly rotten shiiit kpekus be work?

Ishilove:
The era when 'gay' had another meaning.

Who has time for all these when you yourself have had a long and exhausting day at work?

Mscheeeew

dovelike:
Please, keep that vulgar language to yourself. It is irritating

Xisnin:
Wait!
I just checked the meaning of feminism and there was no gender requirement to be a feminist.

dovelike:
When men worked while women stayed back home. Today women are also working. Who will look after them as well?

Back then, women did menial jobs to support their husbands income or to keep busy, but today women are pushed to get educated and get a well paying job too because ''men'' now want educated women. Then when home duties slack, men will complain. These demands on women sometimes are insane.

Some men are just looking for someone to baby them and clean up after their lazy self.

Simple, a wife is a wife, definitely, but if she is going to be actively involved in providing for the family too, nothing stops you Mr. husband from putting the kettle to boil as well.

dovelike:
When men worked while women stayed back home. Today women are also working. Who will look after them as well?

Back then, women did menial jobs to support their husbands income or to keep busy, but today women are pushed to get educated and get a well paying job too because ''men'' now want educated women. Then when home duties slack, men will complain. These demands on women sometimes are insane.

Some men are just looking for someone to baby them and clean up after their lazy self.

Simple, a wife is a wife, definitely, but if she is going to be actively involved in providing for the family too, nothing stops you Mr. husband from putting the kettle to boil as well.

mhizsuzzy:
Thanks dear the men won't see this part ooo nah to open mouth dey talk anyhow.

At least the older men were more mature when it come to women matter not babies we have today in the name of men.

chloride6:
So work is your excuse ? This is unbelievable

danthamccoy:
Wow. Looks like a handbook for maids.

For those saying no wonder their marriages lasted, of course they'd last when the women were so docile and made to stay home and be glorified househelps. It's crazy that over half a century later, a significant number of men still walk around with the same sense of entitlement and some women see nothing wrong with it. Oh well, wetin be my own?

Daeylar:
Unfortunately for the pathetic men and pathetic op women were never created to please men,

So where are the tips to please your wife?
Mtchewww

WHOcarex:
Hippocrates everywhere. Why una dey update una phones and apps? Why una to stick to the old version? They want women to work so they can assist with bills. Saying, its not easy these days for a man to handle the responsibilities alone. But ask them to assist with house chores, you are a feminist. Ask them to treat you with respect, you are demanding equal right.

I should follow the rules some stupid men laid ages ago just to glorify themselves

King my ass

dovelike:
The husband clearly came back from 'work' ans needed to be treated that way. Im pointing out how a woman will be percievd if she 'worked' as well and how she might be treated if she is 'working'

cummando:
And it worked for them. Their marriage lasted and they gave birth to us. Now we shout female power and any small anger they go on line shouting domestic violence. Marry January 1 divorce Jan 25. If you know what I mean.


Me love dem divorcees and single mamas though. Their Congo dey easy to shine. No stress.
I'm sure more dey emerge everyday!

LadyGoddiva:
Bullshit
If that was the norm of those days, the dirty, scumbag and useless men of today don’t deserve such treatments abeg.
Thunder fire any idiot who expects any female of today to do any of this shît!

victorakpabome:
You for just write am in pidgin english. At least we for understand dat one

cummando:
And it worked for them. Their marriage lasted and they gave birth to us. Now we shout female power and any small anger they go on line shouting domestic violence. Marry January 1 divorce Jan 25. If you know what I mean.


Me love dem divorcees and single mamas though. Their Congo dey easy to shine. No stress.
I'm sure more dey emerge everyday!

Macgreat:
Well, it was said that women were created to please men.

dovelike:
When men worked while women stayed back home. Today women are also working. Who will look after them as well?

Back then, women did menial jobs to support their husbands income or to keep busy, but today women are pushed to get educated and get a well paying job too because ''men'' now want educated women. Then when home duties slack, men will complain. These demands on women sometimes are insane.

Some men are just looking for someone to baby them and clean up after their lazy self.

Simple, a wife is a wife, definitely, but if she is going to be actively involved in providing for the family too, nothing stops you Mr. husband from putting the kettle to boil as well.

Remmythe:
Girl,your future husband is gon hate yu for ds statement,trust me...
it's obvious you're soliciting for equality in marriage,jst change ur mindset kos dat'll easily send yu bck to ur parents house after some kids probably...
Rubbish.

shaybebaby:
Good thing the date said 1950. That was then, this is now.

That shît should stay where it belongs, in the archives of a dark dinghy room where it'll never see the light of day again.

Espada10:
But to fair..the men then ,were the real men who do not tolerate bullshit..most weren't even that rich but they do not give a fu** and they were respected.. ....isn't that ironic... nowadays, all we see are weak, over romantic ,beta males..like the one I saw crying because he is getting married or what can I say about those on Nairaland that ask stupid questions like "another guy bought an iphone for my fiancee ..should I end the relationship". ..smh

Xisnin:
Tips to slave for your husband.
It could be partly justified then because many of the men were sole provider.
But the jobless youths of these days want to be worshipped because they are men.