mistacoco:
She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash...

She may not necessarily be a bad person, but her mentality is bad, and not compatible with a happy marriage. She might have been schooled to have such an attitude.

joe4christ:


I quite understand your point. But considering the OP. Damn, that nigga is obviously weak and I doubt he has the will power to put her in her right place. She must have sensed him as a weakling to have such guts to even voice that out even if she has such intention. As an alpha male, this nigga is a sissy

Lol ouch...
I get your point too...hopefully he makes the right choice ..

tonididdy:
What are ladies even hoping to make all that money for sef?

@misticoco ask her what she intends to do with all the money she would be making ?

My dear op asked her n she said it7 not his business 2 knw wat she wil b doing wit her moni(say dat 2 a husband dat open his mind 2 establish, u wit such sum ),dat her moni is hers alone while op own is their. That is were she is found guilty of selfishness. If op shud leave her n go for her partner-in-crime frnd ,na 1ce d frnd go rush op n cal her mumu 4 corner. That is y sensitive matas like moni n sex shud b resolved btw man n wife n witout d interference 4rm a 3rd party.cos homes r different n circumstances r diff.

Arondizuogu:


You no get brain so oooo. You say what?

Na you no get brain. See them feminist! A man and a woman has different roles in the house. A man is to provide for his family. If you cannot provide then what business do you have getting married.

Twoclans:
You guys get upset too easily ,she said she will contribute when you are down financially. Guy open the business for her ,after five months tell her you are down financially and that you are in a huge debt then allow her take over the finances of the home while you chill.

Cunny man die cunny man burry am

Marrying her would be his worst mistake.

DanielsParker:


funny.

A lady should be able to take care of herself to an extent.

Nope. That's feminist rubbish.

That's like saying a man should be able to cook, I clean and take care of the children to an extent. All this eventually brings disrespect. A man is the head and a woman is his help meet. God has given everyone their roles. You have not business getting married if you're going to delegate your responsibility to your wife. You might as well start cooking breakfast and changing the child's pampers too.

ItzBIM:


You females and the way you think. So if you see a fine dress you like when you’re out by yourself, will you call your husband to send Money to you ASAP abi wetin ?

Yes, because he is head and she is the helpmeet. We are not equal. He is superior to her. Moreover everybody have their role in the family. If you start doing that once in a while. Next thing you know she'll start expecting you to wash cloth and cook food once in a while.

pedrilo:
see dem awon werey nonsense ingredient

See them awon werey feminist. Everybody have their role. Man is the head and woman is the helpmeet. If you don't like it, go and knack your head on fence. It will never change.

Shez simply not really fr marriage not a wife material as well... Wat a crazy statement she made.

Omachona:
Open the lab in your name, employ her as the managing director. Pay her from the proceeds after all accounting has been done. Let her know from onset that the lab belongs to you

I love you bro!

MarieSucre:


Nope. That's feminist rubbish.

That's like saying a man should be able to cook, I clean and take care of the children to an extent. All this eventually brings disrespect. A man is the head and a woman is his help meet. God has given everyone their roles. You have not business getting married if you're going to delegate your responsibility to your wife. You might as well start cooking breakfast and changing the child's pampers too.

... This table you re shaking,ope you can stand the heat if it eventually falls?

JONNYSPUTE:
... This table you re shaking,ope you can stand the heat if it eventually falls?

I dey gidigba.

mariesucre I one cannot give my wife dat amount of money and she won't tell me how d money from d business is being spent. u said a man is d head of d home gud, then he should takia of her homely needs her business is not part of what she needs as a wife. its a very good man dat decides to open a business for the wife and den the wife has to contribute something. and so u know husband's nowadays also assist their wives at home. so my own is dis if she feel d money from d business is hers alone she should raise d capital by herself without ur help den u can foot wateva bills of d home and d home only.

Wrong. Dump her. Date me

orisiirisii comment on nl,my money is mine your money is ours. oluwa saanu!! Lool

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

.

A girl that started thinking like this before marriage plus her friends supporting her is a very selfish girl

Oga you marry that girl at your own risk.... i see a home with divided ambitions

you better start to rethink now and plan a better heart break techniques..... do it now before it becomes a divorce after marriage or forever enslaved

MarieSucre:


Yes, because he is head and she is the helpmeet. We are not equal. He is superior to her. Moreover everybody have their role in the family. If you start doing that once in a while. Next thing you know she'll start expecting you to wash cloth and cook for once in a while.

Go and sit down with your shallow reasoning don’t ever quote me in your life again.

Holymann:


Trying to defend her only shows that YOUR LEVEL OF STUPIDITY IS HIGHER THAN I THOUGHT.

That's what love does to a man.

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

save yourself the stress, dump her, i have seen a first hand experience, don't work that lane with anyone with such mentality, any money coming to each spouse belongs to the family, nothing like when you are financially down or up , once that time comes there will also be problems, put this at the back of your mind.

ItzBIM:

Go and sit down with your shallow reasoning don’t ever quote me in your life again.

Go and stand up with your deep reasoning. I have quoted you again. Come and beat me.

Chi59:
Wrong. Dump her. Date me

Just like that

Op, marry her at your own peril

A friend married a lady like that and he's regretting it now..

Fights and curses everyday flying in their home .

Op don't be naive .. You are about to waste the 5million.
She's definitely not a help mate or wife material .
Very selfish thing .

There are alot of responsible ladies outside there that won't even bothers them with any wahala but na slay mama dey go dey run after...

Nonsense

If this story is really true, then the truth is that she is a liability, not an asset. Run

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

You're still defending her again upon the silly post. Bros, give her the money and never come back here again.

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

.

my brother in Christ, that girl will destroy your life, don't marry her

If they tell you people to marry a woman with financial investment knowledge you won't agree.Your babe is a lazy girl simple.With this kind of opportunity, i will gladly feed your whole generations.You are trying to establish her in life as your helper but she is so immature with no understanding of tenets of a helper.

braine:


Just like that

Just like that. Five million is a big deal. And if she can't contribute financially after such an investment, I'd like to replace her.

Chi59:

Just like that. Five million is a big deal. And if she can't contribute financially after such an investment, I'd like to replace her.

Lol. What makes you think you can replace her? Do you think you have the qualities she has (apart from the selfish one) that made OP go out of his mind in thinking he will drop the huge amount? There's more to a relationship than money

pedrilo:
wat a foolish way to beg for alms. U givin him bad advice n u want him to giv u money? U no well

I'm sorry if I have offended you. I don't wish to do that

Adukey:



Na wa, you come spoil everything with your last statement.

I don't mean to beg him and I'm ashamed of myself too but I hope and pray it would b my last beg in life.

ladygudhead:
My dear op asked her n she said it7 not his business 2 knw wat she wil b doing wit her moni(say dat 2 a husband dat open his mind 2 establish, u wit such sum ),dat her moni is hers alone while op own is their. That is were she is found guilty of selfishness. If op shud leave her n go for her partner-in-crime frnd ,na 1ce d frnd go rush op n cal her mumu 4 corner. That is y sensitive matas like moni n sex shud b resolved btw man n wife n witout d interference 4rm a 3rd party.cos homes r different n circumstances r diff.

gbam