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IamD18:
Bruv, how do you want the thunder that will strike sense and brain inside you?

How do you want the thunder


Boiled or fried?

Hahahahaha.... oh lord

234GT:
Picture of the 5M cash or...........

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Or wot?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
More reason you should go for your size ni. The prince will gladly foot all her bills. Better luck next time

And i am sure oga prince treats her like a foot mat....

Am sure its that kin relationship wey oga prince will say shut up...madam will say sorry sir...

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

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i hope you broke up with her after this conversation??

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

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Your girlfriend is selfish. No reasonable woman would say or think such. A help mate assist the home whether there is a need or not

Omachona:
Open the lab in your name, employ her as the managing director. Pay her from the proceeds after all accounting has been done. Let her know from onset that the lab belongs to you

True... Very brilliant idea!

The two of you are not ok.

You are fighting over something that has not happened yet?

I'll advise both of you to delay marriage for another ten years until you're both matured to enter the Sacred institution of marriage.

VampireeM:
Sissy men everywhere on the internet seeking validation instead of making decisions like a man. What's our business with her response abi you want us to bash her? If you can't deal with her response and attitude, you know what to do

... Thanks a lot for this post.

can you hear yourself? a girl who have friends that tell her what to do? they will eventually make her wreck you.

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

be a man and run off!!!

Holymann:
Trying to defend her only shows that YOUR LEVEL OF STUPIDITY IS HIGHER THAN I THOUGHT.

Asin eeh dude den imagine (God forbid) tins come rough 4 d guy n d girl turn breadwinner my guy don turn huzboy oooo

ednut1:
hr might be lieng about d 5m sha. Have faced sometin lik dis before. Met one babe at an event , we bcam friends and wanted to date her o. This babe pman get money and foots most of her bills. D sis earns 500k in a bank bt when she bashes d car she uses na pman dey pay . D babe told me if we marry na me go dey foot all bills (her wigs lasan na 60k), say her money is hers mine is ours. Ontop my small salary. I just flee o. One prince don engage am now

The fact say you never give me this gist makes me believe that....NA LIE YOU DEY TALK!

#Tueh!

Op,take a walk out of that relationship now 'cus the signs of problems awaits you ahead, if you take her as a wife. It is not even the amount you intend to put up for her for the project, same friend of hers would come in-beteen two of you and be giving her wrong advise to your own detriment.

Omachona:
Open the lab in your name, employ her as the managing director. Pay her from the proceeds after all accounting has been done. Let her know from onset that the lab belongs to you

and u think dat one will work out To mi I dnt think so she will be d one to use d money to do her hair finish

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

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My guy pick your shoes and make a run for the hills. This kind of talk saved you from marrying the wrong woman. Start coming up with excuses and avoid her like a plague. She will get the message in no time you might miss her at first, but don't worry, time heals all wounds.

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

Look, what you were told is the bitter truth.

What kind of advice do you expect to get from people on Nairaland, at the end you are your own man, and the decision is up to you, I also think it is pretty clear to you what you should do. I know what you need is validation on what you already know, and I will help you with that.

Leave the girl, she does not deserve you and she is certainly not ready to start a home. I was in a relationship like this too just a few months back, not exactly the situation, but basically I understood she was not ready to start a home and I let her go.

And lastly, if everything you have written is the absolute truth, I am going to tell you now that this girl does not respect you, and you should find your way.

deturla:
The fact say you never give me this gist makes me believe that....NA LIE YOU DEY TALK!

#Tueh!

i don add maggi nd salt cos d person dey nl. Mk d person no sabi lol

Holymann:
Trying to defend her only shows that YOUR LEVEL OF STUPIDITY IS HIGHER THAN I THOUGHT.

Aswear! Na d guy dey bring money d tin be like dis, den imagine say d girl turn breadwinner for future? My guy don turn huzboy oooo

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

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When it comes to responsibilities they see men as the head.

When it's beneficial they fight for equality.

Op your girlfriend is a leech..
Naija girls are all leeches..

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

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@o.p i'd advise u set up the lab n employ ha amongst other staff. U wil even b d one 2b paying her salary.

By d way o.p, help a bro. Make I send u my a/c details. I go 4ever appreciate wateva. Thx.

babyfaceafrica:
Jesus!!!!!..... You are OE of the reason people don't get married!!

Na your pocket ooo.
If you like don't focus on earning money to take care your family without the woman helping you. Be looking into her purse for contribution . Look away take responsibility and be focused on making things happen for yourself . And be a man .

khalids:
And i am sure oga prince treats her like a foot mat....

Am sure its that kin relationship wey oga prince will say shut up...madam will say sorry sir...

Dont have. Are u trying to say such rich men can't love their wives tenderly?

You can't be sure about such ok

ednut1:
i don add maggi nd salt cos d person dey nl. Mk d person no sabi lol

Well done.

Twoclans:
You guys get upset too easily ,she said she will contribute when you are down financially. Guy open the business for her ,after five months tell her you are down financially and that you are in a huge debt then allow her take over the finances of the home while you chill.

Cunny man die cunny man burry am

Congratulations, you have just won number one position on my list of worst advice ever.

You have 5m million to give to her but you don't have money for the upkeep of the family hmmmm

mistacoco:
Get the fvck out if you dont Av what to say?

Wow!....after reading your post I had no doubt you are a sissy...but with this comment... I realize I was sooo wrong.... you are a pûssy.

bethyz:
Do you know what she is 101% right. Every young man who is not married will say go against that. If you go for counselling for marriage they will tell you men should take there mind off what is in the woman's pocket. Be a responsible man take care of the family. The woman will help when it's necceasery. She is a help mate. You can discuss with her which possible way she wants to contribute . You will find out you dont even need to tell her she will take up some responsibility who ever is telling you dump her leave her she isn't a good woman is just childish. I went for three month proper counselling for marriage in Winners Chapel. She is right. take care of her love her. You will find out all she said won't be what she will do .

Well, you marriage counsellor must be mad then, there is no such thing like take your eye off her pocket, if she makes an income she must contribute, MUST CONTRIBUTE, what is the meaning of that nonsense. Dump that marriage counsellor before they lead you to commit suicide

Sarah20A:
You have 5m million to give to her but you don't have money for the upkeep of the family hmmmm

Story is not adding up

SoapQueen:
Make water carry me go if the girl no dump this guy like hot potato when he broke.

lol

bethyz:
Na your pocket ooo.
If you like don't focus on earning money to take care your family without the woman helping you. Be looking into her purse for contribution . Look away take responsibility and be focused on making things happen for yourself . And be a man .

... Shut up! Man indeed. Is people like you that gives men bad name. All yes member

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

is her prayer is 4u to b down b4 she can help or wot?u better think like a man or u should go back home to ask dad or mom at home

mistacoco:
Get the fvck out if you dont Av what to say?

Mistacoco, you are a big for nothing child, thinking of marriage. You deserve the kind of girl u have. Goat!

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

U'll be doomed if u marry her!
Ur last statement clearly shows that u're Blinded by love.
U better run for ur life and happiness.