Lilkini:
wah abt falling in love wid a core muslim girl buh ur a christian... shes ur friend buh u want more. u scared to tell her cos you just think it wont work out?


just an innocent question pls

I have a far neighbor. He is a Christian and his wife is Muslim. The children practice both religion. THIS IS EARTH WHERE EVERYTHING GOES. IT DOESNT WORK FOR ONE DOESNT MEAN IT WONT FOR THE OTHER

RuthDaniels:
No!

Sometimes we leave those we love because letting them go is the only way to prove we love them.


If you have never being in love with someone who finds happiness in another, you may never understand me.

If you haven't been in love with someone whom your presence in their lives will only give them pains, you may find me crazy

There is always someone in a person's life whom they love but can't be with.

@ ur last sentence, Many of us don't know what love is. We sometimes take lust, obsession, infatuation to be love.Jesus asked Peter, do you love me, he said yes, then Jesus said, feed my lamb. How about he says if you try to feed them and they don't eat, leave them. That's how I love them. For God so loved the world that he "gave". He gave something so costly to make it work. How about he says I love them but I will just let them find happiness otherwise. Since, they cannot find happiness in me. IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEONE AND SOMEONE TRULY LOVES YOU, YOU WILL FIND HAPPINESS IN EACH OTHER. Love can be pain sometimes but it is that one to be endured. Jesus went through pains. The pain there is to test our patience, tolerance and endurance. It will pass if it is true love! There isn't any point loving someone who doesn't love you. Infact, it's always mutual. If you claim to love someone who does not recipocrate, it's simply obsession

I'm in a relationship with a girl for up to 3years..

I am tired and want Out.
But I can't � bear the thought of us going diversely.

Is this love or something else?

Matured mind pls

love is when ur girlfriend meets u drinking garri @ 8a.m and she volunteer to buy groundnut to make d garri enough for both of u to drink.

johnnyn1:
I'm in a relationship with a girl for up to 3years..

I am tired and want Out.
But I can't � bear the thought of us going diversely.

Is this love or something else?

Matured mind pls

what are your reasons for wanting out?

RuthDaniels:
No!

Sometimes we leave those we love because letting them go is the only way to prove we love them.


If you have never being in love with someone who finds happiness in another, you may never understand me.

If you haven't been in love with someone whom your presence in their lives will only give them pains, you may find me crazy

There is always someone in a person's life whom they love but can't be with.

This is very true!

RuthDaniels:
No!

Sometimes we leave those we love because letting them go is the only way to prove we love them.


If you have never being in love with someone who finds happiness in another, you may never understand me.

[b]If you haven't been in love with someone whom your presence in their lives will only give them pains, you may find me crazy

There is always someone in a person's life whom they love but can't be with. [/b]

majekdom2:
what are your reasons for wanting out?

The relationship has loses so much.
No romance
No communication
No emotion
No interaction
I can't really say no love..
etc

I'm so open to move on. Buh I feel like I can't.
I don't want to break her heart

Toks2008:



Then it was never love but they probably thought it was.

Except a case where they found out they are family members but any other reason is a facade.

U never see. Who no go, no know. Just pray dat u don't see sha.

RuthDaniels:
No!

Sometimes we leave those we love because letting them go is the only way to prove we love them.


If you have never being in love with someone who finds happiness in another, you may never understand me.

If you haven't been in love with someone whom your presence in their lives will only give them pains, you may find me crazy

There is always someone in a person's life whom they love but can't be with.

True on all counts minus the last sentence. It isn't always the case. Some of us can be and are with the very one person we love.

johnnyn1:


The relationship has loses so much.
No romance
No communication
No emotion
No interaction
I can't really say no love..
etc

I'm so open to move on. Buh I feel like I can't.
I don't want to break her heart

were these things that are missing there from the start, if yes, you might have fallen out of love. She is aware of what's going on. Why don't you sit and have a conversation like adults. Check through and see where you both failed but if you two can't seem to balance the chemistry anymore, you can both agree to take some break.

majekdom2:
were these things that are missing there from the start, if yes, you might have fallen out of love. She is aware of what's going on. Why don't you sit and have a conversation like adults. Check through and see where you both failed but if you two can't seem to balance the chemistry anymore, you can both agree to take some break.

Oh yh all mentioned was there at the start..
Sighs..
Thanks so much

You are not a woman so stop saying this same repeated thrash. Love is the same for everyone and knows no sex or race. You can not cheat on someone you love.

Toks2008:


This is a mystery the world is yet to unravel.

A man can cheat on a lady yet love her to pieces but when a lady cheats on her man then it's a most certain she is no longer in love with the man...

Toks2008:


This is a mystery the world is yet to unravel.

A man can cheat on a lady yet love her to pieces but when a lady cheats on her man then it's a most certain she is no longer in love with the man...

Please speak for yourself. I can't even kiss another lady while in another relationship without that feeling of guilt. Yes I'm guileless, and there are so many of my type out there.

Good

Toks2008:
Often times we use the words "I love you" but with a little tilt in the emotional balance,we tend to walk away from the lives of the people we claim to love.

I have heard countless excuses why many couples break up and in most cases,these excuses are lame, unreasonable and indeed as the name implies,an excuse they just want to hold on to in order to carry out their predetermined intent of leaving.

There will always be a reason to stay or leave any romantic union we find ourselves and in most cases,there will be more reasons to leave rather than stay but if you truly love someone,you will make excuses for their flaws and you will meticulously find one reason to remain in their lives.

I hope this makes sense.

Lie.

True love will let go if the other party is not willing to continue.

Sometimes it just didn't work the way we want...Simply because we tend to expect too much from our partner...


It's really nice to be in love with someone we really care & adore. But bcoz our partner cannot meet our standard, we tend to be volatile & we tend to walkout from our relationship...

True love still exist tho but only for those who really believe

If you love someone then you love someone period ..... there's no simple or hard way for you to test yourself to find out if you're in love. What need to be tested is if the other person loves you in return. Too many relationships fall apart because love is flowing from the heart of one party and from the lips of the other. Here on NL so often someone will be swearing how much they love some person.... want to marry them ... but never for a moment consider if the person loves them in return. Then later on... the guy will be complaining about how much he spent on the girl/his fiancé and can't understand why she is misbehaving. It feels sooo good loving somebody when somebody loves you back!

there is nothing likr love in this part of the world... what we believe in here is that when you can provide the wherewithal in a relationship, then can love come to it.....

RuthDaniels:
Smh

You dont even love Toks enough to leave your watermelon to help me explain his thread?

BTW where's my own?

Na people like you be the issue

Valentine ti take over Mistake

Na Real Madrid PSG.

Love my ass

RuthDaniels:
No!

Sometimes we leave those we love because letting them go is the only way to prove we love them.


If you have never being in love with someone who finds happiness in another, you may never understand me.

If you haven't been in love with someone whom your presence in their lives will only give them pains, you may find me crazy

There is always someone in a person's life whom they love but can't be with.

The singular reason we allow whom we love go is because we have tried to win them back and look unaccomplished. what can you do? nothing rather than to say a final goodbye.

Again the irony of loosing him/her is when that stupid thing called love grows...... make I go back to bed before I think of the past

skales67:
Love is just like everything...it has a beginning and it has an expiry date. Mine ended about an hour ago...

She cheated on me the first time in 2016...yet i forgave her

She did it again just late last year...i confronted her 3 weeks ago and she was adamant and unremorseful...i decided to end it within me and did not call her for those 3 weeks, then she called me just an hour ago and i reminded her of 3 weeks ago, told her i can't continue to play the fool anymore and she hung up. I know i am hurt but i'll be fine. Goodbye Chinyere...was nice knowing you from 2 Feb 2014 - 11 Feb 2018

sorry man it really hurt

Jozzy4:


Sir Toks, I don't really support that ... Do you mean two people who love each other but are both genotype " AS " should still find a reason to hold on ?

For this, the love will open eyes. lol

If they separate on this ground, it doesn't stop them loving each other if the love is truly real.. They just separate for the sake of their future children

Nygma:
I check if I love her by making her orgasm

childish of you.

bjayx:

Honestly...I have some exes that I can always lay wit whenever I wanna. They just can't help it. Its a crazy world

are they marid?

It is well

Oboi come see love analysis from all these gals choi....love kor lust ni

RuthDaniels:
No!

Sometimes we leave those we love because letting them go is the only way to prove we love them.


If you have never being in love with someone who finds happiness in another, you may never understand me.

If you haven't been in love with someone whom your presence in their lives will only give them pains, you may find me crazy

There is always someone in a person's life whom they love but can't be with.

pls can i copy this? It sounds so real

Toks2008:


Exactly my point...I fear that part when a man or woman you are married to comes across an ex they truly loved...that marriage is in danger.

It only means ur partner doesn't love u. Bcux if she or he does, no past flames is going to re_ignite let's just say cux u re worth than dat ex

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