It's obvious alot of guys n ladies r single here n dont know anything abt being in a relationship n so this argument is pointless!!!

Ahmiee:
so u wasted your time to type this trash, my dear me being in my early twenties has nothing to do with maturity. u might feel u have sense buh i cant see any in all these u typed here. if u dont have money dont bother going into any relationship, if u know ur ambitious focus on ur hustle when uv3 made it then u can settle down. is only weak men that say shii like ehn i need a woman by my sid3 to support my hustle, let me shock u my first relationship i never asked this nigga for a dime buh he cared about certain things about me, i still left cuss of distance now hes rich thru what u call yahoo, he said things like i was never there blabla . thats story for another day, the thing that weak me about guys is that they dnt know their responsibility u feel is to be doing press up on bed, u feel cuss she doesnt ask means she has it all, most guys are quite comfortable with it. they will even brag to their frnds, their bae dont ask for money tf?? u should be ashamed of ur self,even the rich gurls that are independent on their own u feel they dnt need little aliment once in a while. u dont want ones responsibility on u buh u wanto fvk, if shes ur gf also take the husbandly responsibility

Lol, small pikin sense.

LoRdCaT:
I am fine oo. what's up

I am good too. it is just that I haven't noticed your comment here for a while

LoRdCaT:
You guess?

My cat.

Lalas247:

you know how I feel about this ...
lol ladies don't even like when I say this but here goes .....

I detest Lazy females who feel entitled to a mans money when they have done absolutely nothing ( earning wise)
my motto is to be Independent! the respect you get from that is bliss.
I will support my man any way I can to make sure as a family unit we a comfortable .
now will I marry a guy with no job : Yes on one condition he is actively looking for employment and has the tools to secure a good job. those types of guys are gold even if they may be broke now . those are the Ines you build a future with from the bottom and you both rise to the top.
but most females don't see beyond the exterior look.

my advice to you always date hard working females also b hardworking yourself
giving gifts and spending on each other is a two way thing ...nothing wrong in that it is wrong when it is demanded and one sided and sole responsibility is on the man . 2018 stay woke

me just want beard and good shalom

God bless you.

Where are all the girls who are advocating for gender equality

Safiaa:
You’ll most likely marry a ‘Nigerian girl’ deal with it. Funny how Nigerian men can have these expectations, about wanting a virgin, a good cook, intelligent, young, beautiful and curvy in the right places. We are literally scrutinised all our lives to be the perfect wife for our future husbands. Yet the minute a girl says pim about expectations, it’s a Huge problem. I’m actually done with this conversation.

Lol.. pls don't categorize me into it. I personally don't have such need or desire for a girl to be doing some stupid wife duties when we re still dating. It doesn't move me. Infact, I ll detest it

highpriestess:

do I look or sound like someone that's desperate to have a relationship?

I don't care whatever you look like

Well, because I can't be typing long epistles upandan, I'll just say that Buhari is the one that finally killed the remaining love that was left in Nigeria. Poverty is real. Beyond poverty, the main thing that is doing girls of nowadays is their poverty mentality. That explains why a girl with 2million will be eyeing your 100k. Team single and happy mehn. We chopping anything choppable and then we discard them like the trash that they are.

#WaywardPikin

Asin these comments r messed up!!! It's not mandatory, it's not a command or a forceful impression but if a man cares for a lady he would take it upon himself to make her comfortable!!! Simple as abc!!! If a man claims to love you and feels there is no need to appriciate you or make u feel loved!! HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU!! NO ENTITLEMENT, ALL U DO IS OUT OF LOVE!!!

Shugavee:
Asin these comments r messed up!!! It's not mandatory, it's not a command or a forceful impression but if a man cares for a lady he would take it upon himself to make her comfortable!!! Simple as abc!!! If a man claims to love you and feels there is no need to appriciate you or make u feel loved!! HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU!! NO ENTITLEMENT, ALL U DO IS OUT OF LOVE!!!

If the lady loves the man, what will she do to take it upon herself?

IamD18:


If the lady loves the man, what will she do to take it upon herself?

what would u want ur gf to do for you??

bobphrisel:
Where are all the girls who are advocating for gender equality

You don't see nairaland feminists in threads like this.

Shugavee:
what would u want ur gf to do for you??

You shouldn't answer me with questions.

You said a man should take it upon himself to care(financially), and I asked what should a lady take upon herself to do and offer the said man?

makydebbie:
You don't see nairaland feminists in threads like this.

There will be a clash between them and non-feminists if they happen to comment here.

IamD18:


You shouldn't answer me with questions.

You said a man should take it upon himself to care(financially), and I asked what should a lady take upon herself to do and offer the said man?

I can't answer ur question with out knowing that!!! If u start up a relationship with a lady there are some things you expect of her, so what r they?? So u just go into a relationship cause people r into a relationship

Lastly u all say finacially like money is a huge problem for u all!!!! Another question!! Don't u like free money??

IamD18:


There will be a clash between them and non-feminists if they happen to comment here.

A big one lol. They comment on threads that favors them.

Shugavee:
I can't answer ur question with out knowing that!!! If u start up a relationship with a lady there are some things you expect of her, so what r they?? So u just go into a relationship cause people r into a relationship

Lastly u all say finacially like money is a huge problem for u all!!!! Another question!! Don't u like free money??

Your twisting and reverse mechanism is poor , you can't play with my intelligence

I'm not a kid. Below was your comment.

Shugavee:

but if a man cares for a lady he would take it upon himself to make her comfortable!!! Simple as abc!!! If a man claims to love you and feels there is no need to appriciate you or make u feel loved!! HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU!

And I asked what will the woman offer a man to make him comfortable and happy ?


Since you said a man should financially take it upon himself to comfort a woman, what should the woman do to comfort her man, it's a simple question

We love free money, not liability.

Do you like liability

makydebbie:
A big one lol. They comment on threads that favors them.

Lol

The Op should have mentioned them

Really no reply Please is there anyone veiwing this thread that does not like free money!! Either from a boy or girl If anyone comes here especially a lady n say no man should spend for me blah blah blah, is a big fat hypocrite!!! I love free money!! I work n hv my own money but i love being spoilt by my man!!! If any lady feminist or not says that I hate men spending on me, she is a liar!!! But don't depend on him, hv ur own money!! And spoil him when u can!!! That's all!!

bammy777:
Darling spotted. queen alert. *kisses*

I'm a man, bro.

makydebbie:
You don't see nairaland feminists in threads like this.

lol exactly, the funny thing is that some of them saying guys should spend very well on their babes and all that, would still advocate on topics that concern gender equality

Shugavee:
Really no reply Please is there anyone veiwing this thread that does not like free money!! Either from a boy or girl If anyone comes here especially a lady n say no man should spend for me blah blah blah, is a big fat hypocrite!!! I love free money!! I work n hv my own money but i love being spoilt by my man!!! If any lady feminist or not says that I hate men spending on me, she is a liar!!! But don't depend on him, hv ur own money!! And spoilt him when u can!!! That's all!!

I like free money as long as it is legitimate.

Shugavee:
Really no reply Please is there anyone veiwing this thread that does not like free money!! Either from a boy or girl If anyone comes here especially a lady n say no man should spend for me blah blah blah, is a big fat hypocrite!!! I love free money!! I work n hv my own money but i love being spoilt by my man!!! If any lady feminist or not says that I hate men spending on me, she is a liar!!! But don't depend on him, hv ur own money!! And spoilt him when u can!!! That's all!!

I still de wait for ur answer oo

chukzyfcbb:
If you don't want to spend on your lady, fine.

if you want to empty your purse on a lady fine.

My dad didn't give my mom monthly stipends all through their years in marriage but he Spoils her silly with gifts and money to shop whenever she requests.

There are also some marriages where the husband pay some sort of monthly stipend to the wife for her upkeep and it ends there.

Relationships differ. All I know is You cannot claim to Love without Giving.

.Even the bible says; for God so LOVED the world that he GAVE his ONLY BEGOTTEN SON!!!..

You can't love someone and not want to give

God bless you sir

Suzzydane:

Smdh
This is deep not only are you broke Af.
You are a bitch, a big ass bitch, pussay ass mofo
Imagine you are calling mods when your fellow men caution you to fix up that trash fake lifestyle . This is just the beginning.

Fake bitch ass nigga. Fight like a man, you are busy exchanging words with a girl safiaa, you are weak Af. we do not call mods .
Take it from me boy your disgrace will be special.
Spits on his broke head

lmao... what are you waiting for


poor fool probably managing with his parents

neezar:

Nairaland aba big boy

lmao... if my designers are aba made then yours will surely be sokoto made..

poverty has resetted your brain

ImaIma1:


Ok.
House.
Car
Yatch.
Island.
Are you happy now?

lies and delusion..
whatever rocks your boat..

you live your life the way you like

Safiaa:
What is the essence of a relationship if you’re not benefiting from it? I hate to sound somehow, but honestly I feel like you guys are not being honest with yourselves. Sex is not a favour to you guys, yet you persue it more than money sef. Sex is basically like food to men. After basic amenities like food and water sex should be next for men. Women don’t persue sex in the same manner.

The same way if you meet a woman who can prepare your favourite meal and coook better, throw it down in the bedroom more, looks better, wouldn’t you opt for the better option? Wouldn’t that be more of a ‘wife’ to you? Not justifying cheating but if she decides to leave for a man who can do a better job as a provider,she has the right to do so. Jeez you guys are becoming so sensitive.

I see you are sincere but where I think you got it wrong is there will always be a beta looking lady , a beta cook, beta behaved girl etc. So also a girl will not always chose the richest of men who ask her out due to beta attention, look, intelligence etc from those who are not richest.

You can neither assume nor decide for each individual. It involve several reason Which ranges from personality to personality.

Not every rich guy wants to date the most beautiful girl n not every beautiful girl want to date the richest man, so in a nutshell dating is not a transaction you can compare with a job seeker n an employer. The earlier you realize the beta.

Because Nigerian ladies look out for the richest to date does not mean it is applicable across the world. To be candid judging from my travels across the globe it is prevalent in Nigeria because of our greed culture n economy. I can tell you it is not so in most European countries, South Africa or Kenya even in Ghana right beside us.

Safiaa:
Women please keep your standards. Very important. Love yourself and don’t allow any man to manipulate you into settling. Accept only the very best, enough is enough.

shey na the network carrier whey u dey use for UK be that ?

Chai... Nigerian girls and poverty infested fake life..

you're really living in the UK.. UK indeed


poverty is really a disease...

highpriestess:

You see why you are the General queen.
profound knowledgeable facts you have got about relationships,how can i even start dating a stingy broke idiot,lol.


whatever he displays while in relationship, will be applied when he walks you down the isle.
nothing for broke idiots,nothing.

they should work hard and earn there money,while I'm also doing the same.

we shall meet when he becomes rich.

I can't even advise my enemy to date a stingy broke idiot,mtchew.

Thegeneralqueen


Just a simple question to you two for the records.

How many rich guys that can take care of your bills have you each dated n what is the status of such relationships ?