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Re: For The Married Only.. by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:32pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Re: For The Married Only.. by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:33pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Re: For The Married Only.. by rainmaker12(m): 9:36pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
byna: If my woman no dey look me na em be say em dey look outside. Some women smart to hide side side nigga, while some men mumu not to know. Me, I will investigate her sharp sharp. Another thing, make her jealous. If person no change from inside, forget it, na pretend. Look for a way and make her jealous. Let her suspect you small. No cheat, but act like a cheater. Make sure say she get the point o. She must know you are changing because she no dey open well. The more extreme you go on this, the higher the effectiveness. Maybe fear go make her dey give you Every woman wants to keep their man. Don't worry, still go down. I hate that thing wey if you no touch woman for 1 month, them no go care. So na me be the fuckist for house abi Nonsense!!! |
Re: For The Married Only.. by nikkypearl(f): 9:40pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Tajbol4splend:I hear naa,y d second mention ..awon Glo users |
Re: For The Married Only.. by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:53pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
nikkypearl: Glo bawo, but how this matter take consain glo |
Re: For The Married Only.. by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:58pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
rainmaker12: Dog shit for your mouth Still scroll down go down again, shebi you think say you sabi vex person Coward, shaa let me stop |
Re: For The Married Only.. by Nobody: 10:05pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
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Re: For The Married Only.. by rainmaker12(m): 10:43pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Tajbol4splend: Why you go vex? You be "vaginal worshipper"?....oooopps make she no come attack me for here |
Re: For The Married Only.. by generationz(f): 12:11am On Jul 13, 2018 |
byna:then you are just doing yourself. you cant have it all in marriage you know. make up for our hat you don't have since her sex drive is low she is less likely to cheat that's good for you. |
Re: For The Married Only.. by ImaIma1(f): 2:43am On Jul 13, 2018 |
Sleeping separately for whatever reason is a no no. Please correct that as soon as possible. It is a passion killer and you both are allowing caring for the children overshadow your relationship and marriage. If you can, please get a help/nanny and if you already have one, please engage her. And you guys need to talk so that you can be on the same page. Tell her not to take your fidelity for granted and misbehave. You two should also try to rekindle the fire...make conscious efforts. Sometimes, children can be a distraction but we have to remember that we were two first before they came. All the best. 2 Likes |
Re: For The Married Only.. by konkonbilo(m): 3:09am On Jul 13, 2018 |
Oyindidi:ur husband is coming for you...mrcork |
Re: For The Married Only.. by thorpido(m): 7:50am On Jul 13, 2018 |
Op,you have to re-arrange your home so you sleep on the same bed with your wife. I'm suspecting your last child is still an infant(probably still breastfeeding)? Your wife's hormones/libido may still be an issue here because of the baby.You may need to understand that.Both of you may need to meet in the middle. Communicate........tell in in plain words that this is what you feel and how it affects you both.YOU have to be the one initiating sex all the time.Some women(due to upbringing) may never ask while some are bold enough to just grab your deek whenever they feel like. Sex for women generally is not just a physical thing.It starts with her being happy.You need to make her happy.Also see that she is not weighed down by house chores and childcare.Take some of the weight off her. |
Re: For The Married Only.. by byna: 7:57am On Jul 13, 2018 |
Oyindidi: Youngest is barely 2 |
Re: For The Married Only.. by byna: 8:10am On Jul 13, 2018 |
thorpido: Thanks for this |
Re: For The Married Only.. by Oyindidi(f): 9:22am On Jul 13, 2018 |
byna:Hmmmm... Let the baby sleep with his siblings in the other room. Did you sleep with her on same bed last night? |
Re: For The Married Only.. by Nobody: 10:44am On Jul 13, 2018 |
HRHQueenPhil:she isn't shy, she is the high-headed stubborn type. |
Re: For The Married Only.. by Nobody: 10:46am On Jul 13, 2018 |
some women are high-headed and stubborn, they think allowing their husband have their wifely duty on call is a thing of weakness and submission! |
Re: For The Married Only.. by chemK: 3:22pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
WELL, IM ALSO IN YOUR SHOES, I DONT LIKE IT WHEN IM THE ONLY ONE ASKING FOR SEX , MY WIFE WILL ALWAYS SAY SHE CAN STAY WITHOUT SEX FOR YEARS WHICH I KNOW ITS TRUE. RECENTLY. YOU JUST HAVE TO ADAPT ELSE SHE WILL SHE YOU AS SOMEONE THAT IS INCONSIDERATE. |
Re: For The Married Only.. by Oyindidi(f): 4:10pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
chemK:One man's meat is another man's poison. |
Re: For The Married Only.. by byna: 6:46am On Jul 17, 2018 |
chemK: Adapt in what ways pls? Continue asking for sex or slow down to accommodate her? |
Re: For The Married Only.. by byna: 6:50am On Jul 17, 2018 |
Well, the truth be say, if I wanna avoid my wife, I have to keep a straight face so I won't have to admire her at all cos if I look a her twice, omo my johnthomas go disgrace me sharperly. I can maintain with her by been less friendly ,talk less and mingle less. But then, it would appear I'm having misunderstanding wit her but I'm she would not still bother to discuss with me if I'm bothered, she would rather continue with her house duties especially ensuring my meals are always ready on time. |
Re: For The Married Only.. by don4real18(m): 9:13am On Jul 17, 2018 |
Don't leave your sex for the bedroom only. Be adventurous... In the kitchen, in the car etc and she will always be looking forward to it. Or art thou a one minute man? |
Re: For The Married Only.. by Curvinus(m): 10:23am On Jul 17, 2018 |
Op, I have been in your shoes several times before. Not married though but have cohabited with women and this is how the relationships would usually tail off. In the beginning, she would be the one waking you in the night to have fun and still asking for it as you are about to leave in the morning. But then out of the blues, the whole thing starts to fizzle. She would say not now, I want to sleep, I have headache, we'll do it later, not in the mood and picking up quarrels each time you try to initiate it. This really troubled me as I started to feel inadequate. Then on closer observations,realized they had lost their feelings/attraction to me for whatever reasons. It was painful but it's the honest truth. Cohabitation killed the passion in my case. One of the girls was even actively lusting after my cousin that stayed with me but avoiding me at the same time. The guy didn't bulge though cos of integrity. It helped me realize something vital. Nowadays, I try as much as possible to avoid cohabitation. The max I'll let any woman stay with me is one week and I ask her to leave if she is not yet making attempts to do so, feelings or no feelings. I now understand that letting her stay any further would mean handing her full control of my sexual market place, and bringing about scarcity and subsequent drama. The new girls I meet nowadays are so much fun in contrast to what I experienced while cohabiting. The most exciting part is seeing how they are unable to take their hands off my body and wanting to please me in anyway possible. Still I realize I need to hold frame as I know what is coming if I don't do so. I never imagined it would come to this but this is life. In your case, you are already lumbered with a woman and children and it is now your prerogative to decide between a sexless life and going out there to have your fun. You need to let your wife know though that your needs must be met and you don't care how it is met. Sometimes, you just have to be selfish in this life to be happy. Life is really short and I don't think I would ever want to walk on egg shells in my own house for anybody ever again. |
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