bethyz:
I will marry my husband again oooo. I don't think anyone can be like him.

gay?

These Nos just weak me... And they will all be smiling outside as if nothing is happening, making we single jealous of them.. Wetin some married folks are going through ehn, mouth no fit talk am

kimbraa:
What is your business with what she would like? There are responsible guys who like taking care of liabilities.
NL guys and their insecurities!. Someone can't state what she wants in peace again.

somborry cannot ask question again?
are u her spokesperson?

No because she lied about her genotype AS

ameri9ja:

Nonsense. You can wait till u know somebody fairly well rather than blindly jump in, hoping they r 4 u.
Also,
The question is malformed because it misses that marriage is FOR THE CHILDREN.
MARRIAGE IS FOR HAVING AND RAISING CHILDREN.

You can't really know everything about your partner even if you dated for ten years, that's the truth. I'm not even saying that they're bound to hide certain traits, no. But, trust me, some traits can start to manifest the moment they start living together, raising kids, one partner starts making more money and so on.

Tinamoore:

On the contrary, knew him way back in the university. Married him when he had no money.Sacrificed my chance to travel abroad to him.but when he started making money, he changed completely.have now abandoned me and the kids probably for his white girlfriend

So no, mine was not about two months dating.it's about a man who acted like he loved me cos he was poor.but showed his true colour when he started making money.

Chikita66:
Not bragging but whoever that will marry me will remarry me in his next world. I'm simply unique.

Wish to marry my kind of person too.


But the kind No's wey I dey see here plenty, God abeg lets not make decision that we will regret in future.

Look sis, you could be a very wonderful person, but even the most horrible persons think they're the 8th Wonder of the World!

With what I know now about all women, If I come back to this world as soon as I am conscious of myself, I will go in search of my wife. Not because she or I are perfect, but what we have being through I cant go through that with any new women again, lailai.

maasoap:


You can't really know everything about your partner even if you dated for ten years, that's the truth. I'm not even saying that they're bound to hide certain traits, no. But, trust me, some traits can start to manifest the moment they start living together, raising kids, one partner starts making more money and so on.

Anything is possible. People still divorce after 43 years of happy marriage and 3 months unhappy.
We are working on probabilities. If u know someone long enough there'd be fewer suprises.

profmallor:
With what I know now about all women, If I come back to this world as soon as I am conscious of myself, I will go in search of my wife. Not because she or I are perfect, but what we have being through I cant go through that with any new women again, lailai.

Spotted! A guy who knows his wife is reading this and knows his moniker!

Tinamoore:


Yes, from my own experience, love is pain.wouldn't have married him if I knew what I know now.

What do you now know that cannot let you give your consent for marriage with him again? Did you later realise he's into ungodly activities?

Truth is: give them a second chance to remarry their "ideal spouse", they will come back to answer "No" to this question after about a year or two.

We have lots of Nos because majority ran into marriage with a wrong mindset. Marriage is not a solution to problems, it is simply a continuity of the life you already have. If you're addicted to changing boyfriends and girlfriends every month, you would be trapped in marriage. Your life would be as fcked as hell. If you're addicted to random sex before marriage, sticking with one partner for the rest of your life will make you miserable.

Do not wait until marriage before changing those bad habits. I tell people every time, wedding/marriage won't change your bad habits. If you can't stay away from premarital sex or at least stick with a partner prior to marriage, just don't bother going into marriage.. you will be miserable.


Check the majority of those answering No to this question, they got married for the wrong reasons; many of them have extremely bad habits they wish their spouse can endure.

Marriage is not a bus-stop where you have to take a brand new bus to a new destination. Naah, it is the same old and overused d**k you used in ravaging everything under the skirt that will follow you to your marriage.. The pressure, urge, lust, etc.. won't change!

Marriage do not give a self-control pill. If you don't have it while you're dating that broke and dirty boyfriend, you won't get it even if you marry the most handsome man in the universe. Marriage is very hard when we hold on to our bad habits.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
only 10 - 20% YES! The rest over 85% garbage NO! its PARETO PRINCIPLE at play again

Even the yeses are those who know their spouse will know they are the ones that wrote it!

Acidosis:
Truth is: give them a second chance to remarry their "ideal spouse", they will come back to answer "No" to this question.

We have lots of Nos because majority ran into marriage with a wrong mindset. Marriage is not a solution to problems, it is simply a continuity of the life you already have. Implication of this is simple: if you don't have a life before marriage, forget it, you won't have it even if you marry the "best" man on earth.

Check the majority of those answering No to this question, they got married for the wrong reasons.

Marriage is not a bus-stop where you have to take the next available bus to new or an unknown destination. You have to know where you're going and ensure you marry a spouse that shares the same destination with you.. that way, you both don't need any bus-stop.. just keep driving to the same destination you already know!

Not true. Marriage to the right guy can completely change a girl's life.

cutefergiee:
Sometimes it feels like the stupid people in this life outnumber the ones who have sense...
Yet some friends won't lemme hear word abt marrying wen Dem dey feel d heat sha...
Funny hw ppu only bother u for tins Wey no good but nobody go rmbr u if Na to call sombori Wey Dem go give free money/buiz...

true talk.. Miserable people trying to bring you into their miserable marriage league.. They hate single happy people, they envy your freedom...

ameri9ja:


Not true. Marriage to the right guy can completely change a girl's life.

I modified my post

shaybebaby:

What do you mean? If it hasn't happened yet I better get my invite or else..

Okay o.

Acidosis:


I modified my post

Ok. Smart man.
Remember Cinderella?

ameri9ja:

Ok. Smart man. Remember Cinderella?

A Nairalander?

freecocoa:
Okay o.

freecocoa, wetin happen na? I read your post and I was like

kushme:


true talk.. Miserable people trying to bring you into their miserable marriage league.. They hate single happy people, they envy your freedom...

Question: how can u correctly have and raise children without marriage??
MARRIAGE IS ABOUT THE CHILDREN!!

The ones saying yes are just newly married ones. The genuine yes can come from those that married out of love.

Acidosis:


freecocoa, wetin happen na? I read your post and I was like

Wetin you no understand for say, marriage is overrated?

I know my spouse is reading this.
Honey, I will marry u again o.
10,000%.

freecocoa:
Wetin you no understand for say, marriage is overrated?

Hmn, na true you talk

freecocoa:
Wetin you no understand for say, marriage is overrated?

The question is, are children overatted? IT IS FOR HAVING AND RAISING CHILDREN PROPERLY!!

Evince:
The ones saying yes are just newly married ones. The genuine yes can come from those that married out of love.

Gullibility spotted. Love ko, Lovett ni.

[quote author=ameri9ja post=65847353]

Question: how can u correctly have and raise children without marriage??
MARRIAGE IS ABOUT THE CHILDREN!![/quote]


This comment is that of a female with the baby rabies mentality. you see the man as a sperm donor. And just a partner to help you raise the kids(correctly).. Or are you going to tell me that older people in love remarry for the sake of having kids again?

Must there be a marriage before kids can be raised correctly? Tell this to all the baby mamas out there..

Most of the time, things women do and say are for their benefits. They don't care about the man.

Just reason the bolded carefully !

freecocoa:
If I knew what I know now, I wouldn't have gotten married.

I am interested in the details

Not married yet but I would because I know he has a good heart

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Liliyann:
All this married people just keep on scaring the single ones
Truth is nobody forced them to get married,that your marriage isn't a bed of roses or what you envisioned for shouldn't make you discourage others!!

As for me,the only thing that can make me have a second thought about my husband that is if I eventually decide to marry is poverty,nothing turns me off more than a broke and lazy guy.

stop acting like someone with a poor mentality for Godsake, you're a disgrace to womanhood. you need a wealthy guy, are you wealthy yourself?