By way of guessing the man isn't a graduate, right?

Seenyo:
to all those saying marry her first, DON'T BE NAIVE OR CAUGHT UN-AWARE !


I have an elderly friend who sent his wife that bore him 4 children to school, the wife later left him to remarry a graduate!
the trauma lunched the man into depression but He later got over it.


AFTER WOMEN, FEAR WOMEN!...a word is enough!

Lucky few. Congrats
I take it that you are a graduate and trained one to become like you, not better than you.

LewsTherin:
Sometimes I wonder if I live in a different universe from most fellows here on Nairaland.

I began funding my Lady's education about her third year. Her family was going through a tough patch. It was the least I could do. I paid for her entire final year and youth service. Interestingly, it was during her youth service that I proposed to her.

She paid me back. In spades. He family funded almost 80% of our wedding as I had just lost my job (I had an offer on hold at that time though) and my family was going through a tough patch.

So I've had no reason to regret my Lady chopping my moni. It's been well worth it.

teewhydope:
yet you stupidly wrote this. aren't unemployed ladies human too, or you think they love their current status.

#RespectLadiesMyFoot

u ain't seen nothing yet.

Those unemployed ladies can't date u if u are unemployed and even if they manage to, then they will use u as side boyfriend.

So why would you date them when u finally get a job? They have to get their job too before they can come near me.

No. except I jst feel like supporting from within me with a clear heart.

Amarabae:
July is rounding up, August is around the corner.
May favour locate you in the new month to come
.
I am going to be brief about this issue.
It's about those guys that love to complain bitterly about how they trained a lady in a higher institution with hope of marrying her after she graduates, only for the lady to graduate and dump him.
I have witnessed one, the guy a wealthy trader brought the girl from the village somewhere in the east,
Trained her in Uniabuja, she did a four years course, graduated and served in Oyo state, while in Nysc, she started giving the young man attitude in terms of communication,
When the surprised guy pressed hard to inquire About what the problem is from his "future wife "
The girl told him plain and pure that he should get another girl and marry, that if she get a job in the future, she may repay him all that he spent on her.
The downcasted young man attempted suicide by mixing rat poison in his food, it was unbearable for him,
All his profits he spent on this girl,
His friends warned him, his sister was not in support yet being a guy madly in love, how can you think he will listen to you.
Luckily he was revived at a hospital after a young cousin alerted his neighbors who rushed in and saw how life is trying to snuff out of him, they rushed him to the hospital for medical help.
.
I felt so sorry for him .
Inasmuch as the girl was mean by playing with the young man emotion all along.
I strongly blame the young man for being stupid.
Had it been that he married the girl and then start training her, that's fine, many men do it.
But he placed his hope on that after training her, the girl will accept to marry him,
He took a risk but it backfired.
Had it been that he wanted to train her just for kindness sake and don't have any marriage objectives in mind, that would be understandable.
Both of them share in the blame.
.
As a guy, Can you train a girl in higher institution with hope of marrying her after she graduates?
.
As a girl, if a guy you don't have affection for offers to train you in the University, will you pretend to love him?
After graduating, if he proposes ,will you accept?

.
Let's discuss

If you ever date a student, a jobless woman, a woman ten years younger than you, an illiterate woman and a directionless woman, you are bound to face emotional issues n the long run . If you have to spend your hard earned resources on these four, there has to be a concrete reason for it. A man should go into a relationship with a free mind that it can go bad or turn out good eventually: not invest his entire emotions into it. I have sponsored three ladies across school and i did not invest my emotions into it because i came into with a free mind.

I pray that Almighty God grant his prayers by giving him his wife before he takes his own life over a piece of Arse.

cruchenutii:


You know a lot of Men are been jilted but Its women's nature to always cry fowl, tell everyone and claim victim every time.

Men are even scared to complain that a girl even jilted them, because the society would laugh them to scorn, they just keep quiet & cry in silence. I can't tell you how many women have attempted to almost turn me to mugu in the name of Marriage/Relationship.

Ofcourse my friends must not hear that a girl used my head. I rather Kip Chut

it can't be "truer" than this

Where's cococandy sef? I know she has something constructive to say on this.



Gehs are inhumanely merciless on us.

FaceThem:

NIGERIAN LADIES DON'T THINK, THAT'S WHY I CAN'T MERCY FOR ANY GIRL

people like you with a backward mentality who are frightened of women's success aren't. worthy mentioned

FaceThem:

NIGERIAN LADIES DON'T THINK, THAT'S WHY I CAN'T MERCY FOR ANY GIRL

people like you with a backward mentality who are frightened of women's success aren't worth my mentions

After Dumping the guy during nysc..5years after nysc..see their comment

Training a lady via school to marry ? It already tells the age difference nah mehn can't even date students that's too much responsibility and liability lol

Stellamariss:
pls stop ur writeup is annoying

Why is it annoying?He said that which is the truth isnt it?

Amarabae:
July is rounding up, August is around the corner.
May favour locate you in the new month to come
.
I am going to be brief about this issue.
It's about those guys that love to complain bitterly about how they trained a lady in a higher institution with hope of marrying her after she graduates, only for the lady to graduate and dump him.
I have witnessed one, the guy a wealthy trader brought the girl from the village somewhere in the east,
Trained her in Uniabuja, she did a four years course, graduated and served in Oyo state, while in Nysc, she started giving the young man attitude in terms of communication,
When the surprised guy pressed hard to inquire About what the problem is from his "future wife "
The girl told him plain and pure that he should get another girl and marry, that if she get a job in the future, she may repay him all that he spent on her.
The downcasted young man attempted suicide by mixing rat poison in his food, it was unbearable for him,
All his profits he spent on this girl,
His friends warned him, his sister was not in support yet being a guy madly in love, how can you think he will listen to you.
Luckily he was revived at a hospital after a young cousin alerted his neighbors who rushed in and saw how life is trying to snuff out of him, they rushed him to the hospital for medical help.
.
I felt so sorry for him .
Inasmuch as the girl was mean by playing with the young man emotion all along.
I strongly blame the young man for being stupid.
Had it been that he married the girl and then start training her, that's fine, many men do it.
But he placed his hope on that after training her, the girl will accept to marry him,
He took a risk but it backfired.
Had it been that he wanted to train her just for kindness sake and don't have any marriage objectives in mind, that would be understandable.
Both of them share in the blame.
.
As a guy, Can you train a girl in higher institution with hope of marrying her after she graduates?
.
As a girl, if a guy you don't have affection for offers to train you in the University, will you pretend to love him?
After graduating, if he proposes ,will you accept?

.
Let's discuss

Amarabae, na wah for you o! See the kind drama you don cook up for guys to ponder.

Aahhh, how i for take answer this one sef?

Look, there are only three types of women a man should train.
1 - your sister
2- your daughter
3- your wife that your right hand possess.


Here are the women a man must not train.
1- your gehfrend.
2- your wife that your right hand is yet to possess.
3- your sidechick. (Tufiakwa! )


Alhaja Amarabae to fine.

Yinmu

well,I can't.I will rather marry her,teach her the basics and hope she learns.money beta spent on children.who knows,I might end up not spending much money grooming an illiterate(just saying tho)
Education is overated in nigeria,cant spend money on one girl,den she later becomes a teacher or i still be d one to open shop for am...nah
As a aspiring farmer,make we just dey farm together,d kids will go the school(but it will definitely tell on d kids with an illiterate mother in this computer age,surely it will)
Sometimes its best to leave fate to play its game
modified- if u want to marry,marry
if u want to do charity,do charity
bikonu,dont log them together

Sincere4u:
By way of guessing the man isn't a graduate, right?

yes, he isn't. but he's fairly educated......

after the unfortunate incident, he said to me and I quote "I WILL NEVER ADVICE ANY SANE MAN TO SEND HIS WIFE TO SCH........" i initially took his words with a pinch of salt but later stuck to them after other experiences.

I wont even buy ordinary #300 plate of pepper soup for any girl not to talk of sending her to university. Lailai....!!!!

MissRaine69:

I am saying be realistic and stop holding people to ransom. Help because you want to help not because you expect some emotional payment in return.
I don’t think it’s that hard to understand.

Correct

Look me in the eye and tell me u don't love me again

IT'S SAD DAT I WAS CARRIED AWAY WIT FAKE LUV sumtin lyk dz z appening to me rite nw buh av learnt my lesson

Seenyo:

1.The new man isn't that young!

2.the lady doesn't look after 2, talk less of after 4!

3.beauty /preference they say is in the eyes of the beholder!

4.of course she abandoned her kids then but they are grown now. in fact 2 are even now parents #FACTS!

ok such a mother if she now approaches such kids for financial assistance and the kids ignore her she will be running to her pastor and complaining of being abandoned.

lefulefu:
ok such a mother if she now approaches such kids for financial assistance and the kids ignore her she will be running to her pastor and complaining of being abandoned.

na so o!..... though she's still a friend, but I disliked her since that incident.

Dumb men abandoning their relatives to train one parasite, Serves you right. I don't blame the girl at all. When i have nieces and nephews as many as the stars and other relatives to help i will now be training one witch?

ednut1:
Stay away from broke and jobless gals.

As a grown man, father of 2, please young men. Give yourself a chance in life, stay away from BROKE and JOBLESS women!

They are BAD NEWS!

Anyone that feels like running a charity organization should train a lady in school, she is not obligated to marry you either, after all she gave you her body throughout her 4 years in school, you should be grateful.

NdiaraIGBO:


As a grown man, father of 2, please young men. Give yourself a chance in life, stay away from BROKE and JOBLESS women!

They are BAD NEWS!

Same way I will stay away from broke and jobless men.

funmisticqueen:
people like you with a backward mentality who are frightened of women's success aren't worth my mentions

I'm Telling u the truth, LADIES HAVE WICKED HEART, FACE-THEM HAS SPOKEN

Colourich:
Anyone that feels like running a charity organization should train a lady in school, she is not obligated to marry you either, after all she gave you her body throughout her 4 years in school, you should be grateful.

DANGER! Do not touch!

So the man did not give body abi?

A broke and unemployed man do not go around with a stupid sense of entitlement.

Broke and unemployed women are extremely dangerous to a man.

[s]

NdiaraIGBO:


As a grown man, father of 2, please young men. Give yourself a chance in life, stay away from BROKE and JOBLESS women!

They are BAD NEWS!

[/s]
and you're here behaving like a toddler
such a shame

I'm done with broke parasitic girls. The worst of it all is that they nag the most, I can't be wasting my hard earned money on a bitch who is not my wife while I'm the breadwinner of the house. It's time for mum and dad to enjoy from the little I have cause they were there from Day 1

donstan18:


I can't train any lady in school with the hope of marrying her, I don't wish to date an illiterate, I just don't want liability, I can't tolerate or stress myself for any woman who's not my mum, sister or wife, I detest needy ladies, I hate pests, not from any lady.


But if I find what I want from a woman in an illiterate[b], I'll kindly marry her and get her pregnant[/b] before sending her to school.


I must have a reason to hold while training her in school, which is "She's my wife"

This part

Colourich:
Anyone that feels like running a charity organization should train a lady in school, she is not obligated to marry you either, after all she gave you her body throughout her 4 years in school, you should be grateful.

Gave you her body indeed... This shouldn't be you talking because sex is a two way thingy and the lady isn't doing the guy a favor having sex with him

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