Miciuk23:
Good evening pals, how is your day going? I hope you enjoying it to the fullest.I am currently in a relationship, that I do not know where I stand has the man , the reason why I asking or seeking for your opinion is that I think am dating a man in a girl physique. Just last week here we had an issues relating to money. She asked me to give her some amount of money, which I agreed to give her because it was important to her and I agreed to.the next two days came , the money money I was suppose to give to her , was not available because of some pressing issues I had to to do regarding my sister , whom is at the hospital undergoing her appendicitis operation. My girlfriend now with asking me what was going on started shouting that and I quote "if she has her way she would never ask me for money again " that am too stingy with so many gibberish which I can't remember. That same day I sent her the money , explained to her that this is what happened. Since almost 2 days now she has not called or even replied my messages.this is the reason I seeking your opinion, anytime we quarrel which I feel it's normal in relationship , she can stay two weeks with out trying to reach out to me , and it's so painful on my path cause I really do like this girl ........pals what your take/ advice to me ?

sehin79:
if you like am and you are missing her simple give her a call, study shows 9 out of 10 misunderstanding in relationship are cause by lack of adequate communication, talk through issues as this does not seems a big issue. and calling her does not make you any less of a man,
and also understand girls always expect men to do the chasing that doesn't mean shes not missing you.AS LONG AS YOU STILL GET MONEY YOU ARE IN CHARGE. so simply call her and have make up sex. lobatan

Thegeneralqueen:
Call her and apologize to her that you never meant to hurt her it was just circumstances beg her that it won't happen again make her know how important she is to your life..... do this and have her back

Thegeneralqueen:
Call her and apologize to her that you never meant to hurt her it was just circumstances beg her that it won't happen again make her know how important she is to your life..... do this and have her back

unicorny:


@OP your acclaimed maga girlfriend is also on Nairaland sha....wonders shall never end

Shugarlord213:
So you are still doing love with a naija girl mumu boi when your mates are naccki girls with their cars

Easy access

Miciuk23:
this is going on for some time now , and I do not like it. Is this love or I am just a mugu money spender?

Thegeneralqueen:
Naturally women have ego problem but as a man you're expected to be the bigger person here go to her place and apologize to her she obviously loves you but sometimes ego won't let her tell you but from her body language you can easily detect it....don't listen to all this guy's here they are jealous of you and they don't have girlfriend but would want to advise you...... flee from them

Thegeneralqueen:
Naturally women have ego problem but as a man you're expected to be the bigger person here go to her place and apologize to her she obviously loves you but sometimes ego won't let her tell you but from her body language you can easily detect it....don't listen to all this guy's here they are jealous of you and they don't have girlfriend but would want to advise you...... flee from them

Thegeneralqueen:
Call her and apologize to her that you never meant to hurt her it was just circumstances beg her that it won't happen again make her know how important she is to your life..... do this and have her back

Miciuk23:
thank you so much , I will apply this and I hope it works out

Miciuk23:
thank you so much , I will apply this and I hope it works out

Grayjoy:
Did u read what OP said at all?

owowa145:
See bastard, birds of a feather.

Shugavee:
that was the best advise so far!! Stick to that!! Relationships r not easy!!

Thegeneralqueen:
Oh yes I did just gave him some information to save his relationship hope it helps

Thegeneralqueen:
Go to bed boy

Grayjoy:
Not all relationships are worth saving though.

owowa145:

Well I'm in the morning and its my hustling time. Thanks for the care girl, I do appreciate. Nice knowing u here though. Good night to u girl.

aaronson:
She has your vulnerability button which some call mumu button, you seem to be the feminine gender here while you let her took your masculine role because of love. Her not reaching out to you since 2 weeks ago is a punishment and manipulation technique to keep you more submissive to her because she knows you the one who will still beg even after the insults she threw at you.

MAN UP!

love is a two way thing, Don't be so emotional invested on girl who sees your relationship with her as an investment. Ditch her! she already gave the clue....."she said if she had her way, she wouldn't ask you for money" which logically means you her means of survival and her meal ticket. Think bro.

Now this is what you do to reclaim that totem of authority she has over you.
Don't reach out to her and when she eventually try reaching out to you by any means calls, text, WhatsApp etc, Do not reply or attend to it and if it is WhatsApp, read the message and let her know you read it but don't reply, if she comes to your house call it quit then she would begin to apologize since you her meal ticket and wouldn't want to lose you. if she does apologize sincerely, accept her and SET THE RULES. you have become the man again.