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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by Dafreeguy(m): 10:48pm On Jun 17, 2018
Just a believe that she wasn't meant for him and vice-versa is all he need. keep searching bro, when u find, dnt put all heart to it to avoid stories like this.

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by deafeyez: 10:48pm On Jun 17, 2018
Really hard especially if he finds rassling difficult.

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by buzodyke: 10:49pm On Jun 17, 2018
KACHIKWU IS WHAT HAPPENS TO TOP TECHNOCRATS IN THE NIGERIAN GOVERNMENT, ESPECIALLY IN A BUHARI PRESIDENCY

When President Buhari finally unveiled his ministerial appointees in 2015, Dr. Emmanuel Ibe Kachikwu was one of the very few stars in the galaxy of the same old, same old career politicians Buhari assembled.

With a PhD from Harvard and a good career in the global oil industry, Kachikwu was a promise of great things for the Nigerian oil industry. But what has happened? His technocratic pedigree has been neutralised by the political authority that operates above him.

This validates what Prof. Kingsley Moghalu has astutely identified to the Nigerian electorate: top technocrats working under the political authority of incompetent and visionless elected officials cannot deliver optimally.

To actualise the full performance capabilities of top technocrats in government, the electorate needs to vest political authority in some of them, by electing them as president and governors.

Kingsley, a top technocrat, has put himself forward to Nigerians by running for president in 2019. We need to support him and ensure he becomes our next president. That way, his competences and those of other technocrats he will appoint to his government can best serve our country.

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by yinkeys(m): 10:49pm On Jun 17, 2018
RosaBerry:
Asking for a brother who has really tried all he could to get over a relationship of 4years.

How is the best way to deal with a break up.



Lol I didn't even know that boys can cry. Chai

shocked 4 years in depression
Kai that is the worst o
He better find a way to move on with his life
I have the ante dote but I don't wish to say it here sha smiley
Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by johnkey: 10:50pm On Jun 17, 2018
I don't deal with breakups I cause breakups, nothing sweeter than breaking up after banging the pussy like twice so you can easily move onto the next one, remember there's always a püssy waiting for that dïck.

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by pinkus: 10:50pm On Jun 17, 2018
he should love himself more.... and c everything as a phase he has to pass through. you can't control it . funny enough the girl might be doing okay.. and is with Another nigga already.... don't let any one half love you man
Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by delana(m): 10:50pm On Jun 17, 2018
Avedonn:
He should delete her number, pictures, keep away all gift they shared and he should avoid staying alone for long a time doing nothing.

Within one or two months, he'll get over her.

I have learned not to love with all my heart. Keep 90% to yourself and two of you share the remaining 10%.
Pls how have you been able to keep 90% to yourself, have been trying to do that

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by ola2033(f): 10:52pm On Jun 17, 2018
If he need a chat mate, who can help him get over her I am available.

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by kelskay: 10:52pm On Jun 17, 2018
RosaBerry:
Asking for a brother who has really tried all he could to get over a relationship of 4years.

How is the best way to deal with a break up.



Lol I didn't even know that boys can cry. Chai

something is telling me you're d one who needed this advice. u have dem above

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by LUCAS99: 10:52pm On Jun 17, 2018
RosaBerry:
Asking for a brother who has really tried all he could to get over a relationship of 4years.

How is the best way to deal with a break up.



Lol I didn't even know that boys can cry. Chai


He needs to go to a Strip Club & get his Dick Wet by a Stripper.

By the time he is done both his brain & feelings will be restored to default settings.

He would know how to proceed from there.

He is currently suffering from Post-Relationship Trauma

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by TallPck1(m): 10:53pm On Jun 17, 2018
ObeyPaul:
I broke up with girlfriend yesterday since then have been listening to trap music. I want to try smoking weed

I cured mine with weed and now I'm over that shit! Weed is my best frnd!
Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by InfernoNig: 10:53pm On Jun 17, 2018
I cried when my girl broke up with me accusing Mr of cheating. I cried even more when after she pur to bed for another man 5 months later. It was hard for me as we were together for 2years, I passed pretty good pussy for hers. But thank God i am able to move on. First i block her on all social media, to avoid communication with her. Deleted her number so I won't call her, and when someone tries to talk about her I quickly shuuo them before they even mention her name. Its just time. He will get over it

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by paddyofboss(m): 10:54pm On Jun 17, 2018
Let him watch naijaz next game , he will be better or better still OP help him out, allow him do you..wat are friends for..thank me later

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by ShawtCake(f): 10:54pm On Jun 17, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Cry
Sleep
Listen to Celine Dion
Cry
Sleep
Cry
Cry
Cry.....
What if one doesn't have a side guy?
Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by Perfectionist11: 10:54pm On Jun 17, 2018
It is not morally okay but I focus solely on the flaws of the ex to convince myself that she isn't an angel after all.

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jun 17, 2018
go to third mainland bridge and practice super man

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by stubbornman(m): 10:54pm On Jun 17, 2018
Broke up with one I loved most Few years ago...... That was when I became stronger...

I intentionally thought about her a lot until those thoughts began to piss me off.... I thought about the reason for our breakup and found out that I was innocent ... I flamed up and felt hatred for her.

She blocked me on Facebook to the glory of the Lord..
I deleted everything about her...block her and her friends on all social media (Both the one wey know and the one wey know no ....all join cheesy )

Although we later connected but that feeling is dead.... That day an ALPHA MALE was born!!!!

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by ola2033(f): 10:54pm On Jun 17, 2018
Neyoor:
Let him see a therapist... It has resulted to a major depression for him
if he needs a chat mate I can assist
Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by Divay22(f): 10:55pm On Jun 17, 2018
Respect55:
Tell him to enter into a new relationship. The best way to deal with a break up is to move on
Nah.. He will only suffer the new one..
Let him do it himself, he should get heal first before going into another relationship (that's how you take control of your emotions)

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by dingbang(m): 10:55pm On Jun 17, 2018
ola2033:
If he need a chat mate, who can help him get over her I am available.
you know, if you turn this into a full time paid job, you'd be rich

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by Tstone1(m): 10:56pm On Jun 17, 2018
Yes! The options of erasing everything that connects you to her helps..it is really a nice way to go so let him try that.

@Ola2033, can i please use some hands..
Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by Teeisaac(m): 10:56pm On Jun 17, 2018
Avedonn:
He should delete her number, pictures, keep away all gift they shared and he should avoid staying alone for long a time doing nothing.

Within one or two months, he'll get over her.

I have learned not to love with all my heart. Keep 90% to yourself and two of you share the remaining 10%.
U wiked o
Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Jun 17, 2018
ShawtCake:
What if one doesn't have a side guy?
Cry, sleep cry. It's best to take a breather. Just stay outta relationship for a while. Hang out with platonic friends, just do fun things to get over the breakup.

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by nnaeyes6: 10:58pm On Jun 17, 2018
Dealing with break up is not easy especially when u gave u best and has trusted ur God that it would lead to marriage.
However, dealing with break up toy best experience is simple. Don't be selfish with the situation. what do I mean by SELFISHNESS? It simply mean that u see the world as a terrain that u could win or lose regardless of what u give into it. with the perception, u see the ex as someone who wants to leave and u LET GO, Because in real sense, she won't STAY. Don't be JEALOUS. See her as part of what has happen to ur existence and so don't get jealous with her new relationship. Trust me, if u let her enjoy herself then u become happy. LET GO. Another one and so important is to think of something else and dedicate ur time to it. it could be ur job or anything that interest u. Mine is chess game. I consume my time into it.

and finally, don't start up any relationship at ones. give yourself time. thanks

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by Olayemi244(m): 10:58pm On Jun 17, 2018
It's really terrible.... At least I'm speaking from my 5 years of experience and the memories keep getting back to me and with any slight chances of listening to her voice again I'd still feel like we should get back together and let her know but she always refused and she'd told me to get over her and move on with my life. Just completely erased her and mobile number off my memory about two months ago. Though not that I have another lover at the moment but I believe the best match for me will come.


#AwaitingCopa

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by nanauju(f): 10:59pm On Jun 17, 2018
Cuddlebugie:

Why does our society think it's wrong for men to cry?
Why are our men told to “take it like a man”, repress their emotions and hide their tears?
Crying isn't always a sign of weakness.


Anyway, whether it’s an amicable breakup or a horrible, crash-and-burn situation, time heals it all.
With time, he'll get over the hurt.

4 years and still counting.. How much longer does he need to get over it?

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jun 17, 2018
1stCitizen:
OP does this brother happen to be you?
say God that you read the post before posting this
Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by HomeOfMe(f): 11:01pm On Jun 17, 2018
RosaBerry:
Asking for a brother who has really tried all he could to get over a relationship of 4years.

How is the best way to deal with a break up.



Lol I didn't even know that boys can cry. Chai

Depending on how much they loved eachother it might not be easy. But meeting new fun and interesting peopu can help him get over her after disposing of all the memories of you two.

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Jun 17, 2018
ola2033:
if he needs a chat mate I can assist


Lol! R u a chatterbox?

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by Dinho20(m): 11:02pm On Jun 17, 2018
Wonders Shall Never End

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by AustineCJ: 11:03pm On Jun 17, 2018
Take my self out n eat what I have desired for long, believe if I have money I can get any girl so I let it go
Re: How Do You Deal With A Breakup? by Altern8(m): 11:05pm On Jun 17, 2018
He needs a “consolation” babe. That’s the easy way out.

The hard way is to bear it and move on.

Drinking cannot solve it. There will be a lot of anger and bitterness but if you wait long enough, you would find another person who would make you forget your ex.

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