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Sure. Man need to prepare ohhhh.

amakadihot87:
....well........you are right .........an unplaned marriage will find it difficut to stand

Bros free her na. love alone is not enough for marriage, finish your education gather money b4 venturing into marriage sir. gals and marriage pressure no be today, if u rush things without proper planning na u go hear am last last. Na so my ex babe pressured me back then say her people say make she go marry, me as par gentleman wey I be I free am na. she still dey single since that time till now.

Sounds awful i wouldn''t do anything like that, but if she pressures you then get out of there!

Coz at the end ,he will still blame himself.

Snow87:
Bros free her na. love alone is not enough for marriage, finish your education gather money b4 venturing into marriage sir. gals and marriage pressure no be today, if u rush things without proper planning na u go hear am last last. Na so my ex babe pressured me back then say her people say make she go marry, me as par gentleman wey I be I free am na. she still dey single since that time till now.

sure, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage!

mgtow:
Nothing like love here. It's better he lets her go. He can't derail his life and his plans because of her, and if she's not an understanding person there is no point. And marriage doesn't bring any miraculous favour though I get what you're saying. People should plan their lives properly before jumping into something as serious as marriage. A man should get married only when he is self assured and convinced that he can handle the demands and responsibility that come with marriage based on realities on ground not just on faith or hope. Have a great week.

Marriage is for the matured mind

Innov8ve1:
Oga you need to let her know you are not ready. Dont let anyone push you to do what you arent ready to do else you end up blaming yourself at the end of the day.


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honestly u av to tell her plainly u aint ready

Trust they say is bitter, but it's better spoken. i concur with u

chenzen:
honestly u av to tell her plainly u aint ready

@ Amaka , I dont think so ohhhh.
Lots of persons have entered into it and are regretting it today.
Its also about mind set. If the guy feels he is not ready , he better dont get involved.

amakadihot87:
If you truly love her and want to spend your life with her..........then go ahead and perform atleast her traditional marriage rites......she should be ready to support you no matter how small..........sometimes marriage brings favour.............remember she has become contious of her age

Most decision you take under pressure turns out wrong. So, get urself together

Its better than pretending

chenzen:
honestly u av to tell her plainly u aint ready

Yes come out straight

chenzen:
honestly u av to tell her plainly u aint ready