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emelda86:
With pregnancy if the guy don't want to marry her,he won't marry her

Kedu? How was ur weekend?

Hey dear, bliv me, yoa good persom, nt everything has to do wit guy code or nt, atimes, u gat to stick to ur conscience, Most people goin against wat u did are no diff frm ur friend. And for ur friend, KARMA s a bitch, it s coming for him.

CarlosTheJackal:
I've just seen how Hitler convinced the Germans to take over Europe and become a super race.



Don't allow yourself to be swung easily. I will do that which i did another thousand time. The lady knows Okey is my bestie and he knows i can talk to him if he derails so that's why she do call me.


I'm still friends with the lady today and I've never had an inclination to have emotional feelings for her because i dont eve know how that one can grow .

did u read what i wrote in the bracket?..i dnt mean emotional feelings...we both knw dah d pity u fill for a gurl u knw well nd nt same u ll hv for a gurl u hardli see or talk to..das jes it d fact dah u hv goten close to her made u fil pity for her nd das y u had to tel hr of d plan...xo dnt quote me wrngli..besyds did ur friend knw dat u communicate wif his bae dat often??

Niceguy123:
Thank you bros, you did the right thing, about your friend, karma is a fucking bitch.

Nice guys always finish last, if they every finish at all.

CarlosTheJackal:
Lol. I do get attacked by our other friends for doing that because they said I've lost our boys code.

You need a new set of friends. The ones you have are a terrible set of human beings.

wristbangle:
May God bless u for this priceless comment. I can't believe some stupid guys can castigate the OP against making the right move. Any guy who supports the evil deeds of the guy who ditched his 34yrs old fiancé should remember they have sisters and nieces. The guy in question is a heartless and wicked soul.

Girls do worse everyday.
Go and read of divorce cases in the USA or Nigeria.

Read about girls accusing guys of rape to destroy their live because if a flimsy reason.

Then ask yourself of this 34 year old bag of aging bones was one of this people would you still have this same message for her.

Besides the op was fvucking her so you see y he's opening up here.

pawshjai:
did u read what i wrote in the bracket?..i dnt mean emotional feelings...we both knw dah d pity u fill for a gurl u knw well nd nt same u ll hv for a gurl u hardli see or talk to..das jes it d fact dah u hv goten close to her made u fil pity for her nd das y u had to tel hr of d plan...xo dnt quote me wrngli..besyds did ur friend knw dat u communicate wif his bae dat often??

Done with you. Be legible for better understanding

Dami12345:
Exactly, the things I know about my pastors wife, it would rock the church, and the man is a disciplinarian.
The same boy with the daughter is with the wife, the woman is 40 years +.
[Women have no shame, honor,loyalty, nor respect, they only thing they fear is power, true power.
They are beast, no loyalty at all no matter what is done for them.

Extend my warm regards to your mum, sisters and female relatives.

Ishilove:
You need a new set of friends. The ones you have are a terrible set of human beings.

Dami12345 needs to learn.

Ignatio:
You did well. Blessings will be on you and your generation. Stay away from people like Okey.

Everyone one has secrets even the one hag that op is fuvkin, no noe wants a friend like him.

If someone you want to be friends with told you this story of how he betrayed his friend for after fvcking the girl friend would you want him as a Friend

Constantiney:
You, your friend are both animals.
For all i know, you could av been blackmailing the guy till he decides not to play along,then you decided to come here and pretend you are a good person.

The fact that you knew him this well shows you are also horrible in someways or maybe you fell inlove with the lady.

What good have you done really?
I blame the poor lady, the signs were there and yet still decided to remain stupid.

Look at the idiot poster too, looking for accolades
During your friendship, have you for once adviced ur so called friend to change his ways if u are really good as you are trying to potray?

I hope you get found, and get shot in the nuts.
Fuc.k you. Bleep your friend.
If you were really good you would have advised the lady earlier. Ogun kill both of you.

Morons shouting he did good,f.uck u all.
Dont mention me. I dont check it.

And oya sweep him away too.

raziboi:
I don't talk to people who suffer from low esteem..
cause I know u can't talk to me when you see me...

You are the only with the esteem ish, I don't need to meet you to know you're still a baby

CarlosTheJackal:
You are funny. I did right and will do it again

Well you did right but it came rather too late. I can't tolerate friends who can go to such extremes of wickedness.
My fellas know me. If you tow this evil path, then you have me to contend with.
Just imagine how the poor girl's life has been wrecked.

And to those craxy imps saying the OP broke boys code or what have you, I pray the same fate befalls your sisters/daughters.


We have a saying here...Meat wey u no wan chop, no take teeth share am. Transmission.. Sorry translation- any girl wey u no wan marry, no taste her.

teblu:
Bros u did great by telling her but where you did wrong was waiting dis long b4 telling her. U would hv saved her alot emotional pain if u had told her earlier. Mark my words, some day, ur friend will look 4 her 2 apologize.

Why is it his job yo save her from pain, aren't men and women equal again.
Is she blind, retarded or mentally impaired?

Well we know y its his problems now, he was fuving the girl and caught feelings.

LeHMaR:
And Probably Okey the bad guy was planning to start letting him in on the gist when he (Okey) starts cheating on his new bride oo.
choi, thank goodness op showed his real self now oo, na so marriage go take just spoil.

Abi oh..
Thank God.
Okay should be happy.
God don commot two problems at once, the fake friend and the old hag, and he even got paid for his time.
Lol. It have pain the jackal ,he is looking to massage his ego on nairaland.

CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

Funny how men claim women are snitch and gossips. You are the worst kind of woman!!! Stop calling yourself a man cos I wouldn't even dream of such.

What did I just read?

CarlosTheJackal:
Thanks. I will forward this thread yo him because he still sends me text that i betrayed his trust but i still believe that i did right. Ive got sisters and a daughter that i dont pray such fate befalls them

Next time he texts you to tell you trash....tell him "F*$k you!!!.....and He should shove his baby bride up the hole in his posterior".

You shouldn't hang with that kind of person.

Born2Breed:
Funny how men claim women are snitch and gossips. You are the worst kind of woman!!! Stop calling yourself a man cos I wouldn't even dream of such.

are you sure you are a female or you just want to troll

Born2Breed:
Funny how men claim women are snitch and gossips. You are the worst kind of woman!!! Stop calling yourself a man cos I wouldn't even dream of such.

What do you know about being a man??

CarlosTheJackal:
He is not diabolical rather he loves playing on everyone intelligence. Do you know he went to the lady and told him that I'm a bad friend and that I'm planning to date her that's why.


Today the lady is in a new relationship but Okey still pester her on phone calling the wife unprintable names and looking for an opportunity to sleep and th the lady again.

This Okey character will not end well.

CarlosTheJackal:
Dami12345 needs to learn.

He's a child and reasons like one.

Dami12345:
Nope she can't, social contact, if she could, men would sue so many girls for the same things.

You are totally wrong sir. It's beyond a social contract. The elements of a breach of promise to marry is inherent in the narrative. All she needs is corroborative evidence to prove her case.. If she can get the guy's friend to testify on her behalf, it's a done deal. Anyone can sue for breach of contract to marry under the matrimonial causes Act, 1990 and even under the customary law.

wristbangle:
May God bless u for this priceless comment. I can't believe some stupid guys can castigate the OP against making the right move. Any guy who supports the evil deeds of the guy who ditched his 34yrs old fiancé should remember they have sisters and nieces. The guy in question is a heartless and wicked soul.

Those supporting the guy are same as the guy because like begets like.
They will meet with a woman who have d same self centered and wicked attitude like the guy they support so they can feel the heat.

pawshjai:
ok dis part...i reali dnt support it...its wrng to communicate wif ur friends babe or guy...i remember my bestie once did dah..wen i found out..was xo mad..am lik we best friends kul..we talk abt our guys.kul..buh pls we shud stay away frm dem..in evryway..i dnt knw how comfortable u ll b chattin nd gistin wif ur baes guy wen she isnt dre wifout her knowledge.its wrong...d Op was wrng dre..i tink i see wah u sayin...looks lik d op had a side Ish wif his friend...for him to tell d lady to let him know he told her..den? well m jes in support of d fact dah he let d lady knw abt d evil plan....but cum to tink of it...i tink he told her bcus he had made friends wif her..probably liks her(dnt geh me wrng oo..i min lik her as bein sumone he knws one on one)..bcus if it was a babe he had no cominication wif..i doubt if he will call her nd tell her...m jes sayin dou..well we dnt knw wahs in dre mind..all d same d lady got to knw.nd its fyn

1. I am glad you figured out what I'm saying. He's been in close contact with his best friend's babe meaning he's got a motive.

2. He knows about the STD story of which I believe the girl told him without Okey's knowledge.

3. She aborted.... Snitch knows about it.

I mean from all indications he's been closely monitoring the relationship from both ends. He also said he was waiting for evidence before telling the lady .

I wonder if the OP will take it lightly finding out his own babe is communicating close with his best friend without his knowledge.

Okey messed up big time but that doesn't change the fact OP is a snitch.

[/quote]And to those craxy imps saying the OP broke boys code or what have you, I pray the same fate befalls your sisters/daughters..[/quote]Let me just say this, any of my female peeps that choose to be plain naive and miserably stupid to allow themselves to be played like this.. Thunder should first fire their heart before it gets broken...
Abeg, the lady knew the man and what he's capable of, but still chose to manage.. So why is she suprised? She's there loving

Yankiss:
You did right in your own eyes. Why did you wait for so long to inform the girl? Why didn't you try to psyche your friend out of his wickedly dastard act? Guess, he is still your friend? The two of you played with the girl. It is very devastating. If that's my sister, I will come for the both of you!

Exactly my point. He could have handled the situation far better but he was monitoring and waiting for silly evidence like he said. He deserves drilling.

CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

God will not fail to bless you for this act..if you had gone along with your friends you would have also borne the consequences of his karma..thank God for the wisdom to abdicate yourself from such wickedness.your honesty will reap a reward God is not asleep.

ihimiray:
U deserve to die by lethal injection

How I wish I know your sister, I will use her, give her STDs, make her to abort severally and dump her for LAWMA. Then you will know how it feels like.
The guy is trying to be honest and you are here saying he deserves to die? Are you OK?

some girls r totally daft.
why stay with a guy who cheats and gives u STD?
that was a red flag she ignored, u for allow her suffer bros.
mumu girl!

Just be careful with him, aplly wisdom. The bible says "wisdom is profitable to direct" Ecc 10:10

CarlosTheJackal:
Thanks. I will forward this thread yo him because he still sends me text that i betrayed his trust but i still believe that i did right. Ive got sisters and a daughter that i dont pray such fate befalls them

ihimiray:
U deserve to die by lethal injection

It will amaze us how our comment will come back to hurt us and our family/children.

Your good friend will plan worst than this, and your best friend will join him. You didn;t think about the dilemma of this woman involved.