Funkybabee:



Can you mentions little out of nonsense church since you know good church and for people out here if they want to join cuz I don't know what u will say if non believers say this and maybe u are one self


@op don't listen to what some uncultured children here say to disrespect or stand against ur father just becuz u want to cross to another church,my advice for u is to get ur own apartment far away from your dad church or go to another state to begin a new life but my best advice for u if u can marry from another or ur wish church and pray let holy spirit lead u for everything, I think its will be easier to convince him

ladiesreject:

Did she tell you that she needs suggestions as to which church she should go next after she leaves deeper life? What do you mean by she should find a nice Catholic or Anglican Church? Catholic Church na church? I'd rather be a deeper lifer for 10 years than to be a Catholic for one day.

luvablesam:


fine....mind sending me one then?

fabre4:


Stop this useless emotional blackmail there is nothing like payback for leaving a church. Besides most of these pastors left their parents church so unless this payback is starting from the parents forget it... She is leaving church not christ.

Dirkcoyt:


I remember telling my mama that I'm not getting married but I will bore children. come see emotional blackmail! she was like all her friends are doing wedding for their children say wetin make she talk? she said people will say because she's a single mother that's why he doesn't want her child to marry also.

I just dey laugh, I no gree ooooh, when she see say I no gree she begin dey soft. I also started pointing to some of her friends that were married but later left the marriage, I told her what's the point. I think parents are just funny set of control freaks generally in Africa.

SAMBARRY:
exactly.even.God doesn't want you to worship him because your parents insists.he WANTS a willing,free will worship from the heart and not to satisfy your parents.

emerged01:

Bros chill! Most of you that quoted me never read the posted I quoted. I wasn't referring to the lady that owned the thread. I was referring to the guy I quoted. He sounded harsh trying to justify his action against his dad.
What I meant by payback is near was that the journey of our own parenthood will be determined by our behavior toward our parents. He chose to go to gospel but his own daughter may choose to go celestial.

GoodMuyis:


The bold is not not True, God is super happy when parents insists that Children must serve the God of their Father. That is why He is proud to reveal himself to Israelite as God of Abraham ....of Isaac...of Jacob.

He is willing to secure the Kingdom for David's lineage ONLY is they serve him the way David did.

Do you remember what provoke God to secure covenant with the Children of Rechab? Yet the Rechabite did not claim to follow the commandment of God, but of their father.

Do you know why Ali was condemned? Figure that out yourself

Truth be told you lack Biblical knowledge No thanks to you for teaching the OP rebellion witchcraft against her father

shadeyinka:


That is why I subscribe to cutting off dependence from parents as soon as they have done their best to fund your education.

He who pays the bill makes the rules...it just fair

SAMBARRY:
Lmaooo.enforcing your standards is witchcraft?

What brand of weed do you take?

Please if you don't have anything reasonable or edifying to quote,you don't have to quote me.thank you for complying

GoodMuyis:


Before you waste your time on her check her profile 1st

Then you shall laugh with me

GoodMuyis:


Ok Repent and Give your life to Jesus

SAMBARRY:
and so what? If I attend 4square and my daughter decides to attend Methodist and so what?as long as the virtues of Christ is shown in her,I don't give a damn.it's when she decides to attend all these questionable churches like ekankar,gurumaraji etc that I Will raise brows

SAMBARRY:
it's already with Jesus.it's not you who will tell me that

Dirkcoyt:


Me oooooo , person nofit manipulate my emotion, if person dey choke me I dey comot am for road. African parents need to take a crash course in child development.

emerged01:

Lol! You can always be whatever you want to be under your own roof but under their roof you keep to their rules and principle. It is not only African thing,it is everywhere.

Dirkcoyt:
not always. rules are meant to be broken

emerged01:
Rules broken is at your own detriment.

Flourishh:
As we all know, many people believe the children of pastors are mostly wayward.
I for example, I'm a female and my dad is a pastor in Deeper life Bible Church and trust me I've been looking for ways to leave the church. My dad isn't even helping matters, he has serious temper issues that makes him say things that gets me, my mum and siblings angry. I really do not see myself getting married in his church. Please tell me if I'm doing the right thing. Because i feel we all have our lives to live.
I need your advice because I'm already fed up of my dad's attitude and the church's doctrines.

You can also share similar experiences. If you have any
Thank you.

Flourishh:
As we all know, many people believe the children of pastors are mostly wayward.
I for example, I'm a female and my dad is a pastor in Deeper life Bible Church and trust me I've been looking for ways to leave the church. My dad isn't even helping matters, he has serious temper issues that makes him say things that gets me, my mum and siblings angry. I really do not see myself getting married in his church. Please tell me if I'm doing the right thing. Because i feel we all have our lives to live.
I need your advice because I'm already fed up of my dad's attitude and the church's doctrines.

You can also share similar experiences. If you have any
Thank you.

Flourishh:
As we all know, many people believe the children of pastors are mostly wayward.
I for example, I'm a female and my dad is a pastor in Deeper life Bible Church and trust me I've been looking for ways to leave the church. My dad isn't even helping matters, he has serious temper issues that makes him say things that gets me, my mum and siblings angry. I really do not see myself getting married in his church. Please tell me if I'm doing the right thing. Because i feel we all have our lives to live.
I need your advice because I'm already fed up of my dad's attitude and the church's doctrines.

You can also share similar experiences. If you have any
Thank you.

emerged01:

Lol! Questionable churches u said? That was the same way your dad felt. He has seen what you have never seen in your life that was why he was trying to show by all means where you should go. Deuteronomy 4 vs 9. Don't think he was being domineering.

GoodMuyis:


(1John 5:21 [KJV]) - Little children, keep yourselves from idols. Amen.

GoodMuyis:


Before you waste your time on her check her profile 1st

Then you shall laugh with me

shadeyinka:
I just did that Thanks. Is he/she male or female?

ThinkSmarter:
summon d courage and leave bf they will frustrate u with late marriage. if i shud guess, u re likely a virgin or might hv had sxx on few occns. try n date a smart guy outside ur church and if pos connive n get preg wit d guz b4 weddi proper inorder to resist his/church pressure. note, i am a xtian