bigocean:
1 year? Are you saying some people are so jobless that they go after a lady for 1year.

Lol! Naija girls are far better...most of them don't give too much wahala yet many of them are very fresh,beautiful,cultured,And respectful...

I know one country like this where their own men hardly marry them because of their ways yet these ladies in most cases form voltron as if they are too special but many of them are so sexually loosed,worn out,and ill-mannered.

Saff:
exactly. When I really like a guy, I won’t give him any problems/wahala

Hello Saff,what about this,am an introvert,I met a girl she has boyfriend,told me all shit about her boyfriend and so on,how he cheats,I have a girl too,nothing really serious,we connected somehow,hinted me about liking me(on a mature level) and so on, we chatted,talk well,invited her to my church severally and so on because that was where we met she comes whenever ,buh I didn't ask her out for months we're both in seperate relationship, I like her really,buh I don't cheat,I don't want any kind situation with her boyfriend maybe becos of me,so I don't really call her like dat and so on,later I wanted to be just friend, ask her on a lunch,she was in her final year,said she was stuck with project.so she declined.we stopped talking really . though we chat buh not like before especially when i lost her numb.was she playing me all along?

Saff:
you guys don’t know what you want

No dear I believe it's the ladies that don't know what they want. How can you ask a girl out and she's playing hard to get only for her to come back after you've moved on to say you never liked her that you should have tried harder.

You tell me NO and I WALK AWAY in peace.

Same Na Same she dey hard to get or not Same Na Same jare

That she said yes to u easily does not mean she would say yes to Peter, Tunji, Yomi, Emeka, Yinusa or Babangida. She said yes to u instantly most times maybe because you knocked her off her fit and u seem to be exactly the kind of guy she's been waiting for.

Some guys might have been asking her out for over a year and she can't find a reason to accept them, just struggling to find something to hold on to as reason to date them, but the moment she sees her dream man or the guy that tickles her fancy and makes her have some butterflies in her tummy, she forgets about her rules, her laws, her girlie stubbornness, that's women for u.

Same way, a girl that allowed u have sex with her on first date doesn't mean she is cheap, it means she is really into u and may never allow another guy peck her even after tenth date. Most times, a lady act based on the man she meets. When they find their dream man, they make things easy for him but when they don't like a man, they keep playing hard to get as a way of buying time to see reason to date the guy or as an indirectly way of telling the mumu guy to GTFO my life!

So be wise before u judge

frankson1:



It's not entirely true. I've got a few who played hard -to- get and I walked away only for them to come to say I never liked them that I should have pushed harder.

For me no time o.
If you say NO to me I quietly walk away.

Lol as in no time to waste at all �����

after trying once or twice to woo a girl and she forms not easy to get o leave her alone. am both shy and proud

If a woman is patient with you while you discover what it means to be a man value her end of story having sex is having sex but making love my brother is another story entirely

Saff:
exactly. When I really like a guy, I won’t give him any problems/wahala

Really? But your dp can give someone wahala

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Idrismusty97:
Runs girls too are forming hard to get but will spread their legs for a price. Don't be deceived.

Babiod:

Hello Saff,what about this,am an introvert,I met a girl she has boyfriend,told me all shit about her boyfriend and so on,how he cheats,I have a girl too,nothing really serious,we connected somehow,hinted me about liking me(on a mature level) and so on, we chatted,talk well,invited her to my church severally and so on because that was where we met she comes whenever ,buh I didn't ask her out for months we're both in seperate relationship, I like her really,buh I don't cheat,I don't want any kind situation with her boyfriend maybe becos of me,so I don't really call her like dat and so on,later I wanted to be just friend, ask her on a lunch,she was in her final year,said she was stuck with project.so she declined.we stopped talking really . though we chat buh not like before especially when i lost her numb.was she playing me all along?

Yes she was. She had a boyfriend and they were probably going through some issues when she decided to tag you along. She was never into you, you were a source of entertainment for her. Girls love attention, and you gave it to her when she needed it. Just move on with your life and do better. Try not to talk to other people when you’re in a relationship too, it’s not healthy.

Saff:
you are childish. Grow up

Hell NOOO!!! He is not. He has a valid point.

RationalTV:
Lol as in no time to waste at all �����

Bro it's the truth. How can you waste time on someone who wants to use you to play ping-pong. They always want you to take care of their needs because their needs always increases and become very important whenever they meet a new guy.

All those girls don jam better rock when they come to me.
If you're serious with me then I'll be serious with you too.

Simple.

say watt if u are not good in bed they will

Saff:
you are childish. Grow up

I think u didn't even understand what he wrote.

what do I think!! I think op should put in more energy into building himself than on trying to figure out a theory that isn't going to have advantage on humanity,u will probably wonder why u wasted energy on this in the near future
No insult intended op

cvibe2:


I am currently compiling some unique messages. I created and used for getting ladies that areor seem to be hard to get. When I finish, It will be available to help the men folk. There is nothing like hard to get.

In my dating days, I used it to get and date an executive director in one of the big banks, and also used it to get and date a top lady in one of those oil and gas firms, and also a top lady in government.

So, do not despair my friend, help is on the way.

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Mumu

To me this topic na scam. Girl wey go stay with u go stay, whether she form hard to get or not. Everything just boils down to a girl's attitude or character.

Saff:
exactly. When I really like a guy, I won’t give him any problems/wahala

chai i pray dat u lyk me

Gudwork:





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Mumu

It will be sold to people like you.

franchasng:
That she said yes to u easily does not mean she would say yes to Peter, Tunji, Yomi, Emeka, Yinusa or Babangida. She said yes to u instantly most times maybe because you knocked her off her fit and u seem to be exactly the kind of guy she's been waiting for.

Some guys might have been asking her out for over a year and she can't find a reason to accept them, just struggling to find something to hold on to as reason to date them, but the moment she sees her dream man or the guy that tickles her fancy and makes her have some butterflies in her tummy, she forgets about her rules, her laws, her girlie stubbornness, that's women for u.

Same way, a girl that allowed u have sex with her on first date doesn't mean she is cheap, it means she is really into u and may never allow another guy peck her even after tenth date. Most times, a lady act based on the man she meets. When they find their dream man, they make things easy for him but when they don't like a man, they keep playing hard to get as a way of buying time to see reason to date the guy or as an indirectly way of telling the mumu fuy GTFO my life!

So be wise before u judge

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miracle956:
I always hate it when ladies form hard to get. But on a more mature look of things a girl that said yes to you easily won't she say yes to another guy easily?But on a flipside she might not really be into you thats why she's fforming hard to get. Buh all in all girls that gives a lot of trouble sometimes might be the best bet cos some of them dont give in to guys easily. My own opinion though what do you think?

This is why i will never accept any pregnancy that is not mine.

Saff:
you guys don’t know what you want

more likes for this girl pls. So on point.

Foolish post. Lotsa foolish people on nairaland chatting rubbish

Babyforever:
It depends on what you tag as hard to get.....Some girls use that period of time to think about it or to access you before saying yes or NO

yea yea yea

Saff:
you are childish. Grow up

How is he childish?

Saff:
Playing hard to get means she’s not into you

Sure bet!

But since the guy brings some benefits, let's simply tag him along while we milk him, shall we?

Ok

It is in the nature of a woman to play hard to get. Even when the hen is on heat period, she will still be screaming and running from the cock, leading to chasing and grabbing. If a lady is playing hard to get but likes you, she will give you body language to keep you chasing just like the hen and cock scenario. However, cheating is not connected to easy-to-get or hard-to-get attitudes of a wombman. Cheating is caused by environment, societal values, family background, hard circumstances, lack of self control and carelessness. Don't mix them up!

bigocean:
1 year? Are you saying some people are so jobless that they go after a lady for 1year.

It has nothing to do with being jobless. I have chased a lady for 11 months and it was the 12th month she finally accepted. This same lady i passed through shegge before she finally accepted. Babe that i will time up with umbrella and once i notice she has dropped from the bus and it's still raining, I will approach her and try talking to her but still no way but still went ahead and gave her my umbrella while i was soaked in rain. Even her number that same night after the sacrifice, she no give me sef. But when she finally accepted, the love from her side was scary because i thought she’s faking it but she wasn’t.

So what works for party A may not work for party B.

CosmicJames:

Sorry that you didn't understand.
The explanation isn't about myself.
It is about how men are wired.
That's why I used the word (We) meaning (Men)

Except you mean to say men are childish, and that they should grow up.
Which of course is out of place.

Try to read and understand

Damn!! U have time...u made a perfectly correct comment...and a lady doesn't have the brain to understand infact, she responded with an insult saying u need some growing up to do.....yet u are explaining.......don't be a "too good boy" offline or online....good guys don't usually don't get the good girls...