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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by MIKOLOWISKA: 1:59am On Feb 09, 2018
RuthDaniels:
Thank you!

The emboldened is the plain truth! But watch them guys come scream "men don't have body count " cheesy
do they
who go suffer pass
man or woman
who carry marriage for head pass

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by MIKOLOWISKA: 2:05am On Feb 09, 2018
zezebabyxoxo:
It's funny how Uncle Toks is not responding to comments on his single status at his advanced age despite his wealth of knowledge. smiley If you were so great, I'm sure a wife material (by your standard of course) would have snatched you off the market. We all know how scarce quality men are.
thats the point
they are not wife material
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Saintmary(f): 2:05am On Feb 09, 2018
Israeljones:
comments made by ladies on the 1st page is one of the reasons why we now have so many single moms.... If a lady still have 'there are many fishes in the sea' syndrome.... the world of single moms just got started.....


All the ladies that have commented so far shows the kinda ladiees we live with in this country... So so unintelligent... on a thread like is either u argue for or against.. these ones are busy attacking the OP...

little wonder, their pair reported a rape case to the media and not to the appropriate authority...Lady so dumb
It's a pity. The same set of people who ask others to be objective refuse to do so themselves. I think a single mother is better off than a man single at 40. At least she's got someone to love. Single lonely men have a very high tendency for many health problems. Getting hitched helps men live longer. Google it.

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by MIKOLOWISKA: 2:10am On Feb 09, 2018
AZeD1:

I'm sorry your post makes no sense and comes across as misogynistic.

mega sense



If a guy dumps a woman because of her genotype, how is that the fault of the woman?


not suitable to have children



If a guy dumps a woman because she starts earning more, how is the fault of the woman?

not humble




If a guy dumps a woman because he relocates, how is the fault of the woman?



not willing to follow her husband



There's an urgent need to organise a logic class.
you need the logic class most
he said check yourself not your fault
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by MIKOLOWISKA: 2:21am On Feb 09, 2018
JennieCutie4U:

oga, in most cases, the guys r the ones that really need to check themselves...

why
na una get bio clock not us


I don't totally agree with you that something is wrong with a girl if a guy dates d girl for a year and dumps her afterwards...all through the one year, they've been good together,

she good for sex na
we have needs and we look for idiots to fill them

he didn't find reason(s) to break up with her until after one year( and am sure he must have drilled her morally, physically, spiritually, SEXually, emotionally, domestically and what have you...) until all of a sudden, one year after, after he must have thought of the stupid need
only a fool would call a need stupid



to have a taste of another soup, and having the useless notion that a man can change and use women like wrapper anytime and anyhow they want,
its not useless if its true
women can change boyfriend anyhow
men can change wife anyhow
we did not complain when you were doingg shakara in your 20s
now enjoy the wall


they go ahead and discharge the poor girl like waste bin...(chei! umu Nwaanyi don suffer Sha) and move on with their lives like nothing ever happened. Guys need to check themselves too...

who lose?
you had your chance
you wasted it
not endure


Though I know some ladies or girls have their issues too when it comes to relationship; with the attitudes, characters and all... but you people shouldn't always make it seem like it's always the girls' problem or fault...guys still have their own pool of faults or problems too! No one is perfect! Everybody has their imperfections which they work on everyday.

then the girls should dump them abi?



Even that cool heaven sent(for your mind)girl you dumped your babe for and finally married could be your headache tomorrow in ur marriage... it is well
then we will dump her too

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by MIKOLOWISKA: 2:26am On Feb 09, 2018
alexialin:










So which means, if she had not offered her body but they are dating with abstinence involved, that means if she dumps him, the question is no longer flawed?


U see? That's why I always tell ladies, don't quickly fucvk a guy because u accept his wooing. Date, watch him, test his character for like 6months before fucvking him.

But most guys know, their character is questionable, so they quickly want to like fucvk sharp sharp before all eyes clear.

Can u imagine?
and the women are so desperate they open their legs to keep him
we still saying the same thing
signs of bad judgement





Tok2008 said my question is flawed because the guy had drilled her Pussyyy in all ramifications. So she can't dump him


U make me laugh grin
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by MIKOLOWISKA: 2:27am On Feb 09, 2018
AZeD1:

Bros you are still stuck in the 80's, this is 2018 lots of girls are hanging with guys just for sex. The moment they meet another, it's off to next one.

You need to keep up.
another reason to dump her

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by MIKOLOWISKA: 2:30am On Feb 09, 2018
Gangster1ms:

Will u shut up!? Before i enter u now angry most of y'all are sh!t and deserves to be dumped like it's a running stomach. And From the comments u usually make in most of these kinda threads i think u should be dumped every month.. no sane guy will tolerate a mad woman with wide mouth and groundnut brain like urs for a whole year!
chei so there is somn worse than fish brain

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by LaudableXX: 2:32am On Feb 09, 2018
Toks2008:
I guess this erroneous mindset of "there are many niggas" might just be why the guy dumps the lady cos many ladies tend to use this line as consolatory remarks just to get dumped again and again and again. ..just saying...
Has it occurred to you that too many men have flaws, just like the women and they are not perfect either? Have you ever heard of the curse of the familiar? No? Let me break it down. undecided

At the start of a relationship, everything is new, shiny and exciting, because the whole affair is still a novelty. wink As days turn into weeks, and weeks into months, then the novelty wears off to the extent that everything becomes familiar, and common place. And that is what our local folks call "see finish." Nothing is exciting, anymore.

In order to stave off boredom, such men go hunting for new things. sad In the process, a new girl catches their fancy and the thrill of the chase begins. It is not that there is anything wrong with the old girl, it is just that the relationship has become stale, common place and too 'familiar.' For a man that is undisciplined, this cycle will recur over and over again. He dates a girl for a while, the affair gets stale, he dumps her citing a multitude of funny reasons, and moves on to another babe. And this beat goes on, repeatedly. But a rational man with a sound mind, will sit down to assess the situation, and try to make his old relationship more exciting, in order to take things forward, and make it more stable. That is what a sane man would do, but too many of my male friends lack the trait and discipline to think things through, and apply wisdom to get their relationships working again. undecided

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by slightlyMad(f): 2:32am On Feb 09, 2018
MissSlimbody:
Who broke your heart

You really need to get over it and move on.
You need to change that picture, na bad market

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by LaudableXX: 2:35am On Feb 09, 2018
Toks2008:
This is exactly why Men use many ladies as intimacy gadgets...you will never see intelligent ladies attacking a writer but they focus on the topic and give fantastic views people can learn from.

As a sapiosexual,I don't ever pray to come across unintelligent ladies and if I mistakenly date them,I dump them with the speed of light.
Sapiosexual?? You mean sapiosexuals are unable to tell if a lady is intelligent or not, from their first few meetings, and actually have to date them in order to find out?? shocked

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by LaudableXX: 2:38am On Feb 09, 2018
Yankee101:
Stop making women feel inferior about themselves.

Men are generally scared of commitment

Men won't tell you if you have a fault they just walk away

Men go out to look for the 5% that their lover lacks

If men talk more constructively I think relationships will be better

For women, generally be clean, non talkative, hard working, not overly demanding and love him up.
Exactly! You hit da nail on da head! cool grin

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by LarryBeryl(m): 2:38am On Feb 09, 2018
Jamariwolff:
So I shud check myself because of a nigga when there are millions of other niggas that will appreciate me and all I have a offer.

Rubbish.

I think you should check yourself, Why you jump from one lady to another like a bag of flies.

I mean no disrespect or whatever, our perspective on ladies depend on our previous relationship with them. I for one cannot date more than one lady at a go but yet saw reasons to ditch one for another. Yes, you are right, you will be appreciated at first if you are beautiful but if the attitude that got you dumped keeps repeating itself with you not trying to adjust, my sister you can get dumped all over again. But you may be LUCKY to get a guy who can keep up with the altitude but trust me, it will be difficult. I'm sorry to say this but the notion of
Jamariwolff:
when there are millions of other niggas that will appreciate me and all I have a offer.
gets ladies in trouble a lot!

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by LaudableXX: 2:44am On Feb 09, 2018
MISTAICEY02288:
Spot on. This makes so much sense. I am going through the same scenario presently. I am about to dumb my babe of a year and 5 months to concentrate on another lady. I think that would be a very wise decision for me.
(sigh!) Another bag of errors loading.... undecided
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Saintmary(f): 2:45am On Feb 09, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
He is a divorcee. Perhaps he's taking his time now.
So, ladies should pity a male divorcee even though he seems to blame them for his present marital status..

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Saintmary(f): 2:49am On Feb 09, 2018
AZeD1:

Bros you are still stuck in the 80's, this is 2018 lots of girls are hanging with guys just for sex. The moment they meet another, it's off to next one.

You need to keep up.
seems he's from the previous generation

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Nobody: 2:52am On Feb 09, 2018
MIKOLOWISKA:

and the women are so desperate they open their legs to keep him
we still saying the same thing
signs of bad judgement



















So true.
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by LaudableXX: 2:52am On Feb 09, 2018
MISTAICEY02288:
Oh yea she's got some attitudes. I actually know she is loyal and doesn't cheat though. But she seems not to be as committed as i am to the relationship. She doesn't call often or send messages. Most times lately, i do the talking first before her. We both might be online on Whatsapp and she wouldn't say a thin until i do that. I believe she loves me actually but i cant continue being the one doing the most. You can imagine having a partner who doesn't call or keep in touch with you whereas some other dude keeps in touch with you more often than your so called partner. Thats exactly whats goin on now. Theres this lady who calls and messages me every moment just to know how i am doing while babe doesn't do that often.

Ok, I get it now. sad Suddenly another lady is showing interest in you, and you have not bothered to ask why?? shocked So your old girlfriend who is being faithful, loyal and honest doesn't matter to you any more, now it is attention you are seeking, ba? Ok, o! wink You are the same one that will come back here to tell us how the second girl who you have just promoted to the status of your new babe, is flirting with every man she chats up on Whatsapp. Carry go! grin

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Nobody: 2:55am On Feb 09, 2018
I would rather date someone for long than rush into marriage and divorce sometimes I believe God always has a purpose and the people we hangout with have a real effect on our psyche negatively Do not regret separation if all they do is find fault.
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by LaudableXX: 2:56am On Feb 09, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
And have you called her attention to it? You guys should discuss it. All that glitters ain't gold. This your new catch might not b that loyal. Be wise
Biko, why are you advising him, nah? His ego is just suffering, and instead of him to put it in check, he wants to stray or get a side-chic. Let him do it, and get trapped. Dog wey wan lost no dey hear whistle of the hunter. Experience is the best teacher. cheesy

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by LaudableXX: 3:03am On Feb 09, 2018
vicfy:
You spoke my mind brother....my girl of 1yr n two months played stupid last weekend. She was billed to go back to school on monday, so i bought her some provisions which i handed over to her last week just to add to whatever her parents gave her. I hoped to impress her n make our last meeting memorable. So, i cooked (something i hardly do) n kept some money 4 her, as she told me she was coming over. Later in d day, she called to inform me dt she'll be coming wt a frnd n i said NO WORRIES. Only 4 her to text me later dt d frnd held her up somewhere bt she'll still come. I waited in vain n had to call her line, bt she wouldn't answer. I later discovered dt she went on a double date with her frnd, got drunk, den went straight home. The following day, she didn't show up untill evening. That was when she came pleading dt she came back late n was so weak, so she went straight home. I asked if she wasn't going back to school as she told me, bt she said dt she needed to see me first. I told her dt i have a meeting by 5pm, n i had to go. So, i locked my door n left her sitting by the corridor. She later called twice n dropped offline messages, bt i haven't responded. I guess she still thinks its one of those days when i get angry n later come back. I just pray i find someone better

You want to find someone better because of one stupid mistake she made over one weekend? I laugh in Chinese! cheesy Are you an angel, yourself?
Haven't you ever gone off with a friend and lost track of time? You chaps need to sit down with real men, and get tutorials on how to conduct yourself as a man, and build meaningful relationships.

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Saintmary(f): 3:22am On Feb 09, 2018
Toks2008:


Lol! it depends on how you read my threads...if you read them upsidedown then you will think it's about hatred for women but if you read it the normal way you will realize that it is in their best interest.
and why do you care so much about their interests?
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by skales67(m): 3:23am On Feb 09, 2018
MissSlimbody:
...Very frustrated, I tell you.
I have always know him to be this way, since I joined nairaland.

The lady that broke his heart didn't do well at all.

So when a guy gives meaningful information about relationships and it is in the direction of admonishing the women, it turns out that his heart was broken? I can bet all i have that if it were a female Nairalander who opened this topic and put it the other way round, you and the likes of Mrs Wolf will urge her on saying it is the truth. Why is it that Nigerian women suffer from double standards and inferiority complex? SMH! So pathetic!!

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by LaudableXX: 3:25am On Feb 09, 2018
Toks2008:
In a sane world,no woman can claim to dump a man after she has offered her body to him so your question is flawed...My opinion

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by skales67(m): 3:29am On Feb 09, 2018
Jamariwolff:
Hmmm, this is his first thread I'm actually seeing.

How can someone be this pained biko, it stinks from my phone screen sef.

Is it your pain? Is it your stinking? STFU and grow a brain!
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by skales67(m): 3:33am On Feb 09, 2018
Saintmary:

It's a pity. The same set of people who ask others to be objective refuse to do so themselves. I think a single mother is better off than a man single at 40. At least she's got someone to love. Single lonely men have a very high tendency for many health problems. Getting hitched helps men live longer. Google it.

And who told you a single man is lonely? Or you want to start dictating and making permutations about the lives of single men? Pls grow a brain

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Nobody: 3:45am On Feb 09, 2018
Toks2008:


In a sane world,no woman can claim to dump a man after she has offered her body to him so your question is flawed...My opinion

Body is not the only reason God joins two souls together it’s to procreate and sometimes it’s better to be dumped because I would hate for a child to grow and endure so much pain when things can change a relationship is a mirror sometimes what you see in others lies deep within

marriage is for life so I’d rather be dumped protect a generation than endure and manage
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Saintmary(f): 3:54am On Feb 09, 2018
skales67:


And who told you a single man is lonely? Or you want to start dictating and making permutations about the lives of single men? Pls grow a brain
brains don't grow dear, Google it.
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Saintmary(f): 3:56am On Feb 09, 2018
Blonchilli:
Little minds. See how myopic girls are attacking Toks2008 personality instead of the idea. No wonder all their relationship end online. Attack the idea with intelligent reasons people not the person
Its called walking the talk.

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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Saintmary(f): 4:01am On Feb 09, 2018
Gangster1ms:
These girls thinking they are doing u favour by dating u and that's why u see most of them misbehaving.. meanwhile the real person doing the favour is the guys.. they are helping the girls miserable life sef. My God.. u don use konji scatter this world.. take away that curse from we men and u see these women cry blood cos we no go send them at all!
you can get sex dolls
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Nobody: 4:04am On Feb 09, 2018
its bad to be dump, but the experience calls for sober reflection, if a lady is dumped twice she really needs to reboot
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Nobody: 4:53am On Feb 09, 2018
Jamariwolff:
So I shud check myself because of a nigga when there are millions of other niggas that will appreciate me and all I have a offer.

Rubbish.

I think you should check yourself, Why you jump from one lady to another like a bag of flies.
Millions of niggas U say? out of the millions or even billions of niggas only about 10 might want a serious relationship with U others want to sample U. Even out of the 10 only will be serious so what is possibility of meeting them

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