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LivingFree:
Vulture spotted vampire we see you

vulture or vampire?....................choose one!!

CarlosTheJackal:
Lol. I used the word "boys code" to explain the unwritten rule of guys

But it's still a boys code, It's not a man's code. A man has his own code of conduct that suits him...

CarlosTheJackal:
You are funny. I did right and will do it again

Anything that suits your conscience but they say "show me your friend and I will tell you who you are" So you harboured this kind person as close pal

kingkakaone:
Tell them to keep their code and their friendship.
Just be happy u now know who Ur friends are.
Make better friends than them and move on from such a cancerous circle if not they might influence u to become toxic like them.

BTW, did u people write down a code when u were growing?

You didn't get the memo

CarlosTheJackal:
He is not diabolical rather he loves playing on everyone intelligence. Do you know he went to the lady and told him that I'm a bad friend and that I'm planning to date her that's why.


Today the lady is in a new relationship but Okey still pester her on phone calling the wife unprintable names and looking for an opportunity to sleep and th the lady again.

and you say okey isnt diabolica


anyways you still did the right thing though....................the only prob i had with your post is why ynu had to put yourself in such a situation in the first place.............but you've clarified that, so we cool

samyfreshsmooth:
vulture or vampire?....................choose one!!

Vampire

LivingFree:
But it's still a boys code, It's not a man's code. A man has his own code of conduct that suits him...

#word!!!

LivingFree:
Vampire

perfect choice!

CarlosTheJackal:
My fear for the lady sanity was when she was inflected by STD from the guy and she still stayed put. I told her she should tell the guy to use condom but she said the guy refuses.


I was also very angry with the girl when she terminated the pregnancy. She should have used it to know the guy real intentions because i didn't want to tell her what the guy planned to do because i wanted her to read between the lines and figure it out on her own

i wish some woman would have higher self esteem. I guess because she’s 34 and unmarried she felt the need to settle. Isn’t it better to be single than to deal with a man who’s only using you, and in the process you’re suffering. I rebuke it IJN.

Tell your friend OKEY that I am very proud of him.

You chose not to destroy someone's life cos of your friends stupidity, respect, for guys saying shit, what if shes ur daughter

LivingFree:
You didn't get the memo

Which memo?

i blame you OP

You should have cut off Okey a long time ago

i pity the poor girl, that girl is what fu.cck boys all over the nation are looking for.

Broken, insecure girls. Choi somebody's body count is about to tear the roof

CarlosTheJackal:
Remember guys cover every shiit of their fellow guy and it's an unwritten rule

Hmmm...

CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will to travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

if this is how the story really is, you did well... there is a difference between real adult life and youngboy-just-came out-of- secondary school- life. apparently your friend is still living the latter.

Be wary of him.

Yes, and I didn't have to read your epistle

Smiles, Karma will Kick the mofo ass! @ op furnishe us with the latest news after Karma visited the mofo please

aonag:
if this is how the story really is, you did well... there is a difference between real adult life and youngboy-just-came out-of- secondary school- life. apparently your friend is still living the latter.

Yea

Espada10:
Tell your friend OKEY that I am very proud of him.

Brain cells you lack

CarlosTheJackal:
Thanks. I will forward this thread yo him because he still sends me text that i betrayed his trust but i still believe that i did right. Ive got sisters and a daughter that i dont pray such fate befalls them

Be very careful of this your friend. He comes across as a psychopath.

According to the Society for the Study of Psychopathy, psychopath traits include:

Lack of guilt/remorse
Lack of empathy
Lack of deep emotional attachments
Narcissism
Superficial charm
Dishonesty
Manipulativeness
Reckless risk-taking

What the heck is "bro code "?
We were humans first before gender, race, religion and color divided us.
God bless you op for showing empathy to a human like you.
#Respect

CarlosTheJackal:
You are funny. I did right and will do it again

Bro, forget what other rer@rds tell you on this thread, you're a correct man and I respect you.

You're a man who chose truth and honour over deceit and fake friendship. A friend who can't tell me the truth is worse than an enemy.

You are a good person. Although I believe that you should earlier have given the lady subtle signs that her relationship was heading nowhere.

The fact that numerous STDs and 3-months abortion was involved breaks any bro code that exist.

You shouldn't be friends with that animal.

When Karma knocks viciously, your friend will be lookong for one strong babalawo.

You did the right thing, hope she can move on in peace.

Everybody screaming about Karma catching up on Okey...... What if Okey happens to be the girl's Karma for the men she has played before turning 34?

She obviously have her secrets which only her close friend knows about but as usual a girl won't open up like this nigga did. Most of the girls screaming you did well won't do the same if their fellow girl is playing a man.

Guy you Bleep up and you deserve better drilling. There are ways you could have talked to the girl rather than spilling your man's code. Again you deserve double drilling.

This your story get as he be..but leave it!...why are you asking us if you did well..let your conscience be the judge!!.you don't need our approval...

@CarlosTheJackal you deserve all the accolades. That your friend is a Demon. Thank God you freed his ex-fiancee from his claws.

This story is Like the exact story a lady narrated on fb about her fiance who used the money loaned she him to get married to another lady and the story even graced the front page on nl

CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

You are wise bro, and may nature with its good tidings reward you bountifully for that,careless if any lunatic tells you otherwise.

Sooner or later you will def realize you saved your own life and soul.

CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

You be correct man biko . I love guys with a consience..imagine keeping some useless code which more often than not is mostly negative and adds no positive value to the adherents..Keeping useless and meaningless cides like some Frat boys in the University..

'Boy code' gbakwa oku!!....Besides nnam be careful of this your so called before he either defrauds you or organises Kidnappers to kidnap for for ransome..The dude you descibed comes of as a criminal and psycho.