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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by poseidon12: 12:12am On Jun 10, 2018 |
That is the mind set of the average Nigerian lady. That's extremely selfish. You have to get her to change before getting married to her. I would have nothing to do with a lady with such selfish disposition. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by na2016: 12:17am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco: Run she has nothing in your future! Am very afraid, if you go ahead and marry that lady, you will have serious problems in your marriage. I am married and I know what I am saying. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by chronique(m): 12:19am On Jun 10, 2018 |
if after that discussion you had with her,you still can't advice yourself on what to do,it shows you're not really smart. better start finding a new girlfriend. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Chatflick(m): 12:19am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco:The answer is starring right at you. Truth is your girlfriend is precisely selfish and childish. If she refuses to see things as you do, I'll say bro she ain't worth the hassle. Good morning! |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by CryptoClub2018: 12:21am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco: On your wife,see sometimes our ladies say what they don't mean and may just argue her point to drive home a position she wants to be as at that time. In the end,she might not act what she says and you will find out that she will be the best supportive wife you can ever thing of. One thing you should continue to pray for is financial uplift in your own life and believe me,she will gladly want to assist you even if you don't ask of her assistance. It's nothing to worry about bro You will be fine and don't let negative advice here put unnecessary thoughts in your mind about your woman. Or better still if she is serious about what she said, then try and change her mindset in a loving manner and stop arguing with her. Do pray for her too but most importantly as I have said, pray to God to make you always financially stable and u will b fine. Bro, seriously it's nothing to worry about. I know u love her pls just continue to love her. Cheers Also, can you help me with some cash?I'm financially down for now pls. I'll b glad if u can. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 12:24am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Omachona:she can kill him o |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 12:25am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco:pls bro I just need like 2000 naira pls. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 12:27am On Jun 10, 2018 |
oshe11: i dont think any matured man needs advice on this... 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by poseidon12: 12:27am On Jun 10, 2018 |
ednut1: One Prince or one fool? |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by na2016: 12:27am On Jun 10, 2018 |
bethyz: One of the very useless and foolish advice on nairaland. Am so sure you are not in control of your marriage if atall you are married and I am also sure that teaching was never done at winners chapel! What nonesense!!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by jimcaddy(m): 12:31am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Even if I understand the stereotypical thinking of women that the men will most likely abandon them if they cater for the upkeep for the house. Most women feel that at the end of the day, the man will take advantage of her and become lazy. But it depends on the man. I feel that a woman should support. It is not easy in this bloody country. Inflation in the land. Refusal to increase salaries. How a married man is expected to cater for his family, pay rent and school fees alone on a salary of just 100k is beyond me. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by poseidon12: 12:32am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Twoclans: Not good to start out in marriage by playing games on each other. The guy should dump her if she doesn't change her mind set. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by MarieSucre(f): 12:34am On Jun 10, 2018 |
ItzBIM: She is right. He is the head of the family, she is just a helpmeet. What is the point of the being the head and calling the shots if you will not take care of her needs. Please stop promoting feminism here. Men and women have their sweater roles to play which will never be equal. Now you're asking her to buy clothes for herself, next thing you ask her to tell him to come and be cooking food in the kitchen. A man is the head. Head no be by beans. A worse is enough for the wise. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by jonero4(m): 12:40am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Holymann:God bless u sir |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Obidikejr(m): 12:53am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Lalas247: Laslas your sense can fill a drum, you sound really smart, exposed and liberal.. See how your lady friend on the fp was insulting the man for seeking help, if everyone was perfect there'd be no need for therapist/psychologists, unfortunately we have few praticing professionals hence this young man has turned to NL for help... 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Cutehector(m): 1:12am On Jun 10, 2018 |
VampireeM:for your mind |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Ericnrm(m): 1:14am On Jun 10, 2018 |
bethyz: I have no words for you 4 Likes
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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by abbycole930(m): 1:14am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco:her mindset has disqualified her with me at first then why the hell on earth did she go to school if she will be waiting for you to sole driver...I mean no offence bro but I see some gold digging spirit at play here |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by bizza45: 1:18am On Jun 10, 2018 |
dude!! someone with a brain will not post this rubbish... either u are a sissy or u are just a bitch with a dick .. nonsense |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Naikkie(f): 1:20am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Different strokes for different folks.. Here I am, wanting to split bills with my husband! but 'cos of deep rooted African beliefs he said no...same company, same pay!.. My work is even more time consuming, so he has no choice but to do domestic duties (no house maid abroad).. I am jejely waiting for him to ask what I am doing with my money. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by OLAJADON: 1:39am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco:women like these only understand their own emotion and are usually very selfish incase your broke one then or for a while then you will see what I am saying. you can test her if u think it a lie,assist her with some funds and maybe 2 or 3 days after(be sure she still has money with her) then ask for her assistance. they only understand when things are going smoothly, but are quick to take their husband lazy in case of little hardship |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Mayflowa(m): 1:40am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Twoclans: Nor go there o. She may not support o. So she is hoping the guy would be down financially one day and if not, all her money will always be hers while the husband's money can be lavished. She shouldn't have said it even if she had do it! |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by koffsman(m): 1:40am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco: A very big shame on you for your stupidity and foolishness she gave you a very candid advice u sud b happy such is coming from a lady how many ladies wud b so blunt like this don't worry naw invest ur money on ur so called gf Wen h are married and broke she will help you like she said and you would have to do house chores and wash her panties so as to be of help to her also you better seek for God's help before you waste your life |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 1:41am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Omachona: Mistacoco, this is the only reasonable and mature comment regarding the advice you seek. I can't add or remove from this advice. 100% reasonable. Ignore all the shallow advices and insults you have received. This info right here is GOLD. 2 Likes |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by koffsman(m): 1:43am On Jun 10, 2018 |
IamD18: My Broda let the sissy asshole be he would start washing period pant very soon for her foolish man a lady gave him a good advice he in turn insulted her foolish dullard u sure say u get family at all to advice u dat u are on the part of self destruction |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by koffsman(m): 1:47am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco: See this girlish man making excuses for her SMH seems she's the only gal dat gives u d way u like it no kill ya self by ya self 3 Likes |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by ninetiethcrown7(m): 1:58am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Adasun: More like smoked. Then lightly salted |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 2:05am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Twoclans: A kid will always think like a kid. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 2:14am On Jun 10, 2018 |
bethyz: No. They aren't childish. You chose to be the sole provider because of choice not the counselling itself. There are two types of males in this world, the alpha males and the beta males. The one you choose to be is what will create your line of thoughts and actions. Gone are the days that women didn't contribute to the home. They are working now and many know that they've to provide even without being told. That you chosed to be the sole provider because of your ego doesn't mean every other man should. Being the sole provider isn't nice for a man's health. Note that I'm also married. I wouldn't advice any male friend or relation to go the way you went even if they've 1billion funds each. 4 Likes |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 2:20am On Jun 10, 2018 |
bethyz: Your craze level don High. Female and males contribute in today's marriage bro. Na uwa isi Ike. 3 Likes |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 2:26am On Jun 10, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE: Jonny some men act funny. because they chosed to be sole providers because of ego they want every other man to tow that line. I'm still amazed how some men find it easy to marry full time housewives or wives who don't contribute anything..Trust me being the sole provider is bad for a man's health. Godforbid bad thing. My advice to all young men is; don't marry a wife who won't contribute.. it'll be a disaster. I can share a story with y'all in 2012 my friend got married to a full time housewife against the advice of his friends and his parents.. This lady even went as far as resigning from her job but my friend still refused to send her from his home. He assumed the role of "sole provider " saying he his the man.The woman has become a liability to him then. He was using an Hyundai car when he got married, now he has sold his car . My friend who was fair in complexion before is now black in complexion because of too much burden. I've shared this story more than 4times here. The "you're the man " word shouldn't deceive you into digging your early grave. 4 Likes |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by hakimi1974(m): 2:46am On Jun 10, 2018 |
IamD18:due to his high concentrated level of mumuness fried one will do. |
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