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Synord:
Hmmn.


I remember vividly , the memories are still Crystal clear like iPhone 8 images and the pain runs deep in my heart like arteries..
The moments are still engraved in my mind like Okorocha's statues and the fights/drama embedded in my medulla like hai hai is embedded in small doctor's mouth..


it happened in the year 2014, a year I can never forget in a hurry ..

I dated This girl for 5 years..Five good years. I could have studied a course and graduated from the university with the time I invested in the relationship .

Sometimes I still miss her like the way Messi does with Penalties.

She was everything ..My heart ..My love..My Queen , My Baby


..She had this radiant smile that could lighten up anyone's mood. She is intelligent , patient,God fearing,cooks well,dances well , neat, sociable, attractive, Perfect dress sense with the most amazing physique I have ever seen.

Anita was everything a man could wish for ..The way she walked,talked, loved and fuc ked ... Kasa !!!! ...she was the 9th wonder of the world to me..

and when she wears that particular red dress with the Jesus rosary hanging in between her two succulent mammary glands and she calls me by my first name in that seductive " toolz o " kinda tone and her orgasm bringing British accent as she slowly rolls her tongue and puts her finger in her mouth while touching her round and succulent buttocks made of the softest extraction of flesh I have seen ,

I totally forget myself and lose control ( in Peruzzi's voice) .At that moment, I know I just have to make paradise because I was already tasting version 1.0 with Anita here.

is it her sparkling white teeth ? , her daily teasing of me being the most handsome man she has ever seen , her dirty talks, when she motivates me to achieve a lot of things I achieved , she teaches me, corrects me in love , how she handles me when I am angry at her ,she knows my weak points , She knows how to garnish my favorite dishes, she is never insecure,jealous or violent ..How she sold her Father's motorcycle to help me with a business I invested in, burned candles with me in school, shunned a lot of richer and more good looking guys for me .....

Damn !!!!


she could literally die for me !!!

Anita...


Anita..

Not until 2014 when the unthinkable happened..



Did I get over Anita ??

yes I did !!! How the hell I did is a story for another day probably..


P:S I think it is more painful or difficult to get over a person after breakup when

1) you unavoidably see the person everyday / once a week / frequently

2) when the. reason for break up is petty/ not cheating/ something that can be easily resolved

3) there is no other better option/person on ground

4) The partner moved on to a better person in terms of looks, money or status

5) When you really really love the person

6) when you are broke

7) When the sex is Ogorodomdom

when you guys are meant for each other ..

Baba, go dy write novels naaaa

dairykidd:
I like ur mind ...its beautiful.... Hope u know after all that its the real breakfast in bed @dp
Not looking for any trouble

My brother, this life is not hard jare, live and let live.
Sure, we must have had the real breakfast in bed before the physical one .
Bring the trouble on, I'll give it to you double.

Synord:
Hmmn.


I remember vividly , the memories are still Crystal clear like iPhone 8 images and the pain runs deep in my heart like arteries..
The moments are still engraved in my mind like Okorocha's statues and the fights/drama embedded in my medulla like hai hai is embedded in small doctor's mouth..


it happened in the year 2014, a year I can never forget in a hurry ..

I dated This girl for 5 years..Five good years. I could have studied a course and graduated from the university with the time I invested in the relationship .

Sometimes I still miss her like the way Messi does with Penalties.

She was everything ..My heart ..My love..My Queen , My Baby


..She had this radiant smile that could lighten up anyone's mood. She is intelligent , patient,God fearing,cooks well,dances well , neat, sociable, attractive, Perfect dress sense with the most amazing physique I have ever seen.

Anita was everything a man could wish for ..The way she walked,talked, loved and fuc ked ... Kasa !!!! ...she was the 9th wonder of the world to me..

and when she wears that particular red dress with the Jesus rosary hanging in between her two succulent mammary glands and she calls me by my first name in that seductive " toolz o " kinda tone and her orgasm bringing British accent as she slowly rolls her tongue and puts her finger in her mouth while touching her round and succulent buttocks made of the softest extraction of flesh I have seen ,

I totally forget myself and lose control ( in Peruzzi's voice) .At that moment, I know I just have to make paradise because I was already tasting version 1.0 with Anita here.

is it her sparkling white teeth ? , her daily teasing of me being the most handsome man she has ever seen , her dirty talks, when she motivates me to achieve a lot of things I achieved , she teaches me, corrects me in love , how she handles me when I am angry at her ,she knows my weak points , She knows how to garnish my favorite dishes, she is never insecure,jealous or violent ..How she sold her Father's motorcycle to help me with a business I invested in, burned candles with me in school, shunned a lot of richer and more good looking guys for me .....

Damn !!!!


she could literally die for me !!!

Anita...


Anita..

Not until 2014 when the unthinkable happened..



Did I get over Anita ??

yes I did !!! How the hell I did is a story for another day probably..


P:S I think it is more painful or difficult to get over a person after breakup when

1) you unavoidably see the person everyday / once a week / frequently

2) when the. reason for break up is petty/ not cheating/ something that can be easily resolved

3) there is no other better option/person on ground

4) The partner moved on to a better person in terms of looks, money or status

5) When you really really love the person

6) when you are broke

7) When the sex is Ogorodomdom

when you guys are meant for each other ..

how can I contact you pls..

dairykidd:
U will just be complicating ur health & life for someone who's not even worth sh!t...

Dont believe all u read here.

IamHopeful:
My brother, this life is not hard jare, live and let live.
Sure, we must have had the real breakfast in bed before the physical one .
Bring the trouble on, I'll give it to you double.

I want to know u biko Hope u won't mind sha

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Dont believe all u read here.

Lolzz

Repress and try to occupy my mind with other things

dairykidd:
I want to know u biko Hope u won't mind sha

Hahahahahaha...... No big deal bro! By your moniker, do you like milk (dairy)?

Who de love up

IamHopeful:
Enter a new relationship quickly and take revenge on the innocent lady . I don't think that's the best option.

Firstly, I think he should think about where he made a mistake in his past relationship, try and work on that mistake and become a better person.

Secondly, he should do whatever pleases him (like listening to music, go out maybe alone or with friends) and make himself happy coz one's happiness apart from God, lies in his or her hands and not in any lady's or guy's hands.

Thirdly, he should give it time, he'll get over everything soonest, time will definitely heal it up. I've been there before and I even came out stronger.

These words make me stay happy:

Love truly
Kiss deeply
Laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that made you smile.

So entering into a new relationship after 4 years is quick to yoy

Chi59:
It's counter-productive to enter a new relationship without being fully healed from the previous one.

Op, I think 4 years is enough grieving time. It's time he becomes INTENTIONAL about moving on, no matter how hard.

New relationship heals the old one by making u get over it

Divay22:
Nah.. He will only suffer the new one..
Let him do it himself, he should get heal first before going into another relationship (that's how you take control of your emotions)

So finding a new love equates suffering

Cuddlebugie:
I still don't get my head around why some men boast about how they haven’t cried in years, as if being emotionally constipated is somehow a badge of honour to brag about.

You're not a robot, you're human and you're allowed to feel.

Sadly Toxic Masculinity, it's deep rooted in us, i guess that what makes lot of men go depressed i guess.

To help him is simple. Simply buy ten packs of 100mg Tramadol capsules for him. Buy also a carton of Codiene, and some rephnol tablets. Prescriptions: let him take 200mg(2 capsules) of Tramadol in the morning after meal. With a gap of 2hrs, he should take one tablet of Rephnol. It will slow his thinking. As afternoon approaches he should take 200mg of Tramadol again, this time before lunch. He will be energetic after that. It induces happiness. Take his lunch properly. Later, towards evening, let him go and buy plastic-bottle coke, open it, and drink a quarter of it so as to make up space volume for mixing it with Codiene. After that, he shld pour the Codiene into the coke bottle tighten the top and shake vigorously to mix wella. Later, he shld be sipping it and smiling with. friends as they gist.

I bet you, he would never recall or remember the slut that left him.

He would be fine.

Respect55:
So entering into a new relationship after 4 years is quick to yoy

Did you say anything about "after 4 years"?

Synord:
Hmmn.


I remember vividly , the memories are still Crystal clear like iPhone 8 images and the pain runs deep in my heart like arteries..
The moments are still engraved in my mind like Okorocha's statues and the fights/drama embedded in my medulla like hai hai is embedded in small doctor's mouth..


it happened in the year 2014, a year I can never forget in a hurry ..

I dated This girl for 5 years..Five good years. I could have studied a course and graduated from the university with the time I invested in the relationship .

Sometimes I still miss her like the way Messi does with Penalties.

She was everything ..My heart ..My love..My Queen , My Baby


..She had this radiant smile that could lighten up anyone's mood. She is intelligent , patient,God fearing,cooks well,dances well , neat, sociable, attractive, Perfect dress sense with the most amazing physique I have ever seen.

Anita was everything a man could wish for ..The way she walked,talked, loved and fuc ked ... Kasa !!!! ...she was the 9th wonder of the world to me..

and when she wears that particular red dress with the Jesus rosary hanging in between her two succulent mammary glands and she calls me by my first name in that seductive " toolz o " kinda tone and her orgasm bringing British accent as she slowly rolls her tongue and puts her finger in her mouth while touching her round and succulent buttocks made of the softest extraction of flesh I have seen ,

I totally forget myself and lose control ( in Peruzzi's voice) .At that moment, I know I just have to make paradise because I was already tasting version 1.0 with Anita here.

is it her sparkling white teeth ? , her daily teasing of me being the most handsome man she has ever seen , her dirty talks, when she motivates me to achieve a lot of things I achieved , she teaches me, corrects me in love , how she handles me when I am angry at her ,she knows my weak points , She knows how to garnish my favorite dishes, she is never insecure,jealous or violent ..How she sold her Father's motorcycle to help me with a business I invested in, burned candles with me in school, shunned a lot of richer and more good looking guys for me .....

Damn !!!!


she could literally die for me !!!

Anita...


Anita..

Not until 2014 when the unthinkable happened..



Did I get over Anita ??

yes I did !!! How the hell I did is a story for another day probably..


P:S I think it is more painful or difficult to get over a person after breakup when

1) you unavoidably see the person everyday / once a week / frequently

2) when the. reason for break up is petty/ not cheating/ something that can be easily resolved

3) there is no other better option/person on ground

4) The partner moved on to a better person in terms of looks, money or status

5) When you really really love the person

6) when you are broke

7) When the sex is Ogorodomdom

when you guys are meant for each other ..

Give me a mention when you create a thread for this story.

IamHopeful:
Did you say anything about "after 4 years"?

If I'm not mistaken, the Op said he has been mourning for 4 years after the break up

Uptown7:
A relationship that lasted for 4 years rather

OK my bad.. Thought he was still trying to get over it after 4 years. Thanks for the correction

nanauju:
OK my bad.. Thought he was still trying to get over it after 4 years. Thanks for the correction

� Alright girly.

Admin401:
learn how to read

Swerve biko

dairykidd:
Nothing there to handle.
When u begin to see rejection as nothing then u will realise its really that nothing... Rejection is a normal thing that's the first thing u should learn & let sink in u, staying rejected & dwelling in the vibe/energy of rejection is the problem. At some point we get rejected not just in relationships but in life generallly & a lot of times we also get quickly accepted by those who initially rejected us. So that mentality of how to handle rejection is all in ur head.. Bro there is no big deal about being rejected. Personally rejection is the last thing i worry about. Always see past that imaginary blockade u place in front of u called rejection... Instead learn from it. U are not meant to be loved & accepted by everyone If our Lord was & is still being constantly rejected by those he died for even when he does miracles & little/ big wonders daily for all to see... Come be u when dey reason rejection.. Everything is in ur mind bro.. Fix ur mind first & all these imaginary problems will even make u laugh & give u ginger to fire on!!!

God bless you

Respect55:
If I'm not mistaken, the Op said he has been mourning for 4 years after the break up

No bro, I think there's a mix up. I think what the OP meant was that her brother lost a 4-year relationship and not that he lost the relationship 4 years ago.

IamHopeful:
No bro, I think there's a mix up. I think what the OP meant was that her brother lost a 4-year relationship and not that he lost the relationship 4 years ago.

It's alright. Pardon me abeg

geezyk:
To love someone and get heartbroken is really a very bad thing, I've never loved anyone more than myself before, and I have numerous gfs to show for it, not till I met this pretty diva, and she completely stole my heart. show that happened, I'll never know, but it did.

What made the heartbreak so tough on me was that I virtually sent away all other girls in order to face this one one completely, well, that was my undoing. That's how far I was willing to go till the unthinkable happened, it took my friends and a rebound girl to take me out of the pit I had fallen into.

The truth of the matter is that, you really fall in love with the person you believe you've seen all you dream of in them, without looking deeper to see their faults.

And sometimes you think they are your ONE and ONLY!

But in my own case she came back begging and we hooked up again, but this time, I held total control.

So wat happened to the rebound gal?

IamHopeful:
Hahahahahaha...... No big deal bro!
By your moniker, do you like milk (dairy)?

Lolzz i love milk a lot...

IamHopeful:
Hahahahahaha...... No big deal bro!
By your moniker, do you like milk (dairy)?

Someone's at the door

Respect55:
It's alright. Pardon me abeg

No problem bro.

dairykidd:
Lolzz i love milk a lot...

No wonder your moniker is all about dairy.

nanauju:
Swerve biko

Nice Milk factory, babe.

IamHopeful:
No wonder your moniker is all about dairy.

Yeah milk, yogurt, nunu... Shebi u no want answer me now

deanxy:
So wat happened to the rebound gal?

Nothing happened, she was a friend and she knew I was suffering emotionally, we got so close after that, nearly had sex(thank god we didn't) We're still friends till now though..