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Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by chidynks: 4:55am On Feb 20, 2018
abike12:
she's not necessarily a bad person for leaving but I don't understand why she expects you to take her back. just tell her you met someone and you've moved on, good luck etc. send her positive vibes and move on with your life, no looking back, no need for revenge mission. use that energy to advance your life
now this is what I call a "mature and positive suggestion!!

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Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by biacan(f): 5:32am On Feb 20, 2018
socialmerchant:

Are you doing this on purpose??
Doing what on purpose...?
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by BarrackGhost(m): 5:34am On Feb 20, 2018
biacan:
You see Nigerian people I said I went there with a friend you guys have converted the issue on me that I went to tight mine sad

The question is "you went there with a friend to do what?"
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by biacan(f): 5:38am On Feb 20, 2018
BarrackGhost:

The question is "you went there with a friend to do what?"

Why do you wants to know
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by thunderbabs: 5:41am On Feb 20, 2018
She just made herself a bonus to you...

Enjoy ur bonus. She would have done the same, trust me.
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by Empiree: 5:52am On Feb 20, 2018
huss421:
There is this girl I proposed to years ago during my undergraduate who accepted the offer based on the belief that after school I would have a nice job that would enable me care for her.

After my NYSC, when she saw that things were not as expected, she lose interest in me and walked away, however, she now wants to come back as she had heard the news of my employment even though, I don't like her again and I have gotten some body better off than her.

The problem is, am finding it difficult to tell her the truth, pls pals how do I go about it? Pls I need your advice pls, no insult it's a serious matter.
It doesn't mean she's a gold digger or any thing of that nature. Women do need financial security. Put your sister in her position; family members would most likely tell him to get a job before marrying their daughter (you sister). So i see nothing wrong for the fact that she left you. It is better than she played you. That would have been heartbreak.

Now that you already have someone else, you need not complicate issue at all. Simply tell her politely that there is someone in your life. I dont think you can afford women wahala for now but if you think you can, then, you are on your own and play your game well. Afterall, men can have multiple women so long as you love her but in this case you said you no longer in love with her. So let her go but dont be rude to her.

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Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by kinzation(m): 6:10am On Feb 20, 2018
biacan:
It's been done in Abuja but it's expensive they will tight your P**y it's will be so tight like that of a virgin depending on how you want it.......and lift your boobs with out any implants
blood of Moses....what is this world turning to? akubey virgin
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by kinzation(m): 6:12am On Feb 20, 2018
biacan:
You see Nigerian people I said I went there with a friend you guys have converted the issue on me that I went to tight mine sad
simply say that you checked your own engine at the mechanic and some bolts needed adjustments
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by adigun002(m): 6:25am On Feb 20, 2018
donstan18:
She left you when things weren't going well, but now wants you back because you'v gotten a job.


Well, tell her you want to marry a virgin, let's see how she'll deal with it.
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I don't know if you're a lady or a guy, but you are very wise.
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by kense88: 6:29am On Feb 20, 2018
EVILFOREST:
That a LADY loves you so much is because she has not seen nor gotten hold of a better man.

The DAY she discovers such, her behavior towards you changes. She will ensure, she frustrates you out of the relationship.
That's why I encourage my MEN not to pity them.
Go for the BEST LADIES, whose financial burden/ national debt can always be settled by them.

Ladies whose futures are secured, at least to a larger extent.
When I was DATING, I left as many as possible because they had nothing to offer, rather they were all around me fighting hard to feast on me.......

Go for PRODUCTIVE LADIES ooooo.
That's why people enter marriages and start begging from day 1.....
Don't also expect GOD to intervene immediately ooo
Don't ever think NIGERIA will ever get better.
Leave Nyansh and breastt ooooo
over sense dey disturb you my brother. Okwu GI kwu oto ka amu
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by justmenoni: 6:34am On Feb 20, 2018
One crate of orijin for you.

quote author=Gabaleve post=65207150]mumu,

I sure say na because of ur small job ur new babe sef dey with u

how can u call urself a man when u cant even handle simple issues diplomatically.

girls go always use ur brain

no vex[/quote]
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by kense88: 6:36am On Feb 20, 2018
abike12:
she's not necessarily a bad person for leaving but I don't understand why she expects you to take her back. just tell her you met someone and you've moved on, good luck etc. send her positive vibes and move on with your life, no looking back, no need for revenge mission. use that energy to advance your life
Good point

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Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by Nobody: 6:37am On Feb 20, 2018
biacan:
Simple thing when she can still get Virgin*** Tithing surgery cool

Receive sense, there is no such surgery
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by tunjibadosnen: 6:39am On Feb 20, 2018
Accepting her back means nothing to you since you don't love her again... better be wise so that you don't bring unwarranted plaque on yourself, LET HER GOOO!
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by kense88: 6:44am On Feb 20, 2018
huss421:
There is this girl I proposed to years ago during my undergraduate who accepted the offer based on the belief that after school I would have a nice job that would enable me care for her.

After my NYSC, when she saw that things were not as expected, she lose interest in me and walked away, however, she now wants to come back as she had heard the news of my employment even though, I don't like her again and I have gotten some body better off than her.

The problem is, am finding it difficult to tell her the truth, pls pals how do I go about it? Pls I need your advice pls, no insult it's a serious matter.
Try and get a month leave from your new place of work. Then tell your new and ex girlfriends that you have lost your job.
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by CHUKWUNOLOGICAL(m): 6:47am On Feb 20, 2018
huss421:
There is this girl I proposed to years ago during my undergraduate who accepted the offer based on the belief that after school I would have a nice job that would enable me care for her.

After my NYSC, when she saw that things were not as expected, she lose interest in me and walked away, however, she now wants to come back as she had heard the news of my employment even though, I don't like her again and I have gotten some body better off than her.

The problem is, am finding it difficult to tell her the truth, pls pals how do I go about it? Pls I need your advice pls, no insult it's a serious matter.

U are talking cowardly but u are saying no insults Its not posible. U have someone better now, and u say u are confused My guy, the problem worrying ur head ehhh! God can not solve it. Think well. Use ur head.. U have have no business with her, maybe u are a player. But such ladies are desperate and can charm u to marry her. Na wa for some guys o
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by livebynite: 6:50am On Feb 20, 2018
huss421:
There is this girl I proposed to years ago during my undergraduate who accepted the offer based on the belief that after school I would have a nice job that would enable me care for her.

After my NYSC, when she saw that things were not as expected, she lose interest in me and walked away, however, she now wants to come back as she had heard the news of my employment even though, I don't like her again and I have gotten some body better off than her.

The problem is, am finding it difficult to tell her the truth, pls pals how do I go about it? Pls I need your advice pls, no insult it's a serious matter.

Some pundits say Manchester united will win the champions league
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by Aldebaran(m): 6:54am On Feb 20, 2018
Run run run
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by tosyne2much(m): 7:11am On Feb 20, 2018
DanXplore:

That would be savage. Haba grin
The girl go free am one time cheesy
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by tosyne2much(m): 7:12am On Feb 20, 2018
livebynite:


Some pundits say Manchester united will win the champions league
Make dem dey deceive themselves... Barca is always there to chase them away cheesy cheesy
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by tosyne2much(m): 7:14am On Feb 20, 2018
donstan18:
She left you when things weren't going well, but now wants you back because you'v gotten a job.


Well, tell her you want to marry a virgin, let's see how she'll deal with it.
cheesy cheesy
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by collinometricx: 7:22am On Feb 20, 2018
biacan :
Simple thing when she can still get Virgin*** Tithing surgery cool
oh my God... Nt again
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by collinometricx: 7:25am On Feb 20, 2018
Just tell us yhu went for yhur own
biacan :
only ladies who don't know their way out will get worried over loss p**y once you the money you can get it done..... many ladies trick their husband with This virgins while they only go and get theirs done p**y tigting once it's done you'll have to taste and see if it's tight enough by dipping their hands to check if it's okay cheesy

I know the place I went there with a friend when I was still in school cool
we will nt be angry...
ECO88
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by Cuteamigo1(m): 7:31am On Feb 20, 2018
you ex is a fulani herdswoman. she want to come and reap where she did not sow.
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by GraGra247(m): 7:38am On Feb 20, 2018
biacan:
only ladies who don't know their way out will get worried over loss p**y once you the money you can get it done..... many ladies trick their husband with This virgins while they only go and get theirs done p**y tigting once it's done you'll have to taste and see if it's tight enough by dipping their hands to check if it's okay cheesy

I know the place I went there with a friend when I was still in school cool


What's the cost of doing it. If such thing exists why can't ladies take advantage of it. Its good problem solving innovation if you know what I mean.
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by donstan18: 7:39am On Feb 20, 2018
biacan:
One day you'll come across one and you won't know cheesy

Oya help me.
Enlighten me, how will I know a real virgin?




Meanwhile, Morning.
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by livebynite: 7:47am On Feb 20, 2018
tosyne2much:
Make dem dey deceive themselves... Barca is always there to chase them away cheesy cheesy

are you kidding me? Barca? i laugh in full HD Sarcasm .. that nonsensical club is on the decline since Neymar left
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by Meekmind(m): 7:53am On Feb 20, 2018
It will not be well with her and if you accept her back, you deserve a national award for the most gullible dude...












Pained from experience
Re: My Ex Wants Me Back Because She Heard That I'm Now Employed by tosyne2much(m): 7:58am On Feb 20, 2018
livebynite:


are you kidding me? Barca? i laugh in full HD Sarcasm .. that nonsensical club is on the decline since Neymar left

Haha cheesy

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