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Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by stixxx: 10:52pm On Jan 17, 2018
i think u brought this on yourself. you were cool with her sending him a request on fb and chatting with and even seeing him. u should also be comfortable with her marrying him. move on, hatred in ur heart will consume u and probably hinder u from finding ur own man

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Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by XTLikeNat777: 10:52pm On Jan 17, 2018
You call him an EX and you are still too bothered! Does it means you don't want him to marry?

You 'gossiped' him to your friend and now your friend is smarter.

The advice: Let them be!
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by NickD(m): 10:52pm On Jan 17, 2018
Green222:
Update on the topic.

The stupid heart shredder has dumped the brainless idiot who called herself my friend. She came apologizing and pleading for forgiveness. I have forgiven her but things can never be the same with us.

The guy don collect him share Waka!Lmao!










Ur so immature. Grow up.
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by chalsixtus(m): 10:53pm On Jan 17, 2018
wane01:
Shift jare.....
Were u not there when your friend started everything
Why didn't you talk then...
Mtchew

Exactly
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by crisisexpert321(m): 10:54pm On Jan 17, 2018
Green222:
Please Candid advise needed.

On the 8th Dec. 2017, I was gisting with my Best friend (we have been friends now for 17years) about a guy I dated for 7years. We parted ways because he was a chronic womanizer and was not ready to change. I have caught him on several occasions with other women in action; I have cried myself to sleep because of his actions and in-actions. His actions affected my grades while in school. my relationship with him was well known by his family and mine. The relationship almost caused me my life during an abortion I did for him; he never abandoned me, he was with me thru the ordeal. He is a loving fellow that can do anything for me and defend me anywhere. He can go Xtra miles to please me but that does not stop him from cheating on me. The emotional trauma was becoming too heavy for me to bear, I quite the relationship.

Back to my friend. On this particular day, we decided to search the guy on Facebook, we saw him and my friend sent a friend request. He accepted the request the same day and they started chatting. He requested for her mobile number which she gave to him and they started talking on the phone. The guy requested to meet with her during Xmas as we are all from the same locality. She agreed to the request even though she knew she will be traveling home. I was still in the picture of their discussion at this stage.

On the 22nd, my friend travel to spend the Xmas with her brother's family in the West while I traveled to our Hometown in the North Central. We constantly speak on the phone and she never mentioned her communications with my Ex again. Only for her to call me yesterday that she has changed her travel plans. She has traveled back home on the request of my Ex to meet him in our hometown; they have met and he has introduced her to his family and she has done same and both families accepted them. Their wedding has been fixed for March 2018. She said she has asked my EX to call me

She called this morning to asked if my Ex had called to inform me of his intentions to marry her. I said NO. She said my Ex said he does not have the courage to talk to me.

I feel betrayed by my friend's actions. I have a lot of friends that know my Ex and I and also know me and my Girl friend.

Please I need Candid advise on her to handle this issue

Your story is not adding up well oh my sister. 1st there's absolutely nothing wrong with your best friend marrying your ex. Is a free world.

2nd- How can you have a boyfriend of 7yrs and a best friend of 17yrs and they have not seen or met each other in the course of both friendship?

Its your story anyway!


Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:56pm On Jan 17, 2018
Michelle55:
sorry about that.. he's your Ex and whatever he does shouldn't be of concern to you, wish them well and move on. your own will definitely come your way and when he does be mindful of the kinda friends you keep cos the so-called best friends ain't smiling.. I know it's gonna hurt you that your best friend did that to you but sweetheart that's life for you.. free your heart from every hurt and pains, be happy and enjoy the undiluted love that 2018 brings.
Honestly that's just the best advice. I never put anything before anyone. No one is to be trusted 100%

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Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by nothernstar: 10:59pm On Jan 17, 2018
What you have rejected? No naa you can't go back to him. Let's be straight here. Can you eat your vomit? Do you expect your friend to reject the offer? Nooo. She has seen all those shot comings from the guy. She prayed and believed that God will change him. He has gotten an answer. Who told you that the one you are running to won't cheat on you. You have lost it. So forget it.
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jan 17, 2018
Safiaaa:
Honestly that's just the best advice. I never put anything before anyone. No one is to be trusted 100%

No one is to be trusted....hmmn
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by sexdoll: 11:01pm On Jan 17, 2018
I know it hurts.

But if you look at it closely, you cannot blame any of them for the choices they made.

You've made yours and that's why he's your ex.

You cannot really control whom their hearts lusts after or love.

It is just one of those things with people: very unpredictable.

But you don't have to worry.

It's just a matter of time... and everything will be okay.

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Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by Kamsichime(m): 11:02pm On Jan 17, 2018
When u said u dnt want to eat a particular meat dnt use ur teeth to shear it for ur children. Marriage is nt friendship it is a serious biz. Beg God 4 d abortion He'll giv u ur husband
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Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by itsmeurLady(f): 11:08pm On Jan 17, 2018
The reason I don't have a best friend.... they can kill you, I hail all those girls wey carry bestie for head, una get mind!!!
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by BlackMbakara1(m): 11:10pm On Jan 17, 2018
Sorry Op, an old toy you don't fancy again...can't a friend use it peacefully?

You backed out because he's a womanizer; so please keep moving forward, don't look back else you turn to a salt.
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by Rajosh(m): 11:10pm On Jan 17, 2018
your friend didn't do anything wrong seeing that she's not the cause of your breakup with him and she also updated you of their plans. you were just plain jealous. Now he's dumped her and you're happy, why don't you go and marry him then?

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Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by ikevictor: 11:11pm On Jan 17, 2018
A true kind heart would not allow you to abort for him...when he fully understands how that affects your humanity.

So point no 1. Both you and your EX are senseless aND stupid.

Point no 2. What kind of human being could start a game you are obviously not ready for the outcome *introducing your friend to your ex*...so what were you trying to achieve?...

Point no 3. You requested for feedback on the game you started and you got a wedding invite as feedback and you areally asking for advice again. You are a confused human being madam

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Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by neyop85(m): 11:11pm On Jan 17, 2018
[quote author=EOOJ post=64283081]Ur funny oooo... Ur ex is ur ex...and Ur friend did absolutely nothing wrong. if she found happiness with him, let her marry him jare. Why trying to create a problem between u and her Abegiii, free d babe jor.

Some people sef angry angry angry



Still dosent change d fact dat ur friend did nothing
wrong!!!!
See d way ur abusing her sef angry angry angry Na wa




Or u were probably jealous dat he chose her, not u

Haba.... Life is too short to be creating unecessary problems






Guy, one should be careful keeping your type as friends.
Her friend had no moral right to date her friend's. Even if she wanted to, she should have seeked her friend's permission.
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by Ziggymarly(m): 11:11pm On Jan 17, 2018
[quote author=ArchangeLucifer post=63979028]Get a rope - a very strong one.

Tie it to a well.

Make sure its secured.

Wrap the noose around your neck.

Now scream "BUHARI!!!" & jump into the well.

You wont drown, I promise.

Thank me later...



Yes. U are very correct. Lol. The guy in question is her ex, not her Current guy. She should go kiss te transformer.
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by rosieluv(f): 11:19pm On Jan 17, 2018
Green222:
Update on the topic.

The stupid heart shredder has dumped the brainless idiot who called herself my friend. She came apologizing and pleading for forgiveness. I have forgiven her but things can never be the same with us.

The guy don collect him share Waka!Lmao!
Chai please cut ties with such person, she never confided in you when she travelled to see him and now he used her and dumped her!!! but that guy Sha, I hail him









Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by roarik(f): 11:19pm On Jan 17, 2018
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Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by buske(m): 11:20pm On Jan 17, 2018
Mumu story
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by biblegirl: 11:22pm On Jan 17, 2018
I thought u said ur Ex even d bible says old things re passed away n now u re a new creature.thats ur left over girlfriend, dnt go back to ur vomit.n dnt abort again,go n sin no more
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by buske(m): 11:26pm On Jan 17, 2018
Green222:
Please Candid advise needed.

On the 8th Dec. 2017, I was gisting with my Best friend (we have been friends now for 17years) about a guy I dated for 7years. We parted ways because he was a chronic womanizer and was not ready to change. I have caught him on several occasions with other women in action; I have cried myself to sleep because of his actions and in-actions. His actions affected my grades while in school. my relationship with him was well known by his family and mine. The relationship almost caused me my life during an abortion I did for him; he never abandoned me, he was with me thru the ordeal. He is a loving fellow that can do anything for me and defend me anywhere. He can go Xtra miles to please me but that does not stop him from cheating on me. The emotional trauma was becoming too heavy for me to bear, I quite the relationship.

Back to my friend. On this particular day, we decided to search the guy on Facebook, we saw him and my friend sent a friend request. He accepted the request the same day and they started chatting. He requested for her mobile number which she gave to him and they started talking on the phone. The guy requested to meet with her during Xmas as we are all from the same locality. She agreed to the request even though she knew she will be traveling home. I was still in the picture of their discussion at this stage.

On the 22nd, my friend travel to spend the Xmas with her brother's family in the West while I traveled to our Hometown in the North Central. We constantly speak on the phone and she never mentioned her communications with my Ex again. Only for her to call me yesterday that she has changed her travel plans. She has traveled back home on the request of my Ex to meet him in our hometown; they have met and he has introduced her to his family and she has done same and both families accepted them. Their wedding has been fixed for March 2018. She said she has asked my EX to call me

She called this morning to asked if my Ex had called to inform me of his intentions to marry her. I said NO. She said my Ex said he does not have the courage to talk to me.

I feel betrayed by my friend's actions. I have a lot of friends that know my Ex and I and also know me and my Girl friend.

Please I need Candid advise on her to handle this issue



Green222 this your story doesn't add up at all!

You've been friends for 17 years and yet she didn't know of the guy you dated for 7 years?.. How old are you? 40

A guy that broke your heart....why would you go back to your vomit by searching for him on fb?

Why would you stay, watch and allow your 'best friend' send him a friend request... For what reason

What kinda best friend will even think of that??... Or was your intention to carry out an experiment to see if he has changed??

From Your best friend's action, she seems like a desperado......you on your part have a problem with letting go.... I'm guessing the guy must be some rich dude.

Just how many weeks and they're talking about marriage....what kinda friendship mixed with stupidity is wrong with all of you?

Like seriously from you Op, to your 'best friend', to the guy... Ya'll need to see a psychiatrist.

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Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by mentorandfriend(m): 11:27pm On Jan 17, 2018
My dear, I'm sure God has a better person for you. He might still be a chronic cheat and womanizer. You deserve the best.

You'll have more in the future than you've lost in the past,
so long as there's life. It's a universal principle.

However, learn to manage your expectations of people, even your closest allies. My best friends are my mum and sisters. Every other person I roll with are second best to my family, and I'll never disclose certain stuffs to them. Familiarity with people that are not family is a lie. If familiarity is useful, water wouldn't boil fish. Just learn and move on.
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by mentorandfriend(m): 11:30pm On Jan 17, 2018
Green222:
Update on the topic.

The stupid heart shredder has dumped the brainless idiot who called herself my friend. She came apologizing and pleading for forgiveness. I have forgiven her but things can never be the same with us.

The guy don collect him share Waka!Lmao!

I love this.

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Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by deavicky(m): 11:37pm On Jan 17, 2018
Green222:
Update on the topic.

The stupid heart shredder has dumped the brainless idiot who called herself my friend. She came apologizing and pleading for forgiveness. I have forgiven her but things can never be the same with us.

The guy don collect him share Waka!Lmao!










I don't understand. The same day u post this topic, the same day u got the information that he had dump her. I small fake topic. Or u finally find a way to spoil ur friend's joy.
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by OBIGS(m): 11:41pm On Jan 17, 2018
Will you marry me
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by buske(m): 11:42pm On Jan 17, 2018
deavicky:
I don't understand. The same day u post this topic, the same day u got the information that he had dump her. I small fake topic. Or u finally find a way to spoil ur friend's joy.

Don't mind op.... It's a very stupid story!

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Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by KanwuliaExtra: 11:45pm On Jan 17, 2018
Green222:
Please Candid advise needed.

On the 8th Dec. 2017, I was gisting with my Best friend (we have been friends now for 17years) about a guy I dated for 7years. We parted ways because he was a chronic womanizer and was not ready to change. I have caught him on several occasions with other women in action; I have cried myself to sleep because of his actions and in-actions. His actions affected my grades while in school. my relationship with him was well known by his family and mine. The relationship almost caused me my life during an abortion I did for him; he never abandoned me, he was with me thru the ordeal. He is a loving fellow that can do anything for me and defend me anywhere. He can go Xtra miles to please me but that does not stop him from cheating on me. The emotional trauma was becoming too heavy for me to bear, I quite the relationship.

Back to my friend. On this particular day, we decided to search the guy on Facebook, we saw him and my friend sent a friend request. He accepted the request the same day and they started chatting. He requested for her mobile number which she gave to him and they started talking on the phone. The guy requested to meet with her during Xmas as we are all from the same locality. She agreed to the request even though she knew she will be traveling home. I was still in the picture of their discussion at this stage.

On the 22nd, my friend travel to spend the Xmas with her brother's family in the West while I traveled to our Hometown in the North Central. We constantly speak on the phone and she never mentioned her communications with my Ex again. Only for her to call me yesterday that she has changed her travel plans. She has traveled back home on the request of my Ex to meet him in our hometown; they have met and he has introduced her to his family and she has done same and both families accepted them. Their wedding has been fixed for March 2018. She said she has asked my EX to call me

She called this morning to asked if my Ex had called to inform me of his intentions to marry her. I said NO. She said my Ex said he does not have the courage to talk to me.

I feel betrayed by my friend's actions. I have a lot of friends that know my Ex and I and also know me and my Girl friend.

Please I need Candid advise on her to handle this issue


There only issue here IS YOU! kiss
What is your business? undecided
You quit the relationship, it did not work for you.
Wish them goodluck and move on with your life.
Are you jealous or do you feel used?
Is he a CATCH? Maybe, but NOT FOR YOU.

Lessons learned?
Take better care of yourself and MAKE BETTER CHOICES IN MEN AND FRIENDS! kiss

Your loss, her gain OR MISFORTUNE.
Every DOG has a master.
You need another DOG simple. kiss
LEAVE THEM ALONE and face your life. kiss
Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by Damfostopper(m): 11:46pm On Jan 17, 2018
Green222:
Update on the topic.

The stupid heart shredder has dumped the brainless idiot who called herself my friend. She came apologizing and pleading for forgiveness. I have forgiven her but things can never be the same with us.

The guy don collect him share Waka!Lmao!










how old are you..... yur just pathetic ...is like water is flowing in ur brain

Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by WunderGist: 11:53pm On Jan 17, 2018
You should all learn to Read to Understand not to Read to reply.

Most of your replies (esp. girls) shows most of you are shameless sha. The OP Green222 said her friend is about to marry her ex that she had an abortion for and you're saying what's the big deal. I THINK YOU ARE ALL MAD ABI

CRAZE DY WORRY ALL OF YOU THAT SUPPORTED THE OP FRIEND

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Re: My Best Friend Is Planning Marriage With My Ex-Boyfriend by Nobody: 11:55pm On Jan 17, 2018
Let them marry. It is painful but thank God because that is a cross which is you are not meant to carry.

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