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Re: How Do I Handle This? by naijjaman(m): 12:39am On May 14, 2018 |
Prognose: It's hard for women to forget men who treat them well but you must stand firm. Read all you can about "temptations" and take it from there. It's not easy but your will power is being tested here. Resist, resist and resist. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by ahnie: 12:40am On May 14, 2018 |
busky101:Hiaaan ogbeni kilo kan Jesus for this Mata? |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by AreaFada2: 12:40am On May 14, 2018 |
EgunMogaji: Baba, Twale o. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by ngwababe(f): 12:40am On May 14, 2018 |
Nothing |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by BoraWizzle(m): 12:44am On May 14, 2018 |
Honestly... If you are not in a place to possibly rekindle the old flame, "You need to ignore her calls". In some situation, it's always hard to say goodbye even though we know it's over. It does not always end up well. You know what you want as a man. Do what is morally right. Good luck. |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by AreaFada2: 12:45am On May 14, 2018 |
EgunMogaji: Baba, Twale o. Only that in OP's case, it's not just common fb friendship. But a case of "damsel in distress". In no time the knight that reappears after 10 years can hit the hay with her. It is like going through old road you know. Kinda familiar. A very delicate matter. OP needs to be wise. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Diso60090(m): 12:48am On May 14, 2018 |
Prognose: Shut up there lazy Nigerian boi |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by EWAagoyin(m): 12:48am On May 14, 2018 |
wonyi:what if the first 2 u stated is between and someone but we ain't dating anymore what wil happen |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 12:48am On May 14, 2018 |
Prognose:Chaiiiii. Simple. Just tell her you are HIV positive. She go run like Usain bolt. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Skepticus: 12:50am On May 14, 2018 |
koolaid87: Best comment 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 12:57am On May 14, 2018 |
Prognose: Learn the following lessons from water; Follow the path of less resistance, be transparent, be patient and be universal. If she calls you of all the men she has dated in the past, then there is something about you that brings the emotion out of her. Care for her and be there for her and if necessary give her the best advise and cuddle if need be. There is nothing wrong in being human, that is why you are here in this world. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by toluleke(m): 12:57am On May 14, 2018 |
Well women like attention so if they don't get it from the main person anyone available will get it well that doesn't mean she want anything from you I guess you are the one thinking from your down below probably but if it begins to go into emotional talk or sex chat then make sure you reduce the attention 1st and block her flee my brother it is hard to sleep and no want to be tempted again |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Akolawole(m): 12:59am On May 14, 2018 |
aaronson:Agreed |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 1:04am On May 14, 2018 |
AreaFada2: I understand where you're coming from, it's a delicate situation. OP should never do anything that will jeopardize his current relationship if the EX cannot maintain a boundary. |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 1:07am On May 14, 2018 |
Solstar: Wait a minute. Am I on Nairaland or Quora? Such worthy advice on here? Please stop making sense 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 1:10am On May 14, 2018 |
EgunMogaji: I actually answer Questions on Quora. I am loved at Quora. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by busky101(m): 1:20am On May 14, 2018 |
ahnie:lol, aunty no be everybody from ur tribe |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 1:44am On May 14, 2018 |
Just keep long distance between you two. A married lady once told me that even if it remains a child in her womb, it'd be mine. Calling her husband just 'baba omo' i.e 'baby daddy'. I neglected her calls & didn't reply her chats online. She has called herself to order anyway. Even if she still nurses any selfish feelings, I definitely won't be her prey,,,, by God's grace Keep neglecting her everywhere unless you have no much interest in your own marriage 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by laudate: 1:50am On May 14, 2018 |
Solstar: Chimo! Warris dis? It is people like you that lead their friends into trouble & temptation. He is married, for goodness sake! And the girl too was married for years, before separating from her husband. She is very vulnerable right now, and what she needs is serious counselling, and a network of female friends who can support her, through this trying time. An ex-boyfriend no matter how saintly he is, should NOT step up to offer her help, at this time. One thing can lead to another, and temptation does not ring a bell, before it makes an appearance! 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 1:53am On May 14, 2018 |
Prognose: You are worried she might need help like it's your business. Hope she was there for you over the years when you needed help one way or another? She's eating her cake and having it and my dear, it's very obvious you are blind to this Right now she's using you to pass the lonely time. Don't worry, she'll jettison you once she finds another lover. Keep keeping on. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by laudate: 1:53am On May 14, 2018 |
EgunMogaji:Egbon, don't encourage that guy, jare. Na Naija we dey, not America. In Naija, some exes do not respect boundaries, o! And it takes a long time for courts to grant restraining orders, if things get out of hand....a vulnerable woman can easily become clingy in no time at all. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 2:00am On May 14, 2018 |
laudate: Court ke? Babalawo no dey again? Na to de wear "bante", carry "iwo ewure wrapped in red cloth" sure pass. Tu e tu e, eyi taba wi fun ogbo logbo ngbon, eyi taba wi fun ogba, ni ogba ngba, ko se ko se..... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by laudate: 2:05am On May 14, 2018 |
EgunMogaji: Egbon, you dey watch Africa Magic Yoruba or those Nollywood films, right? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by DwayneLee: 2:11am On May 14, 2018 |
I feel sorry. Did for 10 years he no one itself not has found? |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 2:12am On May 14, 2018 |
laudate: In fact, I no dey watch anything else Well, maybe CNN to see the latest Trump clusterfork. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Jethrolite(m): 2:27am On May 14, 2018 |
Prognose:Oga go and serve the beans. Be smart with your exit strategy, if you can't then block her. No worry,she won't die or just continuously laugh it off if you want to keep contact. |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Uzoezeamugo: 2:36am On May 14, 2018 |
Brother flee, devil is trying all means to lure you. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Facidio: 3:04am On May 14, 2018 |
simply cut ties with anything ex......especially when they are married. if she so much loved u u shouldn't be called ex in the first place. my ex this my ex that is tearing so many marriages and relationships apart presently |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Jaqenhghar: 3:30am On May 14, 2018 |
Magnifik18: Well said. I hope the OP is listening. In a twist of events you hear later that she made up with her husband 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Adeyinka123: 3:54am On May 14, 2018 |
Just Bleep her once orvtwice and move on. Pls go and Bleep her to reset her head. |
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Dee2976: 3:54am On May 14, 2018 |
Tell her to get lost.. Ex means ex |
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