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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Duru009(m): 3:24pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
This guy, don't you have common sense at all, if you invest that #5million in her. You will certainly regret it. Mark my word. I will advice you use that money to buy land or make personal investment in your name. Her response says it all ! #speaking from experience! 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Adukey(f): 3:37pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
CryptoClub2018: Amin, may God ease our affairs 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by barajo1(m): 3:42pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
Abeg, wetin be the name of the movie? |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by 2buffagain(m): 4:03pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
This is actually a VERY common mindset among nigerian females. EVEN the ones out here in obodo oyinbo where that kind of mindset especially wouldn't work. It is why a lot of them are still single, wretched and miserable. They are waiting for some fool with a penis to marry them so that they can quickly quit their job and become utterly useless to the man and to themselves, requesting for pad money every week. Disgusting filth. Especially the ones who insult the bible by using this HELPER line...from what I know of this type of women, they are incapable of thinking for themselves and usually just go off by whatever someone else besides their husband tells them to say and act. Which means SOMEONE is telling them these things.... I've come to understand that, among other sources like bad friends who deceive them, these lies are also being perpetrated by a sadly huge amount of African pastors. Some ginger these women with all sorts of lies and delusions to keep them single and continually seeking for the lie they've been told to expect, which means more "sacrificial offerings". And that is how a female incapable of applying her own brain to a matter will come and be talking these sorts of nonsense with so much confidence because she has been deceived that her selfishness/laziness is indeed the right, "holy", and expected way that only a "real man" will appreciate. VERY RARELY IF AT ALL will you hear a church speak on Proverbs 31. It is only a woman who reads the bible for herself that gets sense. Most just blindly follow whatever "pastor" abi "daddy" says. Meanwhile "daddy" just wants to be surrounded by young nubile devotees for as long as he can! Some of you reading this might be going "no thats not my pastor" But see, Sex may not neccessarily be involved, but it does wonders to a man's ego to have so many (clueless) females around him (that he controls) calling him endearing names . These things become less so when these females get actual sense and become married. 3 Likes |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by emesv26(m): 5:55pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
is not yet late Run for your life.... 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 6:27pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco: Mumu so you can't see say she no love you one bit? You are like a friend nothing more even if she still marry you. You are a fool for still asking this question. You are a big fool! Are you cursed? 1 Like
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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Aleora(f): 6:29pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco:ehehehhe,tomorrow you will come here and say my wife is driving me crazy,now you have seen the signs and you planning to overlook ba?dont worry marriage will tell u whatsap. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Aleora(f): 6:33pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
emesv26:I swear,am.surprised |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
ednut1: Congratulations to the prince. He just played himself. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
MarieSucre: Me I can cook & clean oh. I took care of my Sis children for good 1 Yr and 6 months. Cooked for them, bathe them, changed their diapers etc. & this was 7 years ago. Now I'm good & I can live by myself. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by aloyin(m): 7:25pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco:so, u too want to wait till d time dat u wil broke so dat she can help? R u sure u r man enof? Well my advise is dat u shud 4olo ur mind. But plz dnt come here later and be telling us dat Ladies r wicked. We r tired of reading news on broke marriage. ABEG! |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by paprika212(f): 7:53pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
IamD18:chop kisses, best comment |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
braine:A selfish spouse is a life long liability. Her sense of entitlement is off the charts. And why am I explaining to you? Do you have any five million naira you aren't using? 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Sarah20A(f): 9:54pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco:this story is fake,whoever have 5 million to give to a woman shouldn't be bothered about the family expenses because there should be more where that came from beside,he hasn't even opened it for her .to me the woman is a responsible woman who knows when is necessary to help her man |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Sarah20A(f): 9:59pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco:5 million is lot of money but it depends on the type of business this is a 8 months imaginary business they don't need to quarrel over it |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
Lalas247: Chairman, Your head correct well well. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by sportfeva(m): 11:21pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
Op, she's wrong. don't marry selfish and self centre girl. She only care about herself and don't have the spirit of helping people. That's a poverty mindset. The same goes to ladies. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by 400billionman: 11:29pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
ednut1:U are lying A lady earning N500,000 a month in a bank has worked over 15years IS this your lady over 40 years or she got promotions every 2 years |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by braine(m): 11:42pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
Chi59: Well, you can't say. Date me first then find out. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by ednut1(m): 11:58pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
400billionman:access bank entry salary was 240-250k wen she entered. Works in a unit in head office treasury nd also did trading too. 5th year. Dey der u hear. Go find out wat an SBO earns in gt, diamond nd stanbic |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by benswagtt(m): 5:18am On Jun 11, 2018 |
bethyz:imagine nonsense.... i never believed people like u existed until I saw ur comment 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by partnerbiz4: 6:19am On Jun 11, 2018 |
Elder001: Are all laws in the constitution? And what's your authority for saying all these? Are you a lawyer? |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by smeag0l(m): 8:00am On Jun 11, 2018 |
Mine didn't even do up to this before I ditched her. She got a contract bank job and started telling me that her slary will not be enough for her and that I need to support her financially. I never called her again after that conversation. I'm in search of a new bae now mistacoco: 2 Likes |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by 400billionman: 8:30am On Jun 11, 2018 |
ednut1:Okay |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 9:59am On Jun 11, 2018 |
braine: |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Coldfeets: 10:08am On Jun 11, 2018 |
Chi59: You again...? Okay. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 10:27am On Jun 11, 2018 |
Coldfeets:(In Jenifa's voice) What I do? |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Joylove0267: 12:59pm On Jun 11, 2018 |
your girlfriend is selfish, a woman is suppose to help her husband run the expenses, so she wants to tell us that if she wants to buy pant or see children clothes that she like she will have to wait for you the husband before she buy them, thats very bad. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jun 11, 2018 |
partnerbiz4: My wife is a lawyer. My dad is also a lawyer. No Nigerian judge on earth can make me to pay child support because I'm a constitutional man. That's it.. I'll never allow any woman to use me as meal ticket because of children. If she can't part custody then she'll take care of the child alone.. it's that simple If the court order me to pay her any money for the child's upkeep, I won't and nothing will happen.. The judge should quote the section of the 1999 constitution or the 2011 amended parts where he/she saw child support legalization... they'll be the ones to beg me later... if the woman sees that she can't take care of the child alone ,she'll have no choice but to part custody. I remember in 2016 my uncle's wife filed for divorce and the judge ordered him to be paying 56k monthly child upkeep.. As a constitutional man, I stood up and asked him Your Honour; Can you please remind the court the section of the constition where the federal government or the national assembly legalized child support? he became mute.. I asked him another question Your honour; should this be a voluntarily order or a compulsory order that my uncle must pay that money monthly and mustn't default? he couldn't quote the section of the constitution where child support is inscribed! In the end the woman, her family and the judge started begging my uncle to at least consider giving her something but he refused... the judge had to grant him custody 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by 2buffagain(m): 9:09pm On Jun 11, 2018 |
smeag0l: Now that's what you call Self-respect. More nigerian guys should follow suite when met with unrealistic demands such as this. What a lot of Naija guys don't see in scenarios like these is the indirect-but-blatant threat the girl is making i.e "If you don't give me extra money I will be forced to suck random cawk for sustenance". Thots need to be left alone and used purely for sex to be summarily discarded afterwards. It is the only way they will learn. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by 2buffagain(m): 9:31pm On Jun 11, 2018 |
Elder001: Bros I hail! Naija cannot give way to divorce theft as now rampant through-out the world. It is a terribly unfair practice. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 12:14am On Jun 12, 2018 |
2buffagain: I believe .en who're paying child support in Nigeria are doing it because of the kids and not because of the child support order itself... or maybe ignorance because there's nothing like child support in the Nigerian constitution. |
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