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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by beautydutch(f): 8:42am On Jan 08, 2018
salmonkas178:
I'm handsome enough..can we roll along? Op just had a heartbreak....not advisable to roll with him....lol
lolz. I was just showing concern in my own little way.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 8:44am On Jan 08, 2018
jaxxy:


Ok i get ur point forgive and help the person bt that can only happen wen ure more experienced about life due to experience or a big heart like real Christ-like christians will do bt if u are hurt by the circumstance(mind u she didn't confess u caught her in d act)u can't be in the capacity to do such atleast not by urself or now.

The cameroun guy u talked of must hv been a very bad guy was has accepted his fate that everybody is a cheat no matter wat even himself and dats his way of avoiding the pain. Lol



Gbam! Yeah I mean the lady started confessing to his now husband later in year's!

Bro you are very very understandable!

Abeg I don't care if it morning oo!
Join me!grin

Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by lovethchioma(f): 8:45am On Jan 08, 2018
Emimoore:
So is life but no matter what there are still good women out there. And I must settle with one this 2018 in Jesus name Amen
I say a Big Amen on your behalf
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by humilitypays(m): 8:46am On Jan 08, 2018
tensazangetsu20:

I have taken the red pill but I still feel your friend is very stupid. I haven't made It yet but there are some girls I can never talk to in this world ever. When I have made it I will only talk to girls in my class. Guys should only date on or above their levels. Stop going for low class ghetto girls.
this is one great mistake guys make. We date down while ladies date up.

Seriously, I think guys ought to stop going for broke girls once they make it so their sense can come back.

But it won't happen sha cos guys think with their dick, sadly angry angry
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 8:47am On Jan 08, 2018
humilitypays:
...

Brother, in 2018 these young women do not deserve us devoting ANY mental energy to their whims. Our fathers and their fathers before them knew these things and it was basic fact.

If you are older than a girl by more than one year, best believe she doesn't really love you. It is biologically impossible for her to.

Now put that in the mix with Nigeria where these girls' brains have been twisted and fried from lifelong abuse and trauma. What you get is a girl actively cheating/resenting you and pretending until it is revealed by some freak event or happenstance such as the OP's.


Sperm Wars meets The Lion and the Jewel.

P.S. Marry your high school girlfriend, or don't marry at all.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by tensazangetsu20(m): 8:47am On Jan 08, 2018
humilitypays:
this is one great mistake guys make. We date down while ladies date up.

Seriously, I think guys ought to stop going for broke girls once they make it so their sense can come back.

But it won't happen sha cos guys think with their dick, sadly angry angry
I cant give my money to a broke chick. I will only use that money presence to get the benefits and disappear. Guys should wisen up in 2018 o.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by InfernoNig: 8:48am On Jan 08, 2018
We have seen things ooo. Girls of nowadays ain't loyal. Even if you see the loyal ones we won't trust them.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by donhils: 8:49am On Jan 08, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You believe the story?
What is there not to believe?
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Ahmiee(f): 8:49am On Jan 08, 2018
Reeberry:
What rubbish is this one saying?
take your frustration to your village people
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 8:50am On Jan 08, 2018
humilitypays:
this is one great mistake guys make. We date down while ladies date up.

Seriously, I think guys ought to stop going for broke girls once they make it so their sense can come back.

But it won't happen sha cos guys think with their dick, sadly angry angry
It cannot be helped. It's in our biology, sadly.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:51am On Jan 08, 2018
olowobaba10:
THEN YOU ARE NOT FROM AWKA-ETITI, STOP FORMING!
. Thank you for this observation. If she doesn't know them,its either she is still a baby or she is not from Awkaetiti. GMO Chikeluba (late) the Akajiaku of Awkaetiti even uptill now is one of the most popular there,his statue is still standing at the junction.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by dhabrite(m): 8:51am On Jan 08, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This op think we are kids! So many unbelievable holes in this story

No mind am. He thinks we are Nollywood lovers grin
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by humilitypays(m): 8:53am On Jan 08, 2018
Marshmallows:


Brother, in 2018 these young women do not deserve us devoting ANY mental energy to their whims. Our fathers and their fathers before them knew these things and it was basic fact.

If you are older than a girl by more than one year, best believe she doesn't really love you. It is biologically impossible for her to.

Now put that in the mix with Nigeria where these girls' brains have been twisted and fried from lifelong abuse and trauma. What you get is a girl actively cheating/resenting you and pretending until it is revealed by some freak event or happenstance such as the OP's.


Sperm Wars meets The Lion and the Jewel.

P.S. Marry your high school girlfriend, or don't marry at all.
that's the truth. Most ladies love only their first love....the guy that deflowered them, every other guy is on his own....whatever u do, she won't appreciate. More guys need to understand this sad truth. Yes the ladies will try to twist it and lie to make guys believe otherwise, but only experience will teach the stubborn guys.

The only guys ladies love and wanna give freely to are guys doing well in entertainment industry....all the so called music artistes and movie guys, cos they love fantasy life and bling bling grin

Once u are rich or just averagely OK financially as a guy and u had no girlfriend that truly loved u before u made it, forget about love..... Find a way to have kids and enjoy the rest of your life in peace, trying to find love will hurt u and make ladies take advantage of you

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by EWATOMIII(f): 8:54am On Jan 08, 2018
if these is true I sincerely tell that girl sorry, because these is what some ladies out there prayed and fasted for all day long, maybe she will have to wait for a decade to get that true love again or might not even see again, who am I to judge her we all her bound to make mistake, but some mistake cost you everything so it better to learn from others mistake so has not to make the same.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by hanassholesolo: 8:54am On Jan 08, 2018
Martin0:



See if your reaction lead's someone to committ suicide I personally will put you into jail with some good point!

Come to court and say that to me!
Then u will understand the meaning of emotional murder!

Even if the law sometimes protect the offendant,sometimes it changes in the favoure to the accused!

Nobody is telling you to marry her oo!
Abi don't you understand what you re to do as per to avoid emotional murder?

Anyway the lawlessness in this country or africa makes you human's to see some kinda tinz right!

You cannot touch me as long as i didn't do any physical damage to the person, not in this fucking country, NO YOU FUCKING CAN'T!!!

-Fiance cheats on you
-dumb her
-she commits sucide
-Feels good man

Now you think you can put me in Jail? She's lucky weren't in an Islamic caliphate, the punishment would have been more delicious. you are the most effeminate beta I've ever come across on this forum though.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by willibounce1(m): 8:55am On Jan 08, 2018
Just when I was thinking igbo girls don't cheat like some chest beaters here make us believe. LMAO!

SO much for the best women to marry....kikikiki...oloshoism is in za blood.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 8:55am On Jan 08, 2018
Amberon11:
Men are just filthy hypocrites. Few days ago a girl recounted how she caught her boyfriend cheating with another girl and most of the guys who commented bashed the girl and applauded the guy saying he isn't married to her yet and she should quit being selfish. Double standards won't kill you people.

You never see anything. Even if a woman comes into her matrimonial home and sees the husband having sex with his gf they will still blame her and be asking stupid questions like what did she do to drive him outside?

Nothing is ever the man's fault. Oponus, all of them.

There was literally a topic a woman started last year where she said she caught her husband in bed with another woman in her house, Nairaland men were advising her to pound yam for him with his favorite soup and beg him to tell her what she is doing wrong in the marriage.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 8:57am On Jan 08, 2018
hanassholesolo:


You cannot touch me as long as i didn't do any physical damage to the person, not in this fucking country, NO YOU FUCKING CAN'T!!!

-Fiance cheats on you
-dumb her
-she commits sucide
-Feels good man

Now you think you can put me in Jail? She's lucky weren't in an Islamic caliphate, the punishment would have been more delicious. you are the most effeminate beta I've ever come across on this forum though.


Oh I see!

Wish you good luck!
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by humilitypays(m): 8:58am On Jan 08, 2018
Marshmallows:

It cannot be helped. It's in our biology, sadly.
but things are gradually changing, just a matter of time.

If u check well nowadays, whenever u see a rich guy getting married to a Lady, if u check well, the Lady must be rich too or from a rich family.

So I think things are changing, its only the average buoyant guys that are still messing up but they too will soon catch up and u won't see any financially able guy getting married to a broke lady again soon, just time

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by wizod(m): 8:58am On Jan 08, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This op think we are kids! So many unbelievable holes in this story
sharap dat girl is ur type.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 8:58am On Jan 08, 2018
hanassholesolo:


You cannot touch me as long as i didn't do any physical damage to the person, not in this fucking country, NO YOU FUCKING CAN'T!!!

-Fiance cheats on you
-dumb her
-she commits sucide
-Feels good man

Now you think you can put me in Jail? She's lucky weren't in an Islamic caliphate, the punishment would have been more delicious. you are the most effeminate beta I've ever come across on this forum though.


hanassholesolo:


You cannot touch me as long as i didn't do any physical damage to the person, not in this fucking country, NO YOU FUCKING CAN'T!!!

-Fiance cheats on you
-dumb her
-she commits sucide
-Feels good man

Now you think you can put me in Jail? She's lucky weren't in an Islamic caliphate, the punishment would have been more delicious. you are the most effeminate beta I've ever come across on this forum though.


Oh I see!

Wish you good luck!
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 8:59am On Jan 08, 2018
hanassholesolo:


You cannot touch me as long as i didn't do any physical damage to the person, not in this fucking country, NO YOU FUCKING CAN'T!!!

-Fiance cheats on you
-dumb her
-she commits sucide
-Feels good man

Now you think you can put me in Jail? She's lucky weren't in an Islamic caliphate, the punishment would have been more delicious. you are the most effeminate beta I've ever come across on this forum though.


hanassholesolo:


You cannot touch me as long as i didn't do any physical damage to the person, not in this fucking country, NO YOU FUCKING CAN'T!!!

-Fiance cheats on you
-dumb her
-she commits sucide
-Feels good man

Now you think you can put me in Jail? She's lucky weren't in an Islamic caliphate, the punishment would have been more delicious. you are the most effeminate beta I've ever come across on this forum though.


hanassholesolo:


You cannot touch me as long as i didn't do any physical damage to the person, not in this fucking country, NO YOU FUCKING CAN'T!!!

-Fiance cheats on you
-dumb her
-she commits sucide
-Feels good man

Now you think you can put me in Jail? She's lucky weren't in an Islamic caliphate, the punishment would have been more delicious. you are the most effeminate beta I've ever come across on this forum though.


Oh I see!

Wish you good luck!

Well as for effeminateB your expression towards me was a good one!

Wish you good luck once again!
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 9:00am On Jan 08, 2018
Marshmallows:

It cannot be helped. It's in our biology, sadly.

Nothing is wrong with women dating up. Didn't the Bible and Quran mandate men to be providers?
They will demand submissions and obedience from women because 'God' says so but will never remember the part God asked them to play in marriages.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by wizod(m): 9:02am On Jan 08, 2018
I better trust buhari than women
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 9:02am On Jan 08, 2018
EWATOMIII:
if these is true I sincerely tell that girl sorry, because these is what some ladies out there prayed and fasted for all day long, maybe she will have to wait for a decade to get that true love again or might not even see again, who am I to judge her we all her bound to make mistake, but some mistake cost you everything so it better to learn from others mistake so has not to make the same.


What tha fucvkshocked
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 9:07am On Jan 08, 2018
Lalas247:
What do you mean by trust no woman and fear them
There are bad egg everywhere the moment you believe all are the same ..... then it’s sad..
Lol the girl Kai ( sheds a tear )

Anyway op you leant a grave lesson ...

Learnt a grave lesson?shocked

Na wa oooo!
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 9:08am On Jan 08, 2018
NLmember:


Nothing is wrong with women dating up. Didn't the Bible and Quran mandate men to be providers?
They will demand submissions and obedience from women because 'God' says so but will never remember the part God asked them to play in marriages.
Ok...
This 2018, I will not devote ANY mental energy to the whims of women.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 9:09am On Jan 08, 2018
Marshmallows:
Ok...
This 2018, I will not devote ANY mental energy to the whims and caprices of women.

Good. They will also not devote energy to your whims and caprices. grin
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Sanchase: 9:11am On Jan 08, 2018
You need to consult your village people
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by hanassholesolo: 9:13am On Jan 08, 2018
Martin0:









Oh I see!

Wish you good luck!

Well as for effeminateB your expression towards me was a good one!

Wish you good luck once again!

I can tell that you have a good heart, but i just don't understand how you can live in Nigeria and still have this kind of soft heart. Maybe in America or some first world i can understand, but why here? i'm not asking you to dump your beliefs (they are rare) but i'm surprised someone could afford to keep their sanity and civility in this country because I know i'm close to losing mine, if i haven't lost it already.

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