I don't think so though but what can i say

Opinionated:
This question can break a marriage.

And what's wrong with that?

Life is too short to be spent being miserable.

Evince:


U think am gullible? Oya define gullible first then we talk

Gullible: anyone who believes romantic love is what makes a marriage last.

That moment you are scrolling through and you see your spouse comment "NO"

obaataaokpaewu:
Majority of the No was from the female.... Maybe the husbands claimed to be Dangote before marriage and they now saw that "nothing dey house" after marriage?

U think m9ney can keep a marriage?

Go to court and see rich people filing for divorce everyday.

By the way are u even aware that dangote is a 3 time divorcee??

ASval:
will marry her over n over again. infact, would have married her when we were kids. she is a superwoman!

Sure. Because u know she knows your moniker and would be reading this!

Bjgirl1:
Yes,I will.Though he wasn't romantic but he tolerated me, he never bothered me but I lost him in September, Dear hubby, you're greatly missed.

Lost him to what/who?

[quote author=obaataaokpaewu post=65844004]Majority of the No was from the female.... Maybe the husbands claimed to be Dangote before marriage and they now saw that "nothing dey house" after marriage? [/quote

That's true to an extent. For some, it isn't the money but other things they couldn't put up with. BUT they rushed in so early for reasons we all know, ignoring the fact that marriage is not just about doing wedding and parking into a man's house. I have learnt that as a woman( dnt knw about men sha) you should marry Becos u are ready not Becos the man is ready and let not the man's readiness make you think u are ready for marriage.

thiscounts:
If a kid knew learning A,B,C would still make him learn complex sentence,he wouldn't have proceeded further.
And not knowing that has been a thing of blessing,sames goes for marriage.
Not knowing what you know now is the beautiful of a marriage.

sense will not kill you, one bottle of beer for you

yeyerolling:
See as know plenty. Yet one mumu gal is home sad she is single

Marriage in itself no be bad thing na, the wahala be say people dey do am wrongly.

freecocoa:
If I knew what I know now, I wouldn't have gotten married.

Mehn, Odikwa serious oooo !

ZombieTAMER:


See them

People dey wey dey enjoy the thing o. Forget that thing.

Waffarianman:


Guy marriage no b ahm pray you don't fall on the wrong wife. From delta got married to Igbo woman, bro d battle no b here they trying taking my kids away from me. Shapaly I remove my 2kids remaining our new born son... She decided to stay in her father's house but the battle continue.... Guys that never gotten married be praying oo women are wicked, D's 1 I jamm na Jezebel. Still know Oghene(God) pass dem

Bros, i fit talk to you in private about a few issues. I like some chat with you ( he pertain this your comment, and i go like yan some things privately )

He's not on NL and won't see this, but YES I will. I don't think there is a better man out there than my husband who is just perfect for me. It's not about the money because we live averagely. It's about everything else

Capital No

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
My dear her story ain't about short term dating. I'm sure most of our grandparents of those days never dated long but they stuck with themselves until death.

The thing dey tire me o NwanyiAwkaetiti , our parents just said borrow me cutlass, next thing, they're married and they stuck by each other. Thesedays, it's like even in marriage people's mind are outside, waiting for the slightest excuse to bail up. Marriage is for adults, the rate at which people jump the ship for silly excuses is just so uncalled for

Holamscoh:


Mtcheeeeew cheap attention seeeker

Billyonaire:
Sure, it will break many, cos some partners will see each other's responses and start making important decisions. Marriage a very big wahala. I do not think it is natural. It is just for social control and energy transaction for the matrix. But at least one has a personalized sex organ to generate orgasm almost always, when needed.

bros that orgasm aspect sef...

na if she dey gree you do

e go reach time wey una vex no go gree you sex for months

una go just be flatmates

e go resemble prison only say you can move around the city

you become emotional punching bag

this happens usually towards the 10th year

have been there, and i have great talks with friends

we mostly make fun of ourselves nowadays

Lizbeth7:
Lol. Not married and not searching.

Please, how can I also open a thread?

Go to home page, click the section that corresponds with your topic eg politics, religion, romance etc, scroll down you will see a box for new topic, click it, you'll see a space for topic and bigger space for your story, bellow it you'll see space for pics if there's any.

Liliyann:
All this married people just keep on scaring the single ones
Truth is nobody forced them to get married,that your marriage isn't a bed of roses or what you envisioned for shouldn't make you discourage others!!

As for me,the only thing that can make me have a second thought about my husband that is if I eventually decide to marry is poverty,nothing turns me off more than a broke and lazy guy.

You have said it all dear. I'm pretty sure poverty is the major cause as they never envisaged the man might not be able to keep up with the financial responsibilities eventually...or Infidelity in few cases. I'm never going to rescind only my financial responsibilities when I marry by God's grace.It freaks me out to see men do so even though I know the economy isn't friendly.

Oblongata:
bros that orgasm aspect sef...

na if she dey gree you do

e go reach time wey una vex no go gree you sex for months

una go just be flatmates

e go resemble prison only say you can move around the city

you become emotional punching bag

this happens usually towards the 10th year

have been there, and i have great talks with friends

we mostly make fun of ourselves nowadays

They won't understand, when I never marry I saw sex as fun but after marriage it becomes a serious duty.

Aremolekunowo:
No because she lied about her genotype AS

Oh my! That's bad.

Chikita66:
Not bragging but whoever that will marry me will remarry me in his next world. I'm simply unique.

Wish to marry my kind of person too.


But the kind No's wey I dey see here plenty, God abeg lets not make decision that we will regret in future.

Impressive.

Liliyann:
All this married people just keep on scaring the single ones
Truth is nobody forced them to get married,that your marriage isn't a bed of roses or what you envisioned for shouldn't make you discourage others!!

As for me,the only thing that can make me have a second thought about my husband that is if I eventually decide to marry is poverty,nothing turns me off more than a broke and lazy guy.

You don't know anything about life. I have seen wealthy and super rich men became poor years after marriage. I have seen some lost their jobs years after marriage. I have also seen many super poor guys become rich years after marriage. No human knows his or her destiny till h/she dies. The only ingredient that sustains marriage is unconditional LOVE. SHALOM!

Yes yes yes
Over and over again.
We fight sometimes but the makeup is always awesome. He isn't perfect, neither am I.

Chikita66:
Not bragging but whoever that will marry me will remarry me in his next world. I'm simply unique.

Wish to marry my kind of person too.


But the kind No's wey I dey see here plenty, God abeg lets not make decision that we will regret in future.

Dear, marriage is different ball game that can rubbish your goodness and kindness. Every marriage has its own challenges even the one organized by God Himself between Adam and Eve was full of trouble.

I deffinately will marry her over again. Marry people get married for alot of reasons. But the biggest mistake is to think there's a perfect better half out there forgetting we ourselves are full of imperfections. Over the years i and my wife have moved pass our imperfections and have come to see each other for who we are. Don't get me wrong, we fight, sometimes we even go days without talking to each other, but eventually resolve our differences and gorge ahead...often times these fights helps us understand ourselves even better. Being married for almost three years now, i don't think i will choose to start the whole process with another person all over again knowing fully well that everyone has his/her own demons...lol. but hey what do i know right? For you guys and ladies yet to settle down, i pray God lead you to the right partner. But remember, if he or she appears to perfect, run for your life! God always gives us raw materials, its our duty to perfect it to what we want in accordance to his will for us. Morning to you all and have a wonderful day ahead

revolt:
cos everybody knew their place. Their responsibility etc

So we don't know our responsibilities anymore? What do u think is the cause?

pantherblack:



The thing dey tire me o NwanyiAwkaetiti , our parents just said borrow me cutlass, next thing, they're married and they stuck by each other. Thesedays, it's like even in marriage people's mind are outside, waiting for the slightest excuse to bail up. Marriage is for adults, the rate at which people jump the ship for silly excuses is just so uncalled for

You can try that tactics though. But looking at it, I think foreign culture and ideologies are part of the reason why things are like this, even social media is a culprit.

ameri9ja:


The ones u see say yes know their spouse will know it's them that said it, otherwise you'd see 100% NO!

abi for the man not to give them quit notice I guess

Partners these days are becoming scary. Peace, happiness, good sex, humility, understanding, patience and God's love... Anything outside these is a no no for me. Not married yet, but with what I already see.... My answer is......till she......... If she does though

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So we don't know our responsibilities anymore? What do u think is the cause?

women r getting more feminist men are getting less masculine