LivingFree:


That's why he spoke up! Just apologise to him for your curses... you'd probably enjoy a cut of the money yourself, if you were in the same place

SirBunky85:
spoke up when he was aware of his plans right from d onset?me to enjoy some cut?now i knw dat u are equally evil and dats y u see nothing wrong in d op's story and d part he played

SirBunky85:
pray someone tells u sth after d damage has already bn done against u.goodnite too

CarlosTheJackal:
Every one is evil because they refuse to see things from your lenses.


People like you always find fault where there is none so I'm not surprise the way you ve been masturbating here trying to prove no point

SirBunky85:
yes shes evil for saying dat if she were d one,she would've collected her own cut of d money as u did.besides,i'm not looking for who to concur with me,i just want to tell u dat u telln d gal after helping ur friend execute his evil plan is nothing commendable.pray a friend does same to u

AsapKen:
Never pass judgement by just hearing one part of a story.... If there's anything I'd like to hear it'll b okey's part of the story....and op it seems you've done something wrong. Something you're not telling us.....i also think ur conscience is also pricking u because of dat

CarlosTheJackal:
I would have insulted you but you will still be a junior to me so enjoy your delusion.


Goodnight and stop trolling

CarlosTheJackal:
It's my business because Karma is real in the real world.

Life is no longer see nothing and say nothing. That lady just needed someone to tell her that she is on a long ride.

If the guy can do such to a lady that he loves and did abortion for her then you can imagine what he will do to you that calls yourself his friend

1x2x3:
Everybody screaming about Karma catching up on Okey...... What if Okey happens to be the girl's Karma for the men she has played before turning 34?

She obviously have her secrets which only her close friend knows about but as usual a girl won't open up like this nigga did. Most of the girls screaming you did well won't do the same if their fellow girl is playing a man.

Guy you Bleep up and you deserve better drilling. There are ways you could have talked to the girl rather than spilling your man's code. Again you deserve double drilling.

1x2x3:
Only if you know what your woman's best friend knows.......No woman go break their code even though they have brothers. They will rather use this line "better to have a failed relationship than to have a failed marriage".

oyb:
@op you did the right thing

you really need to get some new friends. it is a testament to your character that this callous attitude did not rub off on you.

your guys have refused to grow up. and these are actions that come with consequences

okey must be at least 35, and yet here he is behaving like a small boy playing juvenile games.

it willl be hard to belive that this attitude does not feature in other parts of his life. i agree with another poster who noted that he has sociopathic tendencies

the former fiance dodged a bullet. i only wish you had intervened earlier before she wasted this much time with the guy.

in the most broey of terms, what okey did goes beyond any 'bro code'. one can decide to cover up for a friends casual infidelity, but this goes way beyond that.

LeHMaR:
That guy is not your real friend, i'm not commending your actions... But they say a friend will help you move but a real friend will help you move a body.... You said yourself that you were the only one that knew the game plan, he trusted you.. If you really didn't like what he was doing why didn't you just stay out of it completely?.. Abi that was the plan all along, letting him spill more secret so you go on to snitch.. You don turn referee and you decided your friend deserves a red card... I know you stand to gain something... Thunder is already waiting for any friend of mine that is planning to do this kind of poo to me.

sexdoll:
I don't have any pity at all for the fiance.

this is exactly what happens to all those bįtches that keep selecting men until they wake up one day only to discover that they don't have the privilege anymore.

at that point, desperation sets in.

But I can only sit back and watch them while laughing at them.

Sometimes I just feel the temptation to start fűcking all the desperado old bįtches if not for anything but just to teach them some important life lessons

MissRaine69:


How did he do the right thing?
He covered for him, lied for him, knew his friend was going to marry someone else and only told her after the fact!
How is that a good thing?
The former fianceé did not dodge a bullet she was shot in the chest but the bullet missed vital organs she will live but it will take a very long time for her to heal and get over this betrayal.

He covered for him, lied for him, knew his friend was going to marry someone else and only told her after the fact!

MissRaine69:
How did he do the right thing?
He covered for him, lied for him, knew his friend was going to marry someone else and only told her after the fact!
How is that a good thing?
The former fiancé did not dodge a bullet she was shot in the chest but the bullet missed vital organs she will live but it will take a very long time for her to heal and get over this betrayal.

CarlosTheJackal:
I slept with the fiance. Are you okay now?

ihimiray:
U deserve to die by lethal injection

CarlosTheJackal:
Thanks. I will forward this thread yo him because he still sends me text that i betrayed his trust but i still believe that i did right. Ive got sisters and a daughter that i dont pray such fate befalls them

samyfreshsmooth:
so in summary you saying "you chose a lady (you barely know) over your friend (you've known since highschool) right?


this here is the reason why i always warn my friends that before they tell me any secret, they should be sure it shouldn't be one revealing "how they hurt someone", "have hurt someone", or "intend to hurt someone" cos i cant be put on a tight corner where i'd choose between saving someone and betraying my friend's trust


you knew you couldn't handle the pressure of choosing to save the ladxw (nearing menopause) from disgrace and hurt or covering for your friend yet you happily remained and continued to act as the middle man cos you were getting some juicy news from both parties



now that you already made a choice, what do you want us to do?



anyways wyou my frrend are a ______


and your friend (okey) is a beast in man form..................such men dont usually end up well in life....
#spits


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CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

Lloydfolarin:



Don’t be fooled by people who are saying you have done the right thing.

What you did right there has cost a lot people their lives in recent years

Don’t do this again

You are very lucky to have got away with it

If you do this to a wrong guy, trust me, you are a dead man.

I know a closed family who did similar thing and got bathed with Acid

It might even be the lady that ll bath your friend with Acid and you ll regret your action for life.

Learn to keep your mouth shut and stay off people business.

If you carry on like this, you ll surely get killed in miserable way cos someone ll revenge in a bloodiest way.

I know it’s painful seeing someone being cheated but life has a reason for putting the victim at that spot at that point in time. It could be that God just want her or him to learn a lesson from that relationship before meeting the right person.

Finally, sooner or later, in business world, real world, you ll see a lot of things, keep quiet if you intend to live for a while on earth.

Shalom.

CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

CarlosTheJackal:
Thanks. I will forward this thread yo him because he still sends me text that i betrayed his trust but i still believe that i did right. Ive got sisters and a daughter that i dont pray such fate befalls them