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Please guys help.

My girlfriend turn fiance switch off and hide her phone whenever we are together. Anytime I ask her to give me her phone she gave unnecessary excuses. Is that enough reason for Me to suspect her because am already suspecting her Please I need your advise

Why would you request for her phone? Is it your own?
Na so trouble go dey sleep inyanga do go wake am.

imagine,you are ordering her to give you her phone??who are you?

savio93:
Why would you request for her phone? Is it your own?
Na so trouble go dey sleep inyanga do go wake am.

but she's my wife to be

highqueen:
imagine,you are ordering her to give you her phone??who are you?

is that whet u Av to offer

tspouse:
but she's my wife to be

Exactly... She is "to be" not yet "yours truly".
So you do not have a right.

Do you give her your phone too?
Anytime?

If you do and she doesn't reciprocate, then she has a lot skeletons in her cupboard.
Those kinda babes can cheat for Africa!

savio93:
Exactly... She is "to be" not yet "yours truly". So you do not have a right.

morning makes the day!

tspouse:
is that whet u Av to offer

actually, that's what I came here to say.You have a problem with that?

savio93:
Exactly... She is "to be" not yet "yours truly". So you do not have a right.

are u seriouse or u re joking?

highqueen:
imagine,you are ordering her to give you her phone??who are you?

Just imagine talk!
smh

post=66396938:
morning makes the day!

How do you mean? are you writing Swahili?

highqueen:
actually, that's what I came here to say.You have a problem with that?

who will u support b4 .I need men advise not women's

savio93:
How do you mean? are you writing Swahili?

Only intellectual people will actually know what that means.

savio93:
Exactly... She is "to be" not yet "yours truly".
So you do not have a right.

Your first comment was on point but this second one doesn't quite resonate with me. So he should wait till he is married to her before knowing whether she is a cheat or not? If he doesn't have any business checking her phone now he certainly doesn't have any checking it in the future. Clearly the op is having trust issues. While I do not subscribe to checking your partner's phone (because whatever you are looking for you will surely find), but telling him to hold on till they are married isn't right either. Because once there is trust issues that remain unresolved it tends to get even worse as time goes by. So I suggest they resolve it now rather than waiting till after they are married

912:
Your first comment was on point but this second one doesn't quite resonate with me. So he should wait till he is married to her before knowing whether she is a cheat or not? If he doesn't have any business checking her phone now he certainly doesn't have any checking it in the future. Clearly the op is having trust issues. While I do not subscribe to checking your partner's phone (because whatever you are looking for you will surely find), but telling him to hold on till they are married isn't right either. Because once there is trust issues that remain unresolved it tends to get even worse as time goes by. So I suggest they resolve it now rather than waiting till after they are married

don't mind the guy

post=66396917:
Do you give her your phone too?
Anytime?

If you do and she doesn't reciprocate, then she has a lot skeletons in her cupboard.
Those kinda babes can cheat for Africa!

yes I do give her my phone anytime she request it

Cheat on me
I don't want to think that

Yes, it is a very good reason for you to be bothered.
Don't always mistake that act for courtesy, especially with her subsequent actions.

Or she is only playing it safe.
i.e, it's better the phone is switched off and she explains to her numerous callers later. Than it rings and she won't pick, or pick and won't be able to flow well with the conversation. Thus raising your suspicion.

tspouse:
yes I do give her my phone anytime she request it

Cheat on me
I don't want to think that

You know her better than all of us here then, so since the TRUST is there, maybe she only cherish her privacy.
Don't be bothered anymore then bro!

post=66397475:
You know her better than all of us here then, so since the TRUST is there, maybe she only cherish her privacy.
Don't be bothered anymore then bro!

thanks so much.though I trust her but not close to 60% .we r talking about women here bro. They r so dangerous

tspouse:
thanks so much.though I trust her but not close to 60% .we r talking about women here bro. They r so dangerous

Lol.�, see contradictions from this our brother o!

It is well jare.
All da best!

tspouse:
who will u support b4 .I need men advise not women's

mtchew

tspouse:
Please guys help.my girlfriend turn fiance switch off and hide her pkone whenever we are together. Anytime I ask her to give me her phone she gave unnecessary excuses. Is that enough reason for Me to suspect her because am already suspecting her Please I need your advise

That's enough reason. If she has nothing to hide why switch off her phone

highqueen:
mtchew

am sure u aren't a better gf to that unlucky jack

tspouse:
am sure u aren't a better gf to that unlucky jack

lol

post=66397629:
Lol.�, see contradictions from this our brother o!

It is well jare.
All da best!

pls understand .I trust her but u know.it can't just be 100% .this is the of internet we read everyday about relationship catastrophes

912:
Your first comment was on point but this second one doesn't quite resonate with me. So he should wait till he is married to her before knowing whether she is a cheat or not? If he doesn't have any business checking her phone now he certainly doesn't have any checking it in the future. Clearly the op is having trust issues. While I do not subscribe to checking your partner's phone (because whatever you are looking for you will surely find), but telling him to hold on till they are married isn't right either. Because once there is trust issues that remain unresolved it tends to get even worse as time goes by. So I suggest they resolve it now rather than waiting till after they are married

nice write up bro, but I never said pointedly that he should check her phone even when married. actually, i haven't even made my point known in the whole issue yet.

post=66397629:
Lol.�, see contradictions from this our brother o!

It is well jare.
All da best!

pls understand .I trust her but u know.it can't just be 100% .this is the world of internet we read everyday about relationship catastrophes

tspouse:
thanks so much.though I trust her but not close to 60% .we r talking about[b] women here bro. They r so dangerous[/b]

Udonmeanit! So we are now as dangerous as snakes and scorpion

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Why do you want to invade landlord property?