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Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by pansophist(m): 7:21pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
In as much as I empathized with the man, the blame rest on him to expect a woman to commit to him after he has helped her elevated her hypergamous nature. Women usually date people in the same or above level. Paying her way through uni just helped amplified her nature and will not go back to dating low. Hope others learn from this. Love truly makes some people blind. 1 Like |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Nobody: 7:23pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Team working class gals |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by babeosisi: 7:24pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
He took a chance. sometimes it works ,sometimes it doesn't. It's not a good idea.Marriage should be by mutual consent not as a sense of obligation .He should move on,such is life 2 Likes |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Nobody: 7:24pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
All these nairaland guys screaming "I cannot marry, date a liability" check well, they're the real definition of a liability. If you know, you know. 5 Likes |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by israelmao(m): 7:25pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Do at least your first degree or its equivalent in your parents' house.Period! 1 Like |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by babeosisi: 7:26pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
kimbraa: You got that right . Empty vessels as they say make the most noise |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by naksjude(m): 7:27pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
when my preek is working,I go just gv her Belle den lemme see hw U'll carry our pikin and marry another man after graduation |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by BIXYBABE: 7:31pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
I laugh in Spanish......... All of them saying I can't, I can't........30% have done it and 50% will still do it. |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by sonofoluku: 7:31pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Amarabae: The story doesn't add up.You said he is wealthy and at the same time you said he spent all his profits training her in Uniabuja.How much is tuition, hostel and how much was her upkeep in uniabuja?The guy certainly isn't as wealthy as you are making it to look like. Well you marry first before training any babe in school.Do you know how many guys will toast her while in school She will certainly meet other guys.Some may even be wealthier than you the sponsor.It makes no sense sponsoring a babe when you haven't wife's her.Most times these babes r rally beautiful but come from poor homes.They play along and then dump the guys once they graduate. 2 Likes |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by tammie24: 7:32pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Take care of your family period! |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by robotix: 7:33pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
delugajackson: You ask who the hell does that? Who else except stupid igbo men? I am yet to see another tribe engage in such wastage. My first encounter with this madness when I was around 7 year old was also an igbo man called Ndubisi who was spare part dealer at Ngbuka around surulere... Subsequent stories I have heard have all been igbo men and the one shared by the OP is clearly an igbo man too. What a miserable way to spend your hard earned money. 2 Likes |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Gavrelino123: 7:34pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
donstan18:You said it all |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by tammie24: 7:35pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
delugajackson:your head dey there 1 Like |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Nobody: 7:35pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Amarabae: Amara one question i would like to ask is if the man himself is a graduate. Have come to believe this usually happens when the man uses his money to raise a girl he hopes to marry to levels she starts feeling superior. |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by PDPGuy: 7:36pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
delugajackson: Succintly put! I wonder, at times, as to the level of stupidity of some guys. Why, as you said, should I guy take over the responsibility of a lady’s parents? If they can’t ‘train’ her, then they should source for capital to set her up in any small-scale business she desires. EOD 4 Likes |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Nobody: 7:39pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Yes I can train my babe in higher institution but first I go use strong juju pin her down for life till death do us path. 1 Like |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Iamdmentor1(m): 7:45pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
KadunaMafia: Nice guy! If I give money to any girl, I send my mum double the amount. |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Nobody: 7:45pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
to all those saying marry her first, DON'T BE NAIVE OR CAUGHT UN-AWARE ! I have an elderly friend who sent his wife that bore him 4 children to school, the wife later left him to remarry a graduate! the trauma lunched the man into depression but He later got over it. AFTER WOMEN, FEAR WOMEN!...a word is enough! 3 Likes |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by ocelot2006(m): 7:50pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
NEVER EVER INVEST YOUR MONEY ON A WOMAN WHO IS NOT YOUR WIFE, SISTER, OR MOTHER. Simple. 1 Like |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by crafteck(m): 7:52pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
I stupidly did this and we all know how it ends, never take a parents responsibility on a girl... Neva 1 Like |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Pataricatering(f): 7:56pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
teewhydope:women are ungrateful ? It’s men who taught them ! Do you know how many women married guys with “ potential “ sacrificed their careers so the man will not be emasculated yet the guy dumped them or married second wife after everything ? Women are ungrateful creatures indeed ! |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Nobody: 7:57pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
You make some sense donstan18: |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Nobody: 8:00pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Amarabae:but this is just like tyler perry's acrimony now 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Oluonline(m): 8:01pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
I dey crazy ni? |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Nobody: 8:04pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
donstan18:But when a lady says she cant support any man's dreams you are quick to label her an olosho, a gold digger or a runz girl. Mr hypocrite who are you deceiving 1 Like |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by newoffer: 8:04pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
I can't fit . lol. Who does that these days. 2 Likes |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by MissRaine69(f): 8:08pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
You don’t invest in someone whom you do not have a future with. For Instance I can understand a husband or wife encouraging their spouse to return to school or better themselves in anyway. But to invest in someone with the automatic assumption that they will be yours is entrapment. Of the highest level! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by newoffer: 8:10pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
funmisticqueen:. Funmi, we men are waking up. Yeye 1 Like |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by LewsTherin: 8:10pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Sometimes I wonder if I live in a different universe from most fellows here on Nairaland. I began funding my Lady's education about her third year. Her family was going through a tough patch. It was the least I could do. I paid for her entire final year and youth service. Interestingly, it was during her youth service that I proposed to her. She paid me back. In spades. He family funded almost 80% of our wedding as I had just lost my job (I had an offer on hold at that time though) and my family was going through a tough patch. So I've had no reason to regret my Lady chopping my moni. It's been well worth it. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Just2endowed2(m): 8:13pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
omochelsea004: Yes it's during nysc u start getting attitude..... Well there is nothing good like moving on. Nothing like blood or marriage. |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by Nobody: 8:14pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
babeosisi:I swear! I consider their comments as wishful thoughts 'cause for a fact, most can't comfortable take care of themselves, not to talk of a lady. Loud mouthed things! 1 Like |
Re: The "I Trained Her In School Yet She Left Me" Issues by lukedan75(m): 8:15pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Lucky you LewsTherin: 1 Like 1 Share |
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