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Twoclans:
You guys get upset too easily ,she said she will contribute when you are down financially. Guy open the business for her ,after five months tell her you are down financially and that you are in a huge debt then allow her take over the finances of the home while you chill.

Cunny man die cunny man burry am

Twoclansss

sniperr007:
No vex.
Its the mentality of most girls & they use the helper angle. Which is from the Bible.
But the forget that in the Bible women were housewives.
Oga.. u ve to stand Ur ground now about this issue. She is selfish and if u don't define what u want Ur marriage to look like now.
It will b major issue in marriage.
Mind u, they are many ladies that bring something to the table in their marriage.

But op. U need to be hard on her.
If it means breaking up. U need to cos women like this will rubbish u in marriage when the going gets tough and u can't meet up to the family needs.

Remember money is one of the major reason for family quarrel between couples

thanks man. One of the intelligent post Av read so far.

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

.

If u go on to marry this gal, u will regret ur entire life.
Dismiss this gal immediately.

Ramos16:
Well, you marriage counsellor must be mad then, there is no such thing like take your eye off her pocket, if she makes an income she must contribute, MUST CONTRIBUTE, what is the meaning of that nonsense. Dump that marriage counsellor before they lead you to commit suicide

.... They are super mad

Omachona:
Open the lab in your name, employ her as the managing director. Pay her from the proceeds after all accounting has been done. Let her know from onset that the lab belongs to you

Sense will not kill you.

Wiizzyy:
you gat me laughing like i'm mad

Baba, the guy matter weak me.

and U didnt let her know instantly say na thunder go fire both she and her friend? no shout tell am oo,just tell her romantically...

IamD18:
Will you shurup! Look at you attacking her truthful comment but couldn't attack a lady who wants to suck you dry in reality.

You are a disgrace to men. How did you even manage to get 5 million to call your own with this weakness and pussay ass behavior of yours?

Did you even read what you wrote up there?

You want to invest 5 million in a woman who made it clear that she won't be contributing in your home, and here you are, crying like a sissy and asking for advice on what to do?

Invest 20 million in her or better still ask a secondary school student for advice. NONESENSE

Bro mange this one from me. Nice reply

VampireeM:
Sissy men everywhere on the internet seeking validation instead of making decisions like a man. What's our business with her response abi you want us to bash her? If you can't deal with her response and attitude, you know what to do

Sometimes we are faced with challenges that we need others to lean on coz our decisions might make the situations worse. We are humans!

khalids:
And i am sure oga prince treats her like a foot mat....

Am sure its that kin relationship wey oga prince will say shut up...madam will say sorry sir...

Guy man prince fit de collect " loan" from her no. You know that kind loan wey dem no de play back

mctowel01:
Smart!

Dis advise would av been very smart if they havnt discussed this...that babe will only conjour more trouble for him if she doesn't have her way. He should better let go. Let her go and find her kind, that is if she can get.

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

It's True that sense is common but your case is totally different......

How can you accept to be with a girl that only agreed on helping you when you're broke

#buy sense ni

IamD18:
Bruv, how do you want the thunder that will strike sense and brain inside you?

How do you want the thunder


Boiled or fried?

Na roasted thunder go strike am

give her 5 million na......



if you believe what I just posted then ur more foolish than me.... sissy niggas everywhere

bethyz:
Do you know what she is 101% right. Every young man who is not married will say go against that. If you go for counselling for marriage they will tell you men should take there mind off what is in the woman's pocket. Be a responsible man take care of the family. The woman will help when it's necceasery. She is a help mate. You can discuss with her which possible way she wants to contribute . You will find out you dont even need to tell her she will take up some responsibility who ever is telling you dump her leave her she isn't a good woman is just childish. I went for three month proper counselling for marriage in Winners Chapel. She is right. take care of her love her. You will find out all she said won't be what she will do .

this guy needs a brain a reset.... do u even read the post at all..... any woman that cannot assist financially in her home and waiting for her husband to give her Maggi money and undies money after her husband had set her up in business already do not worth given a ring.... infact.. she's useless!

Soulsymbol99:
Aswear! Na d guy dey bring money d tin be like dis, den imagine say d girl turn breadwinner for future? My guy don turn huzboy oooo

Lol... i don learn new one... We get husband and we get husboy

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

that's rubbish... so a lady told u she will only help u wen ur down and you foolishly believe that

Whoever wrote this rubbish na better mumu he be

Thank you jare. Iji ya

Holymann:
Trying to defend her only shows that YOUR LEVEL OF STUPIDITY IS HIGHER THAN I THOUGHT.

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

U still dey mumu dey answer people comments. e no clear for ur eye abi. No let me follow insult u for here oo. Sho mo age mi ni

Most women think like her

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

.

please, reject her now or its late... Questions like this are the real test to tell you who they are..

i believe by d time u are truely broke ur gf (now wife) wil tel u she wil only contribute or help u financially on d terms of lending. i mean she wil tel u watever moni she's givin u wud be a 'borrowing' n dat shud agree 2 pay her back wen u back on ur feet.lol...na by den ur eye go nit.

Laughing my fucking ass out, what crap is this one saying? God forbid

bethyz:
Do you know what she is 101% right. Every young man who is not married will say go against that. If you go for counselling for marriage they will tell you men should take there mind off what is in the woman's pocket. Be a responsible man take care of the family. The woman will help when it's necceasery. She is a help mate. You can discuss with her which possible way she wants to contribute . You will find out you dont even need to tell her she will take up some responsibility who ever is telling you dump her leave her she isn't a good woman is just childish. I went for three month proper counselling for marriage in Winners Chapel. She is right. take care of her love her. You will find out all she said won't be what she will do .

You better look for better and another fiance before you enter into one chance. A Yoruba adage says " You have never enter into River and crocodile is dragging it, what will happen when you enter into River completely" " Ako ti tese bo odo oni nfa, kinni yo wa sele to ba wo odo"

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

.

I have not heard her side but from what you said, I advise you to go & pray. Perhaps God is trying to show you her true colour before you tie the knot. The question is now; can you live with those conditions till death do you part or not? Before you sha go ahead, try to hear from God.

Dear Pal, I will say it in one word - RUN.

I don't know what to say buh....

IamD18:
Bruv, how do you want the thunder that will strike sense and brain inside you?

How do you want the thunder


Boiled or fried?

I will suguest olding days thunder coz d guy brain needs serious factory setting.

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

.

Dump her fast. You can’t open a business for someone and the person tells you to face front and not show interest in the business regardless of whether such person is your spouse or not. It’s better to give that money to charity

OP, your f00Lnishness tie wrapper dey chew chewing stick.

IamD18:
Bruv, how do you want the thunder that will strike sense and brain inside you?

How do you want the thunder


Boiled or fried?

Maybe toasted, poached or grilled. Either way, that thunder is on its way.